[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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  u9 k! A% X- [) p9 O( ?4 Ers238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。( B" E5 B: U: T& A, q9 o% U, @

" S2 \% k- d; ^) X* \1 D根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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) ?. T" _  K' c3 @# @$ C0 [! f% WWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, c$ m5 J5 h0 D8 C. O. p
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ) W& |# h8 b# M" i3 c
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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: l/ q, u# z9 |$ L1 A  qBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 9 s: p# I4 A  o8 c! {# @2 ]" n4 R

$ d# k  M- X& mThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. $ n' ~+ O' q4 `( K4 I, p0 E; j
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区6 _) _( Y( E; S- s/ ^: U
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ; _+ i0 ]& W! R/ m7 y
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& t( j* J' i/ Z, ]6 G
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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% y5 Z5 q, c0 |6 w+ W- E( ], mThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 9 b3 y( z; B! U# d2 r- P
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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2 w- t1 F5 r6 `; d/ p) fBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. % Z4 O: C" f9 s7 U8 F) k, R

4 ]) [! E1 k/ h4 ~- QIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. , @, L; u# t7 D: a% O
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. % L+ C7 Y. r+ j- U/ d; f
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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Women shunned high-flyers for men with average jobs

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