[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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+ D" {. P; t( g' S6 C4 Y: s据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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4 s6 b6 i; o3 l; D研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。+ i& k& ?3 X: c9 |& C2 J$ }

0 M* {, ]7 Y  n2 L人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。4 N& Z( j8 m7 a  z& d1 @7 z0 F: x

1 o$ ]1 Z& ~; u研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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1 w0 H9 y" ?, l, t- w# |Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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' P( Z. M$ X; d7 F$ i+ a, C$ `High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
5 P+ A2 N/ H& N; n0 s) B! i+ I. [* Prs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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6 v& L; o( ~& V  }The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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; A( N1 l1 k1 t人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区; u9 |- j- ?8 c% \7 x3 n
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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) f' g# @4 Y; U) J* ]4 L" S3 w) ^人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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5 J( S8 D0 x# |- {! c$ I9 tSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! r: s! w- N& j! v$ G

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. # H0 [+ t* H0 g. b
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 3 G) }9 a% u( k) ]3 N  V* H

1 S! Y- g; c9 `2 YIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 5 A$ H2 g+ Y% X- D: K
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."