[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ A: U$ N" i  t& e$ ~

8 v# y1 [& h+ a! o& A% l* D人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。7 T6 B! q9 x6 y9 P

; b; B! [' f* D: D9 _# P& x- l  Zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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# A$ x' d4 n: e5 |8 ~0 \研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 3 g% o' ?; W+ {9 E& y. g5 c' m

. p' c  y3 h4 ]1 DHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. * ^6 Q2 R7 M  w' E3 w+ O' l
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. - f' a& ?3 [/ S) h

) ^0 g8 G* J- U$ urs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 ~. a7 F2 G8 t( g/ {  H9 M

9 A8 b9 w8 z6 H, o3 j. V0 X6 pLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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& j4 N7 x/ W7 c2 g" Z& Y; C$ u"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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2 h/ w1 _2 G4 A/ Z, X& P人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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' K5 ^# L) f9 T- Z/ @Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区' t2 W  z- R3 D* ^8 }& m

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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8 Q3 U7 B5 a5 D4 sThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. % o- o3 v. Q2 l% ]" j0 i

6 V8 _* S  {2 u9 ^; SThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 4 ~& f3 _8 l5 b) l% s7 V6 `  v
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 4 D; [" i5 y  f# y

, y* ]+ l( j& x0 s( gIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 v2 ?1 k; r. z1 I' f

4 n7 @) f* S# S' D6 N9 E"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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8 a* n! g+ }9 H# R3 o+ |. G- |# U"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."