[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" x9 T/ m" n: t, X; s

' p6 _, T' {$ X2 ^& A& B; I人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。/ j' _9 H/ _. K# U5 }- a1 j
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区9 A" w7 t' F' R. C$ A( H

* \! R9 j/ A. \! \' W/ G6 k! a根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。6 a1 Z+ M8 G9 R+ w" C

4 V2 H. F8 v) ~& X- S; l6 z3 t5 M; K研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区4 ~( y8 K7 }( [9 f
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
( I/ B: U0 @: ~, `8 t  d( HPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 0 D9 w  w! E! r
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ) D% n6 R! n. }: ?. V1 ]: O  I
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 1 C" p9 t8 h  V8 x2 g

4 Z- d5 ^. G9 m* D"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) o# d4 Z: D" F, m6 P

( ?' H) i" l5 O% g5 Y3 M2 V人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区( E* Y8 b1 t0 V4 Z5 O# J! K1 S
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 9 D) y2 z6 e* u9 m+ y8 V6 l
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 4 J" ]4 r3 G3 M* D' A2 @

! i) j' E# T+ B" V8 Z, b2 E' D人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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/ p$ B: ~. [( r# p/ z6 U( ^"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."