[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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' z7 |& ?- z5 y/ ^7 w据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) ]' N7 K9 d% i. E) l
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区8 a0 h6 Y$ }; V- T, t2 K

6 C; m" u  Q/ o! U1 w研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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% Z# R, O) T2 X( _: S4 C. C  pHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区. Z- V" u! W- H# o: Q- |; k$ J8 k
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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+ I, d+ N- D* u$ V1 h* m人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de# R( E# r0 ?1 N$ R) j8 C. K) B
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ; [4 R( b: o  T+ J9 \
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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5 @$ C* Z7 ]! f$ V/ J+ D" t人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区9 I* P, s3 o- G% x$ K; D
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." + W5 R- k+ p* L$ w' I' Y
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 9 m' c1 _/ [2 y( }9 \- H

5 _; ^; F- g  w. USix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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4 ^8 C* q- t$ s9 kThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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2 x8 Y: A2 Z& ?. M$ X  n8 K0 q0 {' E' bThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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5 Z1 Z" @$ D7 I2 {8 `But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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. t& c# e4 w; \' K) C7 q0 E  bIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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$ s' u8 g. M1 a& d  U2 }"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 6 p* [- h7 ^4 }& w# q

# T4 u" B& N1 ^1 i"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."