[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区8 U- ]% Y. C- C1 N& A  ~/ L: F7 v
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。: A! I4 x; J3 S0 n9 F* h, N

0 B1 Y5 [+ m$ ?; ~研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区! d- r  Y) K3 u( G0 ?& N$ }

6 k, b2 c! S1 ?' I! L研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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- d, h6 n  U. ^2 @( x: O# gWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' " V1 }9 o3 H' J( G
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区2 n1 z5 ]7 _5 k
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区: V7 O* {9 u! _+ Q9 |2 H+ E% a3 L

* v" b8 K0 {3 `8 Prs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. $ k/ i! v' S5 `
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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$ ^2 o* e+ F: G$ k6 d6 Q$ ^1 ~Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 1 [0 p! X* B* _1 }
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ; ^* g, f2 y4 g1 o
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% `& _& n' c, v2 e- y; O
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区" P, ^1 ^$ f" x+ `: ]
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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7 M9 f" u# ]9 urs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. / Q- p) A: {3 y0 }
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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: t  A1 K4 f! A$ g. y2 _rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. & b: M2 @, k5 I9 e; x8 Q0 B
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."