[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区) l' j# ^0 w4 W2 r, [" c2 ]7 P$ W

) S" C, J% K5 H% t据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。5 H" a) E% V' r+ s3 S3 b

4 n5 z" F3 x6 T+ p% C2 `研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。7 `  h- Y" F  q4 t* I2 A: g, Q8 P& N

% H& V" J% ^/ G" I3 C% d根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。6 W; l2 B- r& @5 w' _6 \

% K9 Q* [% L' k8 d- T) r研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。. |5 r6 G* L( p3 t- K! O. I
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
4 L) K, {3 b) MPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区1 D. H6 l6 T9 Q+ c

2 Q4 F8 I. `# oThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 4 H# Y- f6 |5 A  B6 W8 V/ B) o

4 M* F4 l! Y! f# o7 C8 l& t"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 3 L& }; y- A: k/ A

  g  \- A1 B; |, j4 `5 \" I4 ], {1 `The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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* L8 Q- s8 s9 ]3 {. ^4 U2 UThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ! p9 E+ ^, R& c6 C

5 M/ C6 ?4 l5 m, TBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. : S0 c# H4 \+ c$ M7 Z' f) G
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ; P( J* i  d: u3 o

5 y$ I' h! l7 }8 h人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 8 s+ T5 {+ W/ Q5 e1 R2 c' L9 X
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."