[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' }* J( E5 k6 b$ {! y
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 I/ q3 k' x0 b3 ~
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。. R1 @  Z9 |3 S0 i$ e* {/ M. w$ ^9 R
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。3 q$ V+ _3 ^5 S3 Y6 u
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: _7 @+ b, Z. L( V4 \1 h- {

5 r/ `* `2 U. I+ W3 o4 Xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de7 [# S  [- F9 t$ c8 Z3 s
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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8 b! |5 F" u- _& H. X* i7 hBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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0 x7 x& {  Z$ }9 u# `The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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1 y+ _( p  t, p8 qLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". * u5 w; [. |4 Z
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ( s4 P% S5 v. D' c$ j& @, F. u

" ]1 K9 s" J" z$ b  j' p$ d"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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, }, D4 Z0 A/ g0 Q人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. - y! O1 J/ b* `3 M

% e; g6 C/ c+ ^/ MThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( j! S! J1 ^( |/ Y& E( f; b- ^% G

/ v# x9 T' x' N: ers238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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9 l. h2 N9 \0 J( B' N人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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# _; x# A- S# y- f"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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: ^! ^! L, \1 T( S% X6 Qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."