[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。; w/ d7 N- }+ a; p8 X3 F" ]
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区/ `, n; ], d/ ^  v( {' e* @# y
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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! ~+ p1 T! A) S0 i, L1 n人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。; p0 z9 S2 B  R' K1 s7 B
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 6 o* |2 x' G% V/ L8 \) z- ?
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区+ K& M+ G) g% q' ?0 P

2 \/ n# ?6 m+ l6 `! m7 U% a( o, `The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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/ F$ e! f/ `. C; jLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". . Q. K4 j5 w% C$ G, U
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 7 A8 q& b0 j, t7 y( k1 A! D
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 2 z9 r& q6 t5 ^: x8 ^) ?4 P

, `; b; T% e8 s4 [Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. , ~) G1 `$ n  A- t; G- C

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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- c/ y1 D% Z, k2 y9 b* L" X人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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; ^; m+ C- \; F' z8 w$ P$ Lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de7 `9 V" Q( q7 Y4 d# M

; v/ ]+ o* q: i  N7 C7 x6 HBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. , ~0 Q1 R/ I$ G% V0 c7 {
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 9 b# V$ p/ J+ M9 }3 z6 L" L  S

. J. z* m7 }' ^" N& ]# Wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."