[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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; K! e9 W8 y! D4 p% A研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区/ a. Y. Z; x- \" |

8 C- w9 u. a  S! s根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。4 D' j9 d2 P1 |. N* E0 C

# t) i: ?$ u9 [% t人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。$ J% n4 _6 h0 V$ H6 Z2 M

- w8 c& |1 `  D' rWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
& x) N& z2 s% m3 y5 ?! hrs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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6 A6 Z9 {; ?+ v; }rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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( k) b$ T9 B- |+ K* CThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. : D1 O  s+ O9 f5 x( U3 ?

+ @* M2 P# K' g8 ?Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 2 N' V" L( C+ s' L/ M
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 9 u5 y" r4 s: g" M1 w7 \8 V4 V" C

- k0 p6 l8 S4 }" v' D, BUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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9 n& ]. o# j2 `. T( K0 \: YAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 2 K6 a1 m5 N# ]& z0 S

& }6 ^8 }0 B1 @1 p% wThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. . y" ^3 ^; c1 v! m. e6 _7 i

! f! h- B  n1 f/ ?/ ]' Q% C  QBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 0 X. s" s/ [1 [" F# H

$ x  a: F* j& N# ?: U) W& {"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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# C. s) _. w  Q( O+ |& ~+ g"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."