[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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' `6 O: W- h4 ^) {' a' Q人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。) D6 r* Z7 v  X
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。) w% V  x  B+ X, n) \0 Q
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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& Y+ R! c; d3 r$ a  j; z9 ]6 OWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 5 p  J+ n: c8 K+ V
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区( B$ _# e. V- x7 T1 c
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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  Z- d) z9 q5 O7 T. Srs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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6 T6 j; Z+ h- }; E- k) R" N. sLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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8 d" I$ `# B; w8 n# Yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. : K0 R+ T7 S1 `# S

; |6 c4 T; M( C  S$ l( irs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ; C0 z6 E  \+ u/ [1 ?$ Y6 E
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ( x" Z" o* W/ X) [
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. * p, p3 b' `9 ?* ^8 r  `

! S! D! d' |  ]4 l1 q& ^. J5 i' JThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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+ m2 e5 O3 ?' p9 p) K3 T人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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1 ?/ D- G$ X. J8 A! \人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. # e. \5 r8 O. T5 m) |! z% c2 U

7 o( ~, f. Q" h: R; Z人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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9 @# H6 q+ Z$ o& F2 s7 s人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."