[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。& G* g+ j, w+ U4 j" ~) z, H

& s) z: u1 w2 x7 k4 H( k( R人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。% K! u+ Q- _. |4 R6 L$ J; r

4 S# Z+ P. ^3 b/ d( J4 m/ G根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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! U5 f% [( F+ {9 _1 e0 K8 {rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区) Z0 L/ d, W/ `2 [6 P/ F5 M

7 B! U0 z, F1 T3 X- R$ e* pWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
6 f& @6 d$ u* [" ?0 B% b6 CPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. + G2 n: d& f8 g1 _) N- c7 S; J
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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- t& J4 b, H+ }2 hThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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" p7 o+ i% T( h- F; |5 QLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ' x0 p" l9 b0 ~3 c9 L/ K

' n& }+ G& {) v% p"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区1 p% z! [) `- `

( b& Q- z* o; L& f' m) ^人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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, C- |' M3 g, M: `0 a6 D  v2 M" uUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ n4 n! A( r  B" Q! ^; a

0 h( x# y; M' I# g* fSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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0 z3 O# u0 O  e9 w4 s. K0 YAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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# x. j/ ?6 K5 k" d7 V+ HThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 4 k8 _: Y1 Z8 K) z
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. . ~4 f/ f, E( ~2 p/ B3 X
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."