[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。0 |0 ^# Z* E/ y* `
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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# g" h! V6 W* f7 Qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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1 n- V  r& T" H( n6 f& J- v  m根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。7 p( G5 c  |4 Z; h8 B/ Z% H7 m
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。2 s, _% S% L3 o' ^9 h  t* d; {: f
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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& Y7 l8 Z4 w: M$ _* Q6 N) Yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
8 ?6 K3 b$ |& K# C( B5 rPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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2 I3 Y6 E. x- [6 RBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ( ?" R% I, h5 V' N
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 y3 m) S" S% q/ D' D

$ u  S" e4 p- ]" {5 l8 U人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 L7 {& o; f+ r( A

( B  h5 K* G; m! A& H- n9 g4 C5 R" ["Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  ?1 F7 D; f) q$ P9 d, ^5 ^, o* e$ M4 N. _
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 4 _% G3 w9 r' D

( Z2 T5 a1 {4 j+ G9 hrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. % i, r4 P; I2 G( @8 u5 _- {

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$ v9 N/ n& ]+ e; l/ z! \9 }+ xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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' [9 P7 R: k/ o% W) n+ p人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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0 r* t# _) l# _- x/ `rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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" N! f, h7 V/ ^7 f# b9 w! g# Jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- J# i0 l! [1 n$ X5 P' j9 u( w4 g) Z+ Z
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."