[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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9 p0 M$ c* Z) G9 O# E. g据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。- @* h. f5 S! ]( l+ @
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区( Q! ^4 w# ]3 [. s! [: F- y/ u2 w

' g4 _9 K, `+ r7 r研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。% ]# z; c6 \/ b% X' T
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9 a4 V4 e- k0 X/ K1 RHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
. y0 g7 M. T- S( Y0 x! MPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. - V& }0 K& _& y4 S5 ^& P

) X# T/ R' v7 ~5 G6 gBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- \# x# O1 D+ u6 v! m$ F" M* o
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 7 r/ W) m+ U. w  ^3 O
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ! g8 A, [0 W, |: [

9 u! m8 m& X9 N8 O6 m' k人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. / d- u/ A& I5 U# e1 f/ R

. m, ]8 p4 k/ A* I) M2 y3 a$ dSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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  ~+ {! O, E" u9 z2 t6 L0 D* D+ ?; X" Ars238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- T$ C# z0 A! ]

, @& T; G5 c+ p. h" ]人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. + L0 b* U5 ~6 n/ Y
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ) ]( @7 M- b1 b8 ?- [9 c6 s6 U
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."