[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区; m! W6 F, ]- e# g8 X

* f* ?9 L! d! u* ~; U* `据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。6 h3 e4 D( ]( \' d$ q7 W1 e+ u

' ?$ Q" S2 h7 q! y. V3 A根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区, w& C& Z1 d+ [! @' C

0 d2 \8 |! C( b! a' rHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区2 @$ K. v) g* t1 F& i
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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' S" t! i, N9 [" c7 A9 \* }1 bBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& K, i" @/ ]8 _% y  n

+ F+ ]' L5 y1 v: r# L6 |"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." * J5 h7 A. a4 O

9 {) w  a4 C, W: h& xUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 X" \* t% E; k" [
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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: h% P3 Y, N7 ?$ |6 Mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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: I7 B2 T: Q, K7 y: ]) B# GThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 0 {1 E! }# W+ }# ~9 @
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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# N) M  z% n! Z1 }, BBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; E; n7 E' i) Y  n% g6 G( ?

9 C" F$ E( e0 P) o  wIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' ?' d0 ?/ s+ N% r, h# `' U

# H1 B) W5 r5 ["I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."