英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。) G3 ^- ]6 s( t2 p
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。4 v/ N. ~$ H6 S0 e
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。 ' ?3 s) y: e* }( h/ ?& M" x : d4 @! y. i8 v根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。 5 E' j/ W1 L+ Z: D$ N" }' |$ ~9 f2 O+ i
研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。 - R C. l+ K' o" h% z& p6 s - c1 J( N& q$ ?; H3 P% V' i+ _" @- a) dWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' # R& q* p3 o- z4 h1 ^8 X( @
! `% R8 U, l3 a# g. ^: P( ^High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. & A8 S# I8 i$ J6 J7 uPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 9 @, q4 \- L6 y. j5 f. K; f7 I 2 \* Q( t) u0 k( }. H7 rBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. % n, [0 Q: E+ `1 `7 {9 o; t
. D; K# P' l+ p, G9 @# x+ O- VThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. , Q T+ D, h- [( A
! \/ F1 x/ F9 B4 A2 I; P6 CLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ( b& V9 g. W8 [8 m5 a$ |; q* Q- \
"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 3 P6 p- `/ j8 ~' Z0 ~ g& }2 w \' M0 [1 s; _: ]"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 4 e# C4 g9 Z) I& n7 p, G# ?$ _ 2 C! w* A4 \3 f0 _! E; VUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. * ?+ I! A0 h8 ?" o5 g8 L+ {/ X. G( T* s! F7 d( U/ }
Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. % g9 R$ c& C! o8 c% g' `
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ) e) G$ F7 P' F! H0 }8 z. j
+ [0 q8 k# } D5 u' j1 `) Z$ v8 }; n7 aThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. + Z& } q2 ]7 P
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. - u6 q6 {3 V9 K+ s) ~0 [; p% D p) [1 m. m( z. ]
But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 5 W0 a$ _; {% |( Y( [ # i x! n% c1 E& d3 O4 yIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. . g5 v8 N* [7 o
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. " R+ y0 E6 [9 I4 g7 b
8 k& T. O5 C- ^"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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