[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。) h. L; K9 F( T2 x& d( k! V! x! k

  A! R' G( W, i' ]- x2 I" Z人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。. P/ g! ^0 b  a% j4 E* h
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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- a" U0 H0 s0 l" ^0 V, [研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。9 l* s( E, D8 N
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 7 F; X+ c9 e% s

. w/ m  X0 u0 Q* F人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ; i/ G+ L) x  T( G- q
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. # O) E% A& s# i

# c9 X$ k: A- X4 E1 z6 Frs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. & ~9 c: K- L7 _8 r

/ p' Q4 @7 X* P0 \; xThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ; l3 c' I% \# j! W6 i  `/ B# l+ b  u
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".   _$ c# g! ?( @8 W

3 s) T, `. C7 t9 l( G) ]人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区" B9 Z% s) F  ?6 _; v
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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; y) `6 L( T1 B) P% s: h# oSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区2 o7 y& ?7 l5 ?! r
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 6 u& H% R5 X. v; `/ ?
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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* L  f% h* v( D1 N3 l, Zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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$ \& L: P. s3 z$ F8 D3 prs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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  a" G. A' h2 nIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. $ h8 W1 i  s* m9 f
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 6 K- Q$ ?) Q& w$ O& q

9 f1 a# [  f1 I' k2 ~& Zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."