[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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3 J9 S) x5 B5 Q# h! ~) y( X; B研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。" W' f; O: [3 G. t) @
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。' B: m/ K7 r; V) Z+ a

1 u% h" W8 G) i& c# `- d  P人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。7 E$ {2 S2 T# v: U, N4 Q" @% M

  t: v1 C* u! s) o# e人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, A" A6 @& Q# q3 b

: b1 s) L/ b0 i人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 1 R: v5 N6 x$ h( V% G3 L" [
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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' Y  y! ~, p8 t; R/ o2 T) S9 a4 Ors238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. : S- U0 d4 x% j% H0 T

5 s% ?0 k! z3 u  p& cThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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2 J1 v, D$ W+ h8 K7 @rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区/ e4 {! }$ ^. S4 U2 W

- q5 _: z3 ~4 s- A) W' Nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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: K" _$ R' Q) t4 `+ u"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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! T- ~' F$ ~- W人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. + ^3 Q- f% L8 A" G1 |1 ~
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. / A* i4 y* |& F) O$ o

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  |2 K& P2 w: J+ a: s* ^- C2 y人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 4 Y% _$ J; C6 S$ G/ x/ d/ M; ?
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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+ G2 C& H: J8 I# v% u人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 2 P0 t, {$ m2 c* c( i3 e1 x6 Z

# h" p' ~" W, a, E. {; }人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ' }- T8 i! i" ?- n, J5 J

- F- D$ L" x0 f, ~0 \" p9 |人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. & e# C: J& m& `6 M8 ?9 v1 T1 [
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."