[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- Z7 h+ }  M5 W3 b7 r3 J8 _

/ \; i7 H; z+ nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区$ ?0 e6 d3 q# ]7 h9 C: [) x: h

) e" r1 h* G: h2 V$ L( q- l1 AWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 7 W6 V) e8 f. ^' N7 u7 F8 j
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区! Y- W6 s& \1 G# Y9 J8 d* \
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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0 c- g  O$ O! S* w# p. l7 M& NBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. / u% O, C; J# J

& g5 p# x; `& w0 F& A! |- y! x- yLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 5 Y# H6 Z8 G1 N5 I3 F' x( F$ a
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) x& ^( k9 L+ Y. N6 d# c& w& q4 a

; [' q- R$ ~  c& r1 M, ~$ {& d"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区  ?* E' y+ n6 _; i% E- N
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ( g- u% A0 x5 H0 E( g& ?2 ?

5 V. x7 p! t7 v4 X" x3 H0 L7 z5 ISix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. " g5 j! u8 ~- a  l' ?) ?" ~
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 5 w7 l$ s3 |1 F" y

6 n/ D1 y) K* O3 S1 j+ sThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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+ l# u# X- V9 P2 s4 _The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. * I: y& R5 i6 p; X
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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0 t+ y+ }5 r: n' C- D# P"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."