[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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% g% s' f+ [. C6 Crs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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# w& @( |/ }1 B4 G% s6 x( S/ D: h/ t人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。/ [; L" c; _: A5 d# J

: H6 x2 A% G2 s- E$ a, f9 Z! I人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区! H% v9 L- k! o
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
$ a& r/ j0 _+ Z% y; ~7 n( w/ Y9 nPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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# ^  G# C6 ]+ }8 f9 q9 ZThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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7 N; W4 p3 ?( C2 D4 g6 h: T  k7 Wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". + N- H5 j+ @, p+ b( c

9 ~0 i1 E( H6 \$ j8 o/ ~# U8 W- V4 H2 U"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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% q. [3 M0 Z7 {"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) O. N" M. \/ c; V/ g: d

/ p* r: J* L- R3 k" N. F# z: FUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 x; Q4 w; j8 ^) J* }  C
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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' r, N% q8 w2 b" _1 YAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 8 a8 |" U$ h; r& \4 |2 ]

: H/ t3 S  G& {- ~8 {& EThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. $ x& d% h' V, G
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ! m* \) g  @/ D; u

9 I8 A. v8 _* R8 y# d4 f* \; s* WBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ! O2 }1 {1 Z) i" s

& y/ g' `8 f3 WIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 9 H8 q4 g( v+ W, h# B" m0 ^: l

# R3 y/ X8 Y5 S2 Z"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! i& i5 Q2 a1 i+ _9 n! a2 b

) D6 m& C  `+ V"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."