[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。3 N6 z: d7 O* O5 w  X) x
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。& Z+ G0 b3 O% ]0 g
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。5 \! M. P4 t7 I

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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
2 e! n& \7 x, S5 C' o5 @Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区% Z  B1 B( R3 q  ^

) L- {" s4 h! V4 f/ Y人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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5 r9 w( w- ~# X1 S- U8 z6 JLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 0 c8 H! g: ^& Z3 c6 p
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区) q4 [+ [$ A% P) d! t( S
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" [; z4 ~# `4 q/ |( P  oAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. % R7 Z3 _/ X) O

7 z' h- ]/ C, g9 G. B9 NThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 1 I& f7 y' }: p+ W3 H* {

8 D% y: W* ]9 F0 r人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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$ D# H: |" i! j7 }6 J1 ~: f人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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% s+ }: ]! k( ]Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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  P, Z* {9 d7 d3 i+ F+ f"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: k) H' ^) N5 o% a/ f- R

; c) K) {5 [8 N# D. x"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."