[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。# L# V6 S3 L$ ]) I* y% m  [0 M! v

  s7 @% u5 ?% g2 K: [. H0 ars238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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9 ?8 C# e* k# S$ G) O! }& E( W人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。# [) S$ v2 B0 I1 q# b
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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4 i6 ]! r0 Y4 N& b) U, C  j人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. - y( R, ?9 a  S% J- s9 {
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. / p3 s& n" g7 k; y$ J0 a. O+ i

( \9 O* q; P" j/ P" ^% SLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* l4 W& V" a; X! m% ?
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 1 J) F4 V$ C. r+ r
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ' s& F3 q# [  l$ P

- i6 d) E+ X3 x: s1 _3 c2 BUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 9 N, J; C5 R" X( {6 |

# r+ z9 |5 R4 w  TSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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' i) n) e( p" }; }+ l4 LAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ; ?5 Q8 \8 @6 |" L1 w8 N0 a
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. " l( x, g5 e# @/ `- n) X4 \

4 p* u8 @6 ^+ y, H/ j: wThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.   ~4 z! W/ d0 K" }9 ]
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 4 r4 o$ e! m7 ^8 F

9 s! N2 B2 k: j% r5 krs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区3 ^1 A( z; T: s9 z
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."