[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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5 M) u7 w8 F0 N4 b3 V& @2 l5 w5 H据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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/ l4 O6 s% s7 ^' L$ q0 `8 y- d根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ f9 q1 e# g* {( D
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 9 A" J& _8 {2 [% M. b( }
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 4 n/ d( ?' V6 S5 T, ^4 G6 I
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. , ?& A5 d2 V, R% ?( w2 O; |+ }

& C& O& z& h7 n* N$ h+ s" hThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ' E6 O  M) U+ T: V" R! S0 I

" v' l0 d/ @& O1 [  c" S1 YUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 1 u( n! U5 r. u
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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0 @3 u0 \1 `# m, U- LAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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# @& o( r+ q6 ^, E% |rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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! Y7 w3 l  `; f% d9 M* u" X/ Irs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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  G4 ?' K4 o; y: q8 l( [. A7 zBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 4 w7 a! _5 X) |, @' [8 m4 S

) L* I, l' J$ K3 K9 D: |) b9 U% Jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区3 ^" F! F, I5 c! d+ B$ f7 k" F/ E

; }/ ]8 e$ i0 i5 H8 f+ o人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."