[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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; X& b3 }3 N( g, T据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。" k( u; P& b6 c2 D4 d% k8 q
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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. t4 [, T/ ^" L! c; k根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。3 Z2 b' U: m/ u( F& I) I3 Q( `

9 d; r1 k, n8 a& O: Yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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. V" @  p: v( Z/ R: m, z9 r0 s: HWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
; y- J, A* n. \* h  u' Z* F4 r) APerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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8 n) y/ [; \& u7 I. P! Xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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# O8 h7 N# K; r& J- L9 ^Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". # w* L3 L8 n9 l& C

: X* W( E, Z' E1 Q人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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9 [' c2 U2 }: b5 u" n. T; s0 b! s" P"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区# t3 _; [0 U* x3 ^& x8 u: \
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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, Q4 D$ g0 |/ w人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. % U$ Z7 h% ]) G4 k& I% L
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ y9 w# G/ h7 q

6 q8 z% p9 R" J2 u* e* Q人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区) k: X$ i& m! z' G/ d( j
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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! E( H% S" F5 y. F; _  h- z3 C人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."