[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。( u; y2 @7 n" u+ |5 T% F8 e

$ `0 O+ a/ C; \) I6 C7 {" s据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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) A+ @. @$ c# Y9 \5 J研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。9 {. d( ^8 R  L9 p+ L

4 r& j0 p* f& `- n7 b9 t8 N  urs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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8 }+ c* u7 P, s) C( C4 b, D人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 3 ?5 i0 z; M% n3 ^: m
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区- K8 T2 ~% P9 l" c3 l! K9 k# O
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 9 h* n* x7 v9 [8 g# }  |8 N9 w- m+ k
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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& r  q- ^0 _1 i" N( eThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ) \5 O# y0 ~' L+ l2 d5 W* N. u

' y' {  q, G) @5 Q9 |Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 7 G9 O) R6 ]7 X2 D" Q+ c

. M) a9 M7 {0 j% J) I" k"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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. `3 s3 u% g7 |  YSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 3 c. d; l; T" R4 z) G7 F
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区; t5 e  Z. @7 q0 r' T7 l5 o

3 ^. T) I: i% I! i) P9 h6 X6 Y0 w人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区1 A' |5 V6 v7 _! k/ a7 V! O2 t8 g
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 1 S6 [: A( Y/ T

; q( J2 F/ w( d" L% @& n3 j3 t4 fIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 2 ~1 \. [' @: `8 I

8 @0 K. r0 C! U6 K人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."