[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。人在德国 社区' ~. b7 t  |( O1 ^
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据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。9 u4 C! w7 ^. f8 D: h( l1 `) N! {: @& o

3 T, _0 C5 z* g1 T5 Yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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7 @0 q, v8 \. W' E" e* @' D研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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5 X9 M+ j( |( Z* j5 Y  L" ^Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ' o4 `5 e5 {% B0 _  Y1 K4 H  |! @
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
- ]8 x% q1 ~; ?2 C; P, `Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. $ p0 B- k6 {. |0 D* U& v

- }  Z: w# l% y8 y5 YBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". , [) z& U7 ?- X, S

$ v  P' j3 W5 }! t/ r" B"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 9 Y( y4 O% `( [! f
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 7 V% j" V8 Z# z! G. c

* `7 `4 d& r6 g: DUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区8 D0 r4 o/ p) d5 U: U, h2 k

/ s; d0 a" _* GSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ; t$ F8 X# J# a3 N4 r# e

+ ~( I! _' W( l* i0 ?" R* FThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' a. F* N9 `0 B. y3 F5 E0 F

4 g* f2 p7 ^0 H0 o5 V' J3 k+ L7 HBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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" q0 B. J: N0 A$ j( A) B8 o# jIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. , V, X; D7 n6 W& h2 |( h" h
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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Women shunned high-flyers for men with average jobs

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