[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。/ ~( r/ |* [: U; P. E3 R
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 F6 M0 y6 h8 A6 ~7 l! R
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区- z2 B/ g- M! c. m

" V5 c. C2 f! f" d, J' x# ~# q根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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' C1 u; r) X4 B# r0 p人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. , J2 m/ n0 m5 x) x8 V7 w
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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: F$ O3 }3 w* N: Y  p+ _7 nBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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* M+ o% O: H# j! s& V. o  ZThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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2 Y( @* q4 v# b# s& T% P; k人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". % Q6 E8 g" ], ?" z4 \) _& D+ n. K
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. - g6 K! ^7 @9 D4 z
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." . f+ l& [# I+ q3 I& k0 h6 J
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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1 h9 N, C5 }, o# U+ _" u人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区# i- o1 U# J( e

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) A. @- p( h* k' e人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. " v+ d2 X' z* b
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. * Q& `7 f( f- N: Q: k7 c) }

8 e6 _3 w6 D8 T; K# N5 ~人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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! ?+ h, m" I# |8 e$ urs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 2 q/ \( u6 P; f$ n
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."