[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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2 a& W. _/ j; ?3 n# v研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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7 P1 ?0 o8 I- M. o6 @根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。' E9 ^* C0 m. W
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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( k; ^3 W( z$ ]rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区4 m% w7 J' O( F5 v
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. # v$ R; s' Y$ Q! @8 D( V! x5 }

; A; p6 g/ i" l" l/ _' u1 RBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 4 x. N# @5 \- k9 N( z

7 Y5 W, S. W2 D" h) qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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8 _7 F/ @2 |# X. G7 Z人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 6 z9 W- w+ F! Z$ l' _9 S/ A, Q% s
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de# l! h& m, z# i) {- o& ^
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." & E8 ?9 h+ O* O  u3 r9 r( H

, P; M4 G6 I5 t# b% [Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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( \, [) x! L: n& ]  Brs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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2 b- X2 w( w0 Q* g6 [$ h; HIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."