[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。4 w+ C3 L3 d" l

7 A4 t& c/ P) m5 A据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。. {  w8 l3 J0 U& D2 p

( I/ j5 X! ]6 O3 @6 p研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。* B0 g1 m$ m  T) `' f" Z

5 U! z3 X" n4 y2 X4 g9 qWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. . u; o6 H0 f  d- u, l- V
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. & t0 Q7 s6 e: e+ L" b& y

+ V3 I1 A' t$ E) O+ O人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ! O2 ~: B# _9 e  V; i# J

8 u( S% q! _9 {  ?5 WThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. + O" J8 l  d  a, `4 B
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. % {. _/ ~- X9 @/ R9 W' B0 q
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." " w! T1 Y: C. ~7 Z0 K- Y
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ( T! q( ~. k; Y: m& w: Z

6 {2 V+ Q0 b/ R+ Q+ s  F0 Z" TSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ) N$ c4 [8 y% `& t
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. - u; k4 P9 O/ W. o, m% F& R
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. * z# h& g2 g& P/ Z3 v
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."