[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。1 M: I$ X1 j6 m! |; _; F% L3 l

) [5 v: r2 M- p+ e研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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7 Z7 ~5 s4 B' ?! F1 ~0 {rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。( r3 o4 A0 g6 c. F" B

# _2 L3 ~% I, p  K研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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% [4 G) ?8 t4 }- s! hHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
7 w1 n0 x5 D( MPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. * {) W* ~) I4 t; F- W

/ x& ?, N% d8 E" }: Y/ T0 TBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 3 X. p0 x! \+ X/ O

4 a, l4 o: V/ vLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区! \5 n* E9 a& l  [+ U+ a9 A) a
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 U' B1 z2 s. O

$ W! c9 \4 |9 W) e$ k" \, G$ N: q"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de# c' e* F; j8 N) F
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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" d  H* |: O& w# \5 K5 RSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 0 S/ t- p* H1 k" k- C
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' y' J1 r. b6 n. Grs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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: }+ `0 C* U9 V% gBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 3 ]1 ~  B  K( _! m, |- y- [% y
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* e3 N; q7 y5 ~

: A) E! v% W. z9 W0 U5 [" @, N"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de7 t: j! d/ p. C3 h7 ]5 f
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."