[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。# N/ T0 U% ?( f  ?% f* W- w" a

; P# i5 B  h! Y/ b研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。6 ]0 P* j8 Z" p& }0 b

7 R" L/ _  k, f6 Ers238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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, H6 g1 ]. H( u! \  r- h研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
" g7 ^. ~7 P! j  {' uPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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7 P7 s0 `# L5 @4 a. S. ~But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 4 B+ r3 u$ Y$ \0 [; V& Y- j& ~
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区0 u# V% Y% G: t6 L, S$ x0 R
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ) h/ W7 Y  U% k- H/ r6 I, C

9 t( b8 s+ I$ c5 }6 q  X4 P"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 1 e1 O8 h7 F2 s' m/ c

) w* p9 b! l3 f' D, a+ W6 U. aUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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1 \  e. q, [. ?% R# T人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区& o& a; ?2 ~- {" ~/ s3 Z" i) Y
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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, y- |1 Z1 X" o( }9 `2 m; B/ CBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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6 H# i" `. G. z6 X( Y, \" cIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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3 ~( M/ @5 r3 Y- Lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 9 O# N0 d& o# ]' S* F5 z$ I, K, s
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."