[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。. [3 f% _1 G* q* }' H

% [1 w) \6 P- Y8 O9 H% B& b据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。, ~3 p7 X& V/ }6 _' I. D+ U2 i

: J% C# v( }% U$ x' _2 k- x5 O. o根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。$ F  ~5 l# M* ?8 j

, x5 b% `; f/ ~% Z, M2 l5 F研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' D& o4 d+ O' s0 ~
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ( m2 H+ V/ S  ?+ v5 C

# u* y% j; l4 ?3 e7 u1 U  SHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ) A  N  e0 N8 w
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. , E" o0 f3 k7 d/ I

* s- o5 R) _8 W5 F: s! J4 xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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: L" Z! u) Z1 e2 C0 i' E$ W5 m- J* V0 UThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 0 R+ A: d/ q: k! q& n

: P1 O5 W" V  m7 p5 U; q& ZLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. , \8 P: _* A+ S; }! H# x/ b3 M
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." / r: T$ u6 I1 q1 |. Z
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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5 [, t, ]' b8 X" x3 v' P3 YSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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' u$ H: Z: z: \8 mAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 1 o7 b- U/ J6 ?1 |7 n& W

% c% \9 K1 v+ T* B$ YThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. " U3 ~0 C* d/ y

* b7 @3 g" v( X! y; _The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. % S, |6 E7 k! I# X: W. x

# F( F5 f. Y, b9 |. y0 [rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 9 a4 B& @2 m7 u, Z0 q

; I7 G% m! L8 f2 e- k& z8 P: z6 w"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."