[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。! n: K( K" A" F3 O0 ^* m: x9 ^% i' U, W

' n4 N7 m* m4 `* E据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区) K! G, `! r5 `
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区+ ^  M! M2 L; t3 C; @
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 8 V4 i9 y4 I4 C9 Q' c

1 q2 ?; }7 w5 b! _7 P$ d人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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) f6 u1 _( \: w2 z& IThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. , [# ]8 @3 O+ Y6 G8 V

- Y& I5 H: {7 y' {2 G' V& w. m"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ; v* w) a& u; S5 m, w2 K( i; A& L
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ) b) F8 Z6 K8 d' x, X
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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2 h% e; P7 `) ?- ZAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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3 O' |& ^( s/ }The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; |5 G6 u& M, w# e

! G2 \) Z  m$ ^1 yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 1 W9 z8 x4 Y, W, i# ]
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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. O) \6 {' ?$ O5 Lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."