[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。% p4 c- R% t' l( j8 i

; y+ d/ n3 w1 f& T! [* C0 l8 F! N据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。. C3 p* M  Y; r7 p* c, a0 j
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区: f: X1 y  u# ^

) W2 g8 `0 i0 m, ]9 ?, ]根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区- k! D0 x1 A" t# j

5 `, L; I1 H$ o研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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# h& F$ P2 `+ I- Prs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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) W( t8 g7 o" d) A' d, R, nHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
' f  X! H! t( X4 jPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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7 @4 `9 l8 L* x. @The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. : Z  D; Z5 @% `: v

4 U2 P6 E6 y" C# p0 R: u# YLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". " q+ n$ S% B/ f7 R, U

" d0 r( q  i9 w; d1 \"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. / H+ h2 k2 H( C+ I
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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8 p2 P( g( ~" I& ~  d, @rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 9 Y# M0 q9 J  z. ^
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- ?5 D) s2 |% r- Y: T. P7 f
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9 Z3 F* n  B+ V, u9 UAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区& _; H/ K4 m+ c+ j& l% i
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 0 `% I( @1 ~! C
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. $ I: F* d7 G6 G) o
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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! M3 ]+ {& z) m"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."