英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。 5 Z- p4 H! z) G* }# o; v! }+ H * D" B" Y7 t9 u3 t' P; Z据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。* ?. J/ ]( B6 h) K
, A& \2 F5 a9 Z: c8 Z8 i4 u5 P& d研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。 9 Z) b$ z, y. i, k! S: Q6 `* K/ I4 S A6 E# F1 Q
根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。 $ [2 f* U) _( t* S* T3 \ " g) D( H( M7 p) m+ m5 Q研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。 0 g. e& Q! |, v2 ^" t3 s& T! x# U# P3 H5 }+ ~
Why women fall for 'Mr Average' % `# [( J! X5 I0 y + r6 }1 Q+ D& O# U/ t9 X% z! C6 sHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 6 f5 M# N. Z! @( L1 E
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ! i0 \: e4 Q3 Z9 g$ L( g& A: G / g- U- _; |! c/ FBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 3 M3 Y0 V6 n- g' z$ A/ t' z3 J& t' X6 O
The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. , u( ^- l$ h% q5 F7 f+ U! B; w3 u' D C3 E6 {
Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". " c- Z/ E; Z! h
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ) X" V5 D( y# w1 k3 @9 H6 e" b
8 X7 h I$ N8 A/ ~* U, n"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 7 c% \/ E8 ] `; ]! ^ . O) }) P1 j2 g, r% uUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 0 |3 g9 S- K7 R9 h, e% d! X+ G/ s: l5 y9 v. ?
Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. - k9 U% l; r) J: X- S% V5 b5 S+ p( r ' D4 t# s- z# t1 B- kProfession - N! h; k$ @1 I
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. " U/ i" c5 p2 [! }% x+ f# ?
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. # D/ D- ~8 j. d, I4 g7 E 2 @+ I1 a$ D8 q; `The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. " N( y" t$ b! ]$ {' y A' F 5 m( [/ N/ [9 b* kBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 5 g& X" S) W8 }, |( }
8 Q1 x; `6 q) S$ i- I) L# m: HIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. . b& E* W* ?* `5 m% r9 `# Z: Y& J! a1 N/ y( r2 w
"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. $ [& ]; ]' t) c* y+ p" p( c, w% N( p6 Y" A
"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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