[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。7 U$ |) l6 u' \( x

  G5 K9 {# u$ K" a, S3 c! prs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。9 }0 f3 D# R: d" K. N2 t% }5 @, `1 u

0 G) @2 f" J) M* h研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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% {$ `. U+ r( a/ ~; K; y" J根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。( P  Y0 o; d' p& Y  H
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。% `+ k+ O, T) O! F" u+ h3 M

7 K& S! a, o' p- @; {$ x人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ! q" t% q$ |# K
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
8 v/ w3 _$ y4 a0 hrs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区/ c# U2 S- Y1 @( p. h2 |' S, ^

+ Q" p9 I$ F: j3 H. B; Z) vBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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1 z6 z  _7 }5 N/ ^5 M* mThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: n. N" J, k' o: m2 ?
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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% P+ M. x4 g, V0 Ers238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 1 I+ c3 a; O' q5 s$ _! I/ J
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: T" D7 B4 b8 B  o( F0 Z9 xAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 9 g7 b# [8 \0 z# j  R2 J0 e

) k% {( ]1 b2 ?( Q. K" OThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. , i: J# `: x+ {1 A+ B

9 x9 l* e3 W! }3 k* K- {9 }7 b0 Krs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ! j; ]7 P, p# K6 P0 {. j- M8 {

* y' J, H; I. _3 K6 y3 ?But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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3 A) z- l9 |" E0 g5 x1 K3 Mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. + v1 _2 z- U& D! v2 x& X
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. $ H* A. h0 A7 P/ z7 B% I* b

# M4 m" n3 z! h9 ~3 P0 s- W% |人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."