[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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2 O9 K- a! e2 |, |人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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8 F7 S9 m; V3 r( t% k根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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" W4 d1 w3 I- s- sWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' % H/ j8 l: j8 @
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. + j% b" k( P+ H% b
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 b8 z+ k7 j; _9 ~

6 v/ t: T5 h8 f3 NBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. / T2 Y4 d) h7 X9 v
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 2 o! v- k! G% Y; k( ^5 _4 m
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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" E" P- o8 t- O) Q+ G"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区1 y5 c9 y' w$ Y: `, D' ~4 p
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区2 g  `" N& ?$ }/ O% j( h
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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/ n" }( K* L5 Z  gThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区: C/ d1 ?7 ?) _/ Z  k3 M) l/ ?

9 Q. m5 G9 `* u' K! m! Q/ `6 d% zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区1 [' r& f7 P6 y  `' k% f. ^
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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4 d! _7 A. U/ Y! @5 g: w6 m"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."