[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。9 J2 f: K- b4 l( p0 M

$ F/ F4 m5 e( Y据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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3 r/ |* n2 E8 ]6 h1 p5 ^4 vrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。+ n0 Z) U9 `+ H+ z' v2 Z

/ q) a( e. U% {* H: g8 R  ?- h研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区: a2 k# f( y+ a1 ?' r3 @9 I
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
2 o" o3 w0 v' ~Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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2 A! z' i5 U, W  mBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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' e8 F- O! [) I+ q: _% [The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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$ c% s6 W4 z- W- lLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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$ K0 @% j/ ~2 i6 z"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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8 E% O5 P; o, b! M, X"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 0 t" U- B' [% P

: E, [) I% p+ F9 F. X; \6 ]Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ( q4 e2 y9 F4 L9 W
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. . C, U  L# p. J2 v
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; `9 i3 L! c. o, \% W4 d# D7 zAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. $ w$ S% ^$ ^/ M. k% |  O  j+ x5 C! h

! ^! H  q% G5 T9 f1 G# ZThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区. D# m) U1 b& s+ _

( S: ]) E: |6 _9 |8 p* Ors238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 b% J0 M& |: T/ ?

9 e& ^( g- q5 C5 cBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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) O7 z8 h. `. x- o/ ]" E; mIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ k; T7 O8 f* ~$ O* n- R

* q" o( D! G6 P7 x; ?. W0 T"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% e9 L6 M& J' b2 o9 j
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."