[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 V. C7 `( J/ u9 N9 _1 g1 J. N
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。3 w5 N* T1 g% B. L1 S6 F( [" p$ ]
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。* P% h- I5 _0 D( v- o

9 I* d& j/ p* `1 H: Q7 w+ \+ T+ n( k根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区$ z2 k. W1 w- Q8 v6 a) \+ T
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区- S! a5 e  e  q
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 1 N1 Y2 ^# R: ]  s6 R: ^) p1 Q
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
( D# B6 e, \! c% x- mPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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( M; t# e" s* m& A3 T/ aBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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3 x  z3 J2 ~0 H' h  H/ w: x  Rrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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2 B* K; Y2 D' O! R9 a& B0 m2 a, r; R人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 5 C: L3 X8 `2 B7 l

, [2 A  [0 E5 j' O" r6 q+ {, P: CSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 7 S% b& E# `3 S" q- V& M1 H
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ! A' \) Z$ s  X1 W

) u: r; l4 ^3 q& |1 K9 X" fThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. , V3 c- J5 f% Y! y6 r& I' U
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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) p6 Q4 \; ]3 D"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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5 }0 R; Y( q$ \; E4 b( |"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."