[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区# E* S& N: D% W) D
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区0 k1 Y6 c2 U5 C5 E

$ z) t0 u+ m& X' F& `* u/ m根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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7 V. X0 p/ k; v4 j0 n. Q, F研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。; N' _0 w9 G6 {  t7 H0 _

  D5 {$ ^5 F# j) |, ?- SWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区; n- [. R' p6 S
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
# [2 o, q: A1 v! n6 D( _7 |Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 2 N) [9 j% ]8 l3 I1 F0 M, g7 o

3 x" H9 A& M" Z+ z& a; rrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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* b6 k9 @+ Z. D1 L. NThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区( H5 h, K& V$ W- O5 Z0 r% U7 x  m
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".   }& j9 S2 y" X8 Z" m7 ]
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* v& R# |7 K2 g  m

( U) i3 Q; F# s+ s3 W- s- H# nUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 6 ?: p/ Z' ?* p% r( F4 G

% p2 k2 n4 a6 U# @5 ?+ h人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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& y: W5 a) k: w$ I* R: Y人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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3 ]  _* I5 @% F# ]& ^0 N; n& @人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 j) S: x2 Q; Y, J( ]4 @% @
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 0 G! i& l& n; ]- Y! M1 T& w
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 6 S6 \3 b" m  l

7 A( E- d- g- P/ O' HIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."