英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。2 Y" y. _' Q3 j* q( `% @. f7 X$ m
& W" H5 y# }6 t据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。( H3 Q8 G8 B7 Y3 u
' r5 S& t0 Q9 J$ t研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。! m) e4 q6 ]& p; L: K* s) ^
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。; B- J, E4 P/ K
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。/ L. z: W, {" C
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' $ L1 {& O3 T& J A$ Z( T 5 W* Q0 }% R0 x# V! I g& fHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ; ]$ Z5 _, O* }Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 8 M6 b" y, E! c) [" ~( O
; c4 Y# l' Y% E. S$ hBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 6 L) k0 _' S. T6 v- W) N! ^( s; ?2 E I8 x" E
The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ' \) h; o8 n) F, k
0 S7 o" N3 F2 nLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 4 N" w$ i5 O" |+ [2 p+ ~" d) v5 W6 N7 J% L. R
"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ) m. w. H" H; [0 |# Y+ V( U# Y7 B1 Q% f
"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." . [8 t! r5 j( ^# f: Y/ p: @ $ J+ L5 [+ i# lUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. . h" V6 X* E9 {
* e, B0 i/ a2 v. l; i# D! WSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 4 o0 _) S' n. |5 J2 |3 @. i" U) M2 g( \
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7 L' o6 G4 m0 e U( oAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 0 H3 K3 @4 i# j1 @+ C/ }3 @* Y
6 n$ w- `! ~( A- Z' F% I. SThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. N" {' h/ N4 {" M- |1 l* X6 }' A$ S. z, g6 G- ~. ~5 B9 s
The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. $ o7 [4 ^; u" \0 I. `/ S& y5 ~/ \5 j; b7 j1 j( O
But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 3 w2 c' o1 M6 w0 x8 [7 v( h: \$ u
Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. # k3 _' i b2 m* d9 g1 k2 ~. H f' J6 V5 z I( D5 o"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ! O- j9 K6 w% D- F2 k0 O5 d+ R8 y2 V
"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."
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