[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. H' o3 s) @+ ?! e. D

- r& `$ j9 G, ^" w# v据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。& E) v$ P, T) F# e7 L
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。" t+ T# @0 g& {  m6 g) _1 C. C6 s

1 \+ G6 `5 n- t$ ]1 e根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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2 u9 V  L, a- s5 S0 H9 FWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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) p8 `, g9 T2 Z; i* p8 D. ]" hHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
" P5 }% u9 Y& z5 s$ trs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. % f+ \+ C1 M1 a' K+ V( e

' A+ K9 L9 {& ]9 M4 i$ zBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 7 L) y9 I# K$ Q- h7 p2 @- ^

' s: Q5 j# Z* W- |4 v# Srs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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, \, Q( E& l4 N$ @) T' Y/ m5 TLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 _4 w/ r- {8 ^& q/ S

& m% v8 s; a3 t' N"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." " B. e+ C( c4 M! }1 n' u3 u

# N- x% A/ V6 ?人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区  K! Y# Q$ Z) c7 M; X& {8 E

& ?% Y" a. i6 A4 E  l, g/ `5 mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 F7 w# W. v8 b% {( `- b

( Z- t, b4 N0 \, t6 Drs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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2 W% b5 Y- X9 U) nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 N4 |" L% r1 ~9 P* t9 K

8 a: F$ d( O: g人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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2 w' F: V% ?) G/ z"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."