[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。8 M& q+ V) x# A! @/ W. {6 F
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. d; c8 V7 T5 I/ ?! G% [

* Y9 F5 G  x. D: _# N% ?. r研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 h. e5 I( d7 S* O
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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' C* h7 @, ^5 y( K* u3 L研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。3 B) |7 i( c- S- t4 _3 a' k
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'   K" V8 x+ J6 m7 g. f- t
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区6 h# p  ]0 Q6 M% m, T1 l
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区# @) a* Y0 l# T; e
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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/ R1 C, g& r0 s5 U7 D& ~  VThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 1 r4 G0 k/ B# S. v& y8 ?4 L

0 m7 X$ N( W3 d! [Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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+ }( M' Q7 `1 ?$ P$ ?"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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3 g3 D% C6 L' L6 ~; KUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 8 T" t+ s+ G* c+ W
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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7 b! x, d. R: o- c- |rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. / q8 q4 G5 F4 j5 i

; l/ f  _' K8 j; C- t% p3 CBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 5 A* F5 y1 g5 L6 Q& f

2 y8 P  c8 ^. G" A3 n( B/ \! QIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区7 j& \( B7 Y1 l7 X& ?: k0 Z% s4 J
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区: l" D/ D9 y0 F) Z7 O" J% I' a
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."