[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。: J' ]2 C- X8 e* G2 _4 B1 E5 T1 p

4 o" R. F* f1 x# n% N1 |8 c2 S据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。2 X' X/ Q# o, O& b3 }& |7 O
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。" r& u) @; Q) f$ C- D

4 C  n0 q" d2 d& z8 l' d根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。( l& t  P( D9 G6 _
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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& w0 U( j; X3 g/ P! T- ~人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区! V$ }+ {: L. ]1 |( `

% D& j$ E- j2 T' i( g9 z# a# v  Brs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  D2 }2 ~1 j( }* a2 M# N3 `
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 3 A+ S2 h1 U1 t% m9 f0 M! q

; P* }( u, J4 G. h# h) F) qBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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8 }' f& [* p, R$ AThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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2 b& e$ m* A; _0 NLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 8 H: c9 }/ P! k9 V
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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: \# q0 [/ s% r( C7 _: UUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 l9 g& C4 Q# l, |5 ?

4 M9 t. w' P9 W! dSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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9 L2 s6 n5 x1 Z# k, k2 e$ J% |/ q& A5 Jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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9 d4 j% W8 x, w5 g: }% O3 t; ]7 grs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 3 r1 ~- j: U: S; N

# k4 ~5 H, z) {$ R0 s% CThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区9 O/ X: k- k( p2 R) \& ~; n8 D
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' K% b4 D5 w+ B- T3 E

' w0 T, q+ I' U" u3 o& t" frs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."