[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。$ O8 i+ w0 C$ J. X

+ R( f& k$ B, ~7 `4 r  L0 ~5 \  S$ k据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 W) _; Z8 U9 H3 e. g$ t
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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& w; K8 ?# |9 m# N+ T. Z+ E% X3 Y: Z. `根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ w8 x' z+ f8 Z

) w) j; X( {' g/ O- n: @* D( h9 G人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ K9 `! F; I- F1 {

5 A* |8 ]" H% D  F* brs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 2 m2 R8 y: L" q$ o# y8 c& L" D

# L* o) i, d4 _" M; A) e: GHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
2 x) \2 K' W' W, T6 X9 g7 IPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. # X1 h3 r. }" R# N& p( c9 H0 _

6 z( K, s$ Y0 u5 m3 n, @9 j/ Urs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. % k8 h. N7 F2 h- `  O" v
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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8 y  W" W7 I7 j"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- l+ [4 J9 }0 i: n  ]# ]
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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% _! P# J8 s# {Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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, {5 ?$ H  X# e5 ^# Y1 U* YThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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" d6 E6 r' G3 M# s3 g$ FThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.   Q5 p! Z  h! E6 e9 H
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. . n; G! }) E3 c/ `2 ^

2 J& {6 \9 L! p人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. # l- j% ^4 P. w* K! F8 \$ j2 o
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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) |% L) i' }2 a8 v. v, B人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."