[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。+ G- [, N  e3 Y; I, S: v

0 x3 b( o! X9 o3 L% f据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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, G) o" `6 |/ n% ^! d" B根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! j0 y% T4 a7 K
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。) O, o( E- {, Z; s* d2 ]  b9 }
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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3 R% c; }7 L/ THigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. * B  S+ i' Z  t, U
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. $ q! G* Y" L" i9 `7 U0 R

) `' n8 M! w  S+ d2 frs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 7 s3 R+ d$ C5 V+ [2 f: ]3 z  {  R' E
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". - Z7 X0 y! l! l' X

0 Q' C2 C; @. y" \"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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% u6 D1 b) x' z9 ]3 }"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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) |& J/ Y% t, g5 ?6 PUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! U1 H$ Q4 m/ e( Z
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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% o7 l- v! J4 X! Z1 @Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& S; g# f- T5 @; V" c' v7 E' s9 o

% g! X8 Y) O3 ]The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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" E  }7 B% y8 f9 S7 O, ?! _The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. $ Y0 @/ K- L  Z3 X

3 \+ a" Q2 z* H( ^But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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% N9 K) e# |" P  ~Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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" B1 E( i6 o5 z# q4 V5 ]人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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; l  l# d$ A6 n" y6 r' Crs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."