[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。! K, V8 T. ^: ], K

4 j" @* r! M: P% T. Z6 [rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 W* W8 g5 j  x& d; Y' V7 y
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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/ ]  \' v3 q5 _! W- I" v& V, BWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 Z- D3 b8 K" k  r. g" L
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 4 W( C$ n) A  [* I" @
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. + a  K! Q, ^3 U0 o% ?& h0 x* u  U

& H, k: O+ l# `$ m, RBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 l3 q- p5 F, e- S7 S& j8 v* B! Q
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区9 b- w0 @' G4 {* D$ {% x5 i
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区6 _9 J- X1 }& |* {

! A9 v! Q1 A. ~"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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8 Z7 J0 T" q! X0 q$ OUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 4 c/ `) i& N: p% v" l+ u
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. " j4 @2 U4 C: ]6 U+ c7 t5 z
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+ W& P- z4 `+ x+ DAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区+ f) z' x( R3 B5 ]' d/ [+ y2 `

$ C& T- A% E* t1 QThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. # o  u: `6 Y" ~" I1 D
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. & C4 h4 n4 \  f* Q1 `. Q

  r$ u/ m1 P. y! {人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区" _- R4 F& `2 ^; h+ E: [* B

1 ^* H9 h1 C2 s9 X* ~: P7 D"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. / B2 e" \$ f& H% p1 i1 ]' C8 H

& p+ R! [- J* w+ P. ~, Krs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."