[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。0 ]6 L' s6 W( \; E6 a3 T- M* ]/ o

$ [2 o* P0 ^3 f& F+ Z* ?+ J: u人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区8 g$ L% B( k7 \. G
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。. I: T& q8 [- P: }

$ }, Y$ ^/ ~3 s9 Srs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。

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+ \1 }. |  p+ N6 {/ wWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
- I1 D4 o& ]- {" \2 J人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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. U- f/ K5 ]% b* {/ _The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区4 Y& a2 ?& H1 F/ Y

2 i6 B$ K) H7 T3 s, u% r4 ~0 a* i"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) f5 Z$ U4 h7 ]9 E

1 F, g9 V2 h( H2 t- U4 Jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区9 d- r( T# Q3 t8 b( \+ {, Y  Z/ ^" T
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8 h; ?6 t& v& T; m1 L( z# bAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 5 X# u: K( `& ?* f) U
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 9 o, h/ @5 e* t! [1 j

7 n0 ~* O0 u6 w, v) {The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区; _  m# x2 p# }5 W+ A1 U9 e

; ^7 r9 J: o9 \! F. A- jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.   j  Y5 J8 f% i# p; u5 S

7 C5 h& J7 k5 z5 N8 k- ?% A- |"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. & E2 ]3 ^, r3 t

# M' s6 f4 l. i" E9 ?8 o"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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Women shunned high-flyers for men with average jobs

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