[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。5 s, D9 q' M- y' ?* T+ A0 R

+ J  Q/ h/ _2 s) X据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。% B, z  }) q) Z4 u; s" q

; u9 q/ z' y* @7 w  V) c- crs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。: ^; S6 c* `, W" F2 v

$ {% j/ r  d/ N, T, \0 r  r人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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; [* Q! ]( s7 P8 Z* b, iWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
1 a# D5 u$ n3 EPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. , s# H2 @! B$ D# \$ Z

$ z, o+ c) m" H+ E; Ars238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( r& z) b, ~2 Q5 G7 {. m
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 M, K9 H4 g' H/ {, z! K5 A
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 6 R5 a9 r9 f2 k- O

( {1 m9 u) G6 y' m! {8 Mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. # F" g. L" U9 `) d9 F: u7 c
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 4 R" N- R! C( r* K# t3 q
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ; u: L  }3 c9 s; `
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 8 [6 c& D# m. N
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ! A, ~* [: F8 G2 c3 R( j5 y

$ F* j8 K* Y& d* Hrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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+ x$ Z' y; f0 G5 f" n人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."