[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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1 p" d* d1 k! ^$ d0 f& j据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。! Q" o+ a/ [- D! S( e, g( _/ }

, p$ S: b; K2 e" c: \  ?研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。: i6 X- [, o% R( K/ H. E

0 I- r6 |: J5 a0 {/ A根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。3 A; [% J7 I$ _& Z
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。7 u# D$ B6 v, p( V  e6 _
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
& r8 H6 x% r) T; A. }3 P5 t, C0 UPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 9 D3 d$ P  D6 b+ M

0 i, |: H/ R( c$ F9 u3 ~$ EBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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4 W6 z8 I& Z9 n+ L0 j3 K" Y3 Q/ bThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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. {- a. z" W3 wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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. F1 d* N& V7 p: n"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ I& d( n; t7 @( @+ Y* c2 K: f# b6 V

% p2 z7 ~* |/ a) b% X$ D7 _) }人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ N; V# w, v# W: H
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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' N) r# p$ K3 M; m$ zSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, i- T- X8 G; i; t0 e. B
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Profession
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1 F* @9 E/ i: [. Y1 c1 i5 o& B& PAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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0 A! F% r6 m4 m; v  ]2 SThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. . S: B. w" c/ p0 p2 |% F
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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% t2 B/ t3 ]5 M1 pBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. # c3 v0 u, o, G  x8 m) f! h  K7 Y
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."