[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。! O/ j8 I' w# V( o! V+ h

( @6 [# t! I+ U. }, J1 P6 t据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。/ P( U" _6 i4 S8 @
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。  p/ q3 x: \% G- ?( s* [. Z
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
0 b" ^/ q- d) V$ x5 p) E) EPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区8 p3 l6 a+ A7 Z8 J8 D/ `
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. - Y  C' I' p* u

# V* y* ^* z% U+ dThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 8 g! C+ e- t$ `# X1 S; x8 ~
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". , y. {8 H% l: x# k" w$ F" R3 }

9 i% M; v% Q3 G; w5 [2 f"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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3 N4 ~$ m1 O! ^" x( o. c: @Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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3 v2 t7 s8 J( d% d; D. [人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. * ?" @. d) k1 M: s7 o5 ^# S
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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9 j' i+ T4 a9 Z+ `8 w: @: i& {2 ]The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ( M3 O, e$ \2 j$ v" i
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 9 l% i- J/ U; n# W- m: P3 w' W

4 j. j1 g# }' A"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."