[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。5 A3 e! Q% v# _

: i$ P  U- W; Z0 ]rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。0 D& X# E$ z0 }9 X' E
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ v) X3 T0 ^/ |2 z

+ ]$ I& |) y6 f( Y3 I$ e% ?+ `7 z研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。4 P( j; _7 a+ Y0 P) p: b
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' / C+ P8 j0 `/ C: |/ e2 z4 x
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
* C' x; `$ `3 a3 b! s! MPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ) i" ]5 Q  E; c( W
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 D# C, Z! v8 K0 J

  D* m& E& s& _* j9 M9 j" T% brs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 0 F0 x& V& v) P* D, g. \! [  p) G

# @7 _( A4 S* u: o* [( N/ S+ u" FLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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0 U- a6 H) |( V7 f! Z3 T, JUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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* A5 T# q$ H  K% cSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区8 L" I) E5 g+ l4 M# P: g

1 w. N  V0 P3 n人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区% Z# q% l& E$ M/ e: H. ?

- B1 u! s4 ]( s8 {2 R2 n0 mThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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; V1 p& Q0 f9 Q$ g"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."