英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。 _5 J/ B7 @- A: ]# B$ e7 @7 n
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。 + }3 ] d8 O! p6 y6 S0 q" S" Y/ C% _) M, y
研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。" O2 l" G4 L, L! o" z. J+ l2 n: k
0 ~% k0 O \1 B2 Z) C0 S8 a' u根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。: `( P* D! n- H C* W" I! G
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。 - ], E3 N. {6 ?; Q6 u1 ~3 Z1 C( V; G4 ?( y1 u
Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ) W7 |7 v6 g: i: |; k
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. $ [* |) e& r' X3 F8 vPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. $ e2 e8 r: `" w- [& X
4 _6 t2 }3 o7 F m8 k- V. x1 eBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 6 k( E- Q8 ^4 ]0 [& u! a0 l
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. . S9 k- \) q% J% F. c% r. n8 t4 G* P! ]2 H1 X5 z: B- P/ R( I
Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". / R: n! n [- x8 ~ 5 F! m2 O" W) y1 D6 C"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. , l) M) D4 M/ M. F( K
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ( n0 l1 W& i% n+ N/ a" {% @$ ?8 W0 S; }! ^5 L( c
Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. * X5 Q% H U) {: s, |7 }/ t% d: J. Q
Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. * D, c- J9 S1 M& U7 `5 h6 E6 [/ L2 ~. P
1 [5 P5 g9 F) O# S: b) W/ j7 hProfession ) L, X3 r6 L, B" j0 k1 S. q , C9 t6 j9 d" GAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ; L* A( v2 c5 p1 A+ d3 w1 P
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 7 r# s& d' |( G. _0 l : B& W* d$ ?) W _! i) L, jThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 9 x. a2 C0 }! C" w" d
# X- e2 b5 W7 rBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 4 f* i# [! R8 D7 l9 a0 X5 e
; q5 W/ ]2 Q% ]& @1 z7 d1 sIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. + L3 c' m( |; F/ U S1 N% I: O
# z2 Z2 h+ p" B, {3 e8 L K"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 1 f) V! ~5 K! f% p / U% d: p Z9 z9 u# f- M"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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