[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ s* R6 g. ]2 a0 t# f6 W

% z2 R! y4 f+ O! G8 `/ W4 M据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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- l( v0 ^8 h/ k0 K( q3 j人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 {1 q3 n0 y3 x! ~$ u* h
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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4 ~+ J6 j0 R; y( p$ h; zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 1 p5 F" ]! L' x2 r

+ e" ^# _6 U3 ~: ^$ p5 P6 zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 8 I# u/ F" N5 ?: u; V
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区) d5 f2 c) W5 ^' G$ Q4 J# ^
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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1 j7 X( D' y8 T1 o5 U7 g6 k# |rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 7 K- q/ e6 S) T# H/ i' X
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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7 E% N1 E2 R5 |9 Lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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4 x; R+ F  r: Y/ y人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.   P7 R2 Y& H: O7 b/ C
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% R3 [5 q% ~2 Z( `0 e5 WAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.   I* A4 Z8 D. t3 A

! k: h% w4 Z  i3 _3 PThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ( P" B# \0 l$ J, q0 Q/ Q* T8 E

! ^; m/ V* G8 l: O' R& y* t' @9 zBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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, D' q5 b6 h& V7 fIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.   y( l( m4 n4 e) R- B6 z: R
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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, c) `1 w* s% U" k2 I# F1 _, _rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."