英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。/ T F1 E8 e8 }) ^8 e- \* k+ O" E; a
- o' |, O: C8 n9 N4 K据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。5 V6 @8 t& G" N6 A; H9 O
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。 * l! }* B3 o6 w' @# s, ~" ?: f5 o- g3 O T8 J2 u
根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。 1 y* U& f% m2 Y8 G9 ?% h9 Z: ~* X/ n' V* \
研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。" S3 n6 G# c$ S% }
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' " k8 _4 _3 t5 k. V* Y6 |& V* a- x2 l: X, E% J! S
High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ( c- g: ^5 P3 u6 S' F, QPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. & k8 y) O, P* O) ?& E) ^5 T3 _ 1 y$ \6 V2 j( Q; D' t3 lBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 9 g ^; m& r9 n5 {+ O! C* k9 m3 h7 u: ~% F' {4 h3 k. L c
The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 8 v8 H- t: N9 o! P/ R2 t# q. g: e" X1 n5 t' F z+ _
Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ( M- L: e9 W9 m0 N. X0 p6 S' c! k/ l6 S$ u% }. O5 E6 s
"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ( R6 F9 T3 _- O& w: y/ O0 \ 0 I1 b) v" H; T5 K: z"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ' {: {. u S3 D! N1 D: s/ G
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. $ N+ ]2 R: A& C6 _; Q* }3 C: @. k1 j0 ^
Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 8 s$ f- K( ~- s7 u R- {' d# R* c5 j. r2 B$ u' v+ W
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- p$ X3 p9 z7 N/ V% kAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ) p3 D; X! J$ A* r( r5 q 3 L. j+ p2 D% M) G$ s/ }; ~The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 6 N- A8 ]0 M6 n" x% h" M: Z8 F
. m/ C! N' R, gThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ' X3 `& U: B: Y5 o
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 6 D% I1 p9 |2 {6 f9 B+ K+ t8 q& V& q4 a9 q) {# | i
Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 6 k7 {) i# ~6 \9 X
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ; J s. \: H1 \% d: I- R& N/ j% G/ S( q2 ~( z& q5 P3 h$ j
"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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