[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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- N8 M' y$ L3 u  I据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。+ e* a3 L8 d- T" a! _6 l4 e

/ y# }' J/ J, \* C0 `+ ?1 x! {研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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) }; v( y$ l# n4 C  N" s9 U  wWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- o$ {- T+ |$ D( k! w
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 5 A: Y9 H) T1 q/ m% b( V
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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9 n: P6 u1 J. `; K4 ?2 N7 GBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. - F; j( U* H7 o3 C' z

; Z+ M& T0 l0 j9 I: `/ G# lThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区) ~/ p4 [- F5 W  ]6 U

) V: f: u, Y6 o: S( eLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. & v- u5 v& b$ ^# }
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." & \: Z) ^2 O3 G" y8 |3 P

4 o/ y, I3 O! h1 Q' P6 M5 g, ^' L$ QUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区7 p  d" S5 s6 {% ?

. q& [! M" [+ {! |3 Qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. # |) {+ O. m) E, n4 j' f
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; ]" u( d/ Q9 M- vAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 3 `' M7 x+ {  F5 L! q0 l9 a2 n/ q
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 3 Y7 d. B8 Q0 t3 u  m
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."