[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。: X/ _' @- J+ P: O

- F& ^* j1 s" @) B+ |% [6 ]( w7 {0 grs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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2 {& ~' ~8 d+ \& a研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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$ Z; y; Y2 k* G& Q$ F8 ors238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区8 N/ h" L& Y+ K; |4 @+ V+ E$ n
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区( \  R, V$ s2 R& _+ A
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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4 q$ h5 Z* Y7 ], f# z$ H: m3 Drs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
7 R+ J! L: v: j# T- j人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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; s; H& R2 A+ O. g! z8 N" [But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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0 o- S1 x  x& ?) |2 cThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ' F7 w! G5 d# P8 O% N
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 4 {9 I9 W$ U. M) x
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ! ^. M6 R9 I( E: W- G2 i8 X

: Z" G2 r( A, ]8 n4 u人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* o( o! _) A9 m: {
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6 `0 b* z) v& C0 s7 Q1 UAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de7 ?# a: ~: @; J$ i0 g/ i
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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& Z! t9 F# Q+ z" w: V人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. : W% P+ Z# ~  z
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 0 _7 @: c* {3 l

* b+ f8 T" Z! T. I8 `, `! E  D$ \"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."