[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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- A( I7 j9 b6 L# D2 S9 p- p据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。* F2 [, V9 c9 M

6 z  I! _% V% `" B2 C人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。: I" ^* n6 |9 e+ \# G0 r" g: N9 M# A

3 F3 v" I8 O/ ~- r2 y. v% Qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。0 `( G6 e9 k. O6 y- V
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. m* e' W) H& w0 S
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
1 q( g( `6 ~1 w9 {  mPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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  M. D- k4 x* D) y; mBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区7 u% w1 F6 M5 {: M1 I! r5 \

# I% o& b+ w( f7 z0 SThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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+ U' F. I# K" c( X, n, U8 W* d"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 9 I- b/ L  c6 [8 b' b% K! s; w

' r; j* x% u0 M  cUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. * I# ?& y2 T6 ]# n1 S
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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* I1 L" T# B- nAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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' Z. s3 {* g( i: U9 p5 \5 N人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. . h5 H: Z- }" X
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 9 p  t9 n# s# Y# m  y' v9 M
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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9 T( z  o1 |  Q# J"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."