[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- o( X& J6 N. m# H- g' j
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。  v$ M  K" W! P  A/ D* [  I

1 ?# n3 T& Z. U3 P+ u% q% _研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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2 p8 h0 s1 `+ G" {4 ~' s' C9 M研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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3 F4 q# K) \& a7 L- q+ T人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 0 f/ U# e8 ?* R7 {' o9 ?

% j) C, b8 |/ g  P$ e5 ~High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
& E3 L. o0 _. r- F  ~Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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+ \8 F+ P/ |8 J4 H/ \; vBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区7 D# b& M/ B3 T+ k
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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/ Q4 ?. G. q6 K6 X- ZLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区. @: |; Z& k8 q* ~; _! T- w8 S: |" M
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0 S  e3 a9 P8 j+ T8 \- w, EAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 3 f0 g7 U+ }2 o5 G

/ U# M& K- a5 p, G; Z( K4 u' mThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. + }6 b' l  ^) ?8 z
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ! J' c, i6 O) d8 j, h# _

2 b+ ?& k1 J( X9 z3 kIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. % S1 k0 h+ @5 A' b: d

0 C) J# @8 N( F) }9 Z+ a人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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0 f' o. [4 I2 ]* Y. [/ _# |# i"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."