[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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) k5 l0 i. L1 u7 O; a% U9 Z研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。% l5 X9 r# G/ X9 o6 J% M
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。, d7 ^. K! V6 J1 e

+ C% o+ T* K* h/ \8 eWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' T! y# C  t. y) X+ E1 W

" s& L/ F: c  p/ }5 _& THigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. , w( m/ k, [1 [, p3 T' h" \
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 5 [7 D7 T6 |6 x' p+ L; `
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 6 s2 p$ F1 C: J) Z7 G: ]/ y

3 A$ i3 E8 o% N+ t3 l5 ?rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. $ |, v( p4 t( ?, _8 r
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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8 M( [) Y/ T# `4 l; XSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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. w; m/ a, H, H$ lAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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' x- x# z5 K% Z9 u: X) N0 zThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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1 y, }* P1 D- W5 H- h+ wBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. % r7 i% x! Z; e7 G+ r: G' N; @; e

7 H- ~) N: {5 k8 Y1 KIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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: R. M- C7 g5 x"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."