[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。2 n5 O6 v$ Y) B1 y
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。' G/ v; ^2 ], _% g; V5 k
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。" F, \5 J5 K3 J% n) F5 F! W
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ( U* j7 l2 y) p6 R7 e) ?. m0 f
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. $ u; r% V  G( J, v- K

6 Y: P% z7 \4 fBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. " U( |7 u# c) d% W1 q6 ~

5 y# w, X7 s" O2 R4 F  fThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 0 i( T( W  J0 B6 X1 G- c5 \2 B7 z

' Z4 {: `% b; L) \Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 8 W  z/ r( u2 r7 P4 e

% y( I; O4 O. q) x2 M"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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1 J, d* ]. q" j) z" G6 A4 X' uUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 0 y. h/ ~& R, t
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Profession
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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1 j) ]9 l8 `$ }5 n" AThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. " b! @0 r# y" d) T* v& S' L
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 0 e, _  Q) J7 v4 Z
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 4 B0 s; m8 i2 `+ m( G
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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/ H9 v- f' M8 J2 p- g"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."