[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。" Q/ {0 }( Y1 \. |% @/ [6 t# o

7 ]* ~" t8 |. w  G0 G7 f4 L9 y, c研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。( W7 R) y" E$ _& n+ |6 |

: |' ^7 M6 |5 W4 h8 Z. G7 z9 N' L5 g人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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$ s0 ?) |0 ~$ ?; Z3 p  Y0 J& n1 kWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'   `5 M7 Q/ G. J7 g9 V

. ]9 F7 R0 s' h* IHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 9 R( D$ Q6 V* R
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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: }# w4 u$ \6 e/ l9 ?2 ZThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 0 K* e$ K+ T  y+ p; k7 M

, ?- A9 \0 C: P& NLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区( Y2 Z# w1 }7 B' V: s

5 W) h3 \; l4 B; e1 e"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." % t9 X. f* [8 L# l) q" I
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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' _5 p: n. }0 K2 c7 ASix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. " h& E- S9 i. Y$ ~% k
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0 s2 o5 F5 m; a/ d5 k2 P! @. PAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. / |. c+ @  F5 d& Q

5 |' `/ n/ W' zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 4 f  `3 E. u" u+ V, h! v3 H
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区% I+ ^# U, p0 g" L! C
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.   M6 b" s( D! L( k
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."