[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。1 Q4 r. I) _2 T! n

- P/ z2 l3 F0 X/ H5 zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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/ a+ D/ h$ J1 O/ H研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。9 N1 _5 ~& j; o* X
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 u5 p, n- ~" {3 {

. ~3 n$ v4 y& AHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区2 d: i7 D8 ~9 e& e: \6 U2 E
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de7 q! I) T! r9 L$ A' s. M
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ) F/ v- d; I/ i+ l2 Y& J
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 o* P9 D6 H( Q8 ^% r2 ^1 L- m
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ; s2 }6 C! b& j, G2 M* M6 \4 m

+ t! D9 w! ^6 B# v"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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0 a& p& X5 ~9 G& U5 A- EAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区' w: d( _' W& F& [# E
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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; @/ e" P; W3 O7 y" b, Ers238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 3 U) p+ W8 `& _
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.   `6 K8 B6 I3 L3 T

- L; f' S, q5 ~& G! V- H6 f"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."