[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。( g+ _& G6 N4 p0 O7 B! k: {

! h* `  F# _3 Q+ Y' [据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。( q/ L" ?  M; N, h9 ^3 {9 `
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。- P8 R  @( Z" p8 a% v/ s5 y

  i9 n: B7 {  n. X1 ]  d2 W' G根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* m' i  k* I* s+ N) B: A

* g' m/ X5 l9 ]8 j  ~0 [人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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; @8 d9 M+ x: O1 r- I. crs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
! C  q: f5 B" `3 c3 \0 O2 p) S( ]; H0 ]Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. : y6 u, S; J& h1 Y

4 A# k; ^1 {) b7 w1 Q/ H6 F2 cBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 3 e; k# f5 B. r6 z$ `; P
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 2 G: C7 _0 J) y  W' b# s- Y

1 W/ @; k2 n  ~" ~Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". / M: i5 [1 l5 e& m5 Y# H" D# L

  Z9 c3 p: R/ ~: x) `"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, z9 w5 s0 \3 M- R
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."   b0 \: N; \+ v# _) V/ X3 ]
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de# J$ C; a* t0 U9 M! T# t

& r- Y2 D/ U1 W  e9 |2 k2 P3 d人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 4 _- C6 P7 ~3 P$ J
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& |  n) a' u* P. M) ]) nAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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( i  z, H. n+ G2 k人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ' {$ X- C9 M- B0 @$ g

9 f' b( S  X( e. R  S' N$ f/ Ars238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. # m. ^' k+ k6 d' L& H

) C- i5 t+ [# }( h# q+ ^" |3 j, u( pIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 0 M% K4 n, y! i. O: y) w  Y( _

/ n6 ]) [+ n- I人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."