[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。+ d' p/ n' V3 H* ~" O
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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* L8 h1 K8 x: g研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。9 \/ ^" m  ~, E2 J8 f

5 A1 D5 z: C# C! V! z0 B$ Y' s0 }( @" j根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。# V, p# @8 _/ H' D4 b

8 Q$ C# z+ ]6 T! p+ mWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区+ H0 V6 c2 Z6 Y+ ]4 x, u  u

% N0 A5 n, v3 ?" S& nHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区6 j9 P0 `: ^7 W  J
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. & z% u0 E* M3 j4 v9 c) L) _+ b
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 6 R& p! U. m( w1 A' k* X: A* _7 @

2 Q7 r' v8 t  _1 T5 yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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7 k, |/ U' _% BLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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& O5 I  d8 x8 g) L  x"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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' L0 D, T7 q: n. M' m4 A0 a( P3 T, jUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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% M" p0 _2 |% @" E2 ^& xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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8 n$ g* {; a8 R; pAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. + ^7 i. u* |, J# O* I2 d' |& X9 M

) q1 b8 k: P$ P人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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: r% u' J3 K. k' [- K! h0 d"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."