[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区, F, n$ l& A% y: v* l

4 \5 [. I/ Z$ A; i  P, U1 M研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。$ q- v7 _4 V/ {3 y: P! u

! t' e! ~! t- `研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' , ]+ `4 Y' w$ D1 _7 o- y
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
2 A* b* N0 n8 S* o* r" Crs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 0 p7 K' U- i8 T) r2 ~

; c7 b5 A# C" P$ KBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ) k2 M# ^; X! g% [& M' z% N
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de7 P. z" U! R. W& r6 n! B
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ' P* E9 u8 N; ^4 r

% V7 K) J! S; i; M9 |( y; e6 m"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 9 G/ l: S  \3 j, H3 B

' y* ~. ^  Q- u1 ^) F) t人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."   C; Z, o+ N8 K: {3 |9 s4 k& `
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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* R; v1 L! r6 P$ k) e* eSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.   G5 E8 K' F5 |* r2 l
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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! D) k. x: m! R0 }3 @0 tIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区6 T9 P* ~! t: R' G2 P. k
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."