英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。 . E! H6 a1 F J 1 s# b9 S3 Y% T- u5 ^据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。 * B5 J* Z7 F1 A# ` b# h2 t8 | ; T }( K6 K2 y6 n# {/ g: K研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。 + a2 \" Z8 J. ]/ @ - ?# m3 w9 k4 K3 z) ?根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。5 {1 ^0 R6 N3 {5 s
3 l1 t: J! A5 h$ F7 e研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。. E5 J$ {6 \" J9 `! T
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2 V" u- L$ D0 DHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 6 G& g3 T! C, h2 PPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 6 b# r1 S0 \2 N3 J8 R5 h1 Y e : W) f. A8 p, K4 M$ X; G0 l9 q2 lBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 3 M$ m& [& {/ b1 f3 G: D# y9 P# W- K( {5 N+ d
The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. / V( A( E8 N- C
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". : C$ s" `% v* Z
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 3 S! d0 x5 c, E
/ K5 ?5 M3 f2 f"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 1 e4 w0 P1 G5 H 3 j2 a5 D% g2 p* D5 Z, @Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 9 ]6 [- H4 m* O6 L1 P4 ^
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ' m, X; c6 G& Q# D) f, |: ^. d) @- ]
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0 C4 |) P% i& u+ h! Y2 ]1 xAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. . ^7 |4 M# b$ W# |" h/ I; Z/ G8 L5 z. b5 I2 _
The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ' p( u: C0 e( q3 I, [
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. . P! c7 ?, s- f) U
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 8 e$ I, W) f' V$ _
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. - \6 U* @0 U h3 e9 H3 e( X2 ?
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. $ M5 g9 v+ k$ o1 g R ) i( m2 I( y i7 Q" y! ~ h"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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