[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。, Z) j. H& m; @! G0 `
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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, T! R1 H. v- {3 pWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' ; d) U+ U( m7 u( y" B! n& Q/ A( Q% X
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
- b! s8 K& t" QPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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$ u( V, G* _6 H) j2 _But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. " T0 j6 y2 ]9 f+ b' ~4 U& e
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区' D& I! a6 l0 U
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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4 A  A, Z! W1 f' y; F2 ~- Y/ X+ l$ ars238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 2 s8 b, b; K6 r$ m' B

* g; ~: z8 @$ p* x4 F"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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; M7 a+ B5 u7 m' m8 vUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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* D: v9 D6 ?; u- S- g; wSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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* I/ o0 I  K! m0 s5 Y  w7 fAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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/ b+ n3 F/ F. p; D  E人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. + O! n) F7 C3 Q' n
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 C- a/ Z, c8 D$ d5 h2 ~

  P1 W( P* l- ?: }8 G; q" s人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. $ ?. l; A" U# d7 L; m  h: [. B3 ^
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 5 o/ [9 h" J2 A4 n7 ?4 Y5 t

3 f# ~* O' P9 e"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."