[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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$ @1 h! M: j# H+ p2 @9 a人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% n$ d1 R9 T' q2 m# |

8 ~5 Q2 V! f: ^研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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* m" ^; N$ }3 t研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。, w" W/ a' \4 X

" V9 b% `& O/ t! _8 pWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
3 r- l( z7 Y  D) E' QPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 2 r; E6 ^7 {6 r7 L' C$ y5 \. v: V  h

+ X% [! c1 S. S) H5 vBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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( N# X. M" `0 l  q4 r- G, cThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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2 z+ P2 p8 }4 E2 _4 F) F% v9 `Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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+ [$ R1 V' s! X/ b# a' bUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区5 S/ C/ A% y% p

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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+ i1 G5 Q; e/ h. G/ }The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. - t% O0 i1 ~6 d. Z8 z
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区) v: [* l1 E" Q

2 v1 q& V% ]- F/ y9 H. x人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. - F' v$ V3 \) d+ N$ [' ~. I3 y. Z
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. % l( C* q- w4 d. ?* B; i# y  p: m
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."