英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。 ' B; y+ R6 ^" L: C" s0 w: e N & ~6 P* f' T$ d* d/ x2 H/ R据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。 & p, [1 T( N! q6 ` : S( u" v& i, D$ S2 c0 o研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。 . u. {" a# X9 {! x+ d- H" n+ }7 J5 v- ]0 f
根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。 8 }5 V4 i+ \1 g& ~! o4 O/ ^2 K# P* b0 }6 K; c6 }9 q! w
研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。# z @ q3 _2 s2 k. r
2 d1 S2 p" Y8 J+ [# J4 y( L% yWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' " C1 q# |, Q$ t6 C: B3 g& a
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ' P% K+ ~& z& b$ i7 S) u5 GPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 9 k) I ?9 s9 S3 R
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. & C3 O$ j* |" Q* K
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. $ P S# y: C" _, D3 Y
3 [( Z& O# h1 \. t+ f0 wLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". + Q1 ?/ Y" J" G6 Q) ^ s: ^ 7 C1 k/ [& q6 b# @) T. x8 M- n"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. : o$ D9 V! p, P' i2 x: K) l6 j3 p) d
! j: X7 C6 D7 S6 Q1 H" o9 t7 r+ @"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 3 J. m" N0 Q/ N5 ~. Z' g1 a' Z
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. $ s8 X2 r) Q' ~/ `( L
+ W. B7 B }6 ?" G6 \- ASix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 7 A! H6 V' ^ R& Q$ o. | ( g U6 d8 d s# @! I4 T8 a' qProfession 4 S5 b' C/ K9 w1 y% q/ [% G& c4 M
$ X* d {, A0 c/ BAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. * z7 J o. l. v, A% X2 a; n( } " g% n( a2 [! g( A( }The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 1 J U$ Q4 f/ |- K( W
% y3 C( b& d4 f* v( K7 c G6 R+ M9 QThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. T, p6 _- |. v% s% J, V, p: o. Q ; M+ {* b( Q. C m* p' D: iBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 9 ]; n& [! i7 ?7 x- |) B& O 3 g9 t6 \9 ` Q; _; e. y4 D2 Q, |- a- mIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 8 }1 L) J/ W0 ^% S# J' d
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. % Z5 z9 b% U% \/ F3 h+ Y; `4 f / V U2 L6 I- ?& W9 q) W"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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