[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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% P) O3 U% h1 i7 J, Y! ~研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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# \. @9 \5 S) A- W2 |; D/ b根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。, m' m& u1 Z: _0 i1 I! y
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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* [& e3 I% p4 z/ m, OHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
1 a+ j1 w" T0 d: n; y- M* o( P人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 0 o+ }& f9 q. ~3 o) I" ?4 _
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 X9 d8 n; J4 ]9 J: P' r  E

# l6 d5 l5 ~$ f; }8 RLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. / u2 e) O* E3 s$ K
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. + \) c: A# D/ ^. f7 K

1 M: ^/ f8 n$ p  ySix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 2 [' E" `( H0 ^  p: n2 Q# }  G

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区  L4 c- r: T; n9 `6 g$ @7 c( s

. _, X" q% Z8 v* J2 dThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. : D4 g6 g7 q7 ?7 w9 q: S
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 4 {+ d, M, I0 W( ^
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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" Z) G  i5 l- a# Z1 W"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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2 C% U0 T) V; j人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."