[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

日月光

英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。% H, ^1 M0 e* C2 |. b

: l$ |) g% I" ~0 T. m/ n据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
. G0 u( G& z' ]( \5 ~' Xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- R4 G3 o& c. Y
研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 \- B% h  I$ x
rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! b' _4 r7 z) @' _# q# q
根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
( d; E+ \/ W4 {+ ]
/ U3 q3 g5 `' B2 T: w8 \研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
$ Z/ x5 S4 i, a. A2 V3 G
& U: q5 I& z9 s! p4 ?+ w' ^" pWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
$ k8 j* ~6 F$ ^7 o/ B5 H, B. t0 c: d. X/ r' Y' y
High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. + ?- G! g  I4 E$ ~" \! l( b# s
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: d  W6 C- y* e8 X& u

% m5 K  Z% n/ `1 l& Crs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
2 a! h0 C( {7 M0 V3 h8 U) |, @rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' g6 i0 `: H$ @5 c1 q
The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
8 k  ~& l2 V; K人在德国 社区; X0 A8 t" s7 k9 X
Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ O6 ?- l0 A7 S0 W& b

$ J1 j1 m+ ~5 e0 n( j1 p" ?! T3 ~. l: _rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
  C; M3 I0 m/ q! Z* U3 {$ c人在德国 社区! z* @: L. \# p8 O' X. G) h! @, N  \3 `
"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 3 c  E) t2 R2 A; L
4 [. ^9 y) d0 L2 Q& T2 t9 k
Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
7 w; ^9 c" V% @, R. N6 c0 H
4 s! Y; W2 B; H3 brs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区, O; _& _6 n* }& `7 e* ~. \( I
2 w* w! H7 a* ?  o2 n% P) K7 j
Profession
0 u0 T4 y7 P; j4 j/ t: f2 ors238848.rs.hosteurope.de
; Y( g% w5 @! h& X8 M" X* T0 TAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* G$ k# U, @5 c% @  R. k! ^

" ?  N+ m- l9 @; Z7 @' s! P人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
, X, q5 i- S; l" D4 |
0 ?; }( R' K8 H$ FThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
- g' @& {1 \- q6 i1 E5 Z" W- y人在德国 社区1 J6 l6 W: n; B
But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
% t5 E! H  i! W! B( c( t人在德国 社区5 Q+ n8 k' O: P- z. n- n) Z8 N
Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
* C6 M" k% b- |) v8 N5 L! S9 M: V3 V- k+ v/ Y
"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
! x9 S' M5 b5 u, Y7 Z人在德国 社区人在德国 社区3 R/ f1 A1 K9 Q+ d
"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."