[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 g  m  R0 \# G
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。, I" p; F& @9 P% l0 {9 C4 |- u

! Z: h0 r  S- h6 h) prs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。! k+ e5 n: T+ a+ p5 i+ q

0 s$ n( z) q+ NWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' + X1 Z6 J. v- K: f0 b7 D
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
2 u* M0 G- ?; s' HPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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! o* G; S* ]8 e6 {7 @3 [The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ) W2 o8 B% g9 X9 [% h7 O
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 5 ~, a) X; K1 B6 D  |5 `

! ^$ j4 E" _+ F* J# u"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.   G1 a+ Z) c' A/ Q
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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( O# }- b3 e8 pUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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- O+ q7 d9 A$ F) K; @  LSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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% B# m8 d8 i  Z% I) ?$ I7 c3 wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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) N! _" O- T: w  ?! ]The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. % f8 k. e# o$ e( M  {

' ?; Z! [% b  r3 w人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ b! C- @, |% W  V9 O: [

9 O$ E, z4 E' ]* P# lIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 8 @/ J, A: l# T
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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9 i( P- |$ h5 E7 }$ B"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."