[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。% ~3 O8 ?9 \2 H& S  o! y
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  }: Z( G8 D" v: N9 ~% N8 a
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) p  p0 b& H" n6 r+ F  V
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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$ i2 K/ _/ F( Q% V7 UWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' / o& \( B4 c8 K" U9 ?, z4 a
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 U" R0 M" r9 w! R' q$ e: _
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 5 ~+ J+ L/ e. m3 T3 w+ q

. ?2 t% d- }  u( m2 W8 `人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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; d4 U8 e9 K8 t4 j( k3 j$ v% r人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. / Y# H. G' b( I8 B, F

0 z2 W; F0 b5 f  @: X# N' tLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". : B4 Y  h  ?( A* H% {* u

/ T8 ^  N* u  d1 J( ~" {"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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1 S# L( _$ B5 g  E% xSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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7 K# ?" t' z' MAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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% {6 X0 N: I  `# t人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 {, N. l% z; e

  r- E3 i/ h7 b, k; Grs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. / _+ ^" R# \# H6 Q+ |3 }
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区. z3 A. b# f. \
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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, J% v. O( [' X0 T& Z人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."