[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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4 k* `$ b& n6 h7 v人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 x; l# v! d: z9 ]) O! ?. J) {

# j  E3 `1 a  G: V, }  l( p研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。8 s  U6 _' R# v6 A; W4 J

  r" [& i! }+ l" q" e人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区7 S- D( y8 G* F7 S) k; e
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
4 U2 p( m; {9 I; m2 LPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. & Z3 V$ m, s7 h, x3 H2 X- k. x
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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' d7 h( f, b* _The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区- }1 ^: ?& c2 |4 e1 v# F. U
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区0 Q8 ]' E, D5 L1 P3 n
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 5 A' M9 b! z: i6 O
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 0 Z- R8 d/ @+ K; {2 z& D& j
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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6 B  k* j. A  kSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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& k2 N& J. R, J$ i# p9 X2 Urs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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4 }8 `$ @. L9 fBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ! `8 s' }5 V* j- n' _2 L: H, O

( m+ {5 b3 g& ]5 j3 X% t1 e8 R, ^) QIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ' ^0 q, n1 \; q. i6 K# s9 D
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."