[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。+ K9 w. v, p5 O$ V4 K. q
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区2 T  H8 S6 T, l, O* b2 w" `4 t
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。1 o  Y" B! F0 l/ s

( H, p$ \6 G9 W4 C! N( s人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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, X. |+ d8 ~$ W# p3 }9 F: qHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. + A" f+ e! N7 a) ~
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ( f5 M* n: f0 S$ \7 p7 p
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". / j: M/ r6 a# T# ?
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. / L# p1 f2 D. r) p: Z

8 v3 H& |( k' b) f+ Vrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区( Y+ I/ E1 g% D: C0 z* i; _8 R
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ; d/ r& v8 v' M2 v

/ I! F* l2 i0 R3 S# D6 s8 q+ FSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 4 ]/ k9 Z2 b  w2 W" c/ Y  w* [- G% c

# M! ^. Q& v" N+ ?+ Q% ]The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ; p$ J. }) ~% R- P/ ?

( |, `; A& |9 t8 K人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 G8 u' x/ {9 L  j* h1 [
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. % K$ E) V2 U8 z# E! k

" D; f7 ?% e5 k3 o4 qIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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4 o% D3 j3 L+ t/ C"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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. a* B+ Z* v4 K% S5 j( b; u0 c$ x2 U"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."