[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 O) Q3 ~! Q( Z2 `' C6 z
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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5 b0 P/ Y" N! C6 `. R) @# F5 s研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。. l" @) q8 E1 y. t) `

5 k+ p) T+ v- Q人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。5 r- E. Y* ?( _7 h' q+ V
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 4 E- p, Q& w6 g5 |3 z
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
3 h0 K  }  I: x6 R人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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4 Z- F+ u: w1 k* S& u9 A人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.   D9 D: Y: G" }- g% b! G  \# Q" O

/ s) X. _( t" Z4 k; s8 s. ALead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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4 Q" ^! c% w: A人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. + x5 \. u% C) \3 d; e* ]

& z+ U- T' b+ R# H; j% q4 u# i9 u"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." & v: b* w# v" H/ H+ X6 \( M' L" Z$ ?

; K7 N& j1 g; {3 Y9 h( A7 }Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 0 ]$ H* R2 A# `) F. u

' i$ L& J' z! e人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 7 F* o4 V, D1 _

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5 @' s+ l4 h; a" r  E* r  N4 S$ g0 @  OAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de7 a# Y: u/ U+ r! `- P
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 1 L# {" b7 s8 X/ b

7 R/ `' r' k3 J! KBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. - @# d) d+ ^. [/ X- h

+ k7 w. O6 B; r- m, \6 V# fIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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5 }/ b: D6 |5 e0 U6 h7 Q"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."