[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。( j  `* v& ^% K/ P: W

6 u' L7 y8 ~, ~研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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( |1 v5 @$ s: O2 a根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。# W  ?. r3 C" i" t2 u

( N$ T, R+ n. T( [7 ?rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区8 u- B" M# S0 S4 ^
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 3 _, Q6 [, r5 d* }" B# Z
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区$ [8 f& z& E/ U: n5 y  k& y

8 R% |- p: @8 \7 UThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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) D9 j: ~$ Q. k6 b! QLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 2 m6 p8 q/ e  U( D8 @* q
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. * |5 l& ^+ o  {
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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$ ~* Q/ g, g! D. C: K1 F1 z" TUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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2 U' b% i" t; l9 o$ ]; ^: pSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ' S& L: z4 t1 y8 U8 B8 O! q4 s

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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# j0 l/ ?$ j6 u  O) x+ YThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 9 A) |/ {5 Y/ B! q/ m7 a
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. - x1 f% ]5 O0 g

' h) ~' H, J/ y5 t2 i0 B+ h2 T( XIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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6 a' a; O2 G. k9 I+ t. n"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."