[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。" S8 R' T% l$ M- ^0 ~$ u  n% f6 e7 @. h. J
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。* `$ p$ _% h+ j6 m- q4 ^4 _
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
/ s4 R" ?1 C+ C, }Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ; ~' {3 c/ b0 {! T5 q& ~8 y

. T4 c! l: v2 k; @  KBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. : A3 r: o% A2 q0 |# i
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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: U0 c6 y  R5 [' s. c人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) h8 p! A* R/ G$ S& x$ @6 ~

2 x$ R( u3 c% f# B1 ]2 e: r9 \"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. . l  P7 S& M- t. s9 I* b1 k6 l
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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* v& H3 Z3 W6 \8 ^8 H1 M. T9 R( ZUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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8 O" C' S! U4 A' P$ |; pSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 z5 m$ [: O* A

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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* I' l& B2 d' z* {5 ]' R( pThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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& F5 u# h4 U6 S5 \3 \  F2 r4 O0 {The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. - d! M( l; e5 r% B$ s  j8 U! W
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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# _+ e3 p1 F; l人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."