[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。' Z9 z8 C1 x6 M6 M' a/ g$ |6 w
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。- E9 C0 `$ N) O  {

7 t4 Z. w7 q. @8 X4 B根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。0 h4 j! h( Q8 e

' P! i$ Z8 j9 S研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。6 d' B: n, i" R1 f: V- [) S, p4 H4 ?

5 m5 \  L" P! f1 i& E, J3 Ors238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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# a$ q, `  p' |人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
1 m2 G/ e& _" Y% H: X0 p' oPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 9 o" P7 p. S* u' n4 x! @

; c( r, X* K' ~6 M' q5 L6 @rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, F1 R+ x2 b) ~7 Y
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( \' q) O0 u5 g8 }
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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) d7 z: G4 j* g人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." % a9 r2 g6 W% i' \9 {8 y! A" i

  {# X5 z( W% y9 P& Y) VUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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7 H3 c' S  {0 X, V, B! ]- q% X* pAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区" P0 A5 o, D/ C- P3 r) b

, E9 A5 ~0 L) V7 i5 v" o$ k" D$ H% nThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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/ r7 |( d5 I: Z7 U6 rrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区6 r; [8 R- C: n

5 A1 E* Y$ y: x6 P5 V+ pIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ( D1 G; ?( Q% C8 J0 i2 E  F- P
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."