[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。/ ]! y1 G0 A4 t5 s: ^6 c1 d* t- v
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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& F" g  g& ^4 B/ P: ~研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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, ^9 X) I6 W" F+ d& |& V根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, S8 d( T2 P0 M4 N" o1 r1 F' j
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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9 d( R- A' B0 X$ @( q; e, ^High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 5 u, ]7 Z' [1 `7 r3 O, S' c
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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4 ?9 J" s& r9 L. Hrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区8 D1 N6 F& _7 }$ w

4 I: S# n. y/ X/ ^; {The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. " Y4 |( F& L- J! D5 e

. n6 S9 s3 \6 K$ A! s' L人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". , X) m- P/ s* q" `( r+ |

2 {5 s( F2 d$ M2 P/ n"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区' K! |, p) i9 Y9 Q- G$ P" X, x
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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: W! g( m+ M3 R+ EAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. . s1 p  _3 B& F; r( t+ T
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 t. S  Q9 l# W) G
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. : V5 Q7 `5 C3 u& i7 g- h

* K. R% N$ {/ @+ C" l8 _- E( iBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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7 Q: I/ Y# G+ e8 s3 ?( |"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."