[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。, j$ J8 x; b$ M' |. C

/ R& n2 y4 W! H& t& S+ m据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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, e2 ^9 C! A5 U' K; q5 N研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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$ {; ?! l! j* X根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。# u% p* p1 u/ F4 A3 i* Z

& R1 D2 i" A% ]; g研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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3 r, J' O. h/ [$ o1 R; E人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
' e7 v  F; v$ w$ i/ C: hPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. * i7 N- e, z8 T5 }1 R

, b8 c# g# J! O2 p8 vBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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5 c4 N& [" U! m- j6 d6 M+ E7 grs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. # c$ Y7 n3 u' \) x  V6 ?0 ~; v
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 4 P. z$ P* @  s: {3 o

2 O2 ~4 E. k; x1 n, t$ @& @" S"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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& i# X- |+ R1 Z; C3 V5 K  u3 f7 p"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 0 p# Z- f2 J# j' U8 e" M9 d

: |% u' z# N4 RUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区5 \$ m) b# M6 i) T. g" [2 `
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区2 ]. r6 m" s  K% z9 z
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ' l4 q# w* y5 b  l7 N+ K0 m& d

5 p6 h6 E- x7 u- a1 r& D8 ]9 wThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 N( t5 A0 y$ R
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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6 V! L& j! x6 p' U* p( {0 t人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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* X& |1 |/ S, O  @"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."