[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。# r# n. Q4 w6 o
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 x4 s: b0 q) U0 b% W- X' R
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 r  ]5 {3 o' R: t& ^' |6 D

" r2 u$ Y6 e1 S, n% n) V" Mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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$ G5 _6 Q7 p! ?% Y, EWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 0 }1 ^6 y: _, w! j5 n

& a( g) X' C, X3 eHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
2 I$ |1 \9 Q* CPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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/ j% y/ c8 A. A" n& M5 PLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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6 e  E: ?( e2 t& q5 Lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 8 p: Z# P' x; P# ~
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( Q6 O) Z$ T: g6 ]; v4 |3 K2 O; q& h

( d; O( K+ E0 z# pThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. " n+ R1 Y1 a& ^8 O2 w- m
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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" U. R3 a- u  S  Y" L- P. @/ fIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ f8 t$ M( J1 r3 h' E6 n. W

4 y) p8 _/ A: W) B, S; M0 C"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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! d4 T; _4 ~1 \6 j. i1 d/ c  r% s5 o"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."