[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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. o5 I) x: A6 w8 f  J/ W据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。) P) M9 {* d. ]0 E5 f4 w; I

4 q- I3 O( b2 B- U根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。* Z" ~# |- P# K. ?: y

" @( W9 C  G" U: C- {  N! y( q# @Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ' s- c- z7 u# K2 t% ?5 a' q  @
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 k& J" u( t% b1 Q& L

/ S% h2 c1 A4 ]; {5 M7 x# W: v' [# U8 `The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ( P. s* A; l; g/ p. N5 l: V

3 j0 a9 Z  {, T% I" p( J) _3 }人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ! i- |7 q# m5 o4 _. K
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 3 h% L5 ^2 d8 u" ~; y# Q( H) L
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 9 h0 y$ h; ^+ {

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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$ c. n( y/ e* C2 N) h0 B0 CThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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7 |9 {! }; K$ aThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ! C& ]% T  N3 \) s6 x
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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) F' y  ^7 e& k6 t4 z  q"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."