[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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& D$ ]" d; W& o: c研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' + S+ |5 y# r, P( T. u0 b
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
, h1 V) W3 R5 n) o3 d5 BPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. / ^: v$ `- a3 R* O$ j
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区2 G% |' w. T# r9 D1 P; c6 v- V
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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, ~8 d$ e8 b# @2 ^6 L* U1 s4 O$ N5 U1 u人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ( P6 h' a! y- t$ T& T  j

( T- q; v# j( ]- g( u& FSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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5 a6 h4 \3 b% W; Y6 ~6 a& sAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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6 n) @) R% G9 J2 y3 E3 y4 sBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 2 J+ w# u% v2 i: L

( z' F& v0 w0 @rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 6 t6 ]2 b2 A8 v' _& n4 |

1 x: l5 K+ e8 urs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ' W& n$ B  p& }; u2 |, k
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."