[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。$ z4 K0 S  L' ^- e0 f
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。3 v0 K: Z8 ~4 z' R# K

5 }, u) R! t- e* `; Ers238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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; a5 P  M' }6 m& }人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. + L. L/ ^& Z) `# N! Z; ~
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. " P) {; ]. F) ?6 o
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 2 f5 B/ O2 @; q4 m# J: ^7 x
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 0 k, G" ~/ |' R) ~
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." / f+ W5 i3 k/ ~* K/ l2 b
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. + G: l; P! ~/ E- c
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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# x& G9 U1 r& T% b, j4 HAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 2 T( l8 I8 f# |& p3 \9 v+ Y
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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" B) _' }) t: D4 h' `2 D) }The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 9 n3 t% Z, e9 O4 w; U- l
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ( D1 @/ `8 f2 y0 ]6 Q

+ T1 l! S7 J+ c- a* K人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 ~& i' C2 Q5 ?% V) \: x; o  z* J3 G

) S3 Q) @/ o6 i4 A* n8 _3 M, G- M"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区+ |8 z9 r6 u) q
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."