[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。3 M+ O  K7 D$ t
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; t8 P' X6 x7 c
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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4 J. R6 l! l* [+ H根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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7 W) J! O& o9 c7 X研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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7 d) i- u% V7 O4 e! e; g8 XHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
0 A/ U' e& V. B+ }: Q- B, n5 y# Crs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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4 j+ b: D% t9 u+ e& q人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区0 D% h& u( V% \0 c* f

3 f5 T) [$ `- n: g1 _$ }Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 1 |: a1 i! g, X4 U

/ E- T2 P: G7 O! z7 }1 Nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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2 d" B: X7 P6 q) J: `rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 ?. i/ s7 l. X6 @; ]
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. $ {  S# v9 i" a! h5 C& W7 C

6 i1 y0 Z! O+ R1 |& OBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 4 q+ t  ]+ W& \" E+ \2 }5 u

1 N+ u7 z/ B3 T; `5 k"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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8 `. j2 J6 `- E) u' R+ ~6 L. P"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."