[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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; r, _( |5 D( o" H研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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, i  W; _, O! a研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区9 b- }( _+ Q& K# L" E4 N! B$ n

( G4 f" H: X" U. O9 w2 h% ]rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 5 o& D' y8 v' Z# c

2 w6 o4 S" U" S# D' ^rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. * {) R5 T- n) e- N' R- w
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de# S( G! D3 C  x0 A$ ]

  E1 l9 ]4 W; L3 \) p2 V人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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" Q9 B7 F, `& O8 k3 O+ v* Q6 I2 v) v6 NThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." , Z7 G& v  ^3 ], i5 I9 X$ ^/ G

6 Q. J( S$ A! t+ S' cUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 5 v2 B1 I# k$ j, l; y4 h

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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# e; t# n4 W' ?. G1 W; g8 ?The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区2 b* q( r2 y/ e
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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5 Z% m4 Z5 j, p2 d0 w人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% f6 ~% @# d5 J1 A2 |* O
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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8 H2 r; G  n5 E# r"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."