[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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9 F5 P6 N! F5 k, ^& t据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区. K5 m3 R* V# r4 x

. O8 F8 t% c( c0 X. B' L研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。% B! ^, `& u3 S% K3 \6 J$ Q

* x  j  D8 W5 {# r) ]* j研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。# h) X0 ]% i" \
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+ E  [3 O0 f3 ^. y; c& \% w3 {' v人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区% G* O8 P5 ?9 U% e5 s
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. . Y! \& i- n5 I9 Z  P! E; b

3 f& g5 X. W3 J  _3 |3 V; v* o$ lBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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5 D7 x* {, x' M# G& e+ Ars238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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- I- R& u/ x& E7 X+ o+ p人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区3 R3 v0 j/ B, S" }& {' k5 t! z

) i0 }: B" D+ K* [4 N8 F6 z' S人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 8 p% w1 h; `$ f  b7 _5 |( w
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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* X: b* i+ H  v/ I  l# Trs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: ]0 `- x- n- }0 R0 k- \

1 T) l: X$ @/ n& g; ~& F% l( R人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. : j# p2 U1 z9 w# }$ N1 U4 P0 @

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区( A: R+ m$ L4 |! D% S( h; n
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区' N/ _: y: X/ V1 W9 f

) ?& {8 ?9 O5 k人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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. S; ~' w% H9 W- \4 X" EBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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& O) }& f9 u3 x人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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7 E6 p/ E5 l! Q"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."