[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。& X& _+ O. B* b, Q  ~

5 B7 n4 e- b/ u. D, y  ~研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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6 \  G7 U" u, E8 |7 S4 Q根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。& a8 }0 R& d8 B8 d  D3 e4 R( }

) m$ ?/ I+ w2 b2 }研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。( D7 L7 y+ Q1 ~; s& G

" P0 M3 Z4 N- b4 `: z, Z: sWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 p1 p7 ]( N, l$ R' U- Z/ _" Y4 I

8 H2 @0 E: I" C0 `/ C( eHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
6 K! K: |8 u$ t1 s7 ?& TPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ; x8 k2 v& K- R1 ?
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 8 T- G* ~: K/ M

3 k: |: v) E+ e- X* }Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". * @7 x9 H4 j7 |9 l; l7 M

" q0 r2 T$ k6 K( Z. ~( e9 m' h3 ["Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 9 O: ^7 Z; u  J" z8 `

6 f$ l! z' e0 I6 H"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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! [: }# ~& K! ?, d! _% O5 c! D0 |Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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, `. O6 a6 o% }+ X) c3 D2 u# a人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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) @0 H8 s7 C7 `0 JThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 6 ^3 Y8 Y8 p' U1 O4 U

6 r( ]; M/ c; b2 L& BThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区3 y8 s" s. c/ U( e. l) |+ ?

; y) Z2 R3 Z7 g# Y1 n( R( H: Q& JBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  T4 Q7 ]3 c1 `4 n/ L1 j1 w
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. + m; K) n4 H( @" ^5 [- O) ]3 c5 y6 A
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."