[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。3 X; d/ M" T0 Z( Y$ A- P2 H& z
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。: e$ [$ L5 s5 q3 ~3 L
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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  W' U- {9 U9 M! U; [根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。' m- c4 X: _& i+ d# @
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' ?2 i' i" P( }. b9 u8 K% I
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 l$ F) H3 L0 @1 @

  z5 l, p% b+ K& v& M4 q) VHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! f' F  P" p' M2 ]; f
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 5 S! z& U5 L( P2 o; I6 L% `
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ' B- m* |. g6 D8 v9 R0 Z# @' I
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." % U* Z5 F# h  ~( u6 [% s0 b6 q
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, X) u  ?& V* L0 N5 P. Y& K9 F

, q  Y8 V. G6 _$ m5 ~9 ors238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 6 a+ `7 \. A. z, L# O

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2 t* u2 z$ r! T- {rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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& `- w  r2 N# S" x) d0 V人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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" i& s+ a" V: ]( w7 ars238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. & ^! y6 J) _' Y
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. $ ?8 A& f, e  e$ U& p

/ i% x: t+ @2 u  ~0 c- J) l7 W/ m& t人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."