英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。 ; L B3 E6 n' E( t* q- t ( p( U0 [/ a1 T$ U6 a3 L据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。8 W: h J9 k& K# \' b3 v$ z
; m- I. g2 v u5 v& r0 R, O& \# S研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。 ' f" R6 t+ M# B; l2 N ; [; [* y* {& L n) t9 b" p; }根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。 8 Z- L& M+ u" e4 K8 J1 U, K# [' S$ f$ `2 u% Q
研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。 + R2 ?2 o# |/ _7 H 1 x0 J3 q5 B9 S* }Why women fall for 'Mr Average' % @) M0 Q0 V J; v ) N" V0 U y4 RHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 1 q( O: i* F* mPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. , c! s5 R& k5 e& @. f7 e* w' l7 V
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 8 y" ]5 y) A% G; B' V4 ?- E/ Y7 y8 c' T
The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 5 C. S# h6 F# E0 b5 q7 ]3 i : f: A% P3 m, L& |/ W8 @Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 7 z8 D/ r5 X1 b: N; y; H. ~) Z, r( L. W% M2 l9 s5 N
"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. , j4 l P! a6 e( o: E* N
! X$ O# \/ S6 d( B" V"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." , }7 y7 `, x1 B6 ~
1 V- q& f) a+ p+ @0 ?- h3 T2 pUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. $ G @) c0 t# Z v- k( {9 v' |. d- l
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 1 v' A" Y' v' d; A, i5 D3 B8 V, W2 ]5 H' v1 `1 O
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ! V1 _0 q5 e7 S- s ~
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ( v; D1 e) Y' a" H9 R ) O( i2 x6 A# W; L1 r, A5 d/ q. zIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 8 P1 j6 K% g: |+ y/ g) D4 B6 z y8 z9 l% {$ _ C5 I
"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 6 f; o/ ]8 @; p2 s4 [2 c% ~/ j1 {9 [' o K8 H) x0 V# e9 t3 y
"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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