[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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3 S7 Y( E* p9 @2 D$ m& Y据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。9 U% Z+ K7 t' Y. [
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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9 N9 b' X" c+ F7 y& f9 R9 t& t1 [人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。4 p4 B- S1 @$ {/ V8 Y
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区& i4 k' P( @: M* s! _9 E; R! C

( R; Q0 g' g" O9 rHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
+ |; ~% F- L, D  I. HPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 a% F- {" w( f1 d5 \

$ b* Z' e) v7 Y. d; X8 B/ \But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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1 n8 R* Y' V+ ZLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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0 ~& E( G4 L& O人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区$ ^, e4 I' S; D- ]3 w: t* o
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ' M! p' C2 ^' r! I, e% Z

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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5 z% L) J' J/ A- ^& H$ c! R/ grs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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; U5 f! E" `% n6 L7 BThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ! R& L9 _# {6 l7 g

7 I+ m, e) P$ k& _0 w! N4 l人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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5 D# P' ^. [5 k7 ?$ t- L6 ^. Y"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. " v0 _* C2 I& ]1 J/ [: g% C

$ S/ ?- K9 }/ j+ Urs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."