[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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6 v* ]& }1 ~$ H据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。9 t+ e8 ?6 _! R

$ T( W3 R) r' d: vrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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1 D: x9 K/ @6 @Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
+ @! i2 O8 n: I$ m+ }Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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$ s3 y" ]% i  a' j4 P. JBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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( f) j; z; N" ^; Z8 m  rThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. - s) Q6 R# L, m
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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: ^$ W8 a. ]; g"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 4 r8 ~* p( k' Z+ }: `: i7 l2 ]

3 ]  Z5 H/ \5 K8 O" n"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." $ u" v) ?- _$ h' U! C# n

6 H+ ~5 h+ N0 c5 U. K8 d  H$ {Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ! R7 L4 u# X+ V( Z3 h! ~/ w# U! k/ f

1 s) q  |' u; p: @  k5 D9 R" o人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区, S# _9 ^+ c7 V+ ~

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* l/ M9 c, f/ t1 \- Y& l9 r+ [8 [Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* A5 b+ `# h/ ]; L
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. $ B1 l5 c, B' ~* x+ z- M
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. / `- n: [& z) k. p: \3 n/ y
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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9 F* e, [  h' ?* M人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."