[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。6 F$ V9 @& A# C; H7 E

& |: k& r3 }  y# L% L, |据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区# M* n; g1 P2 Y- `; P9 H
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。  t* C1 J' W  q8 P8 I! o* t
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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4 p1 H3 \. S7 oWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. . I& G! @- l! _, Q- }! d: n" a% M
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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5 Z; L  w9 W% _; C* n% zBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ; H4 {  z6 `3 _
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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- ?3 k" S! B2 W3 HLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". * Z  \1 j3 M6 u, i0 Y' H

: n) b# ^4 ~) G# }- x! o( t$ i"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. $ g; o) O5 o0 a8 q( i

( }( D1 n& t" K, a- P3 ^8 F' s3 \rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ' ?- ]& y! {# |: F! ^" X/ k
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 8 l8 d- i4 m5 K* n

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( C8 U/ V6 l6 @9 @* `rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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; W% R8 p5 ]& h% Y( j: g/ pThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区. \8 K! @2 G! B7 a: C, g

2 ^4 P6 @# f0 m% r2 IBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区8 y0 Z5 M: h% b4 U& Y! X6 l2 {- q$ L

3 u; S3 w; e% h$ B. E) M: S* TIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 V* s6 Q* d9 j% G" R! ~7 [1 t  K0 m+ r

- ]  j( c& D/ ~( _8 Y# z"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."