[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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7 A0 w" W3 T  L/ c" y研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。2 N& V& t7 Q' ~1 \* Q+ u- t% q
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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# e! n8 d. D+ P, Wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' , l! S& Q8 K5 D- Y5 C, i5 I7 h

# d6 z6 F& i8 A& A, S3 `" ^0 [High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
1 v" ^0 P# K- u4 SPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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& s! Z; T, f! _( v/ fBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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3 x, z  {7 I# a7 a* S5 d3 pLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. , F  Y  R1 |) @' Y6 _

6 g2 Z1 O& W* W% O" u人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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0 u, J' S& x8 L) v# ]Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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" i5 e( q3 Z: w/ V9 K" vThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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" o8 O/ Q" }) g4 D1 N0 S$ T8 iThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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3 A4 y7 H6 y& T9 s- Ars238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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0 _- V* Z3 S& Y2 IIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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" B0 F+ K& h: |9 v9 U. v/ L! [# F' s"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."