[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。; [% I' ~% S0 K( P: V& o# r

* M$ ]) l! D5 A: s% G据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。: m# d* l7 g+ E+ t5 f. W+ u

" w$ v5 s5 J$ j  t, X研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。! s. d6 q+ v# y1 `

- w1 s0 y& G, I9 t; j; ]. e; Z研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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, S. {; l$ F; o7 {4 L$ r* @rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区5 L- Z' r7 u6 a" g% J
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
# ^+ V0 _0 N6 I" x人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& F7 }! V* w8 x

2 d. _& W. [( u( i+ T3 F5 mBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 0 o' E" M' t0 F4 D
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区" l9 L% X" s( N; g7 a2 @+ a) y$ E9 f: C

+ d  C4 f. ?1 O+ `0 i2 O# NLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( M( S* ^5 E6 d3 I4 z% c
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 4 J4 s8 L( N1 m9 c! B

. ]( ?. R/ T5 i& h! }人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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; v& e+ ?; c3 g6 S3 B, E4 h9 Lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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! l% ?# C/ N( Y* Y* ]' R6 G9 ]The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 9 H  q3 q) g' F4 R
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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% E  p: j) f" a6 M4 ]5 U, @But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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6 M0 e( T) `# H: F$ ]6 bIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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; K) F2 G! z+ _# Ers238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ; g$ T: I: R7 R9 \0 T/ r' e" l
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."