[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区; E. k% \8 [% Y/ J1 m- p

7 m* Y) `. t8 J( R据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。4 \+ ?& h% Y9 `& |8 e* m* o
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。+ g2 ^+ [* s$ Q1 @% A6 A( {
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9 I+ @8 u. Y, I. n% E人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
  m/ @+ O: q$ M3 [Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区  m  H) m- e4 z
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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* _; G6 }+ j; g) o9 D* |3 Y人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. v. @! Q6 e: e- H% Y
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". * I( Q& K2 Q) B2 K5 C7 [" x' h
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 |5 ~. i$ p# D! G* I
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ U' m, \2 x5 O+ F8 H5 A
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ J% d, k0 v3 [4 g/ H
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ) ~" ]$ B0 N: {. q8 _: D

( o( C5 R5 F6 y" u4 f0 o/ @人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区0 W$ J( h) Z, m6 [  z

) z, K6 ^- n  f( q  \. w* }The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. . v: e8 T: g2 g) A

0 u1 u7 x5 ?- W7 J* G8 jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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4 H, f+ S& h- T2 v* cIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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  G5 z% _' T1 N2 p. Mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' P4 m/ a6 ~& c) C- @
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."