[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。% O3 |" l& q% t2 Q1 W$ ^
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区  E. k) f4 q6 L6 Q, F
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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6 E) L* i. j: l" f4 ZBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. , \: i2 P( y! t& \8 {* Q) f, S4 X
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区! E0 @  W( z/ n" Y9 B! A7 `" G) Z) T

/ v/ W# H& Q* g4 H6 A/ |Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".   P. [7 ?2 v7 J: t
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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2 \/ F8 g1 M. {0 g5 K$ a  d"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 3 R6 v" i, F/ ?- f, h
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. $ f" t/ |' x+ D( g; K
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& U: y, b& z( bAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- P  k9 a2 W+ J6 R9 F' X6 L
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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  S+ y& h) ~2 X3 MBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: p& q9 y1 }" F" W4 t6 L

7 R8 f& w3 }% S0 Wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 0 e5 A4 z+ x5 g5 u1 A
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.   A# C* F  n- V* y' ~
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."