[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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9 v! P' m4 c0 O4 p; `0 W# U* m据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。9 ?5 N; Y/ c5 k/ W. I  j" s  F2 i

4 f; [' ~1 B4 y1 ^- m0 A, V根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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1 G1 ]; n% h4 t研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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  J+ z* d  O: H' `+ r8 K! bWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区' R6 A2 A% P* l# S4 U7 m
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 1 _8 G# A) |" v' F
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% ]) B1 V: g. x
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. % W6 O9 t8 R, j. z, I7 O, U

# S# |2 U) M0 i* ?Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". , h! L$ e% R" w& V7 F

. c& W/ }. t" \. T"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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; V# Q! A' W$ a6 L人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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5 d$ _5 k" {& }) pUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. , a* I. ^# u1 i: T4 y
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 L1 _# x% r& J0 i3 x/ C; T
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 7 N6 d) S* ?- _* l1 G. N2 Z
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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0 Q5 m/ n1 }) z3 B  G( ~& J"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."