[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。9 W" T; T" b' D3 W1 }4 v5 m5 R

; P! T) @4 v8 N6 F( k据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区" B; D1 r/ u$ @$ B/ a) t5 B# I

$ U2 M1 ~: \. W, |4 _9 l4 E* C根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, G1 S4 C" k: v; F! \& K

; ^- I3 @. D+ D) e! e7 B  \rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, b) D' c" ~6 w+ R$ _: `

: u0 H9 Q. n: C2 AWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ w' z! g6 ~0 L& l$ e
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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, {$ R$ e4 c1 ^5 [. v5 g8 WBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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% S0 @9 T9 F3 \4 `The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. % o8 V& L+ l6 p0 Z0 j

9 p4 Y5 F6 T) W$ S1 t, m0 L) D" Y人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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  U9 c+ C+ O1 A/ q"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. % c6 a  ]. U5 F9 h' W- i# p: Y
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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" b; D7 y7 R, ySix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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" f0 ?1 N. E; P5 G$ t1 `Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ I6 n" U8 M8 p& L9 q8 d

5 x5 e- V8 d& u( j7 r+ |人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ' f6 {5 }: i, q8 K: y- O* j5 _( v
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区5 p1 F& R; {$ c2 G) |( [  P; ?5 `

. r6 g, W& V$ t+ ]+ `5 |Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. - l$ |" E& c. m, S* E; i
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. # E4 [! ~9 @9 u! S
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."