[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ N6 t2 `# |( e

/ H3 J) c4 L3 \/ J( r9 u( M据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。  ?  Y  R6 l6 k+ f8 e% M

% Y2 A' x. W. Y3 x人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区1 B" E# N/ T) A* G
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。  C" [, o, n$ O5 O) F" G
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 7 C$ w0 x- M3 C: v- t& o' ~7 ?

5 ^; _3 M  R& p8 f7 SHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 0 P" J2 E! H- K4 l& B
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 2 Y$ D0 p0 T1 x7 |
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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. P1 j) i+ q+ M  |! u6 ]1 E# |The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". % ~! D4 l/ R( w2 W; f. L& t
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. & U  p% E3 z$ V  z5 q2 }; J
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 ]1 n6 k0 ?" @# U1 X6 l  V
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.   n4 H  |9 Z: ^8 U" A

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* w# Z/ K! K6 G" s0 }" NAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区, {1 e+ W' E) q8 D+ g
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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7 J1 l' a. H, L7 PThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 2 X" d  G: ?9 p7 Q! N: A* ^

. F( e0 @% l6 z* t  BBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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8 _5 s0 Q4 ]7 I. i6 s& y/ N人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. / R9 h7 r+ w7 \8 e& D* O5 k

, Y3 t; t5 e1 X; B6 [+ y"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."