[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。. ]$ h5 Z6 ?9 q5 f  J5 k/ b" U+ V
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。: g' H5 Z7 D% V: G4 i

7 f6 B3 K" v1 V- y- I& F( @rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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% b  u$ }4 q1 K( d( U人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。3 _# Q0 e- A1 C; f" q1 ~
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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6 t# b8 Q6 t9 u* RHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
# R9 z" F, k8 b6 r) L% H' _Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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+ J: W% z) `0 ^, PBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. & t. L3 T$ X" ?
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区( {# i6 F0 p1 d) @2 V
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& P2 E) {; e* e' g
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! `3 _# t; D4 s2 C# `% M
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. + S1 u: G5 o/ O6 j
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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4 c7 Q* c# E0 h: s' i3 f/ d1 E人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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( ]7 o+ ^+ V( }9 W- ~The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 7 o* `, _7 q1 ^
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区! a+ q' b* `) W+ N& D' e( E8 o

0 y8 d/ g) J% M4 s# [8 \0 K- W/ W"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."