[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

日月光

英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。( s8 p/ g$ j& f/ g6 ]

! k5 L1 B: ^6 S2 E* Frs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区+ D$ B. A* E' ]3 s( w/ z
rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; \; L& D0 j( r7 t- u3 O" P* ~- J
研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区2 q3 Q3 H* L$ J& l" W; D# w2 O/ q
6 T. _  e/ V3 r  L; b
根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
* b% c5 k1 i# G/ {: s! t8 `0 _: v2 ~, @& ~8 z, w0 G% V* o
研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
, e  S2 V$ j; Q, W7 t9 M" V8 `, Q
0 [5 d9 D  {0 u4 [Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
3 D/ Q; w6 o; m4 E6 y6 U3 S7 c
- u) n, a3 X  E4 C/ yHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
  ~3 ?0 v& |4 K! i. x0 bPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
; D8 `7 Z0 Y% `; w
' F, U6 J/ \! J0 i7 X4 TBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 8 S6 A  X7 l, R, `

! Q$ Y5 Z; t0 L/ T人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
8 s1 [5 X# v6 s人在德国 社区
- {1 k  V( I2 W4 T( ^( y9 JLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 0 y$ P- ]( d7 _7 l

- Q2 |) T0 h9 P7 l  U* q8 C$ _rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
* e. _) Y7 W( t- f人在德国 社区
& t3 H7 B2 t9 ]人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& b" B  K4 Y3 E, I/ N2 G3 M9 y

# A1 W" H+ p) Q6 q# Drs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
: q" y* P' O3 ?  E& K$ U4 G6 A
7 |" g. ~' ^/ dSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 7 p  Q8 t4 a" _+ R8 @. w

' f* k! l3 c6 U* q人在德国 社区Profession ; y$ v" C1 q! K2 q! o$ b

5 j# o' |) j' _' h! V9 {人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
2 ^" ^" @. |9 z" Z) F! _+ q
& a9 U5 ?. W' s$ c( V7 f7 [The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区  L% g3 l8 t1 D, z0 `  s- T6 I* V9 y

2 O$ K- n7 j! Z% n9 T& m& h/ krs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
( T. y8 W. Z; _' Z5 M) R2 vrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de
" I' B! x9 {# ~! z( hBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
0 c( D) j6 w" Z+ M# p
/ d9 J5 m/ g( u1 J3 U/ r/ p1 Y% ~rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区1 g' _$ [0 x- L

9 u4 B2 g% c2 y. O: d人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
5 w' B3 Z) r  H5 i) B' ?8 X6 W# C" U0 V
"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."