[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。/ E4 o9 @  a* z0 A

8 Y* S, X2 G6 B! U据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。& W, e" i+ L. y2 \
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。& v/ ~  t, n, ]' D

. K' e/ A+ G' M# q0 t" _根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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% e! T2 A: O5 L7 E' Q6 @研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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$ H) V+ \- C9 d( q( h  s( V: e4 P4 r1 h人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 7 ~" m7 w7 S3 ]4 `$ f& M# n$ _

/ g0 ]/ F; O, c7 M% Q1 y1 x6 aHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; \: a% K  P, P6 u4 x5 [' O
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& c$ `7 ]+ S, [% C4 C7 q

) A& p( x8 b2 |4 A2 O+ p+ l人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- \* b8 u( G/ M$ F% O
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ) o2 g. C8 Y- ^! K& q1 y. D
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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3 ?8 H& |. J3 ?% wAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ( J/ H* p3 ]( z! ~# j
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ! l# ^2 z9 M! Q- _
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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$ d# z, n% p3 N- M1 ABut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- G; q6 {! f6 g/ ?" B2 }0 f3 e; ~: T
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) o( q' @1 V0 Q- G  z

; D6 Y* j0 j: N"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ b6 n- s' w1 Z3 c3 ~. b1 E

  K# c5 `0 M7 m$ M) v9 xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."