[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 u: `8 Z, J3 t+ h7 K+ I9 J) c% Q

( W" G' N& c! I) j8 Z* Grs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。" ?2 T" e  L9 G8 `
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。9 c9 v& L3 u& J! o9 N) N' B) ]  D  Y
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。) [3 W# }4 c2 }- x- O
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 8 Y4 c. G. i$ y8 s8 V- [# J
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ R5 ?! y9 g& j. J
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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8 i( x; P. ?  K' U" HThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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; V5 @+ k$ x3 Z5 J' N3 B/ ]2 W"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ) C8 n' I0 y/ A7 ^3 w

6 ?: {; y! z% J! Q: N, `"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 2 _+ Q7 q- q9 w
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 0 K& ~3 Q' x0 ~" I9 X1 Q2 o
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 5 o* j& j8 H, L! u2 s5 k: a

) K: `0 x$ X! A# f0 ?The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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$ _2 l+ B. }' zThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. " i+ v8 h3 q/ x7 L# I
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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+ W# A0 t7 y: ]; H/ q% b' D* D; Z# X& F人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 3 v8 I4 A4 P- Z; J
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."