[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。5 a( Z+ d" g$ n3 Y5 L! Q

% U: Q: C8 V4 V' V研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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% s7 Y0 l4 q4 Z% p7 s根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。& j, C& x$ Y; w# A6 s1 h

* b0 ~; Y- p# G* T* }Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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, j& F8 y; A6 L! O* j3 `% eHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ) k5 K2 d; m# V0 T% a+ E7 B
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 2 Q1 s* [1 ?) ~* e' x" K$ z  I5 z

& n& [% D9 C# d0 E5 _& OBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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# m, q$ s7 r  ~5 c( c( iThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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3 X; ^( U/ c  Q4 \8 c  z* `; A1 hLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, h/ a0 q1 g2 c3 i- P# C$ _, N

$ B% P# q2 u" H, R0 {, ?9 u# M' |9 h! R人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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, S0 s; H1 ~2 W( L, G"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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/ ]/ |7 O3 a7 g+ Q' b* _6 m- LSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. - @/ T. L+ W/ e- W( A) ~3 O& i2 ]
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2 X& l  u7 {$ }$ gAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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! Z. N, S/ v. N" K7 [' E; a+ prs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 6 [% c  Z. E: N& B
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 w) u! @# K' {' D
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ; i3 S0 W/ v8 f4 K3 E1 g6 ^' D
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ) u4 ?7 G/ K9 Y" n8 x6 e: }7 c
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."