[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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0 J8 i8 Z% S* J% f6 }8 }6 W据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。4 A% Y& x! R, o. H" D) {6 @% a

  v1 O9 [. E7 K+ T- a3 f9 e$ a& s5 m) \根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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. C: Y) @7 l2 ?+ C7 Z. n2 rWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 7 S( P$ g' x9 s4 v. f; X
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
6 z2 Z! P& S) `4 O, d& I+ _% {1 GPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区3 b( ~7 \4 b5 N, ~3 Y
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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. {% n% o$ X, @+ @' v' HLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 2 d) }! @! S* |) T- C% R
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ! F0 \  E1 M; M4 B  i2 f

4 @/ [( \$ W) o( I3 M; hUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. % e+ P" u4 s+ T- f9 G
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 z7 `! `. P- J# m" L3 u  L

" q1 Y+ U9 m! `# a" |  U2 O$ r人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. + r# z( J7 c# M" g; O5 ?

2 [3 J! [' n- VThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ; u0 P7 a2 A3 |+ b/ j
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区* H& \  B. H0 L1 X

  X8 _. p1 _- {' y' z人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区- q. O0 E7 I' l5 L
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."