[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。, l! [+ n* V3 O/ v* F

6 a+ r* E+ `. J人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  U8 C9 j7 M8 Z* y: Y' P7 ^3 D

& e( T- v* Z; X9 V& b% R" q8 C人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 8 F, Q8 y- Y7 h4 I! S7 j
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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8 O2 v, Y* O+ `4 K& J% ?人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. & Q  ^/ A+ r) h( p/ ?  Z7 d: @
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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' V1 c; C. r- j4 @2 S. ZLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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4 n  I* X- V+ I" C. [9 |4 ors238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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: w% G* _; b8 R. z8 ^* T人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区: {% D6 w. ?6 j# g. {

4 e6 o$ I* S0 t0 uUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 7 w* Q8 s1 g/ [8 a% J+ W) q: L
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. # Y% ^6 G4 w$ {" ]1 X

! O6 e4 f5 w( E8 ~3 w9 ?rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. " M  N0 g' _+ w! I# ?; Q* F) [
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. + J8 b# ]: c4 `3 Z, |  l

, y5 Q8 R7 T9 e+ R' C  ^& u人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  i& a; F. `1 Y

) n& M! ~. E  [. R# ?5 ?Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 0 _+ Z7 j2 R# U* P9 d0 J
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."