[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。) J; d/ K8 Z, W; R

% `" N2 x1 s. x+ E* X0 w- x5 b据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区4 {5 L1 J: Y8 [4 C4 a

, {6 ]: ]6 q) R: M人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。( J9 F' G# w$ I, x! n! h; v! ^2 L" t
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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8 {) O0 ?) `* Q: x研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。3 W5 g0 w( W3 T6 |3 B5 H$ X* C
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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2 }: t3 @% u( Q1 L' B8 O/ PHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 6 h3 M: V# h  U+ p9 A
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ E2 V% P" c, k2 [( r

6 _$ B1 h! K& r3 O: P9 m$ l: h# t人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: k7 b/ Y$ V; b
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.   O) E% t& [# p$ X: O6 K

; P; P, Y; f  R8 I0 s! \Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de7 D  v/ j: \) P( n; u1 S

$ {/ l( g8 K: s5 ]5 q3 i"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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1 Z1 R- E5 u  p% h  _8 _: Nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 2 B4 E7 ~, g1 a4 X1 M" y

% O& l9 a0 [# E7 G( sSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 3 g7 [! ^4 I  f2 |
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1 N7 d3 |9 T7 {rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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8 K: Z/ Y6 f! T0 [* `2 A9 xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区8 M& P2 `; \4 Y5 {) Z) Q5 e: Z
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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6 P, L+ n. ]" x; A# J( E& D. q0 o人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区. ^2 N9 D3 F& q

9 N0 D% s8 F( s; J7 ]3 i"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."