[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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* w, H* L5 D. d6 G2 n5 ?据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( c0 @7 s% E" `( v  v
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。3 y" d/ X4 y1 \. R
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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. v& q+ ]6 T- }7 i, H  P  p研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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8 V) D' y( M0 D$ S! b3 ?人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
6 g+ }9 ?4 ^; o# B# u6 ]Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. . p/ o% Y' k2 T

8 I8 I  ^. `, VBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". " E8 l2 E7 Q9 G6 k; I  b3 I
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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1 ]( G5 f- ^8 e, F/ u"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) B" t& c$ s! n' W8 b3 l
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. . I/ U! `; d4 X$ H* m' s: U
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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5 x% c0 W( p2 s; ^The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; O, b7 H, |# \  G. r

0 @" u, M( \4 V5 r  h% m2 l人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. " R& |* d( d; r$ Q5 `4 r

8 l. i+ N! N3 i$ g9 e; V+ BBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ; A" {' I: ]( V4 a( Z! R- A
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 7 D7 l: T6 h9 e: S: ]1 `
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. / a8 Q$ h5 c2 \4 u
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."