[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。5 s& q; a: r1 c6 L8 m3 J

* a; A+ `" t; s* K% @' ]rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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) }" p% d1 c( Q2 |) Trs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区; [3 ~: L2 k9 F, h7 c
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。2 X3 w5 X8 D" U9 s

+ O4 j8 ~) S- q  _0 C: Z% x人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
; ^" g6 y7 C6 APerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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1 L& Q) l  B" |2 i/ z/ {- f$ SThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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& D, q: h! b3 M% w  j; Y' mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区2 l( i" k6 Z& ~! k# p
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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3 [6 E! l" z/ v/ bSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区! _& c( L6 y4 M4 o! u
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ; }3 n" y! H2 Y7 R9 s) H1 K
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. * G  o  `, i% ?% }0 u& P8 w9 m
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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8 A; }: x" R( W$ zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区4 R( {, X9 [7 B4 V2 P& I& q/ j0 \9 |- R
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."