[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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- N* ]) J$ Z% J# {9 Srs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。3 R1 W. H- g6 x0 ?' ]6 C
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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5 b* X& i" F9 m0 ^人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 q5 s+ S+ Y9 x( e2 E) Z; c9 w
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。' f$ Z! O9 o+ c
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; F( N; f) H% x6 u; Y0 x2 J" |/ M% q3 |rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区  C0 e( d( r' L7 j7 z6 o: x
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区/ J, I4 w( f0 b3 M, J: ?  M; c

+ C3 [, _+ B" S( a5 f/ g/ ABut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de# l2 \: u3 b8 j( Z8 [( A, l% ~

2 @6 m0 X1 \+ p5 `人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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  f2 [6 o" i/ F3 r& q' _" |"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." $ N% B# p0 d& S: P1 [
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 S7 [! a& R5 {- C

) H5 a* I" N4 s; pSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区0 f. ], M5 R& j+ c0 ]

1 M# I1 x! S3 H; {The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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4 `/ ?! l' ~# xThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de7 B6 X1 ]" o$ Q: ?8 g2 `/ N+ f1 p. g) w; k

* s3 ^. B6 Q6 IBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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2 ^) r2 ~# e. `8 P, q! N"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 6 _5 ^+ l1 B+ B
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."