[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区* P$ g! \/ V, }) _/ d1 ^! ~
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。- A6 Q: F* p& O1 g; T. |
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。0 J; F  s+ e5 w. l
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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/ B2 \4 H2 k1 J4 n7 V  c+ drs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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- f5 U0 p/ ~7 T- S) j( U: A+ ?High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
! }6 O2 k2 t* Z/ b3 E) P7 |3 frs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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& ]9 Q% |: Y7 P) J& F$ j" gBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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; F+ F) J; F0 Y& u( l+ DLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 3 H! y, G2 D# x

1 z' |0 `2 K' W"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." , ~+ V; [# m5 o3 }/ {

+ r/ |2 y: m- X; h7 W2 y3 IUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区5 T. ]7 S  v* E0 k4 ?3 B

, D+ {4 M+ n6 m# GSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 g+ ?" e! U* {
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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0 H9 Z: ]9 x; @7 _+ l7 \" q, cThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; w7 ^2 \5 B) A6 f9 N& k
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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3 ?+ ]. k* f) p5 Y人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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- H* L6 I& q0 C, L3 V人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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6 e+ G7 T9 G5 Y! E人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."