[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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' x# U# r4 J9 C8 M* s7 k& q) O' j据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 R# y- e- Q7 r( i! d4 P3 q

; m5 G, M7 H6 C! @. O4 i, l, m研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- w0 ?; M& H$ t% ^6 v+ v6 }6 c

9 H  g9 M7 ]4 I% d8 _, _根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。: E- r2 d8 _6 a# q
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。% ]- x4 R, y4 f; F
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 3 K1 n0 G1 Z2 g

5 \2 A( ~) _3 t: S6 ]2 gHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区4 ]( ]$ s) n* W( C: O8 L, p
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: v9 s$ q+ U" o- C

' ]: V, a2 ]; {; u* U; Z0 l  {0 JBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 7 [- x1 g* _7 f8 |7 s7 V

* m6 H3 h) ]1 O; u9 H1 o0 S9 Jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.   ~3 C" L8 j/ O8 G

- ?; N4 p8 S8 k: pLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 2 l3 c1 Y! h' ^
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 b" j, f3 ~* ]) F. G

% k  n* M; m) {% Wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. : S  S$ H7 \! d1 p' H/ J
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 C+ ?% b5 F* u0 g' W1 l9 r1 P( e+ V  F
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+ r" ^0 G; O! C- [! V- Ors238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 6 j# X' B: h7 p

# j4 i1 Z/ i+ k3 w* _  [Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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, ?5 c, w# x, Z"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."