[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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, {' H9 |- ?5 Q% B. T- G人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。+ R7 @+ M* U. L( o) [: ?3 Y

- ~* u# P! H5 w$ h  d: T7 |, G研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。7 P/ b9 K$ [9 m; X0 R  ?, u7 ?

% o  X* r4 H  H; ZWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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8 z) M0 U& m8 F( \0 j8 xHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
" z- u" q) f& OPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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/ n7 J. J+ ^# v0 l. e, BBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 7 d8 I7 A. J& T, `" ^3 j
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. * i! M# |0 Y) m

9 x- O( \# N: U( m3 y# gLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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+ O$ \2 r1 V% E9 o( B"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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) ]- ]! v" c# E+ T$ l/ W6 U" E"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: D8 q6 _6 \8 n) V* i: ]' V
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区/ J% J- D9 }  w

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' O8 D6 ^, b, e5 H人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. - l# k( D  u. s: `0 G" ?7 I- X
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  m& t7 @' F% k

4 G4 Y6 ~  p. c. ^% o7 h' @" q+ X人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ) b% L! u/ i' \, D8 ], i
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 m5 q% {8 G/ O8 o2 w- u" n* y

- z8 T4 b/ @2 \7 O6 SIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. * ]3 l8 V1 D- _, D5 b
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."