[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 I' s! E$ q; `$ j) i- D, j6 r
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de# L1 [6 O% N5 J7 i) X% l# F6 {

7 {# j/ ?. q+ P研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。: D" ^) \) w  f# s
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 I! f) X" p& u$ ~2 r

' A' j; v' Z3 a+ n5 OWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 7 @3 {8 l% b) W& W* W( y

/ T( Y  ~5 ]% K7 a! n$ ]% U6 {; f& cHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
/ x0 \# T- c+ ]! }$ w: H8 Q9 MPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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; f  D. L+ Y+ trs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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+ n2 Q  B% u0 V; ?% T0 U9 |人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 2 j' P+ `: d0 b& ~0 O1 ?/ h) V  }

& [. h; s" _1 C  F$ r4 nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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. f$ D" `) H8 g8 P! H- E人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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: d* h  P/ N, a. A4 m/ q8 k  fSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区. z" {. h+ t+ R& s1 d4 }
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区1 Y! P1 K- Q, B; {' l+ M

6 z1 {' e% F( Z( Z/ I+ hThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. # X  A' u$ F7 M! v9 K" @
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 2 n  ?" A+ J' Q; W) n

9 i  Y1 c3 G) b, u3 i: cIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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1 [! G5 H, x4 [6 y( {, a, p/ T"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. / m. o! g9 Z9 p- s4 ?, ~! }9 n! f( o

. e7 i" N9 J0 s9 P. F# Q! G"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."