[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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+ S1 T7 g" `% `* r- Trs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。/ U6 {; P& O; x4 R# l

, I- [$ b: c0 K! g, s* A/ ]研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。9 a3 N2 k9 Q7 [$ A- ~  d# ?

% y! t; _9 G# e# G. {3 U, q研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。  d4 N* [6 |; g% o5 ~1 F; m

) o7 g8 B" _6 U1 O" Xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区# h# Y: \& k; B" F
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区- Q( E+ a6 r( T" o3 n5 l- ~% W
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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% _$ e2 \5 q- W8 uThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: n0 [% V/ F$ `- }5 I
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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+ `6 l, p/ C; W# t  @, V0 @人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. + h  n& O9 i$ Z& {9 n8 ~; P

( o8 ?; P1 |; ?1 e" L* f"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ; [( g' B" y, Z
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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; j! @2 c, W7 JSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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1 `9 d" y- x9 _  N  UAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 5 T1 p6 h9 Z# o& o: F

0 z+ E3 r! a$ d% J: y7 dBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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9 a/ l; L" F( Q- a" \人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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- u# J5 ]% @* q6 Q3 Y"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."