[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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3 K& I( b" \  ]- ?6 zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。: p* E! ?- x8 w1 `( q. c9 e* f

& f- G( R# b, r7 \5 c; o人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区; `- I0 l5 Y9 L

1 Q- E3 U! i/ ?2 J根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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4 ]  `" H$ |, w% z5 d人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。4 N, k7 u, I; R/ M/ A
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 2 _' v. R6 g1 t0 n* {
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. * F1 ?8 V$ N, J& h  A  }, e
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ( S6 w* j) |1 K/ @/ D4 |
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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8 s! S1 P9 G* Z" Krs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 N  q; K5 `) l  S/ `% w- o. t

7 J5 y/ w5 u# D8 h; OLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 5 A4 B( c$ E% }

$ e+ i" \1 P# r5 j  V8 h人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 8 f4 q% R2 l, }6 ?0 V+ P; _/ q

+ A% r( b7 A' Z( trs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 5 w1 m. {* Q1 a" w) o& a8 @
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区; L1 V  y5 ^2 ?% l5 d& Y: b/ ^
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区+ b, y9 T$ I  Q9 c4 y
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  v' O9 r, _, ?( {人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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0 z( W, P% {; d: i: e& cThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 6 W5 B/ l$ H4 a  B( ]* B  J1 g
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. . R6 g9 a" y- b) v" v0 c
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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1 [' J+ {% f! Y3 L/ ^9 P% c# O"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."