[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。! h0 N& X) k  R+ q; e& G2 E
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区2 k3 s2 ?- f5 Z) h, M

2 d* m- G9 Z) m: c5 H* grs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区; `8 T/ P( q" a. k+ k. B# s& X
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。5 \6 r' @% e2 z& b
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。* K/ n% c% U: ?) I5 a* Q# ]( w. x

+ X! l5 ]) }, S% A2 o/ ors238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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4 T1 `* y' A' V6 l" SHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. * N# ?' z! c8 W
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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  m# y- Q8 @9 N( U- h2 S5 ~人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 3 T0 B# C4 b+ J2 C( D0 u5 z

) K& a5 \# ^" R2 E# c3 }: J+ oLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ; a- J* o2 T7 s4 K
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. $ P, X2 ]) P& ?
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 6 Z; G* Q; |* t$ e6 E( h; I7 H% E% O' q
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 6 g/ T% V3 c! \

+ K/ h. n8 Z, y1 C! a! I; Y; RSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 0 {. [& @6 Z; H
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. $ m8 X$ B  B# k3 x1 }4 }9 {" h) c

% T* r8 f% e! t; g0 I- DBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. - t! G) q3 f) [: \5 D
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区# h8 b) G4 d# [3 A! Z

. \. a. ^& j+ R2 K" F"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."