[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

日月光

英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de# J4 e7 p: S$ o9 }
rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( {2 C( \6 k# Y. g2 R9 ~
据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区6 V' n: r; H% b

- h' x  W3 _; q; F研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区3 ~/ `$ u8 ^6 r
1 W0 G# u# K  Y8 s/ ^
根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& G$ [) |1 r8 G: ?. P7 U4 n; Q
rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 a( o. M3 W( a* |' w6 M
研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。+ Q& r1 l) n7 J/ G; q3 H* d' n7 Y
7 C8 H8 {9 `; F7 l% V7 \
Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ' W% \& P. ?* R% I  j: L  M

* u! k3 E: E# b$ R9 qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 1 ?" m, J5 p. A3 ?
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
" O; i; L. {' t! o) |5 C
$ z) m6 n' j# z+ D) [6 I9 D/ mBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
- P7 `& _+ ?7 W$ Q: H& N/ p7 @
, u4 h8 K7 |! W9 u/ w: `' }! v' [rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
  j8 a* y6 j' K- `& V0 p' h; M" d3 M, X  G7 Y
Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ; d9 i1 F6 ?! w0 ~

' ~  T% o! v+ m0 f- _"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. % g0 Q7 i& ?- k
  k/ a% q6 `7 {6 B
"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." & o. P) s' ?: ?& ]: I( ?2 S2 E0 t

. L* l% {0 Q$ ~) S& h3 ?& m人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 k& g3 }" G/ n" Y; P

# e( E' v' r/ f& U3 k) ZSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区5 \3 k5 I% q4 R3 M
1 a; w$ k5 k) ^7 M+ _' z8 h# m- O
Profession / G, j6 ]8 @' s9 k0 ^
. s% H: z9 s) K9 D
Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ( N0 U5 f3 \$ v

% {: s9 m7 F7 eThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
8 {. W* g6 o/ D2 W3 I% a, U, `) f( X+ G$ E! r' K% [
The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 9 Q1 h& e' Q8 S
' d! X( K) k  f8 v) G
But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 2 c! u& b: P6 h7 X
! a% `# N7 _2 \; r9 d) j
Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
7 _& O* @5 _1 X. z4 Y8 [$ Y% Trs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. B# c) Y9 V  y( C0 g
"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 S1 i. J1 b& a+ G/ \# Q  i

% a6 i8 n9 K" k" b) G+ ~2 D* `rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."