[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。, ^/ s9 y1 v" V) e3 q+ C! n

) T2 v% E1 M- u8 j据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区3 M& V! {& d- c
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。6 Q8 i: {5 x- R4 n; n; ~2 z% V
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。) Y3 |  I5 J1 t# M
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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2 _) z' p5 J  g& a: d/ j9 G) sWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
5 k. p! t( ?3 `' WPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. $ u1 w$ D2 K8 ^
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". + _4 X1 F' Y. \& a% S
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. & J) J" A/ C0 `% q

0 w" [* w0 g0 C) q% |7 c9 c"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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% L& g$ o% w7 ]Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 9 {( p4 R1 B) A$ x8 O
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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6 `' D- R! L% [: B. iAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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" r) U; f0 y) s, @* D+ RThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. % G/ b! ?3 U: _' n% b0 a
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 6 s4 T* ~$ I* \5 I  N
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ' H5 @( \; Q, {

. I7 R9 }6 N/ ]" bIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ H& B& {* ?3 i8 D, r* n* U7 o
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."