[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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' ]. C5 @& [: T3 b2 Y- C人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。+ \  n* m' p9 r4 C% d1 r

# d0 }7 Q; }1 X# ^" I2 Q研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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8 y4 c6 w- G) f8 z0 ?根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。8 r- \1 D- R. [" A  T+ R& D
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。" A4 d" l  f7 E/ V
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. . U( ?/ L% j' f+ S9 M& z
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区' [; `# M1 O8 C6 M

  H# J8 G- E1 p. L人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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+ _) s* X& N( Brs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. / r' Z5 A$ `. w+ _! E: C; V1 w
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ( o9 d: Y4 \: c& C6 {

" p; }8 z1 o  K$ p: J9 E+ h"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 2 k& p9 f8 S) z7 l

3 w  U" Y- @) O, K2 N: _"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 5 c" L5 h1 y3 N; r/ P6 O6 I# k
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ! [) L4 W$ h, M( S9 B7 [  i/ e

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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3 _0 ~+ l4 f4 T- ^4 N& DThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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0 w- m$ O& {6 W7 B+ `. C) cBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区+ T- z7 `; u0 R( i# O
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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7 E7 p  H- w9 r"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."