[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。( @0 r1 O* V" K9 {  i; C

/ `, r" M5 j% n- p+ p) Q  U人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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. s; b6 ~/ ]: R8 |5 _rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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. x7 `0 y; L9 F, _3 y1 Irs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. - T3 y0 _) }3 ?& a  J+ z
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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* o9 {, a% {+ h# Y4 Ars238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 7 A0 Y5 H' w3 d: B

/ h. a- d7 ]. |3 zThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区5 @: S. r% E2 x' ^# a( R% u' Y$ M
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' v) T! }% \. o% v, r* x+ c+ T9 B: L

. U- A5 j" X$ e9 {2 irs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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: P- {) T0 s1 v9 h9 {. @7 I% G7 [& W"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区9 h6 v" J, t  D0 U/ z2 w

7 n/ ]' E# _1 X& fUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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/ o& x9 i6 k* h2 s- [# K% iSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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, D9 f8 R* N' }% p+ z9 S人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 5 V: P/ b" s* Z" k; {3 S

' D( o5 R, v+ ?$ n! cThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区' z' P( _2 W& G# N6 ~3 K2 S
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区) y3 ~! d, k2 T" C' m  C' U* i

: q9 i" l7 ?3 {  X5 i- O9 pIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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: E& }$ d5 e8 r: K6 e, N- jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."