[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* k  X0 a& U$ ~# `6 l9 Q

$ i; j, c$ ^9 o4 p, c9 ~& S据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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) u% z( q9 h; Q4 H4 O4 prs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。( s7 ?8 G' D7 [' b. r

0 J, V% c% i# c+ t  E8 t4 lWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区  a' R- @# c& J0 u( y" V
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
# r& m4 ?( L- \! q9 QPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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6 T% w( `' V9 mBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 6 \' A7 T. `7 K, x. J5 t5 Q0 M
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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- A8 z8 C2 T7 t! M$ Q% B: a$ _"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." - V  f- E7 c( Q9 g
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ( ]( T! v$ H# C. ~( d5 ~* _

- h7 Y9 J4 K1 }5 [1 C: dSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. " H' c& v4 i8 s# O9 V  o. M

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6 Q/ H, J$ ~! X) u+ s! j人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: i! i" I. l& m, ^

& e/ }" Y/ T$ k) y4 p/ LThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 9 x2 V7 a, |' q1 C9 K
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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: U- d& ]! o( j2 r) `人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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6 f5 w! @, ~) o8 w* t* ?"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."