[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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- g1 V: [1 k& k' J; w研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。* H- P; t6 `2 q) T: m, m! B# S/ O

1 S9 g5 y) d" H+ j6 ^: p) l3 ars238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 7 ]. X# \) W; R0 x+ a
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. + N& y! d; Y: s# z
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. - E+ E, A$ k$ B7 }0 N" t) U

0 |% j8 X, Q# v4 Y. @The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ) n" ^+ ~8 g$ v4 w: V5 u

# I) y* z, Q) y/ S3 J: ?9 J"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." , U- \! s1 v5 W+ p
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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8 L' u$ F% q3 }5 iSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. * m' L# S$ {4 l2 w) o5 C

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. |* ~  E. v% c8 @1 l8 Y8 WAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! ^( `9 I# Y" y, i- G4 @1 J

" }1 K- i0 r7 p# D6 |0 y9 b+ sThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. : w. e. S1 [9 R; L+ c' |1 M

7 ~# ?/ i1 S- s人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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9 q' q. \9 [3 p) }" f# R' F) ]Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 0 W5 |( @$ }+ S# i  z$ Q7 f- @  F

# s0 q0 z% }" ~- \+ |" u1 l( Zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."