[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。9 v. f9 l7 E2 {" v/ S6 p; S3 H9 q

% a4 f9 ?0 P% \8 Y) ]rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。1 L9 X& @& O, w  M. O# Q: {8 e2 Y

' X( Q) \9 n% N: c根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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7 A, \6 q+ \+ H4 o研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区' d3 j, c+ c5 ?$ }) i$ T
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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1 V# K9 n/ n: s3 \5 ^rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
% \% w4 t! }2 z7 `4 W( XPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 T8 S% R7 \+ {* R& z4 N  U
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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9 V% _3 {0 U( X* n" W0 o! s& Y# QLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 9 m+ i3 ~# r0 d6 H) A$ [
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 6 {3 v; d. v& h0 _- U

0 _8 n2 {6 j6 a/ @"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 4 l# ]  n7 i' X7 [' X+ o

4 y/ X$ [+ M+ H& Y: J) n- ~' iSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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1 g" Y% S6 ]  K5 K! d4 K3 }rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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" }; C8 ]) e$ J! N7 {0 |* m$ l. _The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. $ k$ z3 D0 u" ]$ k5 ]2 s
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区/ |6 q( G2 s& i2 K
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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; w" j6 b2 ]( F# b& E; _人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."