[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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: S; g, |9 ]9 y! }9 H$ r# [: K研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。" N5 N+ M& a) Q. C

7 M$ `; c3 w. p1 |: z* }rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 }1 l! q- m2 Q) H
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。- ~" o. q* g% d" l
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区# q& G0 J* w. Z3 B; [
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
" f6 j7 }" W" v, F# r人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区$ h: |/ t" w- }, W

0 v$ U, M0 x6 o: X/ ?. i6 GBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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, q: }$ \$ S2 P+ z* `! a7 r"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 5 e# w' O/ B: l4 |* _+ E4 z
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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) w. g( n7 O" `- H/ y$ jUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. + L( M' Y# D7 T; x* X- T# [# }2 X

( t- [% [- `4 e& Z6 e人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区$ r" M4 E! B2 ~
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 9 ~& O* |5 Y1 \; l& p. ?
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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% @; a0 J0 x7 I  C1 ?. IIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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' l+ r- k2 x7 Q0 U( ]"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 1 k5 C# K. S7 n% y& T

' |5 K' N, p/ q4 b% u人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."