[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。4 ]" O, g) U' o7 P" j! `

% U- E1 T; t7 f5 E6 Crs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。. m/ ]& h" W& ]

8 T! V- F1 |+ o研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。$ A- Y" w; ~3 d, a* ]# j
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。) B# W* J3 {; {8 V

' B3 o  M# c# ^- v* ~研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。& ^, C/ j+ C% r
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
, g1 z- t" D! `2 RPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 5 k0 w' b$ A$ j3 s" t. ~; y5 M

( y0 W0 z! I! e. ]% Q- T, }人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ; H& N* ?! ^; S3 G0 w( v

4 \8 s# X& c& L+ R/ ^# n. t( hrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 1 L1 @$ t7 c3 m2 N
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 7 g3 E$ A0 g& }; R- N8 ^2 B
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 m- Y: R+ K2 w) @

* O/ a. F+ s4 c% L" J9 @Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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, G# A3 I$ E* i" ^, r% wThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. " L5 J9 d/ p: \1 i
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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, w' n9 C+ k- S$ R. X; GIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. % k9 K  ?5 X3 @8 C- y6 V& \, P+ K9 |

- d. y( Z  V3 t5 _$ U5 j  K6 U"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."