[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。0 K  o. W9 S, L

0 |5 x: }9 b, k( Z  m3 X' Z. R. e, Crs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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( [, E7 H* t: i/ s! c$ S4 s8 j0 y- W研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。$ S0 U# n! f$ `7 F, x$ B
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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8 \) H" q5 a: o! U" u* R4 y! E研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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2 ]9 T. Z. W9 o4 e, m6 GWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
! y" W/ b: y$ d" CPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区0 T2 h& X7 Z4 \
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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2 h: h: w; _" {1 u7 g0 z6 EUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. : `% d7 O7 T% M

8 m0 E/ }1 b2 D$ ?8 ?1 `0 Frs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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7 S7 m: d. s2 QAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 V" r4 k" m4 H5 n
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ( ~/ a+ q( @9 U" u$ ~
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ( ~, l- a( y. U* ^0 d" z4 f+ ?
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* v. ~3 w6 Y$ P

0 [2 V( `9 s- a8 x) I. U1 w"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."