[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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5 p! |+ r) k& p4 p据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区# h1 I( p9 L0 O. V- q/ q4 g* o4 I
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; B2 ~# d# F( v* |4 X  e7 i

. x0 [, t1 D0 A4 h1 ~( P. A根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。$ \& Z) k  v6 b' H. _: V8 K
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区! Q  n1 r* K: E/ T- f9 d8 R1 x4 G5 a
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.   ]  e8 |' {8 Q: G
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. , z9 @# N  F" f$ F: `- U4 I

- B; V. l" k  k; t% w2 l* _But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% u; _3 R8 S: o  i( P

; p' n& a& l& I% y/ I) Y人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ! D# c  o- _/ s# A8 X

/ m/ m" |- t6 M& prs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. % p# h( w5 F+ K) j) M

! ^# s* i, d6 Z. i; \6 T2 Z"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."   p% t' W: |& A0 i! g9 y6 C1 ~
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. % q& r% s& S; O: B6 k/ j$ ?# D

0 x4 {$ D0 {* i$ v7 Z4 j3 I( |, lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 8 e5 [  s& T; A  e

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. q9 c6 H! B* y6 s1 OAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' {9 V, P9 N: i3 o1 x- o

! P+ s; G: f- _8 y; uThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. : V% G( ~) P, a# w8 C6 g  z

# e4 Q. T, p. x2 a: V5 nBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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/ i& [7 n* |! J% [rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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/ `. f8 r0 f& R  x" r人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."