[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。4 c# k' k6 C1 ]4 d" ^
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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. ^7 N* O$ \( b7 n9 M- f人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。% B/ d( f4 M2 C1 C

0 @7 T$ G1 T( b9 y3 J# T( ^' p根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。3 f9 [0 S5 M0 ?
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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5 x  ?" n; V+ s* zWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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/ g2 w/ Z# T, O9 {( f6 yHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区* u; o8 w) L8 v8 |$ p! g
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 8 l6 a" e  P( O  m* K
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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0 p. Q+ _% t$ U& T; J$ cLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ; W# E. H9 R. @

8 f2 H, o% S) l# ^, l- Q% e8 D"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 l# ?& n7 i! g6 @) ^

5 {6 R* i  x, X"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 O7 r1 F! K( P" M" g& m0 v

) `+ f9 T6 D; ?# z5 V2 ?$ F7 `Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 0 t) P9 ~7 j- T% n/ ?  M6 M

& n) Y" i! n# F' M0 }Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 x0 ]' b# H1 J( |

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; H( ^6 O2 w; ~* ]# S: aAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 3 {: D5 N: D# |2 h' `) q% q
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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. p: y1 L1 w3 X% X! S6 T人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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" c8 y; B- ], O5 n+ x0 ~4 t"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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: {6 @; \8 e5 b; J"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."