[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。- x3 U( B6 c9 I3 s
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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6 g( v% o5 k2 a9 I: j  ZWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' . Y, y9 n) ?0 j

7 S6 G( K2 W5 |) d5 n5 O0 @rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. + l- }$ }. b( y9 @, ?
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 7 g( z. I1 O! [% L) g9 o

# U0 u, ^$ P' G: gBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 4 g+ f/ d' r4 s5 v; N9 s

9 ^/ A; U9 H: I+ I' d9 P* e( @人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ! F& H" k: z, i3 W- \4 E" x  N

' _0 ^! m7 D* u- V. M! x- R1 Grs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( M7 T. @0 M7 A. h/ i
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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7 f6 @. ?# j1 z人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区' d2 z# I7 U5 ~8 t' S

; u7 o! {) v- `) N  `5 eSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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$ K/ C9 t4 X& T: g. LAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区4 Q7 J: ?2 m0 f% O5 d- g

: ]" s, R) p# kThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 c. E1 Y* [- R# X! r  |
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 4 D. D# L% C6 [+ O# |' ]+ q% y, L5 p
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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2 o6 e* z# R+ G' y"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."