[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。( Z% V: I2 i! M) w/ ~

$ [1 N' g7 h$ |/ o据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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" j% r: [0 T2 M5 `: O  Xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。- [" @6 I) ~4 ?1 e5 L
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 0 k6 M3 c) `! r0 d; ~5 P4 G  Q, O  l
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
2 D$ V! o/ @6 }9 WPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 5 ]) T& z0 f( o, V
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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/ n8 e' ~, g* m$ }  N4 gThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区; X! `! C1 S/ B

+ {+ ^+ e+ t# V$ S- c" YLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". " x# f- f6 `8 H8 x8 X

) c/ O, p: A4 N* G6 e* B"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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' j3 S2 C% @& a8 x* q5 {"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 1 y# f& f9 g  A3 X* Q: ^2 m8 z& v/ @
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. " b! W) D: r3 m4 j9 H- ]

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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, c$ K) a+ w9 L* ]人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. % D5 p0 S: k- g& \
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ! X( _' a! K# O* w! f, [
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& Q" x- e0 t, n! A
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 1 o) U# n" r7 T9 S: G  t8 }- V* Z
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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0 q9 d1 C* j' g  p- P8 `* F/ q"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."