英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。 1 K$ J( [' R9 c1 ], l8 v( k8 ]' d; r9 Z( N' v
据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。 8 P; v/ \+ R& H4 t 7 |6 d0 @! j+ v8 F研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。: N! J% b* W9 {9 ?2 @' J, V
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。 : z# Y% y( _ W! `0 ~# F+ f4 ]# ~# x4 _5 D
研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。* h" Q! m9 n- g" |4 t( v! B9 `
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' # e( O5 n+ B" m) F# B2 s
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 4 @9 A: b! @* t$ f0 i! Y
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. * ~5 t5 K$ p( Q8 V
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 5 @( h, y8 l: }$ Y: K
, S& p+ v% P v1 K7 QLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". L/ i2 ^" `+ |4 t! \( T
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ; ]1 ?' e+ H" E" S& u' ]4 p/ P8 G& A# Q8 |
"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." : g/ R1 d7 h* ` o3 z
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 4 y$ r1 O: @! N% W2 B - r( ~2 e% K# {; d# S9 {4 I2 ~' nSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 4 u& P: w/ g! D8 z% j
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. & w. h v5 f# b) f7 U9 B; U' H; `" M1 q( R2 R M. W9 S8 X5 {
The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 5 n! |6 }" U9 ?) t- B! `
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ( O. Q- Q8 ^8 ^2 v8 h2 ~0 \9 ~+ X& x$ J# E9 I8 Y
But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 5 r S9 i" V$ o( P% u! C! a ( J% s; h8 `3 ^+ ~, v( oIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. * H: r# n0 ~3 g9 j" X' p$ p * z6 g1 b& G/ W"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 2 @7 U" i1 X0 e0 `( K+ x; K$ ~8 j8 [8 j7 Y
"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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