[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。) u0 i6 ]# C! c- P% K

( P( |% `4 j. O( z& y$ w据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。  ?$ T. D/ C7 |* g+ L9 s1 U5 A
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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; `2 g: y: k3 s) i# q根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。& S6 ?& b6 D. {& G- {" j  L

2 Z2 n! W, H+ u人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。1 t8 N# v& Y. H- ?# J! H

' Q8 f: P! Z7 U2 M8 T/ ^1 S- V0 \Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 9 d& V! S7 t! `0 M, Z7 |
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
1 I9 J6 e* [: B3 A8 pPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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) m2 j& n2 }) o0 M% b9 j( mBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区' N. I. `4 y# X  A

2 w, Q) a; X5 P3 p( f0 s5 G' CThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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9 q$ [* G, Q- K$ w) g, f- _, TLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 8 T! {, s( @3 G6 [7 ]3 @! x' ~

  h- R% }7 ]3 @7 m' A8 c9 Z"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. , |4 S1 U& }; v6 E9 z; V; k" m9 G! }
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." / L& l9 T6 N1 k0 o% T! {  s, v5 A
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区; s2 h. I, {9 T. ^$ W

2 y# |4 M: e$ `2 A1 |Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ V& C  b+ z. y; X% j; i$ ^' q2 u
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 6 @0 O+ I7 N% d2 {- I

3 Q- O4 z% w( @2 Vrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ! M; q+ {& V. `, e- m

2 z6 A8 P+ u; C"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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, \9 [4 T( `( o; ~"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."