[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。' \8 w  |! z2 l1 @1 C3 Y7 U

( l/ I6 p, b; W- j5 O) krs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 k$ Z$ H* e& K2 U  h& r% O
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. m. C, P$ W7 t, ^
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。7 y3 H; g$ b. @% y

$ [* Y: n/ j9 z- |研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。7 f, v/ s# z) t% \- m* u
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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* E  m2 S& \/ G* D" V5 F! X& r人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
7 L' @. ]- o! {6 w% I: e7 r" l9 jPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 0 f! S. P& n( X" W8 t. g& x8 f

: j% d+ J% N( l# z人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." * \) ?2 x" w! l* E8 N+ l  B. _

) P' ?4 a. l4 R( {$ V" l0 r( XUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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8 @) x$ m% k, F/ k5 [% tSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. - V1 W- Q: n$ v/ s& ?0 S

4 ?. Z/ m# z/ X5 SThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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( J3 e5 t" I- x. Z- l0 q' P0 O人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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' t3 E: d4 \; H3 j- ]"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."