[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。
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! x; V! r! C: A- U/ G2 L# E7 W  ]rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。2 u- y7 w8 B, k1 p* V
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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! D* K. D8 K, f2 [根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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$ r# i! h" s% Y研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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8 [" t4 `  L( I) [, H. ^& Srs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 4 z6 s. }" t- `4 i; J& V! S3 g* V

  ~( B$ Y* \: i5 p1 F! N+ e4 O- YHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
& U1 N- y/ k6 F4 u2 jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 A9 n. d6 v8 \) }! s0 i1 M" s; {

) \7 K& i0 y6 r1 _8 ^3 u$ Q1 DBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区- Z( R8 N1 F* g( f7 M% G
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ' j3 ^! U6 Y2 \) H; |$ f& D

+ {0 x2 u3 A7 ~# ^3 `1 {Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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; h( f- T; V- e, C2 U4 T3 ]; Hrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. . q5 o7 R+ l$ r! F: a3 {7 R
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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7 Z* w1 f2 W2 \  W) d) v, t人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. - k9 ~; P) F. T- [- D

7 z) k% ], d% `& H& bThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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. l$ C' j: ]6 _3 r0 |9 x0 i: J, vBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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1 C8 O6 ^4 W) z4 @& S: X; Y6 t# fIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.   {9 }: e* e$ V4 B1 g. d
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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Women shunned high-flyers for men with average jobs

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