[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ D7 ^8 u# z( t2 h0 S7 f& z
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。& ?' {, ]( K% I* j& w9 H9 F& K3 T
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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( q4 T# d  q- ~6 J+ t3 _" w/ iWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.   _1 M. |& V0 |" k9 p
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. - V! L7 B& Q- H( o9 c5 n+ N2 Z4 p# t
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. h: h7 P' l+ K2 v' X) z
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 8 a& c0 |# G5 i. G# r1 }
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区' ^- P1 R' z2 O( ~

: D2 m% d+ z& J3 ]& Q2 R* }* R"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区. h1 e3 E3 B8 l0 b

3 J0 V# x* ~$ o2 L0 v+ B" `"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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# Y! L" {( X7 f% vUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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" n  @8 d+ @+ u$ H" Z, W+ [* K2 k人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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7 [9 w: L- i8 RAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. , B2 @" u& a6 ]) }
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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+ ?5 U$ t& x9 DThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.   v7 b; I9 s( e/ T- f  m

, M6 b, Y; Z6 t+ K. z; gBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ! O, u+ n6 p% y5 d
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 4 _) e+ ?" [% b- S8 t! s
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."