[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。4 P# S4 N" ]# R$ y( o, a
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。1 p4 s) I& a( {3 K( q, ?9 Q+ |- K4 I

  Y+ t" @+ L8 i研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。+ `' ]; s- q  s. \7 m4 V7 B$ T1 H
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。" j. w' J# O. i8 m/ r& E. A! p
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。# P! n  k3 b( n% v% C- R
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
: q$ N( Z- ]. c4 EPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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9 T0 S) L2 H( F8 ~人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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, l8 a5 y7 f; z+ P- M7 @8 D, Krs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% i6 p- R& Y6 E6 U1 k3 Q; E

, M0 |6 \' `0 d5 A人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de7 o5 m% l) K- v* g2 i
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. % i+ m& c1 p5 K- D4 X, T& N

- x$ z8 Z; y3 e3 x/ N: jSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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: R$ V4 Y0 r( w; Drs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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  S* h- Y5 e5 n9 D( `$ r4 XBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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! N5 A- D4 `3 j1 @, ~3 a"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."