[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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# B; m( U8 V/ {. n$ d1 A3 M据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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7 ^7 x1 A  ?" p研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 [  @7 F% l. v

8 u& C* T  b' j根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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$ ~; ^2 E& X1 Z" ]" Urs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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) @% W5 i# e1 _0 {7 `& q* cWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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# |# h6 @7 F" u; z人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
$ P/ t: e, G" oPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. : H* [$ [1 k6 _! k0 r- r$ [' ]/ q
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 7 M: K* \' V" _( v3 R' K) K

9 @. ?: }. E" i, y" nThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区# E0 D- P/ J( c8 E3 E; k
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区# C" C  S+ |3 s# H

; H( f' b2 K2 ~: q0 S8 l# |1 d"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." + `- B, w( Q+ f$ s! F
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ( F$ \! C. N$ Y5 D: ~3 t0 Y% X

; ~0 f2 D; @% g, R* x1 f: A* ]' @' K- qSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 R" A* V5 l! s6 {9 _
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ( x8 r. E: y8 f4 ~" K! u
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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# E+ Z6 b# |$ D6 RThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. + l2 o6 h$ Z; X* J1 \

3 n) u3 o- y  e' a5 y5 BBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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' {: c! J0 Q" K0 {/ r9 V" P: \1 b"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区3 `  t% e: f6 F4 ]; J
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."