[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& A* J, ]- D* O. f" a  q; X
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。+ u* B+ P3 Q% \2 i
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。( t7 T8 X/ M# N9 J# w; z6 w
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。' F1 W  P" O3 }6 V: h: x% A- v

* }8 {) I; ]3 ]) Y6 e' `研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。5 l: v- P' V3 B& Y: B+ P; e. T$ t' S
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8 i' B" q, f4 F3 l: _9 P; ~3 s人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区( h6 i2 O- l+ ^+ E1 Z( Z" m
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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8 A" X8 G# D  L. oBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.   X5 t9 |! F, H5 g# g9 P+ H
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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! p, M+ d9 x7 U9 _! `2 nLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 6 r. t/ U* b0 U9 k" r& N8 x

' n& B+ B1 ^- x$ w# a' m' w$ H"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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, L$ Y# p4 ]8 |( j2 ?; n"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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# t9 y# u% u3 o- s' fSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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+ a; m) f9 z" @1 _/ Wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ) R0 ^9 q9 e" b& Q7 F3 o. O
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ! {" o  [( }4 r3 W7 L: K8 D' m! P

! m+ o; `) V* [% q' g8 BBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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5 D7 y* z7 u5 H1 [Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 3 l1 E; {8 Z% N( g5 d
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. - M" [: c/ n8 }; z! r) b
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."