[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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, @: M9 H2 d& s6 h" O, Z据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。: y; v: O2 R& Y2 A! G- U7 v4 O; q

" B- [+ H! Z% Q) k; t2 A研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。$ J6 d- \. n. }
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ) B' q8 j  s! K: ?4 K+ _
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. * H/ h7 S. d; k0 v
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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/ c5 o) w' b, Z' n; S6 vBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. / Z; M. c* T- z4 h

0 N- g  F7 r  x8 U人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 6 l/ p; F; j& k. Z1 V, N" }

5 ]/ B, T8 m: r& S5 E1 N人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ! |) h6 I  ]  ]
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 4 v  Y( A) R1 f* u! @
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. + ?) u/ K  `+ f  E/ [* G- `
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ' t5 K3 N2 z$ }+ g# F& j8 L' ]( D

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区3 t+ a' s) V8 }. P; @

8 s) I; F5 r; \* s* _% m) H- NThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 1 V/ p4 C  h" B

, s1 W5 E$ S0 x' F6 b; }& f3 I) ?But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区. q- h& ~3 q2 T+ Z6 W
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% J$ K4 n5 x: s' ~6 L) Y
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.   n7 F7 a, Q5 f% q7 ~/ N, ]

$ _  y# M# p2 A3 P6 u+ C9 G"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."