[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。4 _1 I9 Y4 i$ E0 l

/ j$ j6 G5 m5 W# C* V据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。' S) t1 _$ Q4 \4 c& H4 M

8 k8 `2 @+ T$ ]' I" x9 v2 Prs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。+ j( {: a/ y; r4 k
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 }  ^" ^$ S' X: W9 [
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 4 m0 v- `- R5 e  I0 K; Z$ C, |2 e
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. " q! h! ~' P" x1 f, h
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 W4 u3 T+ H; j# y& ~4 U

' P* _9 `) s3 _, c; A0 HBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- C( I; X* L9 m+ m4 X6 g3 R( F

' U% l; A7 x. X; N* Frs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 7 z: M  X$ Z+ l6 S& e9 q; V

- Q% f# V% B5 o) ]' x人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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, M/ `5 V5 t* Z& Q0 c7 X- x6 Z9 Y, H"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区- v2 @6 ^! U9 f+ b- t) }3 w# Y
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区$ w9 u# k4 w/ C4 i

/ J. w$ [$ g% ISix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. % r, Z% r7 v7 A7 j; V3 L% G
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区9 g6 g0 X; }  W- F$ y& D( d
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. # W! t  z" |' x

3 U3 n" G) R/ ?9 E: ors238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区; g# K- d# E2 d5 Y

+ g3 c; u, H/ P9 D3 b: p"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."