[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区0 H: X7 Q! r; _, g8 b. g- q2 B
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。) d5 I- _4 y8 k* y( m% G1 w- ~
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。. q+ J& S0 m5 B0 }4 D$ h% D
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区' a) g- ~+ I. M2 v5 L# T8 l
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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$ g8 K+ f" e+ ?$ g! dHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 8 Y/ g0 ?9 A$ X- W2 d
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. , b8 d( f2 G9 k* C9 H( _* f- @
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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9 s% D; w  d! x. S6 n: J* {0 }rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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; R3 N. G6 W' ?- i人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: z$ T1 \7 W! U$ [+ }; n5 E/ Y
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.   n' V) V2 ?2 P6 K

+ d8 {+ b# G" L* H( ?( Lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."   D5 m( F' l1 a. P

' H. C. a/ c/ q  s3 gUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 1 }7 W7 r0 K. X+ p
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 |; P7 G4 C% V  f4 u
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 6 P2 S$ `6 Y% B

+ I3 A4 t6 U7 O8 e% I% a5 ~The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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7 S3 C. c7 O+ ^+ O* ~But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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* p0 v0 G$ s6 x: L3 }Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ M7 s% x! ~  L: o/ p, t

; D$ B& K- ]( C% X# f' E' r"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区6 O5 [" I) q. m5 n& F
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."