[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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* @# V4 [# k+ X2 j5 R* `据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。& @6 J; P* i1 a* b- t$ z

+ m% c* c( u5 A! p6 p研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。: v. g0 ^5 W& L( X) y6 x

/ X( M0 O) _5 {! j) @* \- q) N人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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: B2 y$ G: B2 H3 H4 E2 Hrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。+ O: q, t0 y! B' l7 a" D3 D

3 n2 X: e- N7 I+ n, v! Y2 j- wWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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- |8 {# l1 C7 m6 v, hHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ) j" Q# n& B+ W4 b
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区4 {0 L8 @. h- I. t
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ) K& ?5 d/ f" n  g5 T0 ?

4 ~% c! f- e3 Q% wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区( n! m8 l) T3 h5 e3 h; Z8 }4 n" H

+ V: Y$ b( J) h/ T7 L) I; \6 C% k/ \人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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) T* Y+ h& B& U  c" x8 aAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ' j1 \. C  n% M+ z7 N
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. # t1 N# d, {* T( X; G

) R! R* q  R5 s% _! _The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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, y# ]# {! G) ^$ ABut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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) V  [, m( o3 Y8 p人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 5 g! o% {1 V; d

1 d4 Y6 l1 Y- M4 r9 R8 N+ g1 _"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ' i* r& o2 P8 j* w( {$ Y
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."