[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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) S( j- H& G  G6 U6 f) grs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。% O# ?' _3 e! Y) }) v8 I& ?6 v

1 d1 i7 r" i9 \. h8 @; q研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。) J2 I; {: x. n5 n, E2 J* t9 A

" V6 T+ @( T+ l! G% a, R( p, [根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' A3 W0 F! E% t" _+ l- C

' \& d7 Z  u4 c* ], D研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 e" G1 ^3 E4 Y- S3 ^! {' d* T
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
' i6 S. T5 z% ]  r7 @! ZPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ H; X" l! x  J/ x# b
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.   u, ~# T6 P7 k( M' Z+ F

7 {0 b7 [7 q9 k9 Q+ O" a# }The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. " b0 |  R4 ?6 V9 m2 K5 p) Z& o1 A2 S
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区$ c, d* t" p3 k3 M, z" D

$ S- T# ^# c& v& S"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de# H( v: b9 J( D' \- o1 K: V
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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- [  R; y& c6 G人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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! T+ S$ n5 D+ ~  u4 ?人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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# f- ^3 G- _  ]. s" oThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 6 T# E! I7 @, [( Y& I

3 A& t5 Z3 f8 u: t' P4 E"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."