[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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' G  q% u8 y6 k据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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0 Y# v" r( Q2 `* X+ w5 c根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。6 p) h+ y( N# [! d3 q* \

0 H" ^9 T1 {# E- x研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。1 V' B( {" D' s1 l8 g
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  d0 v9 }6 W$ J
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区$ Z7 Z  t5 ^$ P  e
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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: m6 l. t5 D7 W3 D# l; i" s# n3 Urs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 2 i' t3 V9 q5 |1 ^' G$ O( |$ D5 x

# \1 R1 }, P' n4 FLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 1 o+ o% x& g* ~- ~! w5 b
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 3 ?3 Q- y: ]' u- C) Q0 U. |
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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' X6 v3 T' L7 G7 @4 l& m$ [) }Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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2 Y6 I3 h# b2 z( k3 [7 ?, o5 B: oAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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; E5 w/ ~2 [+ X0 FThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 0 r' a; j( C  g; B9 c5 `" `/ I: g
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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5 ]) D# k7 k/ }; E2 {* k5 z9 y"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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# [6 x8 j8 r% D7 o. {"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."