[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。* t! J% W  l1 N

* ]7 T5 X' j5 H0 K# f3 S据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区0 N9 D% R' m  {1 h+ Y; D( _, f
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。4 }2 k5 ?! ?" B* {/ w/ e9 `! J5 @3 f0 `1 L

/ H8 T, d4 W- k5 T' [根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。5 K% ^' _/ f1 _) b1 {5 Q
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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+ P1 P+ c& [) r+ |" Q$ m# yWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 1 F! k2 B3 m' D& X
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: K& L  q9 o1 A+ R
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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( K9 P3 Y. |5 l8 z- J3 bBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 K& @  d  ~& G& _
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. , o) w: ~& D+ x# Y2 I. g+ W- S
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. % ]. y! c4 \+ s8 F4 J' w1 V

' y% K( K: Y  a% s$ w"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." $ I5 V/ i) c1 e* p9 L, F! W

4 R! C  c/ s' H' |+ z! sUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ' G/ u4 `+ p% @9 e- G$ y. b4 K
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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* U6 G! [) ^+ e  HAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. * @  [! @, ]6 U; O# u. S
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区' r* O. K& ^8 ?2 K) z
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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6 M0 e' {/ s! M2 Prs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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- b6 B* J, a1 `, f1 D* dIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 9 N3 g4 S+ P: X/ b4 e. u

7 k( O4 q+ x" o0 g"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 5 o% {4 h1 k: A  f- R/ O, c
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."