[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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  W- C3 t  t* \# v据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  ?$ ?) d+ S5 e. e; V

/ b( B( f! n. ?( ]7 y, t8 Mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 |$ D& |4 c  Z1 ]& _
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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/ V9 J2 j3 x  {! C- O; W9 g人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 6 |% o2 E9 s' {' P5 _
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. # S5 G, O& M3 X* L
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. / D9 u5 }3 H( K! o6 H9 K, b

: q6 x* a* }' [, D- Y9 V% nBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.   _- g9 _7 G. v: \5 f

  }/ E% t& Z8 b6 @0 V* i' F' i$ tThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区/ o; _; S& v  N* `( l4 y
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区# O3 q9 ^* z9 r: B7 y

- A0 q5 {, L% I6 j' v. `rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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# V& Q" ~' S1 P$ o5 d# Y* k' M人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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. d+ N3 C/ R; y$ ?& e人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. - f. ^& A8 U( u0 J! Z
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9 C7 o, {" ~. j  v# C' v0 y# i( ~rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. % Y# H) [1 T/ f
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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, }1 g$ G! V& QThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 1 h, p+ \1 l7 N; }6 W$ J
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区3 f$ z9 s, v' |6 V- X
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."