[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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" R$ A# v# X2 J据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。% J* K  F; y3 J
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。  Q3 A8 N. i  K0 ]7 U8 o% f

& h5 I9 N6 O* @* Z6 vrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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: S, N! U, `$ xHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 [) b' [  R) ~% i- ?
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ; O( B' \9 w3 p, Z- s# n
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.   A, Z" y: a# A* N; z, ~

- e0 E1 P5 _4 ?4 l  r5 GThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. " ~7 I- n0 o' Q4 N& V( K& Z  k! @1 B
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 2 r5 e0 m2 m1 R: P4 Y% z* V
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. $ H8 I& |9 {1 s& _  x# |2 L# R

6 S' c) u7 ]/ Mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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# w2 \/ J* i- l. x! i; ]& e! H. a0 M$ Lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. * g. S7 ]/ h* a5 m" A

5 Z8 W" C% j% ^1 \+ p$ C' pThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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7 ~% V( y3 ]3 u5 O( {6 G+ UThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 2 p- m6 Q0 f4 q7 [0 m# P, _! [
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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  v/ P4 B6 f9 {! `& L人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."