[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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5 i' D. `1 i2 ]rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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/ `7 N+ n9 s; J2 B% k+ I/ r根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 {' {6 q6 ^! g$ n# p9 M

& T8 ~' A4 p# B  C人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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" ~* k( T7 z4 T9 ~6 M% ^人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区2 C: t# |6 k* U' K* D

1 u! d' a2 w, y; w1 WHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区% M) K) H1 q# `* _" N/ m
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区. `1 |9 n# p/ h* }8 x  O1 P

; @) \% H$ A5 E# C. V; sBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. + f) }# J4 B" ^

8 _& U" K) A# Z# J. x人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区# f* I( u2 l; ^* r8 w
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区- @( O3 X. C- v( x* ^
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ E2 e* V7 d; t* y
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* o, N' J' v7 T* Y* @5 K' a
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 O( J+ }8 O7 L$ e0 j1 Q) x
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ) X# u3 h8 W8 O* _+ M- T
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 7 |  T6 R6 {) n4 f6 A2 l5 z
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ( d3 R% G3 q. K9 e5 p* h

; G# u3 D: x5 Q- L; h9 QBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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* h; g2 T& V9 J) o/ r. ^"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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9 o# f: y/ ?) c: e" o7 ["Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."