[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。- S! c; r2 }- r4 T0 V
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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* h% Z- F; p! v  o研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。) [9 f* o6 }7 l$ I( y8 M

$ c6 ^' N/ @# v+ E; x  A; M根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。0 Z" i( G" A0 d6 g
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 [5 L: s" y2 I! c  X
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
# g0 z+ ?9 G6 K8 u/ ^人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. " c0 u  u( t: y8 K, g0 U" Z$ d; p

# N0 S( S+ h0 WBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ; X, O& j+ {* m1 y0 N4 r
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ( l+ i5 U/ D1 G7 K' @
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". " G' ]+ o  U5 N+ u( ^$ d6 y
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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5 V4 `! B8 K. A* dUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 9 A6 q! U) B4 t* k$ v& ^# m9 `! @
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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4 c* D$ h4 @% o& CAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. # b+ D  L) e3 d( O
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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$ j7 C' k7 H4 O3 WBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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& Q( V4 `' }3 p# [% vIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  ]* y( r, A' s. M
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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" p9 Z- L; B# g8 d/ W) c  F6 ?"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."