[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。* t, u0 F# P0 p; ?; b7 K7 Z

5 D) E* ?6 p- G2 n! D研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。8 d$ G! X! i0 O6 K' o- S# M

) T5 C- X2 ]6 N" @% B4 T; Y8 C/ P根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区: h- |' H- k4 y% V/ y  Z" X
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。" q5 H6 Q2 D/ @$ ?4 P
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' * l: M) B( G' m$ T) v' E

$ e0 o, g0 C: U, ?High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区0 Q+ X# f: V) j, L1 L
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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- e1 Y7 }, r. O, o! prs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; G* J; a% K. Y8 G6 C
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." : c. i: E; R& c% d% j/ V" u

# z2 M, D  [. \2 G5 d  ]5 }. V$ i+ qUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 6 G: s3 q# }1 q7 F+ y; b9 ?. s" n

; G% S# J) S! x7 b: j, c% uSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) _2 V3 m1 N) F  x- S
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8 L: g( I( M4 j4 p9 W' NAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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4 s$ E7 N- n: b6 iThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ) q# S% g* u) e# A1 M% _- D

$ c0 M' U) F, r* w" o. d& g# JThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& m, @0 O6 z8 g5 a$ `, @! ~# B! J

% c* ~  j9 s4 M9 ]9 uIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) i" E( v. C( y5 B9 n- y6 T

6 E9 z0 `: [$ ^! Y0 y) w( |"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. $ v" }- N% ]5 E% U* O
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."