[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。, w* A' _; P+ W. v& k" y
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。5 {+ `4 C6 K- Q  P- d

. v4 O" e  a; b6 e" Grs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。3 a3 N& [  \. c8 @9 u

! E" v1 W/ F# F$ G  P. R人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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$ S- I, N2 |5 c5 @Why women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) f& P* w- N: e8 |* d* k
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( b6 k' o, h+ ^2 K4 U5 x
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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) W1 A" ~# C* g1 Q# N人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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( B& u& I. L7 j. O5 G- _The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ! Z  q- v9 [: }. ]
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 1 U7 I5 K. R. K3 Y% y$ p$ \0 ^/ I
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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/ g" d0 x3 \* Z* P"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 9 o; c5 f9 Q9 t; a$ V; d2 b
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 8 ^6 Y5 E* [5 e; r1 z

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ( |! [0 b# ~5 F; T
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 6 A) @8 @) S5 H# C! }$ g
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. : q+ I; E6 |7 N- y2 V
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."