[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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6 ]2 F& }; e  R' M2 Srs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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$ U- O6 m+ _, d  y: I$ W研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de# t& M8 g8 R+ `( ^" N9 j

  t  s. b' Q9 k  L8 |' z; Qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 0 M0 q" t, Q/ ~" M7 u* v
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ! J; T0 x4 c9 o6 p8 N
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 ~1 O0 g, l1 v" X$ G4 a9 m

: x+ L5 c% a# z! F" frs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 6 f, x/ E( X" U$ M+ ?

3 o3 m0 R8 l/ e1 d( n+ xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 X: d  A$ L* l; w5 I% _/ T

( N/ K' Q5 S( o$ {Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 7 v9 K4 n8 V9 u/ ?$ u. G

* b# h0 m" `7 U) t0 l$ H/ \3 lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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8 B5 i- Y6 y3 U  zUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区* w: t# j$ y0 d& o. G/ G6 i

# |0 T, e  X1 Q) O人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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. Q. z4 D/ ^/ L4 A. C( [. z! NThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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- z6 A8 z4 j! G4 [Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. $ X7 y& b5 F# m3 T. g5 I
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."