[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。  D$ H  T" D1 P5 c0 M% g

9 U) e5 U0 P4 O- |5 f$ [" ^据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。+ C: b8 L5 ?* v5 D7 ~- y
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。# I9 _0 R; {( u" w6 n

8 Q, P2 L2 i# w7 C/ h  O' P研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ u, \: J9 v: q5 B$ k, W
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
5 _- x  e( A/ r* i1 l0 |9 |Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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8 Y: B& h* w4 A; d" g2 L3 trs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区/ a8 E8 {% C# |9 \( J. `

4 M4 D- F( `; y, G: U6 w; ?6 ]"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ) s" j+ t; E2 j

' `( j& f) h% a3 aSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. . R6 ?5 b  S4 S& S' c1 U  l
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( J6 o; y! {* x# L7 \3 CAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. . o2 }; x! b8 `  Z& S

" K# {) Y' k: ?& \% `4 jThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. " W$ N" i# a( i! M1 l* B
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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2 Q8 B9 I: o* P; [人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ; O7 M: |! z+ |  I# B3 f0 K* m" E

# g6 K; s4 [$ }* M& p. }9 A人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."