[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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1 Y# d& S' ]  K& ?6 o据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。* M3 l5 s3 i! R: H6 J) e7 K/ g/ m
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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" ~* A& Z  Z0 A+ f3 z人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。) U. W! X' I% G7 n. J4 G

3 P( D& J5 j7 P1 Q2 t研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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$ {; y: I( U+ A. {. |5 t- l7 IHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
8 N$ h. u" W4 V0 |* ZPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区; @( z9 V6 N: ?) H9 e/ M
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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5 f/ Y8 B% K2 Z0 R1 ?, ]$ X人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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" h+ x& j' @0 U. }; p, b& f2 `"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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7 y% s2 r% t8 V2 `3 p1 g"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 ?; ^3 q( b; M5 Q8 L

: k( A, w3 l+ L5 G2 G' xUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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# p+ h, i* C* x5 F7 e, USix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 5 B- a4 A* p# \4 q+ {) \1 e" {

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% Q3 F& i/ t9 V0 D! I7 o: M% aAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 6 K1 [! V* W+ [6 F# `

4 ]- {9 W# |7 Zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 2 d$ z! ^7 @- j0 e2 l: _

4 h; c1 Y- u$ X人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区3 B" r/ _9 j  o  h( f
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 7 c7 C8 j. l7 G2 j- I' k
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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* ]: i% }+ L9 I0 ]4 z6 Y+ x* j  i"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."