[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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; o* I3 I/ E$ D据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。. a9 E# a* V: Q

2 ]0 w' j$ L) l% }研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。8 R% S7 v+ t2 k2 o: |2 r- Y. Z9 E

- Q, ?8 ^/ z  h' R+ F根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。, Z0 V) o- |4 S8 x2 O

7 ^9 D% T: g$ A+ E- u$ \: sWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. + M/ F! x( C+ B- H# x" f- A
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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1 t/ x; L( k- O- i& f  e% L9 n5 V" e; v, eBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! q2 s* ~" A8 C6 Y, J2 i

% R7 M) h% h' \6 G2 J" ^5 M: cThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 3 Y. q8 \$ o; l) j3 W. Z

' ~7 _0 x/ q; @7 h! grs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区, K4 L. n& ]7 V. b. ?

3 k7 y/ [/ A  P% Q"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* }. E1 ~# c& R" s
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ( Q+ \; w. q, @. M! Z6 U

3 r5 R9 D, \2 b; f, s2 `Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" d- A0 c5 j7 P3 T* ?) x

# O' W( ~; O) o0 i" qSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 3 I; G6 U- K! W6 ]$ j+ x( S, O( P
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 5 q( G+ `# l2 F  `
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 1 f) I2 [$ O4 u
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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: M% Q9 S: e' d( x% G0 E* L- J; N' rrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. - t6 q3 e' k  g- M

3 F4 I, K8 B4 ^: k# c: t9 d7 M$ JIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. % ]; T- e. s+ f

) O# a) `( ]% `1 J  v人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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$ |7 u9 `4 e# V" q人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."