[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ l& `, s  ]  Y  k9 t" t2 k, z
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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# h& h8 m! v& e" C0 d研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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( D$ x# q; n/ c0 zWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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  _) T" M: E4 z. LHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区: ]0 d0 t+ R  o  I9 }& X! @" {% B
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. , g8 T# o2 c/ g$ j
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. . `& @7 M7 G, k9 Q% J& U, S8 Q
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 2 v8 ~. f; D! Z

5 u: f( _' b$ G: T+ jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 3 @* m1 D2 H6 z, X
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de7 T8 e9 G+ Z/ e5 R
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." # Q$ }; f& F; t3 w/ _- T4 D$ H

$ A, S  H% i& u; Z# o! Z& }( IUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区  `) k" E  l8 \' z

/ U- i7 K8 ^) H" xSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 9 b2 K" c0 p6 l: ?( c
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.   H: u/ Y8 U6 i2 }1 I' S
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 3 _* M# I( E0 b+ d' s; B7 O$ `; K

2 }, d) c8 I  Y; D"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."