[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。/ w. T. o/ H. L8 L
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。$ n: U# }6 v- I. s/ L

* F: n7 x, e% q$ k根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。5 n; c3 a" y) Y! N
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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$ j+ X. r4 ?. p; I+ oWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区. h. {. F8 G# r$ H- v3 X
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区. s3 V' p! P2 M! z: G0 N
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区+ \5 j+ i* ^" _' {/ W! A9 t- q

, M. _6 d# c9 [  e" X3 N% }人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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( Q. ?, H/ v# b9 |3 CLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 5 j1 Q, K2 W4 i, N) k' V; e

& J. A9 b2 ?, V9 `* u人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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2 k! r' a; C3 jSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. " g9 D! a  j8 ~

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3 b: r0 b0 u8 a: W$ Hrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. . V3 l7 [, f! T# O  m7 R5 I
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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; {' ]+ E$ T1 @! w% o2 \4 e人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 0 B$ ]2 c) n0 s  n& X

' p7 H* ^/ y. H4 Z' N" ^rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. - o+ n* i/ a3 _' c
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. , _( r2 }3 ^7 h  A! t5 `2 r
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. . z# J! \3 D" O% O4 ^

; I5 U) p# ]4 v人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."