[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。% L% G" q( |7 u) m7 p. ~
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。# I8 A% x# ^# B0 r' P4 E& k7 r; Z
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。! {3 X0 t& r* G9 Q& W2 i

7 T6 W9 @9 Y6 m3 t3 m研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。% ]* ~# U' W" M) r2 ?5 g

' G# U$ d+ P2 z0 |$ B人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* }" N  i) `$ p' R1 {# K4 b

9 Y8 o& l# c; X# k' prs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 6 w0 a0 L( v& u
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ) v4 A- R/ f! T. Z, h+ A
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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% Z8 B; i! J0 U  w. h0 nLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". : \/ W3 O9 J/ t7 L5 c6 |9 A
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. * e' q; u# h: [. e% ~  n2 Q5 \

# Q; [2 L9 d& W+ \"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ) ]1 S% P7 D( E4 t
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. , P- N+ ?' j+ e4 ?3 ?* h

1 x; V4 P4 `: c( ISix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区3 q% R, {8 p' m$ K% t
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 5 s+ n$ x/ L( m) L0 ?* z9 B) i7 f

$ H8 _  e: u* l! w, \) MIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ i+ c( @8 u; L* E

9 b$ S+ c( m. x: T) X人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."