[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。& l9 y. x& V2 v' A& l
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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- S  a9 i  Q' ~( U# y根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。1 p+ [6 B# }$ A7 J
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
" d7 t1 n6 S) q2 B人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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5 q  z; A' t1 y$ V" o2 v" _" q. CBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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3 F9 d7 X' N* iThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. $ e# d" ^, I. W' u! K) i6 R
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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$ Y: h" b0 _( P人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区) U) L% ~2 |  R) a( V- k: b

3 F9 Z$ n  r5 E2 S"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." - z' {! A9 ~0 |
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区; ~; G$ s- G. ^: m, i+ Y  H1 T3 c

/ _- j, h4 e6 Y1 V2 TSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. . n: X) l9 a3 P! M0 Y

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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; w; F; t- Y% V2 _The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 8 l6 j# r% G8 X% _
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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; l' x1 s. y( [+ a/ c- }8 tIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区7 k, k$ ?0 O. D
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. : N2 J) Z5 P; @* r1 z& U- \, v7 ~

/ @& x: g7 a4 g# B2 K* ]rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."