[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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+ Q, {! o3 x. d+ Q1 x' urs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& a/ m0 W0 X1 p6 S& C7 a0 M

  O3 @5 k' K8 S9 o) x3 v3 X6 d( g根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。2 C: F$ N/ I' O: [
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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6 r( v8 X. h+ d- VWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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+ H4 k& u& i+ t7 ^) @. mHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
4 v8 r3 L$ _; o! UPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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' B% M# K4 m6 {0 S' lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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. w, V: L* R0 L; V+ |4 ]Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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3 y. [& x; V- nUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. + K# N% J/ ^! N% C$ |; e

. A1 u% f0 x* Y5 S  Vrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. / W, B& T9 B7 I

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 9 {4 ^' K4 B, Y0 L' B* S* f
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* j& W$ S& H  L
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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: L8 o2 B3 B$ r% t) d9 x0 qIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. + b/ \/ u0 B0 V' L4 h+ I

$ N0 X  {0 X# |' V) [3 E5 V* Q"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区5 N5 B: ~8 x: D, t- L% v

/ ^3 W' n# s3 ers238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."