[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 |& g* C9 b8 G
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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2 i5 ^* o6 t# k6 y) M2 q6 j7 k3 j研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. * E3 f* e# e, J/ r5 j+ E5 k9 [
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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7 u0 m7 }$ Z. V4 q( }But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. l) e7 E. ]4 @3 Q4 D% f

- [* J# O$ E# R4 Q, j"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区* |' z' T+ z( P* m+ U4 b2 H, T0 E& \
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区4 ?, ~7 ]+ e% Z6 Q$ \

, w1 z3 t( }8 z6 d3 t, Z( [$ dUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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+ {! x+ c" V( @Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区+ ^# h- |0 G1 a3 m3 y  }/ L. t7 v
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" @: ~# u3 `6 F* h4 `0 i. [7 {# lAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. % g# g/ {) ]% A
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. % [- v6 p2 _" j% B3 a0 V4 L; o

& N8 N1 ^; I% qBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 [. c8 O& ]  f6 t
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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1 a5 j! c' z5 a# W: C% I"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 x% \; N5 Y! U* n8 O/ i$ w! ^6 w

7 r  D* _4 L  M' P4 l/ J"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."