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标题: [国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱 [打印本页]

作者: 日月光    时间: 2007-2-10 12:40     标题: 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。, @/ ?' V! I  N$ n' p7 D3 L. }. l
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据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。8 d; I0 u4 M! Y! R% z* e( K% p
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。. F3 J4 O- [; G+ x

3 [4 _+ b" Q# X研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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$ g1 n. G6 \5 w/ ]Why women fall for 'Mr Average' / M, c$ s4 ~( v
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. % \  k7 R3 d" Y! x; w) s
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. * F0 N- b, {. \( y4 p( A

) p. p  T7 M/ `. ]But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. - y8 }8 p7 l; |# h$ E5 s
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".   C, m* X/ t* k* o

7 S/ L: L. H! z5 J"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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3 I" T1 h4 h4 K" C) E9 R"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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# h# ?$ O5 x: \3 C4 k2 n; y2 `( MUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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- V5 t6 Y$ K: Y6 C1 x, c. vSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. % `7 [/ u. J2 M  A5 S9 x7 v3 |4 d
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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, f$ E9 C1 k, Q7 v! AThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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3 M* Z9 d' [# m4 _, q' QBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ( i! I/ ]* N2 |/ |5 j" r
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ) q' J, x& S# c$ p- ]

. c+ l- S: P& b/ h. q# g* d4 ^"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. " T: V2 m: f, P2 U" M5 y; `' X
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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