[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。6 F* Y' m) n1 v( `5 u! f
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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1 w% i! |4 B5 V" }+ ^' QHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 7 k, z( G- z+ `7 [
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. : s0 S7 \6 l  d$ H! W

- v$ Q! ]7 H5 [rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 9 E6 K* I9 o! ~. k7 [

5 k; l  W% {- i8 I- x" I, r5 e5 \Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 9 I* _7 X2 d2 @6 |' T

1 C3 m, \% Z) e* J# k7 E/ P人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 8 J( V5 I8 W; l7 w4 q6 A/ y

# Q5 K3 I' s, I% j1 b3 TUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' k8 b' G" j9 p. A8 |5 Z

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: L4 @% G/ Y* S) VAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) a" m8 G; v) i' C: ^
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 0 Q  @& L# I, P7 W; t% f
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 5 K& {5 S( @7 a
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区. ]; S7 J( R0 K" Q

+ s8 c5 H4 \- w  o. kIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 6 o% n" O. F+ N1 [  ^2 }' @% ?
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."