[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区6 Y% A# U; i2 H! N4 I2 `

) H! T; Z7 Y& v! R+ s: W; ~据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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# l# p4 v  P+ G4 e/ E# z根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 I; N) e8 x1 x; q* C1 \
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区0 B/ z; R$ f" f! w! M, z+ W+ \9 Y

0 R0 Z: ~8 J7 oWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区7 w; ~+ h# U' g) J
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
1 ~* o9 d- n8 h6 B6 KPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) Q3 f, B# \) I% `0 f

) y5 R8 Y- ^: c1 A' U/ Q! F; m6 i. e人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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3 u) V" @, W$ m7 W, u3 d& jThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 f( v/ q7 r' i. O# [6 ~2 Z

2 ?; P/ |; y# H3 m& ]: aLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区4 {& I' i/ A, A! A2 y7 e) C
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.   B9 z- k6 M+ r
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 m' r% Y# B, r$ r$ R
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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' O2 `8 J7 W/ W) e0 RSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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* F/ a& p: E, L  g. {8 S3 `Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 5 @5 `, p4 T8 l' p5 n! b6 E

/ W1 {' U1 E$ }0 g: W8 \' e% aThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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+ F/ [1 \! u5 J; D9 Q8 W) mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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+ M! C5 q3 B, A( o, r' Y" hBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. : N5 u9 x) ?' ]# x7 b/ u
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."