[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。4 F7 K$ o5 }1 c; @3 P

8 c% _5 n- Z$ r5 }据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。( [9 M: a0 |; r: J& U
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。4 u% M/ @- _1 Z+ W) B5 B+ H

  g% ?) b$ G: F# X8 C人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。+ J1 }6 a4 D) P0 q0 g
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'   l9 s: d4 D! `3 h1 L: N

) r5 c  y8 z! `1 l) \High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. & @& l4 u0 F3 I+ l
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. " E( f( j- S: J  d" \
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 r3 ?' h: ~" n- L

  M+ ~; r/ ~/ tThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区4 F. v# y5 V4 P' z* n: o

' ]5 C5 i4 R- m2 eLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ; ?/ p; H% l! ^; X( w

/ s* z9 o9 ]! o* D0 W& {2 P! H$ a人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." + n: X' J- J7 J% W' y0 \! v

9 d' W+ O2 r1 ~) u& n人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. + V$ f2 l2 P8 B' d4 k8 N
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 M0 v, G8 n) P

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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5 {6 B- w) ~. A- w" H8 a1 v9 zThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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' a$ f% V! a4 \$ }& Y5 X人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区# X6 m7 B* I% _* o0 _4 @- r
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. : O4 L, b, j* c3 X* y

3 i/ m. H8 }% ^5 M* N" |% T) H) S"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."