[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。, u7 P' v& C4 h4 {7 G+ P( w
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区1 Z- @1 u0 J& b+ P5 w/ y8 e
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" _: d0 ?4 ?" G9 E4 @  j

+ x' t* `0 F$ p4 E- {$ V人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ e/ o: A2 }: z' V- [/ C
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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( X' f: W# Z6 u# Q. Y  ?High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 6 B; p4 k* ~* {0 F
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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! P* i1 F8 J! W人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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' A, q. t! K9 z, o7 I6 KLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". / n, O# c5 m" D. H8 r
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" r% Y; B9 @( w! H) [1 J
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." # ^4 b& l, Z. v% L6 r% o

6 K- G* P8 j9 B: wUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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, a9 r" U5 a- Y3 ?; @' W2 y人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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2 p% b1 s' y" o# P6 j6 oThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. - `5 K' f2 W3 p7 [  T! Y2 F1 O! K6 i

, p, d6 X" {2 }; f+ ^& D& _But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' a2 U6 w* n) ]7 b8 O

  j" Q  Z4 F7 }. _Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 T8 f) ]  G9 _
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. / z8 q; G/ D0 n2 u

' D  A# Q6 p$ P8 ?"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."