[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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1 k+ r8 A- b+ j  g+ v人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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/ q# y0 ?( s( R+ y" Z7 D4 j2 f0 Q研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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3 C8 F) \, g6 I. P' Q$ Z6 V9 G根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。3 S& L  u1 Z( t. }) k% C
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区  ^# S. h1 @* |4 @5 Z
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' , L& B$ I6 }' \

3 b- v$ {, _' X1 C& G! MHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. . ]4 \( {; h3 F) u6 O$ R
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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1 W' J( M6 E: q/ P$ f0 j# M* j+ ^! SBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. $ r% o# K4 u! y. w9 O) T* X1 ?: A
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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' \, U- v1 z4 ]"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 P( n7 h" ?( B' n% |5 o/ {, {
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 W5 Z& j& x) f. S* n( i
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. & d, d5 D) q' R8 U/ e8 Q2 p

& i1 q% d" l( M( S人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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! @( @9 L5 K  L8 t% h人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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3 r  m; r1 c! M9 ~- nBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' Q/ N3 e6 O, B

4 U, D" ?1 B3 O9 t人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区" H  h$ i" ?+ q: L/ `( f

" B$ I) v5 {4 o# x  m7 J人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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. C! P: z* h; Q' u* vrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."