[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。/ I' I+ Q) p* w. a) `

8 m. ?" \5 v* R9 P! z& L0 X/ q& f/ G4 C; D研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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' {5 L; A: Z. ?6 K' L5 ~* Ers238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 o7 P- F* \, V$ W4 }

  Y! _: g6 ]/ N1 ^# U研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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; D; k7 j4 |- g; O. A8 j! xHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. , L) _! T' r) ?+ c0 v0 i- \6 Z: a
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ' F5 z  ^  Z( h' a( H9 ~; A% t

" ^7 b* N9 a2 A5 H' a3 |* OBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. % d3 \6 m" J% G# @! U1 d
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* {9 B' r& p, b2 G0 E
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区8 }9 X6 F" S9 J& X' i# ]$ }9 K

" `+ ?" h7 q+ M( ?"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. & R$ |0 v0 ]: p+ O1 z
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区2 \4 _9 v$ z/ {. g' M. b
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ' O2 M  a- e8 C6 l

! [9 y& ]: j% v' d' i: eSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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6 V& _' x2 _% U# |人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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1 U2 a: \6 C9 S; A% zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. $ ]& I" W7 o8 q! D# [
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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- i" Z: Y* v: FBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 8 L# k( T7 _1 L, ]. {
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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. ?7 u! t/ f8 m- E. W( l5 p"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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8 m- V( B4 w0 G# T: k"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."