[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。0 g/ f/ c  N* K* }7 G2 y. I. d

9 ^" j. J. i- N* u$ [1 [; jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区: L5 o$ P3 y+ ~' z6 v* l/ t
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区7 O" G0 q1 a, O
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。, P1 z$ \7 s2 T

0 a8 Y4 `* L  \; @, j' v: i研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。& x! ]( d- K- N; X
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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9 b/ v) E  L$ [( j, m2 U$ Krs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 4 H3 u. J) r3 q* f! C9 h* A
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区) i) [0 H9 O' ]/ q$ r5 i& Z$ m

* X* U( u0 ]2 K+ w# VBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区6 G3 N, s! ?1 O" `. N- n% y1 v
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 7 v3 T& a# t* P$ |9 n  E

- d; E0 B0 ?& _# ILead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". : d4 d, _: S: D5 g0 f

+ G4 s0 ?: y4 f4 D& N"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区' e& R9 F2 E% ]' R
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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* b1 s9 y- j/ X/ X, b& W; Y5 SSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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2 Q) D4 c, `2 A- c5 ?The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.   |' W* r. B+ O3 U$ M9 ~
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 9 _. F4 b- u/ V) Q. k7 s, V

. u' a0 f9 e" C; j9 k: s0 D: I: b2 crs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 F3 C# Y1 j4 F/ ?
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."