[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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" M* _! L. ?4 v根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, Z  ^$ \: K9 o) w0 u6 _

! L3 j$ r% Z. b! I/ s$ G( X% Krs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 n7 D9 o. L. L- U, h6 k
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 3 ], P: g! U2 D5 Z0 N7 y! {. l

- G* V1 q# Q5 Q# H& @8 gBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ' P( R0 \5 o. r% z( w# S; P% _

9 Z( h! M  U8 ~7 K: y7 E, p' b' hThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 4 X) T" N, i& J) n1 G
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区, @0 ?+ x. p* O6 Q

# E4 g3 y+ B1 q$ v; @rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. / c; [# h5 {& {2 d/ m( C. Q

4 x! e  b. g* \# r"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区: R% X9 v3 y! W

/ ]& n9 N1 O$ Ars238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区; r: j/ L: p+ x/ d2 {" j
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区- c- _& F+ Y; x' M) K
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 1 |* b+ J+ o2 a% J
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. : S( h  v8 w# @- d* I  p6 S
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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8 }* V1 t6 B2 Z& S* nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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: U1 e1 M3 E0 ?! i* Q/ S4 x, EIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ' o5 ~+ P3 b& L2 q8 Q
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 1 }% [, A, U% D+ R  i
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."