[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区8 v+ u5 T( E/ I5 {1 }5 y$ W
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。: |% e# M5 }' Q- s
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。9 S3 I6 u9 D( H8 \3 V$ \

1 s9 [, _, s. P: d研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。: B" z$ z5 r! C4 B# f  T

5 z) x$ |) R) |% y, H9 T* eWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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8 ~! @# [1 K' ~% Z) v1 x6 E: X0 i人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
5 i8 @& ?9 U) G) O" k5 o5 Srs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区. S1 q1 `4 i/ r$ v0 ~3 L

# X: s: b5 q  N, Lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, L% n* L& N0 o' g  n' K

& p3 x& O+ i  i2 U3 L人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 6 t  p7 X+ Q8 J. w

) Q' ^) \1 Q  Y# r3 G"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." $ M" ]" s. t- }# l* n9 m& @

. r0 U3 [2 S' Y! ~+ @  K2 y! W. Q# R人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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) d/ V7 k6 I: Q5 J9 k. j( M' pSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 3 A- l* Y- l3 i7 b1 P
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' N7 p. Q" `7 P4 W6 g7 y# x: o2 ^

9 c* z6 W3 u) B( Z& l6 GThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% j* R: T  T  k5 t2 Z& H# s

) J% j0 d: i- prs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."