[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( v1 l1 U: q4 T2 l1 k5 F
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据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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: I# @1 |) E4 m9 x! T人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. v  A( h9 c7 k+ J9 N

9 s4 R# {+ z, l0 m0 Irs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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0 U5 v$ i$ G2 C3 GWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 9 Z+ d" h  ]7 J; T% u

7 }8 F7 ]' G+ l7 _' y: {7 ?人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. / Y9 b+ U1 ]) C1 `# R# P
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 1 {$ R$ O7 c7 O  e1 c5 Y/ H

# a1 D! z2 s! kBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. # l1 \& E2 o8 b4 ^5 \5 ^( }7 u% k" m

' z% s( O6 q5 ?/ [4 ?+ i8 n$ a3 L7 mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 6 `; l. I+ ~. o

1 q2 l3 L3 o* z3 ?6 o) ["Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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* f; t6 k; W& r9 k6 h"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ! K) x2 @3 Q5 ~9 b
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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( ^, a$ o8 |) W# n  NAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. # f1 K* X8 j, n! h
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ( l3 j2 z1 W! o* J

3 C5 C! T, ?8 J3 t1 X0 Krs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. - I" s' n' }0 X
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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