[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。- X# h" i/ B. h  a; B$ j; @- ~; E
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 U$ h0 q) z5 @$ `$ C% B" G
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。5 f, N- r5 n* T' I  g' l7 I
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" ?% s4 o  g( K, R/ J5 CHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
4 {3 Q  [" m! r8 KPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ r1 h0 n. p6 Y5 d6 C4 v

8 C% d9 K$ S- k) m! wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. " ~$ q+ V) g+ C! E8 N

* _$ O% T9 }, C) }The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 6 V: W2 R. m, k+ Y6 S
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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0 W( ~% j3 J. u3 a"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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! |2 s: r9 }2 M0 ~9 AAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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! {1 X# s4 P* }8 {- H+ z8 nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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- r- K( ~" B2 y& x5 y7 d人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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0 |- }8 Z4 ^" I2 g8 e% qIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. . N6 w/ q( \( }7 a
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 T/ l: f' A" U6 e$ S
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."