[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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* K" Y, ?% W. P- h3 p据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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! ?- Z, L4 `9 `( x0 f研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。- H9 q2 L; `7 Z) J9 H& j
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。# e: r8 Q: ~- \: P8 T

3 B9 O  x7 U3 D7 o( ?. V8 Z研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 4 F: V9 `1 z2 J8 v9 ?$ I5 s

9 p# b5 o2 i% \# s9 z0 HHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
: R" M, S3 T0 R- I' N& sPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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- y' V5 L6 G9 X. F8 yBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. : A7 K  d. T! Q% U+ w, e, @" t

! [  Y7 d# m# }5 sThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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# B( v: F9 D9 L# ?$ p: Z) \6 HLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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# N& n+ c2 ?, H# S4 u- t"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. " s% v2 t7 V: @6 a9 U/ Z* a9 M
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ J% ~( t( @1 w/ N
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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1 N: K  J( q' iThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ! J2 q9 E: d; S
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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0 x- g9 N9 U# R; dBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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) A" ~1 n8 k9 O, R9 HIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ) @8 @# ]  X) K$ W9 h) D" m: t

: Z: B- [  E% [* T"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区8 A9 n2 T( F+ u1 A0 A; A

: v, g5 i- w1 ]! M8 Xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."