[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。. {& z. m% a1 ?4 Y

& ^4 Q( B1 S- M3 }1 ~研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。/ D/ ^7 b3 n& }; \- W
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区  k( q0 `5 Y/ I) [3 x4 F
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
- X) K4 ]; j3 C" G. uPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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7 h) M6 B- L3 F2 S6 Y' kThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 8 H' v% ~3 w- c+ w, K% A" F

; A. u+ O' x: p! c2 ]. u1 p0 Z人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 2 p8 P: X4 \# H9 \+ B

2 E) L- [: q0 k2 T"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 8 y9 a0 x6 V! v
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 2 T" x( n8 U" [2 u, J. r* B; o
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区: ~, ]% q9 N2 ^: w2 C9 \+ [0 ^; I6 B

! T/ u* W; l1 z- u人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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  Z0 c' t& ^' L' G: p: Drs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. : r1 r- W4 l5 |  O
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. # F1 L8 }+ `/ N3 L6 g3 c& \) ]
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.   j' M  D2 D& i4 V, E

( |) R3 _& O% s& z8 ?( n7 o6 k7 d* VIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 1 U+ n% V9 ?( f7 o+ [; K
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."