[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。* G8 t/ _3 {9 F8 }, R4 r3 v
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。, P" u/ N) n+ i) V" E4 o
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区. n; ?6 Q; g" Y5 F) y
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. # _/ j! P+ a+ v3 c/ `0 M
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区8 d6 m! T9 t4 d- y, U/ o% r
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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. h& c- m9 K4 @$ EThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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* W- e  n' J. E+ Y  s人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". % S0 \" ]9 d0 R

# P: @6 n% e0 V! [( ]"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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" k& i9 V% y  ^& M人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ' p! ?' Z( U  i% |. r
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ) \& R5 T' O1 C: p# J( G5 J3 A8 k

" S4 J" s) v! @Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 1 K. ?/ |  L, Z# N. [  [, W

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- u$ x' i; w8 t" `) Q7 L2 `: pAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 2 H7 U* p' `' J: `0 H/ L9 I+ I, X
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. % |$ Z& y/ \$ }: \+ S  O9 F! A: y

7 b9 _$ j. r/ U8 b1 W+ y5 q/ Q- G人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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+ [1 Y9 j/ e- h2 G# l# T7 B5 o/ ~& HIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. # P2 `/ Y8 e+ t
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. , z, Z/ b# T) w4 m, ?

, B* d2 E$ _$ z+ q"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."