[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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2 S) N. K$ }$ H5 e据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。6 F( i9 Z" ^7 a

9 A7 M, U8 q7 F  x1 j0 y研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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0 F. y- m7 E) @: d( nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。$ Z* d/ G1 n+ d, v+ J/ r9 a

, N5 S5 x: v. B6 `研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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+ e9 m1 b" w) V' h* \7 g  [High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 6 I# ^. ?$ Q0 V6 `5 p9 M
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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* n5 Y7 t; O! S% H; D) P- c$ u人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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9 U" V$ g! z* F* v, aThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ! M$ w. k; `& k( y! J- ~" v: m

) U4 O9 I* \- H7 f1 W" o" d# NLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". * M" _4 x) W% s
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. % e. P5 k# O5 k3 y1 ^8 X
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& M) V2 d) o. z6 C  u* Y
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 v  C& `2 @; r5 y- h$ ^1 E; [
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区" C+ l! X, e  |3 R
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ; y/ w  h9 f2 U7 ?3 L( g2 v

4 r" p" n3 a6 sThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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" B+ ?5 o' N1 O2 ~8 L1 I" }But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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/ ]& s" e! O% u3 D- }Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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) o3 d$ r7 e' R) Y/ i" X"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 5 k' [9 \8 U  ?; Q7 f( i2 a% U

# ?2 P7 f# q$ Q, h"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."