[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 \+ r. G" {  S& P/ |
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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# J& @+ t1 J# C1 n研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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1 ]9 X, h% A- P- b% `& V2 w9 D研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ N: l1 E6 p# Q- Z$ R" F5 P

* Q% G7 u& W/ L  D" p  ^! g人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ! x& j1 t! ^6 c5 V; a9 y9 y
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区+ S2 j/ u5 o( i" r6 K! k0 `$ g. h
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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. }9 o: q/ J; N3 OLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 4 b' H" {* \2 V0 U' {
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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7 L. X$ u. v$ g! C- ?"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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0 M" u' b2 r4 s9 ^6 x+ k5 H3 {0 u/ ~Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区9 O9 ?- P6 j$ h0 I) M( ?! f
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. & l3 H/ Q9 Q, r" q

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+ S: b: x( m0 C3 h1 p  B# YAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 3 p  c) e! d* O) z# B" `! t
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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8 W( d! L' P& W' j: E/ J/ n: X3 E# Jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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% W1 \( X7 \  Y. j+ mBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. & t0 g( n. I8 g5 B. u

. B. `, d2 v" S% @9 yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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  F6 b* b$ n5 C6 X2 f* P6 N- S+ trs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, x, L! Y2 ]8 u
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."