[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。' d$ a! o  M9 l) G0 s% L# y

/ h5 n* Y/ [1 J0 g# y% a据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。7 Z* g# G7 s+ d6 t1 T0 C% C
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: X& C' X3 r' h6 {6 y6 J% [
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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) ]' p. J- X/ P$ l% C% ?人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区' P+ f( I6 U" M! [- I
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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+ |# l5 n( Y- H3 sBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. " W% D2 b: P2 r  C/ D" m+ m# `; s, b

+ e, l! P$ D' I/ ars238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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5 h& }: P% m; Krs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区0 }' i7 G9 _% |. b# f) E8 m& F: |
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." $ \8 d3 C* Y- V; P! n8 q  ?1 ?

% p$ a7 }3 E' l# `9 A人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. & j) z% Y6 R* P  B* X: M: T
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区5 n- x( `7 b  j7 Y1 \
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" T" u% y- e: f9 g2 Z5 y$ a9 A& ^Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de# c; y7 f1 Y+ |# z, U; s

) L* A$ x4 r8 LThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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0 N- f. u* p4 x, ?  j8 K0 G* EBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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4 t; ?0 ?2 b6 x( z+ M+ @/ p人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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! I0 V3 H  ^# d3 f/ B"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区# C$ o% i, Y  n  N, o: |

6 r* {( L* O. e& B4 D3 d* w: ?"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."