[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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! V# O: w/ Y4 M5 x- t  `3 b据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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% n7 S' s4 n6 L! nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。/ X1 Y( E! K, b# D0 O3 C

( I. f) s7 d& ]: T1 krs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。, z5 V$ y, z4 U9 f
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区9 `* }4 B) t# [6 f8 o, A& |% M1 Q3 S  n

) w, Y  M* X& d8 ]6 x9 u6 n" rWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, s$ n; ?* d" I
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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7 ?( C. C; f. c- mBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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3 F) n) R, V! L0 n6 P! T! _; Y# OThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 6 T, u% ^8 L: g& ?2 o2 r- [! f
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". : z+ l, n8 j, ~7 R( ^3 J

0 t; x0 K0 U, i. Nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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7 F$ |0 s, b* I6 L! @7 w; B" p& Ors238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' w# m% f( r. S; ~) B4 J, I) t# s2 f
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. , Q, C) M0 @$ ]/ F$ A
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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& Q! d/ H7 e% p& g% W( cIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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( ?8 U( H* n4 v' ^. Q4 E"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."