[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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9 \2 G+ X& b6 T据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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! w  [: S/ h1 y1 i研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区7 T: K1 Z1 I3 q: |( _$ K
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区$ L7 w+ v' H0 B& L. L' E

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) i. \9 }; D7 z' w; s1 R' |; FHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. + T& ^4 }+ _) r. h/ n: J
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 ^: W4 P" T4 V, z
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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# i, {% Z- K9 X5 h) [The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". + `' a' E- a. B  N3 y
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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0 s( o! x4 J( b$ q/ R0 i"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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. d; i5 ^( p' T: Y1 r  Z4 grs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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+ l% Q- m2 f# C- r2 nSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ! t% F* }% o' R- [9 _9 L0 e
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 \8 x( k; @! [9 }: l6 [; a* }
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 0 J3 R' d) w  U( X$ ^5 Z+ d
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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0 ~: J+ N9 ?# jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区) K( t% [5 @5 i: J0 s6 F) E% L! l
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 0 U/ x& ^$ i/ w( a
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."