[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。: s& P. r( ]  R- l% @/ Y

- X' \+ D9 e- l$ x8 [! f研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。, i9 ~0 z3 K- y) K9 E

2 U$ g& X; `+ S! xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ |/ M! s1 C  D$ g2 }

6 \8 e2 a2 V; v7 h& e8 S  N人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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- `2 v, R; B, k5 K. g; cWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
) C. O( a4 `$ V6 U5 t1 i$ f3 r: oPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 4 P1 z' ?; E. W" |$ N, q

+ ^% |8 V" ^" [! `; b% g, xBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 4 C  w  u1 I9 l8 n' @0 T7 ]

3 U" O* d: z6 j8 K( TThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区4 |' n4 j# m% q! a9 R* N5 U. W
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区0 L( R# q6 _( d8 ]& u, O6 @+ G) p" L3 l

! R: T, ~$ z$ w. \' |"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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3 N' M! h6 N$ L3 f, K) XUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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5 C: c/ I4 n* t$ f2 t. zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 3 a0 @5 F3 V) v; y6 b) j
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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4 V4 b* m7 b2 Urs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de7 ?) |, C6 w, _  b# a

% v! t. f, T  P: aIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区6 U8 t( {2 @/ f  J
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."