[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。. U' x  @( k4 _0 z
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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4 \" g. t/ n2 o& O+ C6 B5 D研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区: D+ x8 n, o+ {" m1 H

* L8 f; l, M9 o6 l5 B* d+ w根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。7 @* z: X9 W& U2 P- E9 i; ]+ [) A( t

2 F$ Q! `: ]$ L. Q  k# @: p, G研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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5 j: @' m/ {  [# P/ ^Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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. q6 A+ _! J' X  m# EHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
7 P; v- |8 i; E2 |' |Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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- J7 K  a& i9 b' uBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 5 h' a7 T  i/ E: ~
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 3 y$ [* X9 m0 s" ?0 z; b

6 C9 A2 ?+ n! o7 z! X' |"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区# R4 h: {3 }6 {" Q- i0 s* Z& F; C

  h# a( p2 g1 a- O. Z4 n/ qUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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8 ^, O0 E  S' j. T0 a. D8 |rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. $ o3 v) A" m. N% k  ~4 \4 O; U
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 0 o1 ]& L! b$ ^

1 @5 Z1 t, e' ^+ T( zBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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  l3 m" C1 [  {* G4 O& B! C, xIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ( k- @. O3 q  [, ?$ g

% V: A: \6 X3 J" Q: ^: n' ors238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. , k) [( h/ L% U

6 Q4 X2 @8 }1 E7 _' Q7 _% B( I* Q"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."