[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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8 G& n& v; o2 wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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) ?( a4 T1 |1 j6 O& A5 ~rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'   @; D  A1 E0 L' f) `7 v' l( ]
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ! d" |4 I) g- [0 l
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ) f- N7 s9 x: `  X! g% e# H; P
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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6 D( C& K# Y% r9 ^- y( F. ]Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 3 t- W& T8 d+ ~1 o
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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, \) n6 _3 ^4 [6 r4 i* }4 c. d人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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7 A) [. e  `, e& a/ q/ Y% |% `* v人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. * Z. n4 V: O% j% K

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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3 U. B, Y1 i0 f% C' Y* |The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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1 Y& l0 y( a& m9 g- F( j8 ]: vBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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2 \- Q' f. R" n7 T人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区+ F4 d; M3 l( _  G$ r% t1 V

3 p+ z1 b2 \+ h: I9 Y$ ~7 r8 _"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 1 R1 ]% N% p8 g7 `1 Q

! W+ k: J9 W) k) X5 M"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."