[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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* C  f/ Y' i5 N8 P$ M5 P7 \据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。& L/ L$ {! z0 M/ e
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。. d" {4 e' X- ^2 R

4 E8 S0 N+ ^  Y/ v: c3 s人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。/ U5 ]% s5 ]' K! Q! |# W$ ~

. T. t8 c& P7 BWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区; }! v8 X1 ~  \5 n/ @

' A  s1 s6 w$ O0 c1 K0 Yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. . ?: l4 D7 e! b2 T& G3 ?
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区1 J/ w( r: [, [' }% z

% j8 m; g0 H$ B. A+ u# a* P- PBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ) C! O% [3 p) g: @; ]

7 }  D) D+ j$ GLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 8 g2 n" Z6 E! }, I5 [/ ?

; y/ Y+ `5 A4 p" P( G"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 8 t6 ^+ u4 t1 w2 e0 [% i6 K
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, y/ B1 M9 F. T# b0 u3 W
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 3 H( ^5 N1 W# e0 Z# l. w8 I* p

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. - q2 g0 B7 C. f/ z
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 7 o& o/ i+ u  E' W. O# _0 A

, a# i- z$ c; C  ~9 tIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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! ~- N( \! u: K8 ~6 j5 j1 lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. , h3 G& r3 X& Y& I+ X
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."