[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。3 Y; z/ c) ~8 d5 b4 {/ O; w& |5 o4 O

4 A( G  Z$ N; C% H据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。& _2 _, i* U" _$ W
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区" b0 `, G3 R6 E, ^" O2 S: M2 @

4 {/ b0 _8 ]$ d) C! \( k6 c2 M研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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7 A& e+ D" i( |8 i; x9 Yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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2 b4 C8 D. P( @4 Brs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
( \  q# x; E# `0 FPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 0 s. x; E4 ?! ?3 |, D; u7 p
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. * ^4 s! j" q9 I6 I
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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) J, a7 b" h. E  O4 s1 q- BLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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7 o3 t, P& s! W9 `8 j( I5 j"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区+ V) h5 G/ \* A5 Y

3 C# L3 d+ s' i$ x"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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0 E, U1 w/ P* ^. x/ pSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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3 G* P* H7 i0 trs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 8 s" j! i6 [: M4 P  h

: h/ h1 b% G7 W1 u3 y" G2 hThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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4 D1 s& A/ d2 J1 q/ g人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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* ^# M7 e& S' T- N. t$ n3 \But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. % b0 @! z) s6 g8 i
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. : d6 U( c) c+ ^( l5 }9 F

3 C5 h, J4 S( ~: y1 ~$ W1 k"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."