[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区# v5 Z; G: Y7 ]9 N+ n$ c; ^" [/ A& Q

$ N7 _0 n" b0 m4 i5 N- M研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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9 @$ T2 Y5 a" p) m/ l2 Grs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。, {4 ^. Q' h7 l
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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; P. Y4 }  [& j0 \  ?/ M* Ars238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区2 [6 r) P2 A- x7 |! a, _# K
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区/ {3 f- G* ]7 q5 ~# v. B) N
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 8 j6 s/ T1 v! b7 [- Q

! q5 o0 p% o/ W7 ors238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. : E( p" @/ [5 ]3 a, A3 [( i, k

2 r2 r0 N9 n$ H- T; kLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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& P4 c% O. P: L& e"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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# w- o: l1 J8 G+ X/ pUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. " w' r# c" V9 w- W( |8 J0 z

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 3 _( D/ R: I. w/ m" F2 `7 Z( H) g

! n+ x$ S* d' F. W- Grs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区( @2 M9 t" Z5 ?0 b! q5 W  f) W3 ?

4 m* C- m6 W  ]" d; s) w& }The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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+ q& I, ]- O7 _9 L! @! HIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 8 q! R2 }  t2 {; S0 q

5 D3 ]+ s$ v6 y( W5 d( a$ n"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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, N, S  \* P4 G, B' H+ Z/ Trs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."