[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) R. t- R- a2 C& s
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区' \9 v' j5 G9 r/ b

% ^; F; s0 T, d" t! |研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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  p% e; G8 g! T* ~( ]' r( E人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。- F2 B5 v2 ?+ n+ T) x- ^
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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3 I% ]9 y- p/ T# ?High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区* x" W/ D% T/ o
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. " P+ r! I- O2 A

2 a' u. [" T  s$ j# VBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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3 d  b! A/ U  L; x6 Brs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. . A6 I" I( M) _: T. a
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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, T1 S: [9 H( v) O% [) V( t) N人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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, }# r0 q' x9 E; L3 H"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" i; D: B5 r" Y4 V
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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# H0 G* v) I  M$ HThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 5 ?6 O! k( e; L8 e8 t$ M1 B) F

2 u7 \( S: \; s* \The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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& T4 p9 r; `( G% r人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区8 T" \: K; y' q3 N1 w9 I* u

& Y8 G- Q& X$ j, _* k"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. . U2 _( [6 ^: i+ }7 X" I) ~
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."