[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。6 u, N/ c4 h5 C  ~; k# H8 R
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。3 b3 I' {. _. h2 t

6 I( x! B4 @7 A, X5 i+ Z; \, Ers238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de7 a  J, M# K# K( l

7 y; {, ^& |/ f7 Q1 X$ m& o研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ; g+ [- m# M: Q! T. V* i* J5 K
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ! W2 ]! @0 {! J- C* x& C

& t  r; a9 T$ u) D+ |& u: h$ GBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 7 {0 ]! z" ^8 A- `, R- ?
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ( Y' T1 o' h2 s' R. I; \8 l  P

. F" z* a% J9 |$ y, ?人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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1 z1 U" Z  I: U. Yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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* Z/ ?2 ]6 q+ C! z+ @, Wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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3 J% E( |9 U  _& z7 crs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 V5 P5 S1 Y" ?0 @. N( N0 a! @

+ ]) D* z) o7 |& ^0 Y3 ]7 rSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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, C0 ^' Q0 d" \) ^# l3 t; Nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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* C+ s$ F6 R4 G( R6 X# ?! r5 EThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 4 Q# u$ i3 g8 m7 E
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."