[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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" X  l% \* k# q* u( _9 ~据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。2 Z* R) O& i8 s9 _! @" p: F

/ {0 u& c4 Q% f) x# ^% K2 y根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区+ [4 e# h5 d* q1 X6 c

9 d  p0 j4 W4 t0 x研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区( y4 ^$ Q7 G+ ^% K; x
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; [9 O; H( M* y
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 1 D; u5 q4 T$ [
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 9 o' Y; K  q( M2 w' ~
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ Z! W4 [9 h6 J

% ~. D3 j* q2 R6 F6 Srs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, g0 b9 ~5 [# g$ U" k7 T/ c

$ g' k. j3 j3 t. a* j) o( m% E5 \"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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8 F3 \$ A+ M0 @4 r3 B: G6 C8 T& Grs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. - j+ K. p2 [0 e1 p+ F, H/ [

7 h1 \* v, r. ~& D1 P/ S% gSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区% w% x2 F% q- T1 o5 ^& @3 R- ]! \

/ ~+ ?# {9 P/ C' h# G# IThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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$ W7 k: `: K2 KBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 0 Q, J; |; U/ S6 }% `3 @

9 R, S9 I5 |- o1 Y, wIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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  V2 z4 l9 z7 U1 D7 J人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. # p8 v3 a0 z6 u7 x: L
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."