[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。7 F! \6 O7 T, |% i3 f4 f: \

3 J4 S# ?: ~: _/ f人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。* q) Q3 D' J( y
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' M9 l" @" z- O5 c6 B* V

; G: Q# t" L7 G8 X; [$ k3 ]4 wWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
2 t& ]. b! b/ N+ Z4 N( t人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. / H( L7 n0 ?9 n

* o/ i& e! b: m2 x, q9 P人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". + L/ s9 j6 Y) `7 `% i0 U! \; V- H% e

9 I+ W+ e* t) B$ D9 T! r5 n' y9 [rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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/ B# C9 H1 U, s' i# H8 L  N/ h"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 9 N( [) R6 B  L+ v/ z7 _

5 n" f* u, F, [6 b( ^人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区: P: z$ o# H' E. A) f# h

7 t/ ^0 x2 `4 A' S1 vSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 1 S  I: h* r- H

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+ x$ N- l/ Z* p* c2 k' PAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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7 w7 A8 {1 @+ O3 }3 LThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. . K- ^; ?0 ^) Y. h" k+ r' k

- I/ {$ Q$ [" I6 l( l8 K9 Z: T人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 0 O5 N8 |& _7 l7 \" V) D, Q2 |
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. * W% C/ ?/ R* w4 K/ N

$ H# l' ]3 S# f, T- ]7 _3 O"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."