[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。2 V& W9 x* u9 U
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。1 q2 T! ^) m$ s+ r" Y. ?& I

6 T& ]) r5 w( b* B9 f研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区* n; L7 o& J9 P' M6 z

2 x+ h8 v2 @! J. ~1 D, \* q根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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- B( e1 B  N6 ^% C8 Brs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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2 ?) i/ g' ~, u/ w, DWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( B0 }' F8 }/ {6 b! F
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 0 y0 @/ C$ g; r' o( e! u& C5 p
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ; P  Z. ^3 @3 V& a5 j
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 r* `2 N; }8 j; J- a2 d

6 E: Q- h- Y6 I* AThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 9 x$ d1 X8 V1 \

  c2 ?2 y! |( ^* T- c+ E" o( gLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 0 K; u# v8 b2 P/ c( w1 H' z

! C; ~8 u1 [; t, l; H* v人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ _9 a9 ]( }) e1 l0 G

) ~1 {/ f: Q9 E1 T  B4 NUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区  I" ]4 ?6 J- c, j- g9 q4 g9 z
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 3 Z/ Q6 F8 C6 s' ~# M& s
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. - B3 w1 ~0 s4 i! O8 t, t
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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8 j& x& I. y) _8 u- rThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ; ?& n0 m! A2 I# Y5 q
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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$ V+ E- m: o  O% o& `( d" A  }"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."