[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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* c! n' ]2 G3 Y& d; n( @' T研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。: W9 Y+ w3 e; a9 U. O

8 l4 p' B3 D6 B- }研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ ?+ S1 G3 e" c8 u# [" L5 e6 E- t
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'   c) E. M4 s* |7 [

# Y) m4 V; K" _9 ?+ yHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. " J" f# Q0 B+ [  ^
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. # |: B; }% r. @+ v2 @1 y1 @
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ( e6 G) P0 P5 K  T# o2 B; v' D
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; @4 `" D6 k) b
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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3 A% z* ~/ m4 h5 NSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区2 Y1 ?. Y# h3 j; W
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' x5 i+ D6 v5 C# U3 \  v# F% y

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' x; k9 j8 I1 q8 @3 h! g9 vThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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0 ~9 k: t: o2 @- s& R6 W. _But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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. `8 [2 K; J0 V, o" {7 EIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. + r1 H* z$ L, N) o0 r+ m, ]2 t$ @# I

7 Y! \4 j* B& a% P: E0 F, H0 Q' x; W+ l"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."