[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。3 q8 k% F+ V# {7 R! v/ s

% X5 K: A; r- C5 q$ o. j9 x8 C据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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$ F5 l3 P7 G5 L. W& E6 Grs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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' h; e' F1 H% v6 H. U* w人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。! k- M0 n* M4 v) e2 e

: e, K+ _9 C8 ?+ M5 ?Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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# P2 U3 E# @. n% D0 d% o人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 ?- ], ^- \" [+ L
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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' ]. f) N& ^; @" W2 [( M人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. : i. Z7 w: L  ?9 }4 \

; \! l" Z6 c. f( \+ eLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 8 J& L+ h+ H  E4 n9 g7 r) }- X3 E
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ) u% c# o  ?& y. u: E- q

$ Q/ h& X! B( U+ b5 U  q$ [人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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# J. g1 Q/ f" zAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 Z9 H, O$ b& i, x

) t* T! s9 z, o" }) o8 vBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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4 z1 g; n/ O5 g7 Y! Q5 VIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. # L1 w2 `" `0 A. {! n  q
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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% [3 N$ V% c7 @7 v* R: D# |/ R"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."