[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。  S2 E$ w1 _* s+ z2 w8 p* j9 G

; r7 G8 i+ R$ A5 f0 L据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。8 b9 w; O3 M# ]1 E4 i1 _: E

# B% {& L6 ?0 Y5 Q- b& f# `, [0 Y6 W研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。' m9 d2 Y* ^' Y7 [) _6 Q0 h3 ^8 {

+ b: [7 a. e! m7 c3 m6 T9 l根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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4 X, ^+ @# s  EWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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$ D9 d* u/ ^+ U& c# R  s5 q" prs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
9 z) Z: e" z( r5 G9 n8 c/ ~Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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2 R/ u: M+ s7 x8 H2 U人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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& x7 n1 U- h0 r: S0 c# d1 O4 dThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 x1 q& D' k+ _# @. K5 H! [* m
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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7 N: ?9 T" X5 i"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." / E. @! B: k% ]6 `: W
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. " t2 V7 W( `6 T: {# }

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' }% U1 l  e# d, s" _4 P: eAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. & e. r( J" _4 Y& Q# o* g
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ! |# U9 g/ Z4 G" I
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 9 I! s+ G4 A- t& j; c

1 ~: `9 T* `$ T  irs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. : \8 O+ D- O5 @  Q, B- v6 b& i9 C
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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3 ^& H% b1 Z. V) q"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."