[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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3 ^/ A4 _" w" K# u" s人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) ?: O6 u1 R2 s1 J: H4 d

! Z7 F  M  n# s# j- r人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% p) s& P: M/ G1 M7 Z- ~+ V

5 F; _' a0 A+ f( c" b研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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$ Y8 K8 c% i0 g* E! S* h- \/ FWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. % |. X2 s" _! L1 S; C8 s
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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: s; Y8 ~! i) @* Q) ZLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 2 \+ I* Y) Y# G) T' n7 H- x
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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; y% b6 s: k/ o9 y7 x0 q"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." : ]% l) K% X. Q) v
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ; e- c3 }2 f' j3 }' u: ^. O( @

/ X2 v: ]2 f3 C( ?: D人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. % _; O) d8 T. i6 p- P" Q

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ' d6 m# b! V3 g& a2 g8 ^
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. " _4 ?7 J# _+ D0 i2 j' [
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ) n4 f1 h- y& B

8 f# Y* K/ V6 L. `7 KBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. + `/ }. A$ t7 o- N2 }4 r

) h6 _( P4 A/ k, ^rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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! E4 k8 \' q: j' M"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."