[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。" z4 ^9 c, a/ r. s6 F% X

  A% y- R) F1 f1 a; b" Drs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。6 |" O( n- C& o* a

- `/ C. h0 [, s0 i研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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; r% {/ T6 b$ D6 ~5 V根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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+ }( H) B. k  }+ OWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区0 n  E: D. o9 z! Z) Z
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区$ g# t" y! ?; L9 {

( x, V; B  d8 BBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. * L' N1 }8 V# o% B' l: O& ~1 ]
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". $ Q/ K/ w8 I9 l( u/ s1 r  e

. |9 V5 U+ V1 c" [+ e+ ["Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ; v8 X) z$ G' Y) B+ p

6 a+ G' T+ N# y- e+ q* ~+ W人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 D" c  F3 F' [5 Z2 B

% b. F+ o9 Z1 ^: W, l% @Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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+ s$ c# r2 N" p! @Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. / M, |7 s* z( I: x4 a2 h
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0 X7 N/ O' Q0 G2 DAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 5 p) I( J2 ^5 \" R2 e) C: ]

6 e0 K( O) p' l, J- Rrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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* B6 |1 u9 H; k( kThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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; q% X" v1 h7 R"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."