[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。  c4 U/ I2 _" }, x5 m* ?: z7 Z

. b  S+ K( @: {; [4 {研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。+ Y: ^; J# ~' s4 Y

+ n- Z: j6 S8 n  `5 |$ I根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 I# [/ c/ g. h7 L  d/ z

' m# V1 ]& g) {, n, G/ X+ X: I( m% srs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
% F( ?; W! {, VPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. . \: x- ~% u+ M5 w( i
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区2 b) a  B1 D% x4 W2 Y3 W, r2 y

- f1 C' e, s1 M) m/ e) Xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ; i# y: y: l) n" F* F" z

4 _" Y0 u- y6 S+ J& M. s"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.   C: p) c" }9 e: {8 T

$ V9 ~- Y9 u7 K人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区( @* w+ L  W( F" C' Y& n5 B
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.   L: |6 C/ F) n% J( E9 j
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: i: G1 ~* \5 C. z) a) Krs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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. f* \% d2 e$ r2 a5 oThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 F! A# x( A% {0 q' J4 Z
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.   Z% q9 n% Z# y! T/ z6 ~
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区4 Z) W* L0 D# _5 K; c; O
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ! f& L6 N7 X/ v2 Z2 Y. |

0 B+ N# c, K& o"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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" f7 z0 w0 q% ?2 {"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."