[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。, S4 J% }$ P3 d; M8 ?4 p

  L! J5 f9 J1 j, ^4 Y5 E4 d研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区/ {+ a! r/ k8 o% q9 u* v

4 u( U$ b% G0 C% r4 |  {" A根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。' ]; ^" R3 g0 N: P! n3 i$ h4 C

& \5 S( p7 o" G* R+ c7 W, f人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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" c& w- `, S% F7 f3 T0 ]4 cWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 f9 {9 u& i+ C" u6 C4 X8 l# y
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. / d9 p; Z3 p3 n* \7 `8 h
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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/ `5 J0 ~) n% k4 b; e+ w5 j8 sBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- u( q+ \9 y7 Z( I8 v
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区$ V& q$ Y$ o6 `5 K' ~9 J
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 9 F6 K' x/ w4 l) I

9 z5 L/ x& j+ Z# f7 t* kSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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- W& Y: I6 \0 I1 ]3 Q0 t- l人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. % y# a  Z; r2 I+ u

8 B- K2 q0 x. v0 h: n; LThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ! |* o) e" K/ h2 B9 A3 t* X' [: P

) R+ `3 z. D: r+ g. n% e& m7 ]The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 8 O* S# |! P8 M

+ \7 A1 y/ ~( O0 ^* PBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区7 O* W5 n  o, \: @3 s) a  y

+ Y7 \: N8 L$ W7 n  v. j8 zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. & V0 u9 a" X/ H( K5 X
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ; c! S+ J& {6 f7 A! ]
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."