[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。3 t$ V; c( @2 b) k& o
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。8 y0 E- O# K( _- n) v" T/ b6 _3 A

4 ^$ R1 N. m; {* t+ Q1 v研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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/ o. h  `7 u* n' ]$ c/ `! Q; W根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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! O7 }# o- @5 H研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。* S; `% o7 L, \9 P& q. y

6 P3 w* I2 Z# L) srs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ E3 \  I( q8 G
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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. r0 E; a( ?/ tBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ! m4 v, F0 t% o) j3 ?8 o

8 e& L* T. H2 j* a+ c人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. / a: g3 O6 M  d$ i  f5 M

8 v4 J4 x9 l5 B1 y6 C# ZLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". & `) z5 ^0 b$ P' a. v5 T

: N6 t* J2 b0 f9 S"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. % Y  F0 b$ J1 Y2 u

  S/ G# j* Q/ ?6 M"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% p1 b3 O; |' ?

! C8 m# v: t, M, ]Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. / f$ I0 x7 z% ^2 I0 z
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. - N3 _0 W# O/ E5 H" J+ L+ L1 U
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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0 q% Y' ~3 [8 P& S7 QThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ' ?! F6 ]/ m+ B4 j& X$ q5 h2 h4 n
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. * s8 F; j; P% K

; Z5 i" ~0 x* ]/ e"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."