[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。1 Q. e& d0 s# ]2 E

* D. x( r/ v6 `6 Z. |4 W5 e据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。# [0 R: a! q2 Z2 P# L
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。. l, E* w8 L! D+ [* I7 W
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。  |% }/ m) ~$ ~* l, f+ t

( j! T- f; X0 j' q) u. Lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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* ~/ v+ D; M  k" J# P人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
6 Z2 c/ n% E" o" ars238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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2 ^* w% m* e  ?/ _- y7 ^, m9 G"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ; r" u: c# n0 E
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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3 M# _4 s# u. u2 `人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ; o, J2 m+ T% K/ W8 }

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& d' R  Z5 q# x8 C# Q$ n0 O8 hrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ( q0 c) T. B, l3 a

. p' X! X$ G6 Nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.   `. ?6 W& O! x4 J9 X5 a( C

, }" ?3 j9 u  PBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 9 W* X  d  G1 }

5 {9 w, V2 |' Z  Z8 _人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. . X5 Z8 f% o$ ?& l8 L2 g  O
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."