[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ a- [, d* N8 U( c

9 }& T5 M+ ]: G6 c+ e, P* Y0 v据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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% a5 t6 F1 @8 q研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。7 w8 w/ a* S  h/ |% V7 b& D* ^4 L& P' _

2 V; P( r6 n9 a6 e& E8 F根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。1 _( ?9 U, X/ \5 o+ K- L

% @8 L3 n9 K" Y0 U人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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5 }' A/ ~+ m4 K& h5 Y5 ]0 Q! {, P0 v人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. + \0 G7 t, O2 f- V1 l7 V- B( u
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" z& n" g6 P$ Q) [- @8 ~

9 }3 G, v: y. u# SBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区  A( W1 W( x* m

7 V3 j2 X) P1 e# o% Z7 ~: kThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". " D8 b8 ]' N7 \7 X9 z7 ~5 d$ F

8 @7 J& B2 U  @6 l( A* }rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区# c, R) q6 |4 T0 d9 G

% y# b2 ^+ {* G& A"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." / E! K% {. S; a

: t4 E5 d3 o! H6 F$ M2 l! cUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 2 x4 P6 u( x$ W- V- B

* K' Y5 T6 {- m2 m' Q" ^Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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4 Q: }9 ?: ~' f& X! J3 y* r. QAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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! i% t  g4 G6 t$ YThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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; F7 z. S# B8 g2 O) m人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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3 U  u* M: w) |5 y9 m8 c9 zBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. , W6 t( x* X, y, t
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."