[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。1 ^$ q/ s% y" p
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( n& R, h( Y( a: }7 Z+ z

2 W) Z: S2 k2 O根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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2 w$ g* q$ X2 ]6 H, zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
- N7 ?2 M8 Q: }. H5 NPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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! l/ Z; D. V9 V$ ]( t# YThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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9 Y9 c/ t  `% X0 }/ N* ]) ^6 k"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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  P4 Z, t3 u6 n5 p% Y& nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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! j% o; y0 u! y2 ~2 }Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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5 i9 w* Y. F9 ?* O9 zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% c9 s" ^9 j- z) K$ ?# Q% s0 R+ Z6 `

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3 }" \, \7 [0 J2 I$ r# o' b) QAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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) d5 q' `$ H8 F1 wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 4 }- Y) u; i1 c
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. . ^2 K$ B' g. m7 u) g( o

0 Y9 r2 V- t% [! r" _人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ( J7 m( z6 i1 {+ r1 x
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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5 r. F5 l9 N/ L! D  @# |8 b" r"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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3 j" e, O% U0 O* H% j9 B"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."