[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。# M% _3 g0 {9 {# F1 O
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. [5 Y% I4 H) L' e; f0 l; \* B% V

, k. w7 A. [8 n) l0 O根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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' Y8 ^; X/ X7 v研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。1 r4 Z0 l! Q) w5 z2 i* k
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3 @& v  ^" X: E  w5 K人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
3 G1 u6 |( i  W% s3 H人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ! |4 ]$ W5 x' e. |, P
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 ~" ~/ N) z  N6 O- L& ?
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区# c" R  F- S% o; g  C# m
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 2 G' L! l9 X" f
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 4 S2 D: D5 t. `9 X1 n
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. $ ?$ ]1 a+ G& q" f, @

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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/ J3 o# r# r# {2 k. i+ @人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 9 u* B2 F8 C" {: @: N, [7 G0 p
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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' t- r" K# y, g- jBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- S) D: O# a" `3 \# @0 p

& I0 d- z9 b6 u2 G1 ~0 C  qIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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3 N! L) D; b5 o* u' x8 ]rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区. g( Y, Q0 ^7 K8 u2 p/ U3 `

8 I8 V; T# j7 j) F. O* Y0 p"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."