[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ ~' r8 x4 v* Q* R

5 q; |3 }9 B! a2 Krs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: Z& N7 U4 K" r/ v4 D& k$ X0 K
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。) f! M( t; g2 d* M/ Z8 z; \& o9 H
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区. o: X/ v7 u% C& ^" C. ~! K: U
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
. g/ h3 {4 [0 H3 b" krs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. . Z) G0 x4 ~- r! M3 B
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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, U2 i# B. C- l, x. d2 T! h) w) HThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. & U$ [! `# u4 K4 X1 i
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ; x+ I& \& H4 t0 r# R

- d( \* Y7 N! Z7 a3 r1 k" _"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区: f9 o8 I# y2 m) G
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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/ C: n. S6 B$ ]0 x+ I9 pUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区# |3 z# n2 F% S7 _! L5 E3 Z9 I0 H
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 F# F6 ^  S8 H: _7 Q

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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/ F1 C' _, h) s9 Q4 d人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区: Z+ f$ `$ Q5 Z) ?! N. q, e
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. " B/ x0 T$ }0 m8 V
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."