[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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! S8 O! U' Q: Q3 z# Y+ R0 Q$ b据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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1 O  a0 y. ^  m. C* B/ H  g人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。! x6 I/ y" W7 B6 H5 P, N% Z
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。) g! _! o2 U% l7 _7 s( p

7 H( k4 v, [/ a# w5 t研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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1 U' _( q, I; X, [人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' + d& j7 d/ N! I9 u9 k8 W
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. / a: _( Z' Z% J; r+ x
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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% F, e; M+ A( T& H/ W& E) OBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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( y' m. k8 p* U7 @"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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* B  x& D2 O& F7 x' j人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ; C: V) o1 }8 S+ C' |4 N
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ' F( J: @2 W0 }1 V$ O1 a7 X
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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* y) g, o% |8 `; d$ \1 f1 t1 K3 u& qAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ' {% W9 s7 b! f7 ^3 _

+ e' b! _+ }, u6 g6 dThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 q! t( O8 X6 k" X: [' [
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ) O; R: ]( @# B2 b6 a% o7 O( j

: e7 I4 T  \7 R) a& PIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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3 y/ {* S7 e- y3 `$ m. K/ M" K"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."