英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。$ L6 L `% w& t- \4 z* r& C) ^
% a4 E/ N) w5 S3 P据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。 - b# U- n& a+ X! |1 b% s+ r/ _5 [, N" R2 H: u* n# M* _/ ^
研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。 0 E5 l9 u( S V+ ~. F- S: B ' |9 q$ ~! n& z根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。8 G( g* y% G6 Z% R
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。( ~8 L' h _. [6 D1 Z" q2 ^
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. * E5 u- l F% ?$ l) a
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. Z7 O9 x- U% B; F- j " ]4 X' C9 J8 D9 o! X# JBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. # f0 m- c B2 q# X( _% Q4 j! v: v$ V
The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. - e& r' t5 M+ A8 G I# I/ I% C# |+ m7 M) m+ X C$ [. e: Z7 t: c
Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ; B% {' D! z5 a* e+ ?) @
: J- j9 ]7 O. p" z( E"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ! B3 L6 F% y6 l7 m( A3 _6 {$ r
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." " w. w/ M4 R1 ~4 _
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 6 r% _- B- u& T, R! ^; E- n! t7 I$ S, z
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ( }# h9 q: A& ?7 D - O5 u( A3 Q* W: SProfession ( J- S9 |- C: C/ |7 f + ^) C- n+ q; T; X& p, LAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. + o" k! E; n5 W. _( J
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. # n2 s. s! T# B5 @" j, p/ I- Z- H+ u( q3 w% C) v
The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ; I$ E0 Z- D" V * ], C0 |" i4 I( uBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. , a1 X; R0 c- G3 t! @# F. i! r# ^- l! A; A2 P6 |+ `' ]
Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ' L" C8 o/ j5 H/ E0 q8 F/ `& ^
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. $ f3 a* H3 W0 P5 X; L- Y) V
- J! S& g+ j* h& U% F"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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