[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区6 N8 T0 s5 H( K& H1 e! x, k
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ Y! i7 n7 x3 z, [: e: s) Q

  I- q0 ~% Y- L- W8 f& k6 N根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( W" @1 t1 Z0 y7 t, h
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。- Z5 J4 F0 Q$ Y7 v6 I5 v2 ]! C9 M
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' : I0 \+ l, _$ M% v

8 ~: H9 }2 n5 G5 ]- C" [1 cHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
/ K) H+ c2 ?2 yPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. + |$ d% l& w# _! ]; m; @5 N
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: a: n7 E; f  N  M. @: W1 f) f

/ L) f8 N9 X) ]5 c3 Y! RThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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% f: {2 Z8 _# `4 f% H' ALead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". , J* Z* |! o" p3 q' E! X" `
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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( [( g6 a, a$ c& y"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. + r( ]2 y/ x2 ?! n9 R
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 7 E/ ]2 d; s/ q( N; u0 n7 X' ~; \
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 3 A7 F4 d; A, I1 Z2 X  K

7 C. {- ?& X  g0 k. E$ N9 i* q4 p人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ! ~; J- V3 p  \3 x1 c4 y& E3 f

9 B4 P) u1 ~3 U, ^2 G  n人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ; j; {2 e  D) j# s

9 H* X/ U( O# {"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."