[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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! O5 s- s' [5 v& h4 L5 O" r据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 ^/ l7 ]4 ~: F* P  o3 y9 ?  S" r

# R% U; n2 s- W5 B- g6 v人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区: N( i( S& J5 @) n3 ?
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。- x- Q: B7 ]: @; Z( Z  ?5 }
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。8 Z% b$ R9 H  _: y9 E* j3 ~
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ; _& B8 o& P3 p" y
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 7 k  L9 Z' [& ]  M- F' v
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区2 V: @4 N& {. ?2 a* ?
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". / _+ q1 Y  T4 k# V1 `1 Q* a

. Y4 o: ~4 \$ B( t8 r$ z"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区: |; P% D6 o0 G5 t; P5 ?' h/ ~; {

- W6 |6 m: P8 J/ Z"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区4 E3 c3 o5 x, c3 E- W* O; \

/ Z' }' o- |& l! b' ^$ F# ors238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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) M- n3 t6 S  ]! X' _* ]Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.   Y/ G% H+ ]& g  A- g, E

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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" h% V& N1 w1 S% X0 n& e8 E人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. & s1 _3 Z. o3 S
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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3 N) R& d5 \0 K) jBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. - o# d" J6 r4 m
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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5 i  }! O; ?; P1 O! ]5 j1 h$ a"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."