[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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' ?- ]) {& _/ ]$ k) b6 S人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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' `/ L" P, x8 ?/ c根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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4 I2 p% n6 R$ i9 X. Q( m/ r& Q& m& grs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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% V9 S+ B! }+ E% M' @Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 4 ?! B. O3 U1 F( b8 [

( s+ K+ i: ?8 f: Y/ frs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
9 E2 {4 [! U% p0 U# c" z) `Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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% S- U) R  I8 _/ o) cBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ; O: x! W4 [5 L. h
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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; L3 x5 ~1 A. }+ R2 n* x) kLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 5 Q; U+ `& x9 |' k+ R
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 7 n7 H+ b* D1 J- k& E: D

/ h' F: `: u3 A# I"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区1 c0 \0 P, R- G

) p8 @" K" x5 L% \9 ]+ h2 e& UUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区4 N+ Q: r0 a5 R5 f; |. E

( u4 g1 w4 k, r# u1 RSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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. V# h4 K/ B" a" L$ G! oThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 6 L( }6 a4 ?- j5 [& I$ |6 Q4 ?
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 4 Q+ Q+ R  r) ]8 |( K! R% {

7 b3 b! O# r% P& k- K6 J人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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8 O- e# R* A, ?# Y# OIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."