[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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) G, r+ b& t$ k9 o+ h! u1 Vrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% {# X, j% i2 G+ x* x; L

. q+ k& E+ o- S6 ]2 U研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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  e1 N, b9 s- r& T根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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' i7 B3 J& t% \3 `! nWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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7 ?% U: o) e8 l& Q3 AHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
7 M$ u! T4 k# B! ]' nPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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! ?6 Z; }) a8 z# V9 Y4 G- Z" }The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. # ^3 ^1 x9 F* J
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." + F2 {  a  g% O0 h! R

0 [' `% [+ Q4 @, G/ U; \Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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4 k" |& I2 S. P. I7 P( b2 P! l  b1 V  VAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. . B/ R% s) i2 X. r+ z0 u$ O

2 ^: v. t: v) Z- v人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ; m8 m) B5 d# ~: E6 M5 }# i
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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! q- @  T* h( G6 Q2 s( }7 D0 sIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. " M& Q& _! Z  t; t# S9 j
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 X0 ?- \( e, \3 f

6 U3 i  Z4 W1 B) e7 V/ ^% F6 i, r"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."