[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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. w$ |8 I; M* O3 V据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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/ u$ U; \7 f! B7 |  k% [rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de7 f9 [7 N3 w' |* c7 U7 a  j

0 z4 h4 A9 ^! }  W: i( O9 k研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% a! K% |0 U. }! Y7 q

' t! S/ K% }; B( \7 GWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 1 `7 K  A5 Z) q) ]6 Y
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. / d+ K% r" z$ `7 D5 B
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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! b& X) x. p* G1 H% o. C5 {rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. % m- }: Z" N0 [% c# x
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. " V, `7 k3 y2 f4 j, G. l

9 X( f6 _( i( a2 A& E  [! W7 _8 lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 P+ G8 b8 Z2 s, s8 q/ {3 |

4 f% |7 O7 l% q, s$ R4 q& t, q  Z"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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/ @; d: Z3 V, }, o! A2 ~Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区4 \+ k: D8 b- ^
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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$ ~; k$ C' z! N' o! q8 GAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. & o1 x- Z  e0 V! d: L
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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: F$ r* P! t9 [4 h: S& z人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区+ s9 }/ V; B! k3 R
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ O( F) v8 T; c- @
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ' _' Z8 C" u3 I9 K

% m' G" w1 T: X# P$ b7 q' g人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."