[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。  A- Z% F" F; V

5 t4 Q. d2 }/ ?# T" B根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区; Y  [* |' F) R" b; ?

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  D4 {6 E0 u4 c% f" D人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
$ z8 f, x* K/ j2 d* Z2 `# ePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. , u. s- Q, S$ v3 X/ h5 r# w8 I

8 I9 A1 h9 m8 B6 D1 U人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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7 F/ m9 |9 H3 N" H/ |5 XThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 6 ?/ `) Z7 I; M/ g7 }% _
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ! G+ v& S0 v& L
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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& P. F0 |  y0 B$ `3 H7 a3 X& H! i( N"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." + K9 O7 C3 K0 T6 ^; _

+ |  v1 _6 W9 d! C$ o人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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  O  R; w$ S* i2 V$ o5 D# e9 jSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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3 o7 U/ m/ B- [7 Y! ~# H1 l* H( cAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. : L5 X/ B: P% v; b" {

% Q+ \% r' a4 x1 Y# U* b: {人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. . y& T; t4 n+ ~+ p+ ]
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.   ^6 J8 T  Y, \
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. , G# f0 u8 e! `# v9 d* F0 l+ M4 X

+ f6 g, P! X+ i; u+ {% x0 lIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 p8 b8 s' a( S! L) W

4 m% C% m6 L# u  i"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 6 P& t, ?( r3 m* r* B2 n
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."