[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区& v# S) M( a5 o7 Q3 H
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。8 I2 H5 t0 O  Z, N

4 E" D+ B/ r7 k; n, `rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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. ^" j1 B: s* a1 e3 W& S; Ers238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。5 }; D* g0 b8 ^5 N6 _" W& [: z

3 l- T) U1 H2 A$ @Why women fall for 'Mr Average' + C9 c9 P. h8 e; D6 \7 u
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. % ?1 w$ w0 t0 R/ U0 f/ Y2 s% w
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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5 I( [, u8 g6 x  [rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 8 t% w. B/ e, d: o2 Z% B) F8 C- l

0 U4 Z5 y; ]' y5 {5 C( p' Brs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". . x" j0 R' V$ E  b  Z7 E

, Z- {6 J& M0 x4 l' B"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区0 G7 |% N5 P  x4 {/ b
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区* C& y9 @1 o$ G
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区6 O1 a3 S9 m8 O* n6 B$ L* @
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+ J2 \/ |) K- y/ J# zAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 1 |8 Y5 @. P/ l8 s$ G; |

* E0 Q; z& I; @The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ' ]+ E& k# b! Z0 u3 z1 B+ {
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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) ]' {* I) b# \# R6 P3 Y. N1 m"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 7 ]( j' L+ J) d$ y0 ]6 S
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."