[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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$ x; y: A% M. Y& _研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。3 z) v/ `; T, K

. b$ x4 ~& Q" Q5 V, Zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。

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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ! Q* X7 j; {6 r5 a' p  h
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
" k, \3 k. N3 b+ ]/ }6 ?# J( u) mPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 1 Z) M. L$ N* Z; D2 |/ H* K* k3 T
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区# @5 E5 @  V& \- k: r% b
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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4 i) `0 j0 I6 w0 O2 l! Z7 P人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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  ?, C( ~$ r2 ^"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 7 B6 Y& f* C4 }/ r# J: h% d
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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! W  w8 g9 s" K7 e  O  _/ L2 c人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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) k0 N  B5 \: [/ G  Q人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区2 O" Y4 k1 s' v4 X
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. , U/ ~6 g  k9 K/ Q" g
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 8 M% r* o) k( u3 B$ j" h& Y
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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Women shunned high-flyers for men with average jobs

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