[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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) P/ W( g( O; [9 H$ u4 E& E0 `据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。7 ^1 H# ]! i. I) h

) m) S. b/ u; G) m研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 y/ j& ]2 f1 T+ ?
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。' V& P: J% N* {% d* ?+ G

0 f% C. h* w9 ?0 d: I6 yWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区9 i3 J6 H% ~; ^; [

3 |: h* g: h/ ]6 s  ?2 }8 E人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区0 {. K& P0 z& W3 l
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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( g) T+ L8 e3 ]$ Z* l3 h8 z' V' j% p; w5 M人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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' ~" c8 V$ r4 b! J" f人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. # ?( I# k1 c# S

/ R( b2 C& F; Nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ( {4 E8 W  I2 C4 z* T+ z

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. * O) y% I8 Y% `: L6 K0 e" r

/ P8 E* W& l( Z. brs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' X, b- @: M: p2 X! o% n( f

1 o# V/ ?% a+ U" p9 c- nBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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- X; }% S; z- `6 M0 _Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. - l; E  J: n) T: q5 ^, o
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."