[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。2 x9 L' M& l' m& I
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) y, I  S- T+ K

9 W! n/ b' y3 k7 ~研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。3 x$ ^! z9 H! l7 k5 x
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。/ O6 y+ x% k# q, R1 v

7 f+ T. e8 r& O9 JWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区5 c2 t0 Z) T( K" |
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, i. ]6 P- P" O" S5 `
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. - H" \7 Z# s! Q% e# J

2 a4 R8 k" x6 ~5 P3 R% u) w人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. : e  P' t' B6 u/ b+ x
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. & i8 |* |- p+ m: e$ F; |
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  w% a, w; |* _5 r

, S- K0 g) ~$ \5 S7 _% p$ v/ ~"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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( U. d" i; q& u4 @% X- h" u"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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* q- X% c! A7 c6 x) w: A0 }* J2 Brs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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$ o( B- `' H  U1 ], b3 p( j' u0 ]人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ) r) K% F7 x4 `2 C
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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& b/ S, x$ A6 v; i' ~The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 K- ?' v; X' _8 C# L, l

; j* T: L" h0 z0 S/ o( m) pBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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* O! }2 S1 r. y1 j* ~& brs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ `" [/ N: z, O; z, b0 Q

. W5 W* V9 z3 h4 N: p"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."