[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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; i! ]9 b/ j8 S0 B根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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0 f0 o. r' a1 b2 w1 L人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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3 |# I, {4 }; o  }! V# LHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
' x8 E; w4 S; R& H' i: S3 {1 pPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) h) w  {1 k, U0 ?

1 {) P' C; N* _/ N5 h( hBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 3 C+ [( z; t4 @* ~3 P0 q+ ]: ^0 [, O

4 I/ T) _( h( n8 s; s& @Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区3 P4 p" b+ C! k* `4 ~) e
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. $ C2 K6 `5 S; K8 y. ?5 c/ [# X1 S& |

  i" {4 a) V! h2 j' I: s; X人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区4 C' M9 {% @# n" x) Y

8 v3 s( @6 x' g0 q+ G: ]# p% C人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Profession
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4 q7 b' v+ E, A$ c0 d, C! eAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: N! @: S/ D" m5 {, B4 W  B

- \1 K* Z7 |- {The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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7 o' b6 E9 }2 B1 |4 f" ?/ j人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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8 Y+ K: e  X& z  ?( K4 @"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  F% V, l1 u7 i# Y( P9 A

' r) G- f4 B3 |( S  T) F"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."