[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de7 K9 k- J; W" V- u) A
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。9 f+ G8 K8 g: {- {" K5 z3 n6 g- }
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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) T' w5 P8 g0 ]' c( \研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' + i5 W' Q+ ^3 ~. v- t

: Z8 j2 y7 [. O- K, l6 BHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
) R% @% e4 R( Z9 wPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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0 |& E" A$ j# W! q/ b1 E) S7 R; DThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. " j2 {. G4 q$ s: r- a7 b

* X9 s6 ]# U& G* A- d8 A- V' ELead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 a& C' p( _/ Y* W0 D' }3 v
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." * ]. F& Z" l3 @( `5 L
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. . O1 U* |! d: r" G. K

; K9 X1 }& x+ G8 m; a# Q, e人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区2 N! h# t( h2 P2 B
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 8 B- ?. r2 j- ~/ r5 T% }
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区) v1 t7 @2 Q! Q  Y7 d5 D" {+ D
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ; b; L. t. }3 i
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 l( D# E% |: L0 F/ s

) I/ b2 M5 y' a" ^: p+ ]3 v"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."