[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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; O5 `, m7 t0 p研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区7 F; @& k; _2 Y) H
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。8 Z& h0 V! b# c. P2 X5 D* R. W: }
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 t- G% M9 I2 Y0 _5 \  A- K8 `

& \( e1 N, E: T# R人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
# n) U2 a4 s4 @- I: J# x. Irs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区' x2 q0 i  o' j
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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+ \4 K: @, _! [0 u( A/ y+ LThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 7 k" ?/ N' r1 S% ?) q6 f

% m5 L) O  o4 |- aLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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$ x6 ~+ p& p: e! B' R"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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$ f- z  ]% `* s& C. z1 w1 grs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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& {3 k4 ]7 J8 ]3 E- J7 G* rSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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2 T- K5 {/ [& L. @( X1 g人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" x' g( p% n  K+ }1 _

: u& h) |; Q9 q4 u4 `The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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2 b3 j% _/ M# h$ ~* m% A! hrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  x6 U* S" ^$ j) M, P3 Y

+ I4 }, _/ ?- m" |1 F% k" C9 RBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 1 R; e  \3 m9 U

1 I7 |$ V/ w% O+ }1 P: d2 f) UIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ( z  k# R" p! _' H
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."