[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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/ c+ l- Q7 u) r3 Q$ f( J6 V/ L据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。1 T$ w( A' h/ a1 i5 O6 q6 v; i

8 `% }' o' j9 V/ A% A根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区$ U) D# E: Z3 M. a
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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, F7 C2 K; t5 E6 A! GHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
2 A4 J# W# b/ rPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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& g# }+ B) i2 z* l3 v. _But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 1 i8 u( v& ?6 t

2 I4 G" ]3 x2 irs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ! Y4 U8 T- p0 s

& Y. D: i3 N! J# M  v+ ~"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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+ e: j( k8 ~& K" ^* M8 @人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区% B& M+ S/ Z9 n1 ]7 K

( \2 F7 D0 c/ y0 U& c. Z7 cUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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6 `) Q  q& b' X7 ?) gSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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" Q) r! q6 A; P5 i. @Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. , Y2 E  G2 w& ^

, \) @5 S) r7 S7 h; ~2 ~The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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' A, s  g. ?- g, |0 z人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 5 u; V- g2 q+ |7 J+ J1 }4 N
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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4 n9 @7 {, K( g2 i5 d8 s"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."