[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区1 d, N, M2 e" i7 O, B9 u! @$ Y

+ n3 Y' Q$ |. \) W3 M据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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4 ~  r: M5 {) X# G4 Lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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& K7 n  l1 ^, ]! ~2 A9 k. v研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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- N9 z7 r: A* Y8 o& r6 QHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
2 _- C2 U: P" mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区+ t4 u, h4 s4 x3 C
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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2 d. U! q& D" I" b: ]The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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; F1 T: f# c- D# v9 \"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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( Z" S6 s+ h3 ]% k) TUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 1 S$ K8 D1 C9 ^' K# b
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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7 B' w: r5 `7 Z& `( J6 h& Q( e5 qAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. - Y/ f; X  j# h, b/ r" k; ]
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. , G# G8 s/ P$ _: k% H7 z. U% N9 E* [) Q
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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# r( W+ c8 N* Q/ SIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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3 z/ P4 W/ V) O6 \"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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6 \0 h) R6 l* W0 ~; A8 o+ Z"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."