[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。! ]- ^  Y9 ^. L$ A& K4 ]) K

2 ]# f5 w- W! I6 ]" v: a2 y& c8 H据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区, n4 u8 v5 R. J* O3 h

4 e/ ^) u7 D3 e5 H人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。7 d4 {' d; A$ H2 l  I0 }  p

0 x! o" |6 x# x) Q' a- V* V! m& g人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。( f/ Q0 p$ i9 a- ]

% Q& g( F* g# f: ]/ d+ v8 B研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。  o6 R! K( Y# j( T& M7 h5 n( U

5 n% h  ~0 B4 ^% k8 u& K; M人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 0 l' x9 z. q7 J
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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1 U0 z. P. H% ], @' o7 E9 lBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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- |& b1 v+ J  m- t7 f0 Q/ \+ |0 E) crs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.   S* {. J0 C7 c5 q/ H

7 S) G2 g( w! A$ [Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 0 ]3 e: @' d8 e0 h
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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  X0 L0 B% A& j+ t"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 3 ^, l. f; ]& G( Y

9 F0 [- \; o' A; Y. R5 ]1 BUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. - O3 G. f4 d) \/ B

7 L4 V2 K9 G4 R, O" ~9 m/ z- q人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. / b+ ~* L7 [) s/ h  r2 A
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# a' ~' M4 K; y2 EAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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" V/ [# z! m) O. _' {  a( mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de# K3 H- a' M* M& c% D8 |

& H7 T" }1 W- B- D0 V7 b  }rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. - T! s: @( ?! }* j/ Z5 ^
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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* V/ A% D6 P6 V# I! _/ h- tIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."