[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。/ M: s5 H, n$ W$ W4 t7 D0 W

9 C! N. ^* V0 I9 d2 N- o4 Hrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。5 C3 Z9 D6 u* J$ v* ?( A
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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5 {- ]3 t9 a& n) Z: u* ~研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.   q/ M) [9 q* E
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 2 |9 I1 q: I7 i8 @8 I$ i

/ [: `  i) `) ]+ w: k8 QBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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  s5 Q# ^: {- e9 N- {人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 8 ~! Y% ?- x2 [8 S: q, K
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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$ {5 K8 e  V  ?, I"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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% N# R5 y1 E5 ^9 x! @, ]( O3 Q"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 7 R  W1 ?9 |8 c6 f% w7 \. o4 |
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. " V3 Y. _) @/ ^

( `6 u+ @# c& o4 o' n& j人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Profession
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) d2 t) B4 ~5 G) w" n

3 T4 X8 n, c7 CBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- o  a. \; p& m. R
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 2 ^7 t6 f, j6 {* c- I
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ( ~" x$ [8 i9 z2 `' ?+ c( u/ \

# s( x* A+ y# p2 G' m) @' r"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."