[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。' m- H  s: z. N  x

$ Z! G0 k. P' r: N( E+ q1 y4 r0 crs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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8 ^$ o/ ~1 o3 e$ E, n. J* e: W研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区% x# ]! y- S' N. o/ a  a& Q
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 0 `9 K6 `) V+ v1 Q- v
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ Y) r6 z3 }; m* ^3 E+ j9 f
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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1 G( {0 w/ f% U( uThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 2 w$ }5 V; _1 T% j

6 c$ g* V5 A$ Z5 V% }( D5 U: c"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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7 o/ `0 L: K8 k5 }"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( p, r- p" c1 J; I6 k9 e

' s; u$ O3 l/ V. F+ oUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 9 P0 S* o1 S1 ^5 i$ i* ?
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ' Z- \( U. X) s( g, n
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5 I5 K6 k3 p: V; F1 Z+ T: Z/ gAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 4 }( P: \$ T& B4 ]: b3 W

" M0 `% Z" ?) K: c( H1 Y- yThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ' m6 K7 N, v/ w# ^# c
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. : C" k6 i8 z& f
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 r; L  }+ K4 u- i" w
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."