[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。/ ^) C% c7 u5 E9 ~( b, @
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。6 G1 i6 o' t6 c3 H7 n

; s4 s1 o# A1 H9 O3 @- [- s% l$ _3 E/ e人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。# J& d8 q; @- C6 \' u

  a8 u* |3 ]; AWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 3 \: J$ L* {% r* W6 ]
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ' y2 J, f& q) |, x
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区3 Q7 J& D3 K9 h

. C  d: u% P4 N& N- r. {7 Q5 s8 drs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. / ?' @, W7 ^# L
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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% l& s# s. Q* E' _" @* K$ b& N% e人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ! w" [  q8 Y3 c& ?" \( M0 ?
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. , A) \- Z7 \- [

; g' O7 E/ T- Q, g  O5 YSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区: `/ p+ s/ u" H3 |/ U8 d/ Y1 m
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. , F  P( @% g8 Q( m& F6 O- @6 y: B: i4 a
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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5 X3 t5 l5 i9 F/ mThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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" q0 ?' K; T& n" n! Ers238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."