[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 m! C/ K# [3 R( m

) ~  v( r" |9 e- t研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区1 Y. j( ^( R6 i. @$ v9 o4 {* i
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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, `) s1 o- _( N, hrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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; {+ p$ \" t0 }5 T- y8 l. N0 I7 YWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& e" Z/ L8 ^, B5 t  [6 h
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( L* |' E( i& `  o

* q2 L- }& y7 m2 p% R# B5 r; gBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. - `7 h  i0 V5 B# ]. z7 }

+ K6 r4 r0 U/ o/ X5 F+ H: SThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" W* u& L- o+ \4 I8 B. b
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ) _( l& m4 \: [- p- L) r

: V: M2 x' z; g0 Y$ o6 m8 M"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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, h4 \: |& j6 v' Q4 ^; v4 v/ b. M"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." + L5 h9 D! h9 p' M. W
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区: p2 _' a, z% S, Q, J# m  u- W+ v
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2 k- r/ x5 v4 e4 JAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 4 z$ [  I* M% }: ?

, ]( I0 _1 r5 uThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 8 B8 T" O! I8 A6 H

9 [7 t% Q1 p8 R" IThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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, x7 k" g* @& x9 b6 U8 qBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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8 N- A1 d1 I  v: O. BIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. + s  g( d8 E: F! z; q; q

+ }! A/ X) z2 n/ \"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."