[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区+ C% {8 p6 n3 p+ [  b; h
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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  f7 b2 w& C& Z! M( I+ S根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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# I1 e! z- U2 h: ~6 k0 S研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。/ T$ c! _2 K* c% l" T

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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
# y, C7 U/ b0 A9 Z4 YPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. * m( v% |% }$ \
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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) ]3 Z& t7 o9 b0 u6 T, L; W* {6 M人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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# s% K$ {, \1 [$ w8 q$ YLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ; o5 }& F& ]% D

% O9 E+ m; I0 P, e. u* Q人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. % v2 ]! I7 N2 s/ u% u
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区5 L  }% l/ j! ^
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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8 V1 {6 b2 [& U* J* Q7 \- b人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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- X+ y" x4 m& W& y+ V8 B  ^人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ( v( o& O) d8 ^2 L% T
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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, h8 q' H/ [% ?4 y% |) u6 D"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区, ?7 m2 l! z+ n4 s5 V

1 j! v+ ], P% U, D0 O. f; K8 {: N人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."