[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。& ~0 n1 f- V3 f3 I+ F; |: \$ t
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据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 E' b4 {/ u& W  H" E4 \7 z% \

6 m" l! X  X: v1 g! U6 }( [4 Y1 Drs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。! I) J& [% V! N8 X2 h# |; k' G2 F

# {- Z  u- |' i2 N& Wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。# j2 s$ C- C9 m

8 K7 c; j/ q4 m% n" Q* \人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。

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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 1 `+ m* z5 {/ o+ C* Y7 u8 j
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
; H) g7 M- @, y' C/ s8 XPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 0 B- G$ F, K" x( w
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 c/ u( v$ C5 m3 ?, R
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 9 L- P3 U+ X7 ~* O
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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% V* C+ o0 D4 S, ~) h8 u* j人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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, z; l: f9 o0 {& RUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 1 g) u, y: g! \. M, i
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+ z; Q4 i3 s! q: {7 B4 u人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区! G1 `3 \% y! E# B# }6 Y0 f  d1 I

0 H% _% ?# h, j; B  M# OThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. . d$ L4 }8 v2 H/ G, [

+ f+ b4 d2 D8 a' t7 _8 A7 FThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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. }5 w+ J7 N+ K! J, Z! |But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. , V$ o5 r' I, w# K/ Y) d' m

8 D, b3 z' S/ A* i) D人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区2 @- ^8 g+ D5 S! k0 I% l9 m

2 o3 V+ m/ m% q6 @3 @"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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Women shunned high-flyers for men with average jobs

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