英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。! G, W7 J/ m7 D2 N$ W- @
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。 ( d. A1 b: P0 u2 x# W( Z$ p0 L5 ]; f) L" v5 A% x. l; o7 ~
研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。 ( l$ h5 X' l' l, t" X; [; d 1 L. j6 {7 h; k7 M+ c/ Y根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。 0 B$ B+ L" _. s1 N" q) v; G4 U7 F$ B
研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。! Y1 C @! ^2 ^) T6 ]0 [/ {* ^
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 3 i, x5 F$ J# [+ y1 C 9 t* H- S5 O' G D r1 T5 AHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 2 ?. o) [6 t( y5 }+ QPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. % X) q5 E3 x0 A3 L1 I$ @. T4 z
& j( \6 o& h& _. @But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 4 _% H( W' m1 P7 j8 l: r, I( \* C) V% N8 G
The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ) B& i: U- F8 z9 j$ J/ c- x6 n: S0 y9 i2 N5 V4 e& v
Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 7 }7 e3 M/ e# m1 g2 c
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ) \$ z/ g: Y# m8 T* a
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 7 |* B8 b# _1 x0 Q( I; C
1 g" v3 \# b0 g" N. V) sUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 8 S( P$ z1 S8 q$ n
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. $ f9 s5 n+ |7 i* x& W3 n4 _ ?
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 8 h' ~8 w2 W5 K9 k& X 9 \, ~* N2 e3 BThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 7 G4 d! [- ?4 Z4 j1 j& Q4 w5 d ( U/ d/ G1 ?- KThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ! S# a- l; l& {0 [. Q6 @ / @, H0 |% Z+ GBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ( P9 }! H& |+ m' ], ]3 d" ~
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ( Y' }! Q+ [6 D* V8 c$ {
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 5 _8 A" a! C7 R) ]5 \7 C
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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