[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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( @% y6 E/ `! m/ {4 Jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。/ E. U" Q) E( ~4 B; M

/ P* K3 N4 `1 I' i- y" L研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。! a9 u. J. Z' x

" C1 Y7 P5 t2 R4 }( k6 Vrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 u" o( U: d) e
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。8 t; S( n$ A) y& \; K* d- a* X

7 ]0 u3 O! A7 C$ Q( R7 X2 I  ?Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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$ l8 A5 a4 i% G  RHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
; r5 {! a. G, i; j人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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' P5 l' o3 z: ], v7 ^rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区  \$ ]* j! I. f  I, F3 g3 U

2 p& n1 p1 W  y" m3 p: I, h人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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/ Y! F5 p* F% P  _  ^7 m. ELead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ! U2 r, S) k, z" @3 Z5 `  n

8 u$ Q! j% }  r$ e/ r"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区+ F' [  D& f8 N2 M2 ^( |
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 9 @2 n% w6 c) `8 y5 l- q, Y$ W

( }! q# A% E8 r8 kThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ D0 \, r9 K5 @: _& [
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ' c: G) K4 q- g  j+ ?, S5 A' w9 F
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 5 d; h5 j, u/ n* b& ^

, r' R' T) G, c, r7 y* C0 L' zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."