[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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# I6 \0 e/ L8 D( F" o据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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' f( a3 \3 M3 X6 X$ n1 l- f* _0 `. {人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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' S' H% r0 H. S  _$ XWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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0 v) T; w7 ]4 T# O1 V1 ?High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 A8 Q7 i+ M: V1 J- ^0 \, R
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. + H% A# X  i/ P# t
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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% e1 k& J* @2 f8 b7 B: gThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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  \1 S+ Z$ n+ }; E2 T+ G8 B6 A7 yLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 2 i; a$ R  d) I
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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) b3 d7 B: u$ r" q' y# T人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 4 q0 S5 `# y6 E3 E0 f8 ?

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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; P+ Z, P% Z: G/ g' F( A! y: \The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% s* ^8 N% S% d# {( U+ m" p8 D
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. " A4 ~3 {; k* ?/ U; @/ q

* D% v" Q. i/ U4 T( WIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. * {% Q7 X. L8 M- q8 |6 i  Q0 z
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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% o; E, E3 B/ K9 G) @. C"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."