[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区3 D9 S1 t: _! R0 a" _  G

- ~2 |- q6 M* _9 R据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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4 K/ x; K% {$ E! T2 \# n2 x* ~研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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! j' n9 Z% ~) r' G1 f5 h人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区* J  ~1 U% i( j0 `! n/ C* H
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: R7 V8 q" Z& {6 v. K& V0 B
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 5 \9 I8 d' |* d, H6 k( {

; @2 y7 e8 }0 ]+ K; eHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. # V9 F5 r$ C+ y" \
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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& p3 o* i9 A8 q& O人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区5 U- [( e' t+ E

4 b5 m' B8 o  N! m  b; X4 @人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 4 e% K. i$ m4 V3 B5 e0 ~0 L: j

# d1 Y! a) P1 \$ ^! CSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. " i2 E/ M: O7 ]% j* Q
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 z$ @7 i  P6 }" V6 }6 L  s

! V$ K. D1 I* @" |5 _The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ) [* R8 o$ ^; v+ n+ C6 s
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区' J- c3 O- K9 f. M

  ~" V5 w" o8 W+ k4 D* v' Vrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."