[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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6 J) f  K# ~: r据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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# K- q. _% b$ ~* H+ S研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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8 o5 {" b5 q$ L. Q7 l- ^1 P. e人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 L. U) w, N& l9 v+ e5 p
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区9 t; z9 N# ]) D* x/ b
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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8 G; m) J" s/ M6 v2 _: \/ k& c" DHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. * I+ a1 r6 d4 B  L
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 5 a5 k2 x2 v2 g3 ~4 H* r/ t

- f4 n+ S: Q6 m# C" V4 }; D人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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/ _2 [1 }/ P) B5 P3 A* X: P6 o人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 1 B; `% w, R$ c: Z. x  O9 R
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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1 _0 o% U2 i9 D5 A- |: \& Q$ b5 pUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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) n- v) b5 h" R7 E: o7 B4 fSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 8 m# N, z4 z* b% N2 v, K- |- L. q

' I+ q. f( e* H3 ers238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 I$ E# D4 G0 i7 v# ~8 \+ g
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 k6 B% u0 Z$ I0 @5 I9 X8 U, P

' p+ G# M2 q2 J6 JBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ( Y7 b4 k) S) H

2 }* r* J; S4 I" E* }+ hIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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' n+ T1 }4 {9 v2 J: j6 P* h"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区9 _" n# `6 E# s; T* P

! W) K1 S9 T! Mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."