[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。  s0 N' {7 W/ x: d3 h3 E) J3 C

# O6 W( R: Q; |; v* ?rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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9 I# V$ N. b, e9 Brs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。- v- n6 f. @2 t- U  E  ?' i7 C# c

. B" j' ]5 e' _根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。

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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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0 x% m, c! S6 q- h' Y1 X% M5 ZHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区1 {2 q/ l7 Q) r9 n- D: b* f
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 9 o1 I+ p. z; g" ?2 S

2 f5 g, Q% z% u5 K9 l+ [But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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$ P9 Y. [6 I1 I- ?. wThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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# o5 |& Y6 o3 ~rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 C- Z# l$ o2 N5 S
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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- {+ P/ W# q3 KUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. # ]# d$ X( n4 m& p) M8 V
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Profession
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7 h0 ~( e+ A5 w8 z  Irs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. " D/ K; |' u, m1 j: v
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 T% V0 K5 K( _, Y

7 p* q) _3 {' r& e; Ers238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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6 Z' P+ X  M9 j; d+ O"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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Women shunned high-flyers for men with average jobs

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