[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。
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% Q9 ], X9 g  Crs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。7 o. r) ]* ]( V
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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. g' y- ~/ G) k6 t4 o2 C' P& C( x( b人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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; ?. j9 v; W  c4 A- R9 u研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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# g) Z8 P3 G2 j" p. mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
9 a& M+ T/ @" j9 I  b) mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区2 O" W( W. R7 I1 o+ s

: |8 Y' R& L6 B. {! N; sThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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  Q1 p6 t2 q% o0 C人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区. F$ A& n  t' P8 h
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 r& x- Z( M, a- t+ i5 q$ u+ i; {4 V
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. m/ _& J- P' s: M- k: m* [) f) X
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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" o+ e! W  a. X, E6 T  qThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. " v" l5 @5 H1 j

6 g% w# D0 j7 N3 c1 PBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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! b3 j$ |; k- V: R" F: H( b7 rIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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  r/ r7 {: I  z2 x8 b"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 7 ?4 f* d1 J( w+ w" \

3 j" O9 D: |2 H& x"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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Women shunned high-flyers for men with average jobs

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