英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。 ; ]; u+ k$ i4 F* N# P% r- L# b, T; L0 t
据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。4 u- [( k5 c s! Q+ |4 _& h
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。. H0 q1 h3 y/ M* r9 a
) I; v$ e' Z% ]根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。 3 \4 V$ K0 R8 I, Z! l ; [) n3 ^, w4 ?; p. N0 C; v研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。 1 b6 K$ U( Q, H* V3 G. f: F 7 Z) h5 z" [2 m5 GWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' ; |) q. j7 w! Y, k* l# }6 J: N% r0 W1 v0 D, ~# F- g
High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. " \ T. \ W7 Y$ [- QPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 7 t% x3 X5 s) ` M) m' i' g/ q( V# o7 h- }
But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 4 @! c7 R. q" v. L1 j : e0 T/ d; \3 z- J( VThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. " m' y% `" Q/ W/ r" {
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". % R4 J6 ?2 z1 `: e. {% J
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 2 _# {4 b. P# k1 ]2 n% S' _! D* h4 B. \
"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 9 R$ _! h$ \9 }, m . {# C6 O* D7 Z3 @4 P- X, |Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. * y! T0 T: U+ X# T R- ?; A* e& B
- v2 M2 }$ G: W5 S$ n3 T# FSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. . _$ X( U# O5 d- h4 s " e' e7 a$ }! E! X8 _1 h. R. S1 W$ LProfession 7 V) m" Z0 ` Z9 T( c6 c5 g7 f
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. % L; t0 Z0 O' _9 c# |! N+ J( ~: M; Q$ ?
The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. $ J9 ]" Y0 f$ d5 _) ]( o
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 3 w( h0 I6 l& C# j! h! { & m6 V( j% ^, k" P w$ e P% wBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. & o1 ^4 D7 d% t2 E: ]9 d9 F
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ^) F3 w/ F$ g; w6 }; p
# O8 O8 Z% ] U/ p- ~, d) B"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 8 T1 z5 g, [+ d7 Y, m4 M( t9 E
1 S# P- w! k$ J7 q, E0 V"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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