[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。$ ]5 q1 A8 Z2 L$ g- F' h( O
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. r8 p" A1 f, H
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
- b- x# I$ ~2 t, H人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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7 v8 J' M, u- W! I5 X% x3 HThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. # l# i) n6 j0 N  P

: e4 q. m4 r- m- xLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  f9 s+ f: I  I( g
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. % s( a9 \8 G9 q0 e5 q

& U5 R1 v0 S6 ~" |! S, T人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 c. [8 n1 ]3 L/ _
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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6 j9 G' j6 R0 ISix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区# b/ H8 G0 C, E3 U

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8 Q) {; N! r/ e8 M+ \+ EAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 E, w; M; M7 |# ?
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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' t+ M- h( ?9 L0 i- g. P# K$ c# W  FThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. $ l- Z2 c# N2 B9 k4 D
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区8 g" J# K, v. r- [0 q& J
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 H( F) t; H+ V4 T# B( \

" N/ d, _- f. }  ~5 E2 S2 r3 rrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."