[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。1 h% [) ^# Z$ }

0 p0 n7 L5 Q1 C2 f据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。$ K4 B0 ^- x. x% U# M- d) B( @

- W$ `  M4 s2 L' `研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。4 ^* G* B# i: `) S0 V/ T
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。, e1 P6 S' n+ X5 `1 F% z) `) V# q
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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& v. }  P( S, K7 u1 iHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 9 t4 p; v  I8 q4 x9 }# u8 O! c
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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4 m( I( N* o+ W7 W( l$ a8 V6 f4 ?& sBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. , o5 X# e& r8 n. m" }  k; b! K. G' {0 L
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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. I0 p" D9 n7 j3 w9 c# z"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 1 l$ }! d$ e3 g* g- P( K# l

6 U) g: j% `& p- z1 F1 ~: B* Zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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- @6 o/ T! P; m: u8 hUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ; u6 J0 G3 q. P  f. P

7 e# V& D/ D; R( a* P2 R人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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6 W( ?8 Q( ?" `, E( [Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 4 k( H* I( n- C: r

, H5 I# v% a. v. T8 R4 q/ ~. zThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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: x! V1 t  f& t% T5 x! F% F0 G5 X. J7 `rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 5 [4 \/ S0 c& _

7 G5 P# o$ g/ V9 y1 B  l人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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) ~2 a, \' R3 t0 n/ g/ j; ~"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区0 m* ~7 o8 e9 v4 ?* o8 {
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."