[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区" o. j+ t& J- b; @; d. r4 [

% p' i% a3 d* A9 H6 O  b据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。7 n( T9 \$ @% q) |% [  t+ ^; @
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。7 `( p9 x( U0 W% l2 M
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 5 q, e: Z) l* B/ N+ m0 D& Z
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
9 A$ T( G/ r$ EPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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+ T; X5 f7 A: {3 e$ z! y( Yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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% t- Z' p% n4 C9 }2 qThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 5 X  t9 Y7 R" }* a" {! F

$ v9 N- U/ y. a" A9 F/ p' mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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7 C( U# X) V6 K- r5 q; x3 _"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' B# C* K! P5 g! l8 p
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. - C) R2 c7 q/ B- w
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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( P  e0 Q( y5 t. ]4 q+ R2 tThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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- W/ l, y1 L! z# @; O9 E5 o7 p9 YBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: S+ e+ ?: M: G9 _4 a. s5 Y, H9 t
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 0 d8 c  D; k7 d7 R2 d
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ! o" ?* g( V1 N* N  h9 g

( Q, X7 |7 M7 o& P$ v人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."