[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。# y; u! g! J* j; @3 \% q

0 Q+ g) g8 B3 m- N8 R7 A( d研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 o1 o# G: Y6 L# m$ i2 r8 ^& }
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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% O, I1 z! Y# Z# z7 m* c# sHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
6 Z2 R: d6 V7 ^7 Z- sPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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- A7 r0 g1 q# h( y. G- vBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.   C7 ]+ w  M9 c4 j) x$ w

8 v6 r! J+ V: [9 P  o8 p) [& f1 jThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". , R; ~. }9 t& ~) x; ~
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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/ Y( }' ]- y) N% K: LUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 6 b/ V" p9 _4 o4 g

2 f  u5 n% d( T0 o  Q8 ^Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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1 x* A+ g8 W4 p3 R/ MAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区' d" H. E  U0 n" Q* M; V; A

, V, Y) |9 a! m1 F0 \3 WBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 Y3 R: G( V% D+ S
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! O! O0 {& g; b  o- K

- u1 t. Y9 {9 C% {# I0 R, w' K人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."