[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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# ?' h8 r! B/ z8 {% S; e据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区3 {7 T* C8 s9 Q8 U5 h' m8 C( r2 @
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。1 X6 f) n' r- P, h6 ~% c/ R

* W1 Y- J" n$ \9 n5 b根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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6 Q* u. P& A! `4 j5 w研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。9 {8 `9 q2 n* f% t' ^

7 D2 ^& ?  G' n# {" d8 a. X% |' e. MWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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! Z+ \$ }2 q$ rHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
9 x. P; k! l; d. T$ tPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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& Z; H0 F' P" N, T( k- K7 Nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. - d% O/ |' Y. y
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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' K. Q, S, H8 |* I/ R" k. VLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 8 f# E+ _( ?5 V7 m

/ l9 u9 D* g) J6 P7 yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. / T( W6 i+ x1 t+ A5 X* `2 Z. ?' a" D

# t( B! |& U" O/ z% p"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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: q9 L1 d1 |" s+ ~; o5 OUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ! k) P6 n. Y- \2 Q# Q# \7 q# v7 r
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区3 k) e! i$ O' m2 n8 c$ L' C" k1 _
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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! Y3 G7 [8 `' n+ f! Q9 ]人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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+ O* Y: H2 _4 B0 s# G; _Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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7 P  D4 ^" }8 k- ors238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.   C& R2 U1 l* N& @5 b

/ c4 z1 I( Y9 |% o5 Z: _" V"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."