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标题: [国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱 [打印本页]

作者: 日月光    时间: 2007-2-10 12:40     标题: 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。4 t7 C  m' T& P1 E

. H+ y0 a1 _3 v6 L据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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- g4 n9 Q3 h% w研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。) j$ n9 g7 n& s2 J- H9 s

# q& y% u9 _! C! z根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。! \( a- B+ M; e+ g3 I. s6 Z
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研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。

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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 6 c: @# f0 ~( Q0 w! n  ^6 R
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
+ R8 K3 c. |5 i. I5 \; b' m6 T; UPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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5 p- I% l; J5 H; k  yBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 8 X  h6 s  O1 |+ M; E  }

( K0 B6 |  x0 CThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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7 ~% V% v! Y% @* K4 hLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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2 C' e1 A4 @) W, K: nSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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5 f7 a# V  x5 c) cAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 2 s& A, E/ y$ R4 s6 u4 ]& p
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ( H& S% `' P; L* A3 L; o2 ^

7 @- c5 S8 ?- K4 Q$ W( tBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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% H* `. V8 T9 j& i1 dIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 5 I2 K! v- U9 a# S1 P! N2 z
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. & T! D( V& {7 z- W9 ]

2 }4 s# W6 ]3 v$ \# N"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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