[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区  y1 X" Z9 a- A4 z& X
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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3 ~$ d! c/ ?$ t5 Z根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。& M; s$ L1 t. E+ l2 y0 i

; ]( `! |4 y2 b# p研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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6 f. P+ |# S- b1 z$ j人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. & l5 g& M% A) r) B3 a# w
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. . a: \' x0 Q2 _9 @
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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5 C% O) ?* w/ D3 i9 ^( r$ D% DThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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$ o" L  }- N  Jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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% a) l. G* u- O# {* e1 U"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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- @8 Z0 V) z/ j; I" _% qUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 3 w; r/ r4 j- ]  y8 h

2 n7 J* C6 @3 f8 O3 G8 ~' j( MSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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% @5 I& J; {7 I0 c6 c6 oAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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. D) S/ A' L# d1 b5 fThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. : v. S9 `9 n" V0 E; w% Y

1 s0 F$ T9 p) G: U; r0 ~* _But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. # }# E# C$ D# j1 p  J: Y

: d- d3 r8 _' y$ j3 yIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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/ S/ ?% F" \1 ~5 u% U! x人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."