[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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, |/ k2 O" d' f7 x  j据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区, ^1 ]+ x3 g! B, ]& N

7 D" x# ]. o+ {- F研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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: o* u& G+ S/ r4 T/ x4 A; C* R根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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' |! s/ k% `& a: a' S. mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 8 n0 P: o+ h  y% v7 w5 M4 g3 [
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
9 ?* K3 T7 Y, ^$ Jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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* C$ O5 B- C7 s1 u: D6 uBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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0 O) P& {4 ]: g2 h# C/ ]人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区' V# A; N% x2 Z4 }! A7 w

/ L* I8 }* i6 m, W+ hLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ) K+ F. f3 b( _- H& i5 U

1 L& K3 o# T% V- ]"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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& Q1 j# @/ O) n2 |/ y# krs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' g% k) r6 D  V& k  r$ _3 j% Q9 Y) o
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区! }7 E( o* \0 a; x7 {5 {

0 d6 t- ^1 Y% w4 \! O7 _% zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ! U& ?9 S5 _, ^7 G

2 A, R) p9 l- w' K: b3 J' EIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. - n$ s5 u2 H/ j( V  B- S

# r2 M+ a1 t$ B9 }( c, X6 c. E"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区1 V- G, B: U$ c
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."