[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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# v6 s- L. ?5 N人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。3 r7 o8 S1 ^* Z6 b& u  L5 s% r0 @
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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- S5 T6 B- i3 Q3 u' b. [  trs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ' X, l; l2 K  E5 j- b

/ e/ }6 m; i) P- E人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ( J' P/ e& L" ^& K
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 6 @' L- D6 J# C  [  t6 d: |

" f7 v; M# r" L2 XBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ) I# m" A1 i4 C: z  h  Q8 z  h
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. / ^  `. e( I* G

# j! ]3 @2 W) X3 D$ k' K* ~Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. + N6 V. S( `. `2 T

9 Q6 {, K/ t) |2 p  d" T- R"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 6 O" @5 _, X2 Y0 I( ]" V
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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. Q# Z" Q; V4 S0 ~: Z& [0 ESix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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4 t" d( E8 a! r5 H6 A8 ?. l' y4 bAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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; [8 E& G$ U. ^. s5 R- V9 EThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. : M. `% F5 h- p# i* K" X1 |

2 v' k5 i' l; e" y, ZBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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: H: D  b% O8 FIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."