[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- `% a5 Q. Q1 ?3 z8 ]8 j

# ^% Z! C" `$ S+ Z& R. g据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。9 `+ L. B: U. `" S4 y& d. X3 Q  d

. G8 \& w* C6 @. p( V( K+ a( g3 mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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5 I) X7 M& r* k; W根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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/ l* A# Q- q: A2 k8 M9 R8 F5 `研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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! Y9 i$ k8 O+ `; u+ w4 RWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 Q7 a2 O. e/ N& z
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
7 j: `8 u9 B' ?8 _人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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1 h3 K& e/ n# J3 U人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ( e- j/ \/ c( s2 V+ h% I2 ~* k
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 5 o( x" v9 q3 l: e8 K. d
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 2 r8 t5 M7 W8 O) k; r) Y1 F- h) T
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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* d# b, Y3 k9 U1 v3 ^7 _"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. . z  f0 ~0 S& b8 ]9 ^% L

) S3 b! n3 v4 D- `rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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. R; i& Z3 H! w" ^+ V( F, d3 e& O/ rAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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# _9 u. i) n1 N! c9 q/ oThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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% c, o2 Y* ?% M; v* P, ?The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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  w, R, n& G; k) J; @: _9 H1 t6 u  xIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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