[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

日月光

英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de7 B0 Z% i' Z, K7 h. ^& g

/ e/ c, g1 r3 u- o人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
0 G! d8 O9 X- }* p4 t) @, X2 _. a" P6 X+ j8 Z1 y# ~2 s5 X3 z3 d
研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
$ v8 y  ~, ]7 ^3 h
' @' |, O! X" B! v8 p人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
! V5 ?6 ?5 a3 z人在德国 社区3 Q- x' V, _! ]" a7 p# s
研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
1 A1 C/ ^! V; M5 v1 a7 g- C
! r( y$ e7 ]6 A: yWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
; F+ ^4 ?* H, a5 }/ a
7 S8 u/ r( `% h" dHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
) |' L% D& c8 H; WPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
% \6 {0 s1 R: q$ a" @9 D* E, T6 H% o) }! l# ]3 M, U3 s+ }6 L
But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
6 ]3 i2 R! I" w. R0 M; J* J
5 ]. V/ ^' y) Y5 ]+ CThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
' T1 R+ }8 D" C) n8 c% X0 ]6 V
: k  I' a9 P( P/ P! }' bLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 1 o) R5 Z' N% R( o4 C! h
* I# ?* R% B% Y: Y; [) t1 Q. I7 s: z, x
"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. + n7 Z+ @2 u( J8 n4 D3 i# s/ O/ @# b
人在德国 社区0 x- }' s6 P6 D; X# ]8 n2 z
"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  R$ \5 f6 i" D6 _

9 {1 n) j% h  c& U$ J% \7 JUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 1 ]' e( A/ |, c

0 j. {; W" @! W9 a4 bSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
$ Q+ ?* ~: Z  r% l, `  G, R7 F- P. @2 x2 @
Profession   v0 i0 ?8 E! o2 g. @/ ^  u

  F3 F: K+ f, t) t% rAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区, ]3 w+ E$ I9 T/ `0 C1 W9 I
9 Q+ v% C7 e) [2 m" [3 d& I& h
The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 5 y% u* m5 T0 l3 ~1 S9 |* N
" |$ x: r' K0 e; k
The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' C* M  ]4 @- d6 P
1 }" P( ?4 x% M0 ]% e- }
But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 5 r+ K+ x. J! L. Z$ O

: E; U7 ~( j; h9 m# r0 nIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. . K( k! ]4 |) X& {$ T' g

$ Y% q3 _# @5 Z) ]) u/ T2 c; P- M"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区3 s9 Z+ S" N3 H4 |$ w- G* t: P

3 H2 P+ ~* B3 t% p# t"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."