[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。; v1 }) T" G$ S
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。7 o3 I1 M$ @+ T1 d6 R% g0 {: H( p

3 X$ m. T5 j' m, L  E2 d+ Lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区% B7 s: s5 E$ I) D' @
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( d8 c1 p4 x" y) Q; b
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
: O- y- E2 A7 C/ KPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 0 M) B5 r6 u3 }

1 h0 r" x4 G$ b; ^+ P7 Y/ Z! zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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8 A, A+ k& m6 q' a2 sLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". & Y- x: l& R4 z

! M4 _* N( J: f% {& C"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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! t6 a3 ?0 V: j- H7 I7 ~2 j5 T"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区/ i% A; R1 K" a; u% s: {; d# u4 n' v

. d* G( H$ t$ [" I) L1 [, P人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ' f$ G9 x; u& {+ p# o5 X3 U: {7 l
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. " I+ r2 e0 |% v6 ~# f

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. z3 ?" R& U% m) J6 N' h/ Mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区9 [! w  G0 m5 r; y# `: u3 W4 t
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 6 s) }5 Q1 v9 U$ B0 @: f+ D+ Z
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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# B; J5 s8 i$ v3 {rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."