[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。8 U8 t8 t2 a* f0 H/ n
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。! O+ s" v4 l$ u& A2 u

) H3 [( t+ O: S& V/ ^9 irs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。* i  [$ W$ i; M/ }2 Y7 e2 R
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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5 F2 Z/ I- g% N" L研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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% z. C$ }( m- O" _& ?9 O+ `. [人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 3 e! U) v$ d, s- L0 c, C
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ! X( K$ k& x2 p% Q

) T- n2 O5 ^+ M/ T$ [5 gBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ( T4 G: J0 ?. p
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. * m& }/ b4 S& z9 f) D9 I6 S4 s
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 2 `; ?( s) E' e$ `) j9 {

( L. ~: S# S. _/ l% a5 _人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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5 k) ]* z$ z9 w' c9 ~1 e' krs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" k+ }* y  v0 F) n1 Q9 |
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. / m; [- P" H+ F( M5 k& J! X' {
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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6 S8 Y: q9 [: f. YAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ( D. [5 R' u/ l2 a- l
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 2 [- f* I3 J/ g$ ~5 q

$ @7 [/ o' `4 s8 v. d人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区* o/ X1 l1 D6 C. d# U

1 O. A0 k. q+ Z; l7 H" n人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 7 h' u5 L; F" F6 @
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ( P/ R* H$ [1 [+ n0 S
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. * l$ s; r  r+ R: Z

' [3 f5 S( s6 C, f9 y! Q8 M2 r5 Q, Wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."