[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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: V/ c" n8 ^) t; E6 lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。0 u9 V& X, M3 P$ \, y1 {8 ?/ F

, |8 t" P" o; Y% e# p5 T8 v1 L研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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$ K0 h! R& N- N' n2 |rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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, ~  m, c7 E8 {8 v人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 6 R* ^& X7 g  ?3 H- @
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; b8 U* w7 m4 v0 N
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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9 T7 q7 R4 R. q$ z5 Q' N! HLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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6 L% {# e9 n; h# ^" C1 ?"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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: ], D4 }* v, `0 b" C$ w9 J"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 3 D3 M- T0 w2 ^, }1 k2 P) x+ l, t
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 8 R; h% N, F9 o2 ~' U, U( n
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. . d( U& k& {- L8 d2 I
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. : ~* x( j# M( K; b% r$ P9 Q, ]

( b5 ^1 Q! I6 i"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."