[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区, K- q% G, C' G8 S" M

: W9 ?, z+ h+ Z. N据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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8 L2 |9 _& x+ q# V% D6 qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。6 P( ^% I" |" K5 o0 L- f1 O

2 l& a" K9 D6 r0 D  h根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。) o$ k. S& \4 p$ A
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。9 \4 Z/ q- |& i: O( t9 _
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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- o0 z) Z9 U5 U  Nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
- f5 Y( u/ ^# J% kPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. - Y' O& |0 h0 Q& D0 H
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 2 a# y2 \3 _& `

0 s1 L" _5 l0 F8 I2 r6 Y"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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# d4 ?0 [& [* j2 ers238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ! ~/ B9 r9 A! a6 R* `/ f3 y8 c

  C/ @( v; E* e+ s4 G8 `  VSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ; g( X7 w/ o/ p. j
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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# C  F' L' \/ B: E! H; ^% G" DThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. $ Q! {# S* h4 Y+ Q. R) J
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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+ @% `1 q6 Y' I$ L3 T" z9 `* P"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. : h2 g1 c) ~: z( V0 R6 v

! ?6 k2 F5 Z  _' ]人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."