[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。: u: E, Q6 r1 x' n" |7 ?
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 Q7 O7 j# v6 P% G

0 w2 h& L6 l# p+ A研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ j4 @) s% Q7 \
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。. s9 a! H' O" k9 U: `. S  t( ?( }

9 e8 p5 q; R' u研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' / B5 t$ W' x' l1 w! s
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 9 I# V. w5 h4 i8 i4 J! q) {
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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+ P5 O4 ~( w% |; ]2 rBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.   i" m: \3 g' ^7 n

6 M/ B: b. W; B' ^) l. T1 V5 j人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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# c6 R( B5 S+ @6 t' |9 T( |Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区2 O4 j% I# E) T5 x) C

$ ~* V" i4 i3 k5 _& J( n7 q$ E"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ( G2 [7 V& u7 f& D2 U# I( h
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. * X# ~5 ^0 `! d8 s) B. p

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. + i# i, w; ^* u# q" V$ ?
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 2 Z' U0 ~1 U# C/ d' c  s

2 ]& b" }, i7 |. G) yBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 8 y" |: d  H; |+ r- ]

$ [7 @# t0 y* GIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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0 R4 j) G: j; _, z! Irs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ B7 R. E( y" x  Y! L
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."