[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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0 _  Y/ O; G0 j; x8 o1 J1 i1 V研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区. }( A, O+ n% C
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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; J$ t8 j( E( v' L: o% q5 }( o研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。/ z# l' l& g) H1 h) |

; P% ?3 ^/ n' T/ B6 T/ X4 P$ j人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 5 o$ j2 R7 a9 u3 N6 h, G

7 h. Z5 e$ B! C* h人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
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( x( C$ D/ k: g" z; }9 j, j: QBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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  g8 }! F% y% M7 w人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 4 `8 ~* n! S6 X& @$ a% S
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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5 d8 b, `) ]! m; F' tUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. : Z' {  g  a+ z. R4 c. T  Z
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区4 f* M8 s9 d. z( U4 S

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- C1 T, w; A3 l7 EAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 4 q& H$ i* g3 `, e: Q% E+ ]
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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: H' f# ?- t) L' z" }6 rIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. % v9 S4 M4 g5 F& }+ j' i  R$ E& {; S
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 8 N; n$ u6 ?' Z$ _

9 l+ k( ^2 p; s2 p6 J2 l6 x  {rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."