[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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( r- N7 O2 }/ H' L据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。# ]2 s  F9 T9 h. L( s9 u* w) n4 t
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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0 w7 E" p1 [! j+ b! B$ e( m5 w研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。: h; K- \1 @7 a9 B. e1 c
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
+ t4 Y: D( f6 ^8 \0 Z/ zPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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1 o: Y' j6 {: w; n) G1 T4 g$ fBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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' r- o  \3 _% S" `The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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+ ?; W. K* j$ D. p5 u$ Y& W3 XLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区7 u1 c& k4 }' `

; w, f: C0 H$ g- O/ {( Irs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. . @, l& `" S( R) n
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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# X4 n& N  l. b; U; d$ Y- d& G3 BUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. , ]" t& {  c4 g/ L% a+ \

) u* P; O  x0 USix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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5 }! j0 l. F2 K" N9 {" R/ k1 gAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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' `9 }: A+ f5 c0 M; B: P- ]The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 d( a. Z1 ?  {! _
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ N; M5 @. Y3 L7 j- h) r
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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, y  |: p) Y) z7 J% R$ n$ [人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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# K2 u; |7 w2 h' \' D. T人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."