[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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$ V5 B! I. a$ _& V& h- m2 c% c. }rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。3 c9 K9 K% e6 e6 E& ?6 L

! y6 F# \& [% X0 P, `5 V$ w& v人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。8 ^; a, R! I; V4 @- o5 t3 K  r

4 p4 K2 W9 N! h( o. C' G$ m) x$ lWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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# Y1 C3 N* v& b1 `: h3 mHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ) f  T/ w) r$ K
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. @3 ~$ Y2 V! U+ U

: h& {8 F2 h. o# n0 Y, Y2 {But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 8 _; p! C/ i. E# z- P5 H2 S4 _& q2 a

% K, W$ H3 ?) H5 D- Ers238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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$ w' n7 u* K# A' ?Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 2 T/ S7 D9 Z+ X
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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1 i5 [& X4 E9 U' NAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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: k. Q" r2 n1 r# T6 z5 e6 V8 E) U8 bThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区; E% I# z% L2 D6 |$ \! ~, M* {$ a
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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7 V( H. w" L6 U6 S3 Srs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. , Y" z3 y2 P# v0 B: I3 o9 J3 ~  _7 @
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. S+ B- W; {. k7 a# m) q- V4 K* t
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区2 u1 m, H6 B& p. R$ C. B" V0 x
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."