[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。  j! Y1 u3 Y; ]4 y; j
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ y' _& b9 R! ~+ O

( p4 ]" j! m5 m; h) a( v根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区" n: v" i% w( d8 [- M, o

: \$ h8 l: A* h  t' U  F# _+ XWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'   @  ~6 Q4 j4 r4 W5 W- m

* ^6 D9 F  U) {9 I人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
& W/ h% H' f( u0 [Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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! X- \; ^$ |/ f: G) {' O8 nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区( I4 N. W- q$ q: {
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 4 C1 @5 H$ ]5 L: B$ m

6 y/ q- M8 f9 W$ Y' X"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ! _6 L3 l# j2 ^. Q* p! }

. F' o8 T9 p+ Q$ w( O9 v* }) A"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 3 a$ ?$ q" n' _: ?
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. * l+ L/ L. A+ x- D
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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( u0 f/ Z9 i0 v3 q" XThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 2 L6 p! k8 y0 n3 |
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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9 i2 }+ B8 H* b# c人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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, F6 O) \4 z# x" h"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."