[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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9 I: b' k2 [7 x9 l9 ^* B8 Xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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/ p( m* ^: d  ~2 V9 m* T/ ^根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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& E3 H2 d! \6 O  b! _- |0 k! W/ {Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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7 C: d9 o" o+ P, {6 h4 }, Z" F, Brs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
" s8 ^5 C- J; S0 B) n人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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2 H; P. ]# Z- Z3 L( qThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 2 `  N: o! r  A, ]. c$ n/ @
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ; x) H4 e2 R6 v) {+ y  G( `

  }4 {0 h% F7 n+ Q! z: e! d人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ) J: Y8 X1 _1 k

" @( L6 \( ^  z1 U* [0 B: Rrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. + N1 ^1 E& g  ~2 Y( s8 U/ e# R2 G+ u

. Y: P/ `% H; n: N1 YSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 3 n/ n2 b6 }) X! g: A

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% n8 f! A! K* K, yAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 6 D4 t: ^: e' a

) N- D9 a; F  C1 j人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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' g* s5 o" p' w- DThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区' }0 A, [/ }3 u- g- {% d, }1 n

7 c" ~1 ~* v! c7 gBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 2 |( V' {' P: B% m. k1 E& R
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区( ^: I* i% Z4 S3 F" x7 ~
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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) V$ V6 y0 ]# Y7 ^3 A7 `rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."