[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。/ y5 \3 Z8 e& {2 ^, {
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& j; R4 i2 i+ \  e6 p6 J6 _0 I% L2 D& [
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。% W2 q  X  `( G9 ^

. H6 G* ]1 X; L9 P1 g$ s研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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+ v* [4 a& U: k! X4 b8 wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
0 [8 o' ~: }5 |' fPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. + ]# F8 o) J' s4 d5 P* M

* J4 k: x$ u( U3 c* g' O+ nBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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3 ~. d( E% {# ]9 F7 n% r  jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区' B' }5 @# @7 J3 U
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. M* _3 p+ _9 p2 P
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. / G8 j0 ]+ u/ H# p' T) j! v% D
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区" F- M5 G0 N" I; S
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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  s( I, I$ ?& a0 wSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区& n  |  R6 Z! j& b7 \

6 u7 q% X& }/ srs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. , `# A% u8 U) R$ y( h! d' |

# P% C5 X" V# {% N& Y9 UThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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+ F1 B$ u( y' s$ Drs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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- l9 ~& `- i4 ^) J- e! ^Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区7 j9 f) Y- j) N$ D: h" B. H

0 g- T5 q1 z$ b/ Q& _"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. / I4 Y! T  J. s  u: T9 l/ j
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."