[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。" R  U& X) x7 v; _7 h+ s" u

' j3 ?5 |, y. U" P$ @0 [& i人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。7 o+ N$ o% \7 Z! ]6 r

6 E6 X, g( x" n6 V1 `0 i, x# ?' |研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- s$ s) j$ n  ~# ]

, N4 w) }% A7 j8 d; _rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。2 O( q  s3 _8 E" D* x: h) B$ Q& ]

& v+ y3 E0 K' u% H人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
$ B/ i5 a) g7 N6 FPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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0 q. D5 `; V4 b6 I/ M; gBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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9 S. o# ~3 s8 g( c  W1 u8 v% A人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 6 x! h( Z) j, b: b1 N7 d& v9 {  z- ^* a/ F

8 ~/ j4 B0 i7 V& jLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. # G) @# F, }% H% b2 u1 v6 Z1 Q% |

- b2 K+ \7 [( n: T% \"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 T: D! S' A6 q9 \3 J
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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: D/ O7 F+ }+ [Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- l7 b* \' Q7 L, P

4 p% D1 N0 H- i4 t1 U7 O1 NThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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" ^- c) F1 O& Y% K6 RBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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1 b5 I3 V$ B5 R- Q人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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6 B9 C# O! W3 _/ N% m1 n人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."