[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。7 @( I: T3 G. d. ~
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。: K: w* L4 o' k4 N  |
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) K6 o; C* j( l8 ~0 c& W# r

+ t! r+ G2 Z0 \0 N4 |' v& K8 Z根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。/ n! k) [8 {. M* J/ ]; [- ~7 \

5 U  h: Q; N' S$ f7 d4 s人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。, [8 Z5 @* u* c" N+ o9 u8 S
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
( \* Y: i7 L9 c& t9 Q人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 4 m' @7 V5 y. D2 ^2 m* Q

6 l2 b9 n& I# }* x, G. Z) h5 P$ _rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& g$ g, D7 ^9 Y- s/ c, x

. r9 D- s! h2 `The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". # o/ K* S! i& C

! Z  u& k( g$ ~5 O: q0 [1 f"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* P4 X1 A* B" }% i( }9 k
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区* @! v) C: @6 C. }( {5 q1 N

/ T* p( ~4 m8 @4 Prs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! x% ~1 m2 S' H3 t  z

% S% Q' P* X  t, |0 }Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Profession
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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3 s6 t8 H* d6 L& `4 q% pThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 5 X  S' n: d, y1 I" Z* T: w
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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; F/ K" }" {: r: kBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 6 y" V8 P9 {# [* j- k
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 0 v. N& x) z+ c- U3 u

& R- T/ Q+ o" t( x: O, ^8 |"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."