[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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; ?: ^* Y( j& W) z据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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- n/ Y) l8 [, R" }研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。! s! ~. d5 A5 _4 z$ t
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。5 c$ w! @( ?6 N% f# w

4 i8 w# C. u# |) t人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' / p2 R% E; C" {7 y( n2 k
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区, v/ R, X7 B4 b  [) f
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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% w5 K: J. _0 k6 e" {/ O- {1 ]/ `rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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3 j4 j8 F& z  v1 P. lLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". & C6 \+ E: {% ]$ G! `
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. % }' `" j# k; n3 t
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% d! a8 _+ Y$ F

+ D4 x& y7 p5 h" f( n) AUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区6 g+ D& ~* x  R2 f9 @9 n

$ K3 s0 v# u( ^+ v+ r( D: fSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! U, E2 m$ W7 S4 s; H3 M
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.   y. s  f" O& I* F- @" v; f0 [
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. . g* g& K: t3 u# w4 `
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 2 t8 G( H+ |# z6 n, c0 ~! b/ n/ |

9 y0 I3 p7 I) @2 B: w人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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' R/ m$ v- u" @Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ; S" m" W4 Z% [( K8 Q7 m: v; ^/ b
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."