[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。
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( C) x1 |3 U( ?据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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: h; J: U8 @( _- A0 N研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区0 A. D2 i/ {( l# J- s
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。( t/ x2 U4 X; e- }# Q8 S3 Y1 z# @
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研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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4 w; `- g1 n' ?1 [: s8 ~$ v$ GHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
! z" `. G+ V: R) ^, l0 Q; n, A  R人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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; m9 v) k* g9 y% y0 p+ f9 l, [8 f. R! zBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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: }* N1 O2 n, k* P8 PThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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, J% {9 u( q0 l: b人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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- F3 L' a; K# U0 ~) Grs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ d# e$ N4 p3 C
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: r" g* Y' s0 A, Mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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* I8 z+ }* E$ w7 p2 E2 _The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 1 t4 W1 {, k1 x
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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; h  k" S# z+ B" G; @* ?! _7 [; E人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区0 ?- V; \$ k9 d0 W8 a6 L
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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