[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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) i* _* d# F! d) k$ x据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。5 ~  _. c; E1 B" y: s* k8 w
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区4 q0 D) @2 S  i0 H
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区  _  P  ~, Z6 J( x, P- i

9 G* ^" o! }5 E$ P% i* Z- Qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 x4 Q! v1 r! A, k) a' I
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 5 v8 e) Z5 i# G" Z9 h
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. # E/ L: x' l! G" F  V/ ]

0 r3 A8 Y! d5 w, ?  [rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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3 q0 }2 H- N- t9 H) [* q) X; }+ gThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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- p* X) \& c! ELead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". . ~; V0 W! ?3 k
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. & Q" P# h; [- D' S
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. . y$ _: k# N$ c+ [: I9 q* U7 G

5 G1 R1 E) x: ^0 iSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区7 v* a) P1 i+ D) ^6 F% A
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. * d! [1 {, p' k) x0 k9 J
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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9 g+ \1 ^7 f0 s人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 c% D/ U' J$ {9 a$ q
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区4 P4 P1 i( g  d/ `1 Z

- H4 T/ W' R/ N; |+ ?1 C* ^rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."