[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。1 G* Q4 N$ ~, u! F' N

2 c8 ^: o. Y: ?4 V据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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2 D; D) K: j; y' Y) u, U6 \! H研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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  X1 ]* ^4 u4 O8 P$ [研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。# z8 n' q) X; e. C9 T6 r8 i
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' + P4 n! |, w, z) ?$ A1 b7 Q) N: P

/ w! m/ X: J% H! A' ?! nHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
2 X' O8 c  T: v3 trs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. , y3 X7 x; A- q" q/ _: z, N
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ w$ B  B. q3 V/ d1 ^
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. : {$ F* K7 N+ x! B! m

$ i( G6 R" x* n+ Q  w$ A5 A: q人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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  ~! A: X# G& ^8 j+ A9 z5 R人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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1 r3 ~3 r2 l. e  p& M4 y3 e"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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, m& U9 l3 Y  ?Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区/ @2 c$ r+ L' J6 A! |4 P1 _9 e
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' [+ a9 c1 ^7 g5 _& @Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. " b# R5 E0 {( k+ @- l
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. / q8 @; b5 L$ y9 z3 t
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区; @2 O5 F  o. u- W: K- y4 w
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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) i9 u" Y, f+ @3 r/ z9 j6 VIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区! p+ `; P) x: n: t
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. , j% J) `8 ^, l# E: y7 u

- W+ }1 I: J9 ]7 Z0 w+ X0 F2 u"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."