[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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& q% M5 O7 O* Y, ^5 ]据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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8 T: g/ d- ^) ?- v根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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9 Y+ l9 h6 _. {$ b* }  c- bHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
! F$ t$ e4 z" c1 v8 ]/ t/ pPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. . i3 ]' h1 o" F5 x2 |

) c2 Z& z6 S% i# s1 j$ [, d+ qThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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7 h# l' s2 S) K4 o( G! W+ U* S"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.   s7 o* y4 ^: r. E# [5 E- V
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区4 m+ b! {- m: J; n, |
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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8 x4 Z4 Y+ d' I0 C/ ?) M人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 6 i3 l3 R4 v. ]: D$ t
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: Y+ |/ d* S1 l8 s+ k3 w6 j4 cAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.   k5 v( j9 S$ H( g# l0 M: V6 Z
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ' z9 a0 c% e3 U! o8 o/ \% c
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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; r2 [3 b, ]7 A* kBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ; W5 E3 y* e  y! q  ^8 z
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. % S% a- w9 a% u1 U' ~. r
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 4 b" a4 A" X1 C& }
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."