[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。- a- E  Q1 V1 [4 I
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区! h5 s0 P% p; k  Y- e6 D& _

- Z# K) B1 K8 a9 X; `研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。& l9 x) s6 L4 f) @# G

" e2 l$ X" y* b( J: f根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区/ o& W& k7 O+ b1 T) Q
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区, Q& O: A( t) X0 Y$ [, t
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'   D1 r/ X  p3 g9 d

' I3 ^( R' h) ^' Y7 ~, t. AHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
& V6 P3 T$ D( c0 S0 S9 \1 Y/ {Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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# O! K, S, k; Y; c4 [2 f) l6 i8 _But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区* {, @. w7 |6 L4 w: y, N
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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% F2 p* I' j0 F% h$ ?7 v6 ZLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区; a4 ?0 e5 X' ^- C$ r- Z$ ^

3 W. l. D3 y5 D# b1 J, A- j4 m"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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" c+ k  M. H3 prs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区$ p6 ]. M1 I: r/ N
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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( w" t# y/ K# \4 ~But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ( g, ^  o% s" r( b
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."