[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区1 r8 z4 ?/ H" ]: E

4 f: S3 |/ y  A- w: nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。% s3 L1 e1 R/ N- i' r1 i
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。( ?  N/ P8 n5 u$ ^4 y& I

  M' d( y) f& Q. f7 p, }1 t人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 1 {0 s7 s1 \9 u1 z

3 C* b9 _& A( Z2 j8 O6 VHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. / o( T; i0 D! h" U; g  X
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区) z0 u$ Z1 W7 m2 j3 y6 @
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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' j6 {) c( V! F( Trs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区4 |. v. [. {3 w, g& h6 U# d

( M  W" N; y! j: z( K"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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  O: e9 x- Y% U( R$ LAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 0 d9 M. d. A. q* T- S  `
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. / \4 L* s# Y. W, J" ?& U
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 5 q, ^7 y" c. a3 ?/ U6 T
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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3 C9 p0 x. j; ?; H# T% Y& t"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. . D2 X  S5 p) L, @$ F6 E
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."