[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。+ N% s5 R- E2 I/ p1 }3 s3 y

- ^; F! @. H; {# D  h4 n7 V. n研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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3 l3 y" {* H4 Z7 L% g人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。& W: X. q/ X0 @

0 e7 G3 G) k3 T% ^7 V8 U研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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, A" L6 ]& J9 P+ R2 F1 zWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 3 f2 x2 r( H3 M- ?; w
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de# B  e  o: z$ R* N9 Y
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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# }1 c3 y! d. J/ y9 _: h7 R! T2 Lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. # M# i7 ^; u; e/ v+ s

$ O7 ?& C5 o$ S; j0 y: s9 [$ A! \rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区! {' A" ?6 |9 N! v8 r+ k% C$ A

4 n8 U5 g; X5 g/ M* Y- v人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 4 R' D$ ^: A2 F+ @% @, k& s

2 E) D5 F0 {3 C1 d6 ~0 l3 K2 i人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 0 c6 K, R2 Q( r$ {* s  o

  z9 J3 `# a, J$ Ars238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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1 \* f8 s0 W& v# d! h4 K人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ) o& p0 ]/ g1 s' x: ?0 V; F# j

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 0 k7 Z4 D! A3 S, W# n
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. & G+ `. R$ [, \) s; ~* q

2 a& W6 |- w' C0 `' _The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区2 t; u0 N8 l" k2 m' G' I3 O- E* k

  t6 [: ~' Y/ J2 a1 }; \+ b% _rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区, b% |  O0 q! ^# m7 O

3 l/ {- j. K0 d/ Q( ?- S人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 6 J  x* U: Y9 M3 |: y$ e

5 G2 G# P% Q+ d; |"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 8 o* o6 H: k" p% @' l

8 h' B5 ?- c! n$ @"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."