[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。" Z' ~2 x4 a5 L" w& k& Y

: b4 x- o' v1 `$ n: a  _人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。3 M7 f& R: ], `2 t& x

8 F, f# j9 T. R2 [7 l" O1 _/ q研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。, S: \7 G7 _  k7 L6 _5 X! {5 S* e

- @' Y) K$ v/ X! Q! z/ ^$ Nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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* n& Q9 k" x8 ^" [( |1 {$ R) trs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
- B; O0 r, v6 ]9 \人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ P/ h  F* R/ H/ k0 f! ]
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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/ z1 G6 C% G4 }( d# X- `The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! o( o0 _$ O: F; _/ p. N' y

& R7 }, t& Y/ c( ?. U- GLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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' o" S4 O7 c! I+ @/ Srs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ; R* f- Y4 K  r1 E5 d

2 e- u: j" I, Z1 B; m5 @% I7 Mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区6 }9 q# P* J4 F* U  J( s

- m6 ]6 f5 l* MUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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0 q6 B+ s  Q* R& r5 BSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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2 U6 n3 g  p9 kAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. , `# m" l# F$ x2 ?4 I& k

' s( K2 h' \  @( q' m2 nThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区# M% e! {5 ]) E  A( @
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区7 B; S& K  x0 _, A4 ?$ t
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 0 q# C' d3 X( H( A2 Z7 y) g4 _

& f8 \: s/ A& E. ~, U" ]"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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