[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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: K2 U6 _7 K/ c% p( g" e. I; \rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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+ s2 q; c# {% A$ C9 j1 A研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。+ R5 i  V. W% @6 i) u+ X

, x; K) j$ L+ S" g' ?! `人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
; E# k: M% m- o" y: a人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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( v' Z* }* d$ T& p/ D  [9 Y1 v  \& rThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. + k3 q& N/ M# I3 {
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区& R3 p. \+ E) l; T0 B
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ( B# D2 f1 y$ H% |, l
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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' a+ k, J- z8 k4 ^' Q. U/ BSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区* [& t. ^6 M+ C
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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# l) l* p" y$ ?3 z" d- C# N8 ]The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. $ [) ^  q% r: `5 M& a
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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2 w, }* v+ n4 C! [4 _$ R人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区% ], H- r1 B) e' W& P
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 5 _% e3 I2 N! [0 k. _% h9 u) G

* f( O0 X( D! B0 W; V: d7 S"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."