[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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$ t7 N/ q5 L7 B0 w/ d: j据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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4 e/ b! o. @5 `# ^研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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8 e0 E- e7 ?4 k! w; Y- }+ f6 \0 z1 t根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。* u& u' Z- `4 h0 B7 S1 ^# A0 [
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。- q% g3 m( R) W8 K- E
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' + b  V3 ^; h. }" ~6 Y7 R

3 i' _% X! O# R+ v* G# @  ?! q$ M3 @High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
3 A' E1 C# s& M% A0 i' ~Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. : K: D5 b! @, Q5 o
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" c) y! W1 G) s" K1 N9 k
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". % u" Z( o, \' _2 x$ _& K+ R

) p) L2 ^5 D8 E5 i( p; H8 [5 ors238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. + L) J0 O3 |' n0 Z

5 r3 ~, I- Z, n* d1 a  d5 @& I. x人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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  i. D1 ~9 g- _( TSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 9 }7 X  Y  x" G
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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1 n9 A4 Y% B" qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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& S: n5 T9 M/ I) K1 rrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."