[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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' e$ n$ Z. C4 z. Q. N! Z据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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' }0 o3 J, ~+ m' |$ o' o研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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3 N7 ~( t# B0 y根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。9 z1 t! T( P: ?; v. L( e

- \( {2 y: K; k2 b. I2 I8 ~' Q5 l2 K1 y研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。9 K  `3 e* ], V1 Y

, A0 O) r; a! M3 P$ h) rWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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1 J$ y) A! X0 ~4 w% @; G! aHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
9 W1 d" e7 i  s$ i% i% ?; ]; k% \Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. % v5 K! l" a, R6 n# s4 h$ I

6 U7 r& {5 o9 `- FBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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8 g3 o+ S1 q) @/ z1 I' kLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 1 e4 G; C& Q" @! y$ \# @7 F! t- `" N2 g
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 8 q% [& \. l% F3 @( Y" O
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ Y  G. l+ o" }1 P* g% _
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! S6 _# s' c. R( n* V# ?2 pAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! _; Y! D4 |  {
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ' q: O6 _8 ^8 A: @, p! F/ m" |; M

0 E+ D% o4 K( B- q  {5 S+ xBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 4 g4 b9 j+ V* k

" E( W. G8 e) Z- p4 mIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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& }$ B7 C6 n7 S. |% e1 P- \) @rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."