[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。6 W! R: i4 r" g" X& S3 d/ x

, L& W4 d/ o) F人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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: ?; `$ F& @8 F2 R: j根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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$ Y' i6 e2 ^, ]研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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& t) o# {- `) i$ ^5 JWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区9 Q8 M) Z( p# l$ X! z! e$ s! V. P

, s( m; n2 C0 E) X  F/ D3 t# U人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
8 g. O7 n7 s  Z4 c: `! G7 U' {rs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ! e7 g+ _; \6 E% ^
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区1 m/ v6 b5 i3 M$ ^- S( ^

; ^+ o; n" ~  ?$ b* X' e9 E+ {6 P/ J"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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. n7 ^0 d3 Z  @% V; F& Lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 3 s: C( P$ g4 ?" P
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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! I5 S$ U7 f# G0 i3 R3 Urs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% Z6 O6 U1 s# @5 J

- x0 `+ o% d6 [人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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5 o  }( _2 x. h" a7 Q" ~" q人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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8 R1 C# z- k$ [; U"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区$ i/ S, J) b; L. W# o; R
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."