[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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& @9 w8 {+ R5 [据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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# v+ Z+ ~% x# M$ u' Z3 Z9 e5 l% [rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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" Y  t2 |; s! y4 w8 }( S9 Hrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
( i/ S  K1 L. `$ p  w, XPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 3 d3 C% e1 x' r  q

- h+ P) I: N+ y人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* U6 T0 t( P& G% d# B$ h
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ' k- y3 T1 M  A  u% b! ^3 Y# ]
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, @. x6 Q3 D& W& z' q0 Z+ S+ V

, @$ |" x; ?# V$ \/ X人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ _8 q7 i. D: ^6 t! X! o$ r3 [- e

' O2 Q& S: D4 u. ?. r3 B  {0 N"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 5 s" a+ ?( z! \

) F8 N5 @0 D: U/ f7 u4 d: ars238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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/ q2 K/ d0 a7 iSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ ]" t% E% B2 ~9 V2 B# ]
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% \2 g' G" b+ g8 V7 k3 zAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 8 t0 }. I! Z9 N- t$ ?; C4 o

0 k4 M. q' Y+ ~6 e, S- drs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 0 J  E0 x1 y2 m9 E8 t2 c3 T% A

) Y! N/ v' o3 k/ x% |  q! @4 k" `The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区1 \7 l& E0 C. z" H, x& _
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ; T) P3 t1 p) F' \) p0 ?1 v) C
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ) E4 c8 P9 P, Z1 g
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."