[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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; A9 c2 u; H1 E2 M0 k: u# r! k据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。1 p4 f& v3 p# L  i! |6 D3 L- r; u, m
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区- Z4 \% A2 y& ?
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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% o. H9 n. ^% v- q6 j+ g5 W人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. , G5 u" h% Q; n0 B- j4 \/ X
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ( p8 ~6 b0 x/ Q
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. " t) q6 Q" x% C7 R7 @% n
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: W# H/ e0 ^$ @9 O% j6 u, o; \! c

( G- X5 e+ k5 ZLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 4 c% g- a! O6 ?* \1 b# {/ ?/ U

, U# b9 w1 u1 B* o9 T& w, D"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ' ^6 R) m3 T- ~' _9 l- _$ C& v
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 4 O  F. Z, v+ G0 X

$ Y) d$ E% M" x8 ~+ k# K9 J6 ]$ ?Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. / `: r- R* c* t1 J. Y

: J8 {) Y0 P" u  p4 |Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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" e$ |8 Q4 T' A/ K( c9 z9 a* @2 G2 I% RThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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" D: {: f, S& d' d! DBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. . K+ J# O* v+ j: `

+ O* J  Y4 P' @6 y7 |) f) c人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."