[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 S! K' F1 \4 g  _
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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4 T9 m, }+ J, o+ W人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。: W4 _) S, z' ]! `; J9 [9 A
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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; u, q6 o1 c' t5 E$ \! z: v' q3 p2 Urs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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) O/ v7 }" r+ h人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 h. [" v# @! g4 `6 H% e
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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7 ]* K3 x! i6 Z( |3 {2 `) \! UThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. c, Q8 m9 n% @9 f* V5 H* Z; c

( r+ P8 D2 j; M9 C; E# a9 D  l# fLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ! u% W5 S7 h  d' u' ]

# T/ y8 i+ Z  ?0 p; y; w* [0 N"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" U) }9 L  `. S  |

8 o- b: y+ f+ D1 J* v+ i"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区" U) Z" ^& o5 u7 I7 h. h
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ Y. T8 n$ D2 Y2 O

$ ^4 b. v. d& @) X2 Qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 3 t9 b4 z9 ~; I% b

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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6 g$ _2 C9 l! J; e7 K人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. q# ^( \) e9 V) l' w& s, n  L
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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, U3 Y6 U" |( v; I& ~# f3 @8 ?rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ H8 ?3 r3 F3 R) k
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 6 r/ m' j( O, R, }0 Y. o

) C' j! k7 d( A+ t7 x  g"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区0 z; i3 ^! t  [7 a; _2 Z

; k3 ^! T1 x8 I+ N* D5 N! t5 M"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."