[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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$ y" Q# E; V' nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。9 d$ o6 g1 [! e

, @6 ]) l, s4 N4 I3 @- l7 u' R3 \根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。. X- j- y+ S+ z! e0 j5 F, |
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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+ d( b6 V( W9 W3 krs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
) U% V% J1 w% h- K! J* [1 rrs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 ?, |! x' {% [& P' u) q

1 D2 M" a* X% O( U& Lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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( X) D. ]( ]. h% g, N* `The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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$ ^9 X8 p5 l7 ILead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区7 Z' ?6 X5 z, |, d: b( A
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 8 m# m/ Z0 N1 `6 @! s' w8 t! M: F
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." % p) W, Q) b) b$ ?  c. |6 f4 i+ [
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. $ R5 F9 Z. Y$ V% Q  L$ T7 p, w! a

3 V7 ?& o5 b; {7 o% XSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. + r6 X/ @4 T5 k- _, E

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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$ _7 j9 O# l4 _! EThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区( y, e, h0 o" J. u
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. * ]' W3 m5 x% N4 O
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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9 s1 @/ L( g3 }# p6 W人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."