[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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2 ^, L. G0 C/ I8 B" l8 J; W3 }) Y* w人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。4 C! n! M# N+ F0 n

6 G7 u1 ~& l. Y* w$ P( x& b" A+ ?根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。$ W4 f' t9 l) s2 t4 U

/ G, t$ i' H1 V2 l- I' e0 x8 t' g% V研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 [& `* F0 j, X' A- a6 @
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' / m) _7 a/ r, M. n% ?& s
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
* f- X" f( H1 E; u+ s; w' w/ ~* uPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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4 V; v" q0 t3 [0 }% |* Y$ _# x4 p# {But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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9 v$ i. U6 N- m% |3 C) u- Mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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" Q: O. F1 a- }8 j% G. SLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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# m% r% A: J, t  \/ ]3 z$ qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 3 W& ~- q+ u% J

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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% X+ ?) W2 f7 O+ \4 r/ E6 v! f1 b人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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, M/ e  X; _1 ~人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. & T$ p" m( F3 f
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. / d' J/ W1 f( r6 M

& [) f( m) J/ B/ i! t/ D$ XIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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7 Y' I2 `  |. c* G+ }人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."