[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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0 J$ B& V( z: d0 J% g$ m2 Mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。* |; k* g! a* \5 C' a+ w( @- Q

0 T- Q- Q2 e* ^& e  R9 v人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。2 [6 T' D# |( }6 n
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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! }$ p+ T, C( a  [人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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( f) z1 G! Z+ r3 |High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
. X" `4 t" x! C. h4 y/ q2 Z. ?/ krs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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) [' D* ^1 ^% b( y0 urs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 6 N5 Q5 ]/ o; ?( b

4 v5 K1 c6 D. @rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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: F2 M8 q, H) ?+ w9 I"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 5 `9 W. i: u% I: H/ C6 U

! X+ }" ?) j3 g"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ j2 F' k/ |  |1 B) Y
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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/ d( U! E% c$ H8 ]Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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3 ~4 X: ?9 S( k1 f7 ?% `The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 \: L5 R& v' i; p9 I6 Q

3 [; I/ t5 S; Q( BBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 2 B' o: f, x9 T" n+ D
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区3 G8 a# a. C! n. K' d
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 Q& a' ?' ^$ Y+ @" R' {! [  F$ X
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."