[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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+ c# K9 w3 ~7 t# k人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区' z7 V. W4 `) m0 n- F  \9 p) U
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( _  S7 H' R( H1 p3 I3 v) U
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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1 A( P4 @( L4 N; v" n$ hWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' - g: p3 o& [4 |9 y9 X

1 @$ D2 N" G- [) E% u* L6 SHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
5 d+ X) Y( k. @) ]5 p& I人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ' m) F1 J8 B% g. U

' m, a7 S( M" j  r& R% z人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 4 ?9 Y9 Z! c9 A4 |4 N$ ^
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区0 ~0 q4 @  G' X7 p

4 O$ R, k2 U% `# U9 ]  frs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ; L7 z; h) i# c/ l9 X  s# S
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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/ D! y9 p1 A. v& m; }; Krs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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' `; S1 N1 R2 U% k) C, TThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ( e# C6 j# o# l1 j

9 t# }% ^1 F: [: gIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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% g, P: R$ t1 Q0 _"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."