[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。: h/ a/ z! O  C6 H

& x( L9 \0 f5 l( J据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区9 b2 k  g* M0 v$ D
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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3 b: \2 |! n* IWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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' U! H# n' g- ^$ Xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 3 w+ `3 e: J: ~7 B4 u/ A7 H+ T
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ' M- N' P% f# g9 n6 _, F
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ( e9 ^  ~* Q# T) \9 N) K
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". % `/ K4 c! i, T2 ^( D, ~" p" r- ~# B! @
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. S$ w1 J2 h( h7 Q- L
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区! F: {' P# ?, l2 M5 F, e' U
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区1 T' O5 \5 z# ?( I; a
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区3 m* u7 I" O5 W$ Q: Q, y
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.   g- [0 W+ k  J& F2 A. T

8 t( l* J; c  h  ?0 x( a6 v! r人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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$ i- X8 d8 V& p6 BThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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( @/ Z# U8 Y7 |; e/ @# FBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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+ \2 n# H' ]3 ["Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."