[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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+ K6 \0 B; d7 ^" [( e! W9 a, crs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。) c+ M; Y1 E/ g6 U- _( k5 e1 ^: G
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。$ ?5 x8 l) M3 ?6 z3 U* a: T5 p9 r& D
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。! C! o7 T4 K* i. r8 J2 q1 e
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 p& M5 D) f! \5 n, h+ y% a' I9 i
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. & [# W5 ?4 |# x: t) B: D. u

) c, D: `; X4 r4 K$ [But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 8 U6 Q% f9 {# _9 w3 d
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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1 \. @! F' C$ j! _6 R. {Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ( u# |' V' a8 u; l0 P

8 k5 n7 v1 m! m8 v7 E; t8 ^' F"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' \( \8 N# m# h* S' U) d
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." . [0 Z9 S2 T* c2 M* m' _# K$ p* I% n  e7 t

$ @* Q$ z7 s, I/ U: N, c人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ! R2 @6 u! d; u% O' j
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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, P3 D; V  t" |! T6 |% [6 t4 Z. xAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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( l$ O1 f( `5 R4 x% H1 j5 U- d人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. " E, I" u. z. i& w# ?/ a

* K( l, b. N5 {; @, U& Ars238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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/ y( Q1 a0 C! V1 r" |3 H, k- ?) j"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, `% E7 `: `4 z; H) Z2 R9 V

% F+ o" p( X- I1 w3 U: k"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."