[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。* d; P9 Q/ C! x# u2 M

) Q% c1 \2 t; c# A) S. g据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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' e+ h; _3 H* N1 P3 v" m1 ?4 ~人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区2 }: W( ?5 B* a6 b/ a
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区) D) b! a5 j/ O3 o5 w
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 0 g, N; Q8 Z  G1 l
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. + L* }+ s1 E5 D$ e- u

) t% {0 B4 I: G( b% gBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. % w/ Z& _) S! S8 _
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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: I- d2 ~6 d' T1 @Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. # m- b) E" S) J% S; G( e1 ~0 n* T
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 0 {. [" L# t8 [# r- W

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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: \9 B( E/ J; P( RThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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' E* Z- u4 F$ J( `% }The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 8 j, A  g1 U6 W4 p/ |

2 \! P7 R! z$ ~% x, q- B- y人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. # p: w- S$ i1 o2 x+ S* e0 ~3 @
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. - z& ]3 k! j" t6 k$ ~" d) P3 B
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. & D5 }) V% G) N1 Y' [. C

* [; X8 D4 _# d. R9 rrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."