[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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0 f* p% J+ H5 N( X: ?人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; b& x' |% B" f+ r7 F
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区: x/ J' x* X- z, t, }

3 E! s/ Y) q  E根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。6 ?" V$ ?7 z' A! A% [7 B
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。; x1 s  K7 N8 Z, W: W5 b- u7 G
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. . x# C$ ]5 n9 z' n# Y
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 2 W: }+ [* |( v- `& I: P: D6 E
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 4 v$ ~% X9 {4 p2 J
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区( I, Z/ i3 i+ W& J9 y9 E

( y3 O# L$ g$ F9 m* eLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. , t7 q# ~$ g! w

! s- \+ ]9 J6 C人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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! q; K  F  S5 x/ F, c9 `Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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) ]# u+ \1 i  @% XAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 A$ F, S: l1 O3 Z- n) v
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' ~* x3 _! ?( ]

. b0 d) e" |" QThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 7 `% V3 d( N" S; X) C* G
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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$ m% Q" z$ C( P8 O+ |7 Q" y8 `Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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7 w/ z% m0 s* U) w# f5 v& s"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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3 i* @: [1 h8 m"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."