[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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$ |, t; N. {7 f9 K( \4 ^5 {据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。) I8 m9 B7 q6 n

7 s% F3 Y) D& q# E  {人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 K  G1 d# d( N* W% f+ u$ E8 F

" F7 k3 _9 G- p5 N" H3 o研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。: q! c7 H3 B* {( P0 [
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' * F, F6 S2 M# W
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
$ I; u% |$ E# u5 y  I$ Y# {人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 2 O3 M2 _9 U) z9 [
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 0 y2 U- [& k/ B7 [% J

  F$ V2 ^& Y( P7 y& A+ C0 `The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ' ?+ b1 L% |5 l( L+ x

1 m9 W. n" [3 I! S2 g/ pLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 8 I- N' _1 \' h8 V' g' `1 ^' M8 i3 b
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 q8 C' v. e8 p. L* Y

7 V6 I- c8 }! Q. p( o9 K, E$ J8 ^& c"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区( X9 t; J& x" Q

6 K! Q5 k1 \# \/ R! `" h  Z人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区4 y. S* j, ?- [  p

1 x5 |# @5 M2 l& V$ _人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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. F2 `. h8 B4 q4 E( W" rAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ! F# r) [. T  ^
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 9 _6 G+ J/ O# f1 G

9 k  z# ^5 F9 zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) F" b% r4 f' B6 o2 D1 a
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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+ P9 t6 h- E) `Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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2 t3 y, T# t2 ^0 d& [: q"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."