[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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  Q3 a9 x! ?; K( y) x据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。5 o5 q3 x& y0 d

0 T% W& T1 r7 ^0 K# L' w$ ], L# w研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。3 B) Z. o; T. X& H
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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/ X+ C+ w1 B( `) F人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。7 @, K, h9 b' P

0 E) d) i6 N% p- e5 fWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区2 U) a- c8 ?7 S1 |( z* H. [

" r7 j& X3 C: o1 NHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
. H; J+ U2 |2 ]$ E8 Z" a人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. G2 d( z& B$ I. w  Y0 A8 l

  D& d/ N: X, s- R6 j3 G人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区, R8 M" y" f" m: x; W  `5 V, R
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 7 K% ~  p0 c( j. W) U

1 E' N$ q+ g, G9 X9 o. eLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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6 g7 H& R+ c4 j+ T) T  E人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: W1 W- g* S0 N* n% p
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. - C7 \3 F1 N7 t: u

1 R8 ^+ U' f+ h, Q人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  I; ?7 S& F4 I& P

1 P* a! {' W) Z; g$ g+ Q5 s- aIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."