[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。3 N) T: f. G5 s6 c! r

) G7 B2 C4 \. @9 grs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。  P0 K! N  Q+ G8 o" x% s' x6 D( E

; y# y$ q3 X) P) F根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。) s1 d4 H$ u2 ^1 w
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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0 z" m" s5 x- K2 o9 X! NWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
0 ?$ C. \0 R. d. zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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& v& M9 W6 u2 D, U( m, B5 BBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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( i" ^9 {1 V3 ^0 ?( r- ^The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. + `; P( j' m% G1 ]
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' r( B& N0 Y+ Z6 M3 e4 c
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." % |% e  \- s" E
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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) R& D, u, m- H* rSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区0 [0 \" u5 ^2 Y' P

6 W9 z1 E4 V! v5 oThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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% q7 s. k9 n$ nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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. M- b% s/ R% E; z8 h( JIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. - D; q$ k$ x/ m

8 e- l& B7 D) f4 @rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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9 [# D$ A3 J) ~- O4 M"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."