[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。4 {2 f# R! ^' G1 c

( x- ?# }8 q8 n: b6 x3 B3 L据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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/ o) b3 w! ]/ \+ Q. K8 B/ I0 ~5 f研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。1 Z! B7 W- Z6 A# q2 L  z. J0 v6 y
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区7 n) `, H+ f( S8 U3 a( b( Q

2 F6 d/ I: Y( `( |# S2 O+ u研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。* B: S. P2 ^% W& f& f. Y
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
  [& E( V. `+ ~7 `Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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3 K- J+ I( O7 RBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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! E, f1 U4 B+ drs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. : u/ Q' o& c" h; m$ G
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". % j- n/ k: Z8 A% V
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ' {* J/ }% k$ R, H  s$ ]* [
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区& G& u$ N+ T9 e8 M
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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: s- e% S7 E& @% P. _* l8 N! @Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.   t! f$ n0 ?7 m0 ]6 t
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ) L) u% f8 D$ |* z$ S) O: Q9 }

( u. @$ w3 g, xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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( `; \* r: v% n. j人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 1 s4 ~5 O! R  U  k" q1 h

6 J( X9 F0 _/ N0 p7 M% R; I人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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: E# J0 T$ P6 P% i"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."