[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。- E" I; a8 f6 B3 c3 R' P

+ ]& ]8 \% A+ y1 {- G5 I据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; n* o* S3 b: j# Y
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。$ V! K  Q6 @! j8 w
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区3 X! Y" k( F' I# x6 i

  t& i' W) @4 k研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。- G% @- T3 _3 U# m; L
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
' j5 c8 o+ A: [) ePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ' \, c# M8 S, m* I; R
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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3 E# G9 F, M6 C$ ^' oThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 4 N5 E: A0 Y& I: X
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区0 L3 x  b) [- C" b% z0 ~8 \0 ?: W

: P' ?' L+ H4 W% |7 R"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区6 H8 G' q/ v9 c& d! V/ g

2 Y0 A3 N$ x8 H) ?) W"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区/ J0 t- Q- B* h) O* y/ G

. O6 V" W" D' h6 x- {Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 C3 X" U7 H* c8 ]& x
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, k4 H: c( Z2 b$ V1 z. bAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. : f2 [( c8 a! m" s# i, ?: m7 }; |8 S

& ?1 E  r- L/ ~. |1 l- RThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ; ^8 n+ g4 t' h( m( i9 Y
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."