[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。0 n5 W  E: d$ V4 ?" D, A

. T; V) ?7 a% ~% h2 [; t0 q据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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* I" q% C5 S" A5 ]* `& B1 e根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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# w7 S7 _5 @6 y  c' `High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
0 R# b) q: r8 [! C( H- dPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. * V* i6 ?4 X) Z4 M& n6 u! }& k* o! ^

0 q/ T9 k9 F8 u3 r2 n! ~But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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# A3 I1 d( E/ v; _3 LThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". & U" J/ r; Z0 B( b, i

( i! D& t: e8 g  k) ]"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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5 S0 s4 i- y( D. V+ d- ?"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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5 S& o" i( J% W2 c3 ^* M' y8 q2 LUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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6 t2 H: o5 p9 Z7 X人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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& j/ `! Z% y+ L: o+ k& U% nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. - d2 H9 W( T( I6 h

% R7 X* N. E% A  P, lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. & e& A/ X: |6 T. m& ?& a: r1 b

- \% |9 L2 I8 Z; b: O8 TBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ; N2 W  B3 _: x3 ^8 Q( r; j
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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6 Q- L6 q. Y/ q% X' J& M& y: h( crs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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1 j" T7 H( S+ u"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."