[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。' A5 r4 X2 k: K2 C" ^
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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: |" I" W2 {: L9 [+ \人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。: u) L3 l- E+ ?9 |

, i1 J5 F0 r7 h研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。/ f6 i+ Y2 H% x+ m3 v% E4 O( e
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ( w+ X! w( d/ A

: m4 X! O" ]# q9 K  t0 d3 Krs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. , R) P: W5 @2 M( r
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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/ W3 z6 l9 t& K9 B: o# U4 cThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" @+ r, N6 J7 W' B# F+ V

* r" M  U: v% v" A' {4 V% o8 |9 I8 `$ vLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". , ]+ y  m  w. F0 D7 e( J1 ^( ^9 m2 a
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ! }  ]) U$ V; P' O. X9 |2 l& q; i

) E# f+ q; M6 kUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. : W7 |7 L7 U2 `8 H! y0 j# ^
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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, l4 P- B( ~: e+ yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区) P9 Z9 a: c+ x5 E" m
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. # S. u# a3 e" G+ X3 b3 |

: @) m- ^9 U. O0 ?1 j& Q& y7 CBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 1 t/ w$ s2 v0 C7 o

! `  M" {* d' O: }* G9 E* YIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 5 t1 p' n, ?$ d& c
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. - Q$ a9 j# B% m; m
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."