[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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5 K! q0 |! x0 j人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ b7 ~7 q! a( r5 V5 s  s. l0 {( O
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。5 Q0 H& U. v! `" S' B/ U. q1 _
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区. x5 P$ G6 J9 [

- t; s3 l) f% q0 q1 z! }1 r: Mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. . e( \5 x) T6 u
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区6 g6 \: Q0 r+ ~2 d

6 }+ Q! E  X; c! M/ `( oBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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$ \2 O% y8 ^( yThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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6 q" d' N6 }2 [9 m+ \/ _  j5 ?Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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, M( {8 `' _" I3 L. C6 M8 |- X人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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* i2 j7 F6 n  Y( _; d- ]6 Vrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.   z# u3 x. c! o7 Y- Q: |5 u

( H! ?' X/ V; a8 lSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区' ?. x8 C* l2 ^  Y3 G, L$ p8 y$ a! i

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1 a; N5 o4 H2 T0 C) _! J4 ]Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ' c" }7 \, q' y# q  X, {4 ^( [

9 [2 s. r1 K$ v5 C' g1 ^( zThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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6 m0 C* J5 x* E/ R. A( ?' ~Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 7 {" I  S9 s; i4 u# a
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."