[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

日月光

英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区$ n" H% R  p, W5 _* T# N- G
; s& D. S; X: [! ]! X* U
据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
. g6 ]* _6 h5 g8 i- A7 b! o! b4 |人在德国 社区. X6 E7 c+ F' r( j% L9 Z- U
研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
0 j2 D  v- M$ f: Q7 ~' N人在德国 社区
3 i6 B0 P% D- V$ ^: ?0 ]根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
' i0 _( ]" D6 f1 e人在德国 社区# ^. J3 w! z$ S+ ?/ ]# h/ D) W
研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。* l7 @9 F, c; G8 m) }  G, I
rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 }6 H( }# L2 p  k7 `3 j; V
Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
8 ]$ h* A* d  K, V* u! V! z- e) b
High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ' y; A7 h$ \/ u
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
$ u" z  e4 f  Q" d1 m4 ?rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% _& n9 }) v/ k( s- w4 \7 T3 X
But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
8 P0 P4 R4 B: Y0 T5 }' v, W
" `/ N! \9 N. s- r& BThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
- g/ R8 h1 e6 `2 j5 N4 M
! W) f5 E1 A$ u; {# C/ d6 ]! Z; ]( zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". & i. l& i  x# C5 ]- ?
$ P6 X6 M; ~2 \+ R
"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区( s, ^- T! H$ e% y; w
人在德国 社区2 u( H! a' e2 Y0 T
"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
/ u6 m4 r4 n/ a. Q. e" i人在德国 社区& \/ N- D; |) h9 N  w6 O# r+ t& ^; }
Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
, D4 G3 J# k1 K1 [% q
+ B0 m5 Y5 O2 C! nSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
3 O' Q6 |, y' k8 P
" l( h+ p4 k+ Z0 t! B6 `rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deProfession
) }+ \/ o8 X1 d
# W1 x& E0 c" j6 Q! |Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区. |# D- W  E  U

: O$ w! q" K. HThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 6 q, D5 S" `4 W; d5 Q- T' R# ?- [

6 o4 C  e$ a, F) r% ~人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. + K( `; E! b  `) n

; D" G( l/ V$ o: E' C7 f人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
* Q- V) e$ p5 v" c; ~1 ^- w
7 B! G3 C8 H3 N. z' U& O人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
' [/ o  h2 [6 j% g
- G$ G9 S. I; N"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.   P: k# P. t) N) z9 ?: b( O

/ Z( O: ]! r5 j2 k- r"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."