[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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4 _: ~0 Z2 x; y据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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6 O- l5 t, l+ l* d6 N) X0 U/ V研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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: r+ V1 @! Z+ f' {; u; @* f3 {0 F人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。1 ^9 c7 ~& t1 j8 Y% g

" ?* I0 q7 m. B4 g  C3 M研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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* e& }( F9 h& J4 d) v& {7 Prs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区) i1 P- E% L( _
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区2 W( G% N# l0 P5 u0 ?3 O0 j. }
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ s! Q2 r+ E0 H5 p

% @7 F  M- {8 H: t/ b0 \But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ! Y$ ^  S) I% A; E: p# [) V( K

$ t  |8 ~+ L0 }5 e) n"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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! T: [# E( R& d"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. # U% _% l- a" `7 s$ z$ u4 ?

! a8 E2 O% h9 t# r0 e5 B( _9 L* r人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 1 L& |  u+ q( @0 \4 W" _

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 2 c5 j, j, ^7 A6 w1 p" d! Q

/ r* b- V, `+ O9 [5 g! KThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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- _5 @8 N# v- FThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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0 {% P. F+ `% }" [+ R( PIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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+ x' t, b* ~) F" j& B人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."