[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。5 c/ c1 w  S5 \: }0 S

* Z, ]: X. u) B据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ ], c  o7 v; Y1 {! K

# \: Z9 v& x1 n; Crs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ) X6 A$ ?8 @% r" a0 `4 l) P% G, K
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. & f9 e! a  b8 L3 e$ \
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. W' j8 n9 f; i2 T  n; i# M8 H
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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, M( R1 a3 h$ lLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". - z+ n  w; u- Y1 q( d
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ; V3 ]+ `4 Y- z$ L; B4 P2 w# O2 R
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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6 R. O+ X; S; z4 I; @! h! L3 c/ USix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区/ A$ N0 Q* Z: u$ U) n4 a2 d

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. - A+ f  C- Y, R! {0 N8 t
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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# N9 N- T# v* I, B, g; ]The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 5 x8 V# o" f! E: `
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ! m! ], P3 x1 ~2 S$ n

2 y. B6 ]' @5 k6 `Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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5 i- j; o0 X& _* Z; x" `  G- H"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区# W1 _1 g: @% y
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."