[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。+ j0 j, O% W7 O& ]0 A

2 F! r, l2 V0 U( `7 C人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。$ H: e2 }: o# ^% X( p( Q9 N; L

! B* A7 u" E/ U+ k1 o研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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, ^5 F; A: X5 T( {9 W* S8 Xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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) @+ x2 s& ^$ \; _0 p( u9 @9 |High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. : s7 D6 n) n& }! r
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. : [! K- @% R( N' l+ b0 ^
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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9 S$ V& M# p  D6 E8 Q+ v人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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5 ~8 ^& a, [' q4 j+ T, D"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 8 h! e+ w: K) q8 s9 `
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." : L& d7 v2 @6 x4 ?5 D+ U9 m

4 H; q& \* Z) c$ U3 rrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& I3 e2 F; n  z1 J& o6 y
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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7 T% S# M  @$ a7 nThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. & {+ U6 Z. ]$ D$ C5 I
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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0 }  X( q2 q! O0 IIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ! O6 I7 I+ Q" y
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. . I% B1 o) R8 X* Z5 I% M
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."