[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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6 a6 }6 @% y' I* R4 C人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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" o& T. {& Q1 n, r4 G' z, n* a) C研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 ^7 j/ _' `8 l6 A
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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% l: W' o: E% O  C, Z研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区9 K% h& g4 j) g9 T+ T' h
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  b5 D: {# p( L% ]9 z; r

( S  E. X0 R6 W8 E4 r# f6 AThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.   n% _& e, ]/ i1 y, |2 T
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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# o1 A4 K/ e  Y, n" e"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. / I% s9 F3 R6 ~/ c6 [7 g4 r" q

+ Y- F% B8 I! W7 t7 W; d0 W人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- _6 o3 R4 k+ s! |% a1 v. |/ s
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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+ e4 q+ P3 _2 w8 WSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ; A' F) F% B% X* ]' W/ ~
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; _# W: @- Z8 P8 a, ^
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& Q2 B  W! {$ F' ?
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 8 L: w7 S) T& N- U* G. B

7 v" J5 N! N4 f& }" B& d3 _But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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) g: V; S% W( _人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."