[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。4 s: t6 H. s6 B/ z3 D
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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1 L. J/ }6 S( n3 |rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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2 ^2 l$ _" L) ^% j4 rrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
, c4 o( G+ q6 m' I" DPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ) D3 g8 l. h! I( d/ {/ J
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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1 o% z; E3 X6 M3 ZLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 2 A, B" i& }- d9 Y  K/ u7 D; ?
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区% _( |( c& ~5 O7 Y

* i3 T7 E  O+ p" @  d1 D"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 9 c  v  H$ z, J0 f4 j1 a

4 v6 V4 e9 Y, G人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. . ~, t7 }- {' u4 T( {" F/ q/ J( O- X$ y
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2 f7 t" T8 r$ w. ?4 W0 W人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 R6 }, F$ U- F. K  u! ^
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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2 a- e: J, `. _, e# F: P: ]4 ~! vThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区9 E9 J. Q7 I$ g

- R( k: P+ p2 E2 h2 W( p; fBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. " J5 i" L- E1 e! N0 N- q
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."