[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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% Z0 V3 L8 z5 B2 m, y$ `5 x' J7 Urs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。+ d) ~$ e/ v0 w2 P9 l
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区' E$ e6 F5 O0 X& x2 Y6 h! N
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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2 `( ?6 W! s: z. o- N" j! |Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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2 F8 Z. T7 S% n- k8 b4 |High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ' A. d8 l- c7 K: W! J: G4 ^* w& W0 y
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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4 _! P$ i0 G8 z- JThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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. E1 [& `; k# s8 F9 ^"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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6 {' Y' V1 e; ]# j3 d人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ( T) B$ b5 |% A" o; \& G: N
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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$ V+ B5 f* z% c; E9 ^) V7 QAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 8 {2 x' x: @. W  T7 q/ Y
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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/ z3 g# }/ |* f* HThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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% F* r' ~& l9 G4 L' v% GBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. * w! y$ k; H6 Q( ], K" q
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. & N. U1 ?/ T: ^0 D2 `. h
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ' y% L# d" ?7 S/ L* l4 ?0 i+ n
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."