[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。' T0 u% \* K5 R0 h

+ l; D: Y' {; K' p) j研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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+ z% l" u% J7 N6 x: O% Zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。0 M! |$ e  Q7 m! P. \
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研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。

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8 L3 _( B0 q: D  qWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 7 R7 I( T; J4 n1 V* W( f
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
( u5 y, _2 w# c3 y2 TPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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1 d/ q/ t, ^( ~! }7 Q/ fBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 A/ A. K* x1 G1 i3 z/ {, l8 n2 A

2 u! J* q) t% ?/ ~# c2 SThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. & w* {2 L& a0 \& y( @  _% p
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* `# V; I, \% W7 ~2 h! t+ |
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. . c) C( k4 Z5 B
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 6 ^& c, q# \. r1 J: o
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. - Q5 D( x* {* c& J) }! Q

- }* `0 I5 S. KSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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. R7 \8 \- x: ]/ x1 i& ?人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ' S4 q- `! R5 x

2 M1 u% S( E6 y" ]. S4 A9 jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. + s$ ?8 n/ F, G( f$ I8 W2 G, K0 k
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ! Q) m5 q! g) z" K/ `

  l$ d& d% e9 c& U8 ~" _But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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. |, ]  `/ r* P5 jIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. / Z% ~" C& g* [1 ^- s+ b0 r
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 9 _. _1 G6 r; R/ Y4 q6 W

6 Y5 N6 C9 y; r1 C8 `"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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Women shunned high-flyers for men with average jobs

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