[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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  p' e, }$ |* a% D7 Drs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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3 {% F/ N: k) `0 A/ I" c% krs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 2 T4 @6 \* ?- j, K

/ F& O% H( ^" M* B1 `$ s1 h5 t5 M% oHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 4 R, @3 |- J% ]4 `( c4 a1 g# l
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 2 \0 z" |4 S: }/ P
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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: m1 w. X  I) V$ YThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 0 C9 ]  w# D1 n! v7 A# \

3 e8 s% t+ }& C6 m- `4 Rrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区1 d, L8 K( Q: w! p  Q  I5 E6 t
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区3 h1 \' S$ O3 p2 K
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区/ d' m3 X) m( f, p- b3 F' v
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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1 _  Q5 W! I6 E/ M2 n1 hSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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4 M0 [3 I! w  ^人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 0 @# H) {0 b$ e5 t0 s- Y& ~

) a( @  c- w; t& a' T* _The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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" z# [+ H1 }2 ], gThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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8 O: m' l( ?/ K. a  G! \, k' SBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 7 j2 J( F  _3 Y# r$ z; r

. A# b- C7 S! w) Y8 v; N; EIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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3 K; A# @* D; D4 J  j"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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) y& {0 H  |) W8 y6 E1 G"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."