英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。 7 I q% B$ v4 x" ?% e5 h; Y % Q( X% B. R0 S/ P. B* V据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。 4 U7 Q5 ~! A, V3 \/ E1 z" x: }( E; A6 ]3 T# O$ m
研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。9 R9 E1 Q, R( k) `# t- M6 M
1 Z9 Q9 N- p' } g6 i6 }1 @8 d$ W根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。 1 j" Q& w3 _6 E( n5 O& g( c% f }( E i/ A9 H
研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。 . c- ]9 d5 w/ E- ~: k) R; B( S* t/ L4 n( [
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ( n2 W# r/ H/ i; Z( M0 WPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ! P8 ?1 ? g: c& y( Y
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. " L G' ~: V5 l$ J# U% ^
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ! n8 R. d" X' h9 X ( |4 j+ d$ Z2 S5 Z* E" m, [Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". - A1 d% _3 v& @: s# s: p7 J5 m" _1 v$ X
"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 5 I6 X+ P( ]1 X. A" I1 T $ d( Q* }3 h7 K' M"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." : C- }& V. H5 `, w3 j: F6 s
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. " D0 Y% B [4 |7 l0 R# l. a
2 Q" n( B! C! \Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 9 k/ Q& X9 V2 j i3 n | 4 A( e6 b% _( G" G4 }3 zProfession 6 T: H- k6 k( ? " @# G" O4 \5 E0 ~8 I& d# \ H; fAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 0 K! o+ ~; `; Z6 w; }
! y* D2 n" m2 j+ ~4 CThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 2 V8 B0 A r; K9 u8 C7 G+ B
# j, x) G' B; V2 u5 M. J$ \0 gThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. + J, D Q; B$ |8 L4 G 4 T9 h4 n! b2 p o& oBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ' T" [8 q0 _4 N& o! ^5 t- ?& n4 f& p* b7 `6 z0 P/ t, z
Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 3 u: K* O$ ]) |0 |# y! w" u
' k( M- d6 V& a' w# e9 Y( T"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 7 U$ n% |' u5 G' J; h $ r% s# T0 k7 r' @. d"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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