[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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% \4 c- _5 ]  A8 a* ~0 _据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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0 W; l& _* l! Q' t' V/ t5 b根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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6 m8 [+ b' U/ g) w人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 6 V' T3 X$ z) l* e- K$ I

& H$ g! C4 S. V% D" iHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 o7 |  n. |( |
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区% l* O: D0 R5 c

6 L9 z# r- a  z! F4 D# Y"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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6 q0 @# U5 i8 Q, FUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 1 B9 l; O0 Z3 Y

( ~# v$ I  U' U. F6 `# Z人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. * U$ g  v( J6 X; ~

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% t  b6 A) U, f  x  QAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ' q$ [0 g) l( L/ p6 ^9 o0 F7 I
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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% s4 ]& H' e  K$ `rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ! C5 a8 D& t0 I* x9 z0 J

) d. z# ]7 f: q1 u4 S$ hrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ( |4 M* b/ T( H8 s$ d) C( V

/ z7 I8 I* C. ~, P+ }0 y" m"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, }. N$ t% e& z! h/ m& @5 K7 C

/ [3 r* [2 [+ m"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."