[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。" F  }* E' |" T3 A& z
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。9 ~- @+ F4 T5 @, |

5 H3 |# i+ Q1 `& ]; x# Ers238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。% G4 Y1 \+ S" C& C5 L" d
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2 d6 A1 \( b: U1 ^5 Z# i3 ~  [rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ' p$ ^! R- h2 e3 k# r/ j
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% u$ O. `8 U5 j$ _) E9 P  Z

) x; c! v+ K5 c/ z( [) @7 y. hrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区, @' q. i) Q3 n( w! |

6 m- a3 [) m( y6 z5 O& Yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". , [2 f3 X# r) O% X

: W8 r# `' Y; y2 Frs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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: e( j1 G0 k' C1 c3 Ors238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 2 L- P( P2 g* ^( N- s3 c( ?) S

3 E1 ]! @3 p  C4 C: WSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.   Q9 `$ X  Q2 B
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 4 J$ L9 c( |. W" v
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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- V) c7 G0 v% ?% I4 E! V"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.   ?5 n# ?- o5 a1 W) j5 k6 f

4 J2 h* U, ?0 W; I"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."