[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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2 S) v5 D) |, e据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。/ y$ G1 f4 Q0 o! M# t; L) |

' m2 R, C) F4 a2 F: \& O8 v人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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9 w7 T+ f) V# S/ n' f1 v" _/ zWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 9 x$ z' Q& u7 W. \8 I6 a. s2 y
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ( |2 Y* m' b% T$ M3 O0 i
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 0 X0 B7 v1 t  G9 A! A

8 c* v$ ]% r6 A0 Q& o; PBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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. V0 Z1 k& a% [The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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1 h: G1 j& [+ a: i* e3 bLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. " p6 h, }# u0 U" l0 n
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 8 \2 m" L9 m# F/ X' l
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ V; ^- f/ \9 }3 H8 f$ i
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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# c* `& {1 G9 \; p; f/ \! hAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ y# ?# A! d6 d9 C
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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" |- Z: U# t4 ~The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 h7 k# T4 }9 z/ Q+ S. L
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. * Q+ ?' j) A* S8 x+ W
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ( j6 j$ X4 \0 U/ Y+ z+ [$ ]2 a/ C, K

# V' i% `+ g. u) ^# p3 d人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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; p' [7 y- \9 X: B1 }( ^1 ["Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."