[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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- p6 C- k9 F0 M. ers238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。- C4 J4 h+ x: C7 A; Z

3 s% r8 T% V$ F- L根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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; C$ `; U3 a& {! j) p1 W2 z/ h0 lHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
. i2 K. q& G; v9 c9 Jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 `: x- n9 w  {6 x

4 C3 t1 F5 a8 L: u  _) qBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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* v' u& I: B7 e3 o2 j; A人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ( H# J; v7 \8 `! \; n

: r$ L; U% g$ \6 W9 W人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de# z2 y. e$ s& l" F$ ]' @
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; v' n5 m  `4 Y+ o  O
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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  f" G0 Q. T1 p4 _: x9 {Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. , s' }$ c1 J- q2 K* I( D
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 8 g2 B& r; k% s4 n1 S
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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' N' x" X  w$ WThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% V8 I) u3 B* [3 E) [6 C+ h! X

& Q# S6 S+ O( C) j& g: `: _! Nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 4 f8 K1 i7 N' V& S# o7 k( w; H
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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, t2 F' ?1 D/ {( ors238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."