[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& t4 E: r1 O- P+ G( u
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。$ @1 c5 J0 b* p; b- S6 b( S
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。# X+ o! B! N$ I8 T% N9 @. P& k% {
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。! M3 K. Y1 d4 C& T: ?; {7 c
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
" a" A$ G- c, J  R0 B! c! [人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. * g+ A2 \3 q+ C! H

6 _9 S: r+ m4 ]% ]* t# t9 C+ |But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 7 u5 X/ c4 B0 T7 y
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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) i) A' w2 O6 ^( Hrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) Z# \" i; p. K6 Y. v# L- _& ?

. s; l( ~) J+ Z8 [; sUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. . N. T- }6 d, d- \3 A  b3 q
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区( n/ T0 |, g, M* A4 h. S! D7 M
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 9 F' `+ u) J" Q" `

5 C( {- ^4 ?% W. y4 c! p5 ?The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 4 ^/ y7 L2 E( P% w

/ Z' D+ O5 Y  ]' t2 L  b  qThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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* j6 u6 v, G; @rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区* M# Z/ j6 \) E/ \
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."