[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。) y4 c" ^& Z6 z* e, t2 O( [: u7 t

  H% t  i' b8 A  N据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。7 |# _+ W( d5 V8 E
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 K* D% n* Q- ~/ z  B9 e
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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5 q! [' Q+ V# V. p% M) r人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区# h4 S/ ~. x+ n$ u6 ^  B
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. # }: W! c& Y$ U

& z+ D  y5 H( |$ h, b人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 6 z- o6 j# S9 A) X

( c& V2 J) R! b% K4 m% A8 A8 W/ qThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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. r! }3 I: g/ F, g+ a9 mLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ; Z& e; Y7 E1 I( {* J2 q& I$ Y0 A( j
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. / F" a  h  y7 L& d$ F3 Y3 K( A
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Profession
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: r! q! L* n+ D/ q0 o$ E人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 1 I/ s$ ~& s9 n

2 N. \% ~  [3 {" H- SThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 6 ]3 {9 d& F* j0 Y2 A& A' d
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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2 p5 P$ C/ b6 brs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. _7 o1 I$ v0 L! K* p
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."