[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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9 G; ^. _- C8 W8 P" w0 u据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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. i5 A/ m5 M5 D. s, u人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。$ V* g# s3 ~; A" {+ s" K9 T

2 `" |& f- d+ m( Qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区3 y. w' m$ Q" A  M' k

+ r; W2 T9 y7 Q' H研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区- [' X8 U  k: l6 R
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ( p' v4 b6 R  k
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区- M( ^" C) I  v' d( v6 v$ F
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 0 w: _$ t4 b0 z# R5 j) W- I/ D
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 8 v0 g6 T9 ]. `9 i4 N

3 ?5 G* v6 v7 g: l  p, jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区9 M8 _7 u/ V# j" n6 ~6 q

& T( ?9 m5 D2 x) z; y# j"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." * r$ J$ j; d+ ?3 P* w' Q
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.   j* ?1 K3 y6 ~/ q
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区6 K5 I9 ]) q- s. a6 C/ z& f

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* b0 C/ p# N$ c7 W4 C) k3 W# j1 UAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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: ?0 l1 V& K) h1 X; @人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* _1 M( d8 U4 F  P/ B

6 W- _& V+ d1 E  u人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区8 E7 H+ Q' J8 b+ a) V! n
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."