[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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6 L* V! L% n2 G9 Brs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ y" h$ @! \, r' H
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区0 x/ e; e8 i3 k: c% x8 |( Q
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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. x3 H9 c$ V9 I6 B$ z0 Y! fWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
5 |+ S& Y7 D0 R% }人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. * P! c! B2 w7 M& O
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 4 j% n( i/ k! l+ b

( B% I; }7 L2 M7 G1 X2 h5 j2 o# y, s( IThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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4 @( ^! n4 D4 _" drs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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; @0 p4 V# h6 K$ b0 E# I人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" b- I7 ^. |0 i& T

6 h  ]0 T; O9 R. ^# s3 r"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 w  g& p( k( u6 g
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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; Z1 @! Z; p  C3 v6 k  H人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区6 n! E/ A" h1 \3 p- p
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. : ^/ N/ ~/ j$ |( u1 |: H7 c

9 w( L- R  c& m* [4 M: E  q# G) jBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. \+ ]/ A( R4 M3 f3 {* ?

& j+ a2 Z4 G! f$ l人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 3 b) S6 X5 M8 d/ B2 g0 |
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."