[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。2 L: K) c( A6 F' s2 B
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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; M( I8 U3 F# b! Q, Y1 `人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。  o& P7 K) j/ V2 S5 j
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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: v$ _3 l! H) B& K4 f2 X; v: N: [人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" C5 g* ?$ L: K# n0 {0 e
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. # u/ S! ]5 D& A( U9 W
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. : P$ Y. n. x6 u3 W( W
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. : |. J1 a+ c% P: i

7 X7 @6 V+ `1 x) n* ]Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 6 Z5 [+ X! w; K& w; F1 b* E

% l, r0 b' H0 r- G0 Z% t/ Frs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ! `' o" ^/ t! m* y% l
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. @# @5 o- q* _1 ~+ c/ G. ~3 L

. q. u% ^1 n4 i# o3 \- C+ f6 xSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. / ~7 F3 L6 L, C* W

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7 u- u+ S/ G' `) hAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区2 C* c/ ]6 ?# R$ t1 e
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. e4 B- m8 O0 A4 ]) H3 p

1 e: L3 C+ Q1 F% Z$ U7 MThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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) q) W# N- S  L9 p! E3 p; z+ BBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. % _* C% [- a2 K1 o
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."