[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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2 T' X- v6 J" x- G- p5 O据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  ^& }$ \  j8 C6 ~2 S2 x

/ G3 h3 T+ l1 Q- B) K& Z0 H% S人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。( g: u+ F- ]' C
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。5 ^! s9 P) ^' t: X5 k
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。$ B1 |3 d6 u; Z% q3 B

: P0 w; B6 i, i' c% n3 _5 rWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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8 y+ d& T, p6 y4 j/ H  YHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
; Z3 a- _/ M+ ^% b3 _+ i  GPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 P% f5 ~0 V% R/ c$ d" P

. v' R( l8 B# G' u9 S, B( T+ BBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 8 ~3 E1 v+ g9 t/ |

1 A+ c; P3 \3 e% v/ D! MThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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6 H* v1 r5 n: U# F  B人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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9 h1 J, ^. C& y) F2 M! x. f"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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" w& i' y$ \  j7 P/ f"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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1 B5 m1 @( ]8 SSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. : L! y1 M& p7 D+ z, g
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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/ N+ R3 W5 n& m" M& F人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. , j1 Y8 M9 Q0 X+ K6 t8 R: D$ @8 I- m

: e1 B8 B! a8 ZThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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$ {" K# T: ^- S  Trs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 1 D% w7 m2 d$ O# \! [* u* O
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 F' v* K, B: ^* v$ |& z+ `" b0 h

$ U( g! t! h* e( Q. Wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."