[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。) `. H% N# |* E8 w

$ E7 ~2 _) n9 Z, l& ^人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。) @  i: u5 [8 t  h5 V$ r3 y9 v: m

$ \6 q, S, x: c- Y& O研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- L, O* j1 D/ g4 O5 H; Q) Q' @& K" r

! ]1 g( F+ Z2 R, X8 I根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。9 S' q/ E* V8 r3 n
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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& V" Q4 C! k  V9 G- lHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区/ T; K8 M4 b0 h+ _
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ( U4 d& R% ?( a0 E$ Z5 ~. s
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 7 k" L7 E# o, M1 N  t- i6 H( Z

- s; w+ B: H: n2 w9 J人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 8 u% G& D) y0 P& D" y& N5 b

( Q& [! p+ Q8 H. H( Prs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区; d% Q0 |6 x8 v- D9 n5 @  N3 u

+ r. k5 y: |, ars238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ) _6 o9 x. P. m7 s4 _

( m$ j. s" A6 {The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 R3 A) t; g! ]9 K$ F# R& X
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. $ p) C; o" X* a4 {! O

2 l. p& c5 U% o1 Z* S; q. ]' ZIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 P- g' c6 ]  `* L- Q

8 A' a5 }8 L, q0 B& ]+ ~. Y3 n3 v人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."