[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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4 v3 i7 ~3 N% C7 u- w0 x% H研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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9 L+ R& f6 w0 C7 `8 |! |根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。' ~, H2 P/ e/ `3 s' P
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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: o( G! t; o2 ~* J/ ors238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' , x! @9 ]0 [7 H7 O5 e
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
1 h# n6 z/ F) M2 j4 _人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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) g7 k! a7 _7 eBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区, G$ P& s8 R: u% p. [
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 0 Z: W( e% H# P( v
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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5 p5 E( c& J, k9 Y: d  G& K: Lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 9 o& I$ z# p6 _& z. \# W
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) @+ \* _4 ?1 T' N' u" G
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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6 M+ R& i0 h2 ~Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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0 Y! t; e  O, u9 fAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. + E8 G( Q( Y. D) y

* b9 }# {0 {. e$ [5 h2 e% s, g9 Jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 _6 ~: D3 u# f6 ~% p
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 V: R. Q! c( S% w* f2 z" J4 T

$ r* u! ]6 j( o) u7 `Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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: R8 k/ d7 u' A4 E3 }0 x7 Y"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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! M- {3 I/ [) d% o# @, F  e( ]"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."