[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。/ w2 f# s/ x  ~

5 Q! x- y. \; m$ K9 q据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, r4 Q3 p  C3 h) [4 N

4 U  k8 ~8 K8 B8 J& B研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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/ t# \5 q0 l* z/ b( J, U$ b0 a根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de# s! m' k, ^. r& `! q

- o6 [( N) T9 ]. d+ y# L研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。; f- E8 N0 C7 b- X1 q) F9 Q+ j
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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+ U7 m2 ^7 E% I) h* H$ BHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
0 q/ ^" s  ~3 ~; ~人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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3 @6 ?/ S+ N/ {+ qBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区: L2 m4 X+ D) K& F! I4 n

" t7 }; l$ t2 _# B+ K7 s& c  e- b4 fThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区( h% H1 p/ Z; a/ U0 h

6 K* D2 {& ?6 T$ G1 m5 _( e( jLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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* d7 h# o! u! h! I. Z人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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" ^. U2 E4 O/ K# J1 |"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 7 N7 ?; c( @$ P
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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! }; T6 R" R- G8 [" rAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区" R: G+ o5 \# [9 L, C$ K# Y' _
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! j4 W- _9 ?6 M1 c4 L# f% q
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  e2 B3 a4 T( t7 |

! }0 b  Y4 Q3 aBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ) T( P1 I/ @% Y8 I" s

' A* N4 _! p7 i: c* X% f* a! D1 ZIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ) v6 i5 w4 k! z

. ^+ y! F) d# P1 p7 R"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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, ?& Y  \3 `: M  l/ g"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."