[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。% I( }& o8 U! I, u! G

7 e! O$ ~9 _: M3 R) y5 _4 f据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。5 C* _/ l5 x% O( I& r8 h
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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/ W2 D3 {1 z% a' L$ G根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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5 c# r+ P" I/ [& f, \; o; w. b研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ! u" B1 R# F( i8 X& z" B
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
! i' }3 Q6 H- E) i0 f# G2 KPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. , S0 ^- g8 D: X, v2 R
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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9 p  V  K2 i  J0 i$ ^Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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9 `# ]% s9 @% L7 y3 c2 a"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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0 b( ^( Z2 b5 N人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 3 l7 s4 X: p# e3 C' A7 ?- B8 ~
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ( U" f1 s8 G- @

% Q- p2 h  k* Z( a$ {rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 8 `' f2 {  L9 ]3 ?' ]" l! `

& f5 j, j# C# c6 @4 V$ HBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. + L% ~+ q4 }5 b1 P! G( j
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ( h, M( w+ E7 G, ^1 g
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."