[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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. ]9 ]: o* f* s7 k8 n据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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4 M0 o" I$ X" J2 ?( d6 z研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 b+ v# e, H# b

8 [! q$ H/ P' L7 A; l/ H' z研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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# [9 @+ ?! Y2 krs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.   \( f7 N2 H% v( ~  B6 p3 K8 N) j3 l
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( ?# E" r6 t  L8 g
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ; Q9 O3 W3 I$ R3 i& ]

1 O0 d  g! I- [- ]" s/ Drs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. . ]* h( q% s+ V: ~+ i" U1 N
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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+ S' W) y  c& c* i0 j2 q& oUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ) y# _0 K( [: N/ g. G1 z
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区: F: U: d, ~6 }4 ?4 `2 p

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. * ~7 e. R! ^9 f
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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6 g9 Z8 H/ J$ x, J人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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! d$ z9 y3 I' h- {4 \# sIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 `- ~5 o2 B* h( L

6 {- u5 C+ H3 V0 o7 v+ T0 v/ K3 t"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: h- }8 d) p8 b) _( H

* O. ~: I, q2 G+ C" X"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."