[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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) Z& f* O& w/ ?根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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( y, h; E$ [4 i4 Z, r$ `研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区- V% J# d+ f3 k

' ]/ f. g6 C# r$ U+ ~Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ' B6 a) Q- h9 x7 g
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 9 u' w& p2 W6 c
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! A% I& ?9 W, h& B( V

: }! ^) \% |. Y7 x# L1 Z: O  SBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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0 S# T5 X& W! x* W+ H# @rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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4 m4 c! o( O( |  X$ a$ `' U/ f"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."   [) O  ?- m- ^1 Y$ p; p7 n

7 T: F+ Z- O4 `! {/ o& _- ^人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. / V( z/ U" H3 f# N) g: ^. n
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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6 e: ]  m5 B% p# F6 JThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 Q$ A( _& O5 E

/ |0 z- y  h& i7 ]人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. + ^2 [, s/ I6 S$ n) ~2 I, z6 k
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. $ a# }0 v" E+ O4 a/ u( |) G& D/ v. D

1 a7 R. o9 Z. s3 Q! }) D' B"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."