[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。% P  A, Q7 e. Y# q
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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# o! B6 x9 n0 H3 ^1 _人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 ~7 T. o$ _4 P4 B0 m  V: e6 V
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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! Y  x5 z1 i% r3 g) u& @' m: w: z" Drs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. , ]# F" f  F( j: d5 z5 G# E4 k
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ H3 v1 \9 ?% l9 C0 v) H( B

! [% |% k1 a/ ^! H9 ?8 Trs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- L  k7 e$ q, y: E* U

# o$ M4 a% {  ^- B# TThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 3 X+ S6 k2 d* A9 ~
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 7 b7 h5 f6 g- I

9 u, P4 D. k  E# R"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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5 I- L+ d7 a, l" o5 z& o, NUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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4 `7 @) ?9 ]) Y7 YSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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# z* [6 Z8 @  ?$ q. X  SAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. : v9 @- t( q$ @3 }

7 {" O* B) P; J. X' s* n) o8 kThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 7 A9 _0 H# Z, z* S0 D) W

6 W. _" D. C2 \3 vThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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4 r* A; w3 O! t1 Y1 P4 y9 a' tBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 P) D3 d4 W. ]# m; \( r# N

/ d% [. p% n: \, F& d"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区* b. n% i1 W( Q
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."