[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) m( w! O: F4 `7 E

+ L) ~# z. T0 w! z0 V5 P/ C' l" W人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ @1 W- A0 L; ]5 o
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。; v; m8 ~- |! p* y, A2 I

& \8 z- q5 ?4 {# U; N- ]1 X9 W2 Y根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ y- o) i, c* E
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! E" L$ H6 P; k8 o# l

% `3 h9 T+ u# L/ g6 c% dHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. , m- ^: r$ C/ I6 b1 @8 t
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ; M& @% B$ @7 O/ ?. U" H

1 r" }2 c1 L: W) L- L' hThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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+ k9 P0 [+ d' R8 _0 s6 }Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区6 I( Q3 E# C& Q; \
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ! N- ~  X, ]; w; b4 q* m. O

. f* @1 \( N2 B+ c; P& c* E9 {+ O"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区" u2 x/ O8 W3 D3 _+ d' l. E
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 6 @) i- w# d3 c

; [5 |1 o0 `2 A+ a8 M" {rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ' L0 I. a& q: n) N; ?

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 1 @( q/ z. ?; _- `3 B& W* o
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ; n8 o+ a& M3 I( m6 O! D9 p* m

8 o- V8 }6 b8 v4 V% J( X" @The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. * v9 ]! L1 s4 ], g
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 2 Z1 c/ {, X/ @' S, E/ i5 I0 M

+ w/ h3 u/ K$ B+ n1 Trs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."