[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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- Y9 c& y, N$ L/ y0 k) o* o$ X3 y人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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# @8 d0 i0 G& z人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区/ W# a* m0 J+ B/ r- }, z
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。6 V6 ^1 k+ e  _8 W5 O1 ?
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 ~% R/ s' l, T2 i! P$ r

* s5 y. F& [9 qWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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4 B( R# k5 ~$ @8 s" K. ?rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
" U! q+ T; k- x1 @3 f7 Rrs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ s8 k" Z8 s# B, J
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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* q, g* J+ k! ^The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". : v2 M, {3 J7 G7 h

% R5 J  a, G* V: E. K9 K人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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: x5 A6 W& {6 y. p"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 8 m/ {& r5 M& P9 j. \5 N9 F
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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) H: @& G/ \7 m& f7 x- c/ TAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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0 M+ h2 O! \7 A9 h人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ ^. W8 \+ z1 B" T- j  ?
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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1 J2 B: T3 ~+ F人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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; S6 L& V$ u9 f! s3 L$ m8 X( r0 [5 sIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. $ |% `/ h/ w- n0 r

; i9 J' [# c5 Y  u' c"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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' f, t' E' R4 o2 C1 u"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."