[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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: n- U+ V4 n  v" j7 r7 c据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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5 i/ q% a* J9 d6 ^" z: {5 Z研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。, R+ }0 i9 f! S. i
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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( W! o3 L  ?# H% r7 Z- O. g研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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$ d) x% G* u: E" yWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'   {5 l' ?8 U) L/ P$ a) \& C4 m
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区, n  r$ i1 P5 r9 v) ?: K& P
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 N4 o+ ^3 [) w! |) D' L

2 M. o, f9 E$ k5 ?1 q3 ^The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. , ?! ~9 [  p/ w* v- k/ D$ |" \9 d
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区/ F8 b% Q+ [8 E
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% C) _0 {6 `  ]9 `9 @' d' i: e

) b% U) l) r' m& _Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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- i) v& [' u8 H" Z% u7 Y人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. * P, K* I$ l6 @3 X- h. [

! T3 U; a  u" U/ {; C  `, `9 Irs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区; I# {$ m  U* e( E* m2 p
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. + C# T' B3 {7 \( Y1 j7 f2 K

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( B# }2 A' \" E# N' B1 X: f"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."