[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。3 l; b  D4 ]; D2 k& ~
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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& z3 u# _& u& i1 }0 n5 ^研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 G9 A; [0 j1 X0 t! M
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。) a/ |( U3 v# i: t

7 O/ [/ z: Z8 U! c' S/ G# n9 _( _5 Ers238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. \4 o  d8 T0 b% s( b

, z" J  ?' J* q2 v; q* B3 L) O人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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( G  u% n0 c2 k' y! [) y! G) b3 bHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区# F* S/ |1 o$ {. o! }) E
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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% H' j, r: e. H# C2 }2 Y  R人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ! X- D7 t9 D, Y" R' I5 u! `8 X5 s
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 b3 i& t- T+ Q% t6 [3 s
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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9 p+ [4 s" B6 m0 @"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区8 l2 H! e5 k  \2 G# y* |

5 p8 g- t$ `2 N  j/ P$ kUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ; c2 V5 j6 n# p; u& t7 B

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- R+ e/ X" I  C; x. C0 k* Crs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 5 S4 U8 z; ?( N* f! `
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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& l4 f# V) S& X$ X9 sBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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2 t  W  F! \" O* g; dIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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+ V6 V' L) G7 K& h"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 7 _. ?  h' S0 A* K3 P5 o2 F

2 ]1 R; t. {' Y8 j! ~9 _"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."