[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 w+ q' x. l9 x; m# o" V/ f

6 Y) g* P, c* Z: v2 N2 p# b; U" _人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  G  M( }/ @6 T/ D" \9 K/ {

1 g9 I" K  |( h  j人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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* i1 A5 w, t6 F3 X7 l5 `% mWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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+ N3 k& T3 {+ h) L) j人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 1 \$ ^3 a$ B2 i- ?4 z, Y
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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+ T1 G3 F5 {* o% Z% K* n人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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! n8 r" @. ~+ W! d人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ( w: ]% F* G8 Q% j# w, m% e

6 m% O$ m. D) H) O5 X"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 2 @: A6 ?5 A6 g

  S, K: J+ [8 V人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ; @" Y. P; _3 p
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区/ m. j7 \! ?8 V3 _2 z+ _8 X
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. - u# ~; z3 p& e& U5 ~; r: w
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. * a0 y5 _5 A8 X/ ?# K) `

; R/ _8 q1 ^! k: q3 T( M" GIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ( t) O/ J" m0 H1 j8 `; w5 v

: G3 x. ]& w# @4 X6 i  ars238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 Z1 M9 T6 T0 j$ h9 ~8 n" z3 ^
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."