[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。" f+ ^, e( u3 K, G6 m0 c
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区" C* t! J3 i, t
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。# n4 K, W0 X; V+ M) o( R

& K( z$ T0 K$ r% J0 ?* M+ V8 A研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。2 H4 t: Y7 t9 K! M& j& P. S

. y* u1 i& L( h* U. n# Z( wWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区9 f% X0 N# h' ]+ j; U- V
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 8 m9 C: J% E; E& J0 [: T
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. + S/ A' O6 }7 _2 k* w! M
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". - F6 u& p" }% Z$ t* O" }
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." # W/ r; {4 E3 k5 h- S
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. + h$ Y6 E3 N8 c" i% T* R  G% i5 e
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 7 J- b  ?( O8 Q0 ~
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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9 \+ D; a8 R9 O) [The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. % g$ a% Q# T4 P( {0 g

  B, H% t' Y2 A' frs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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* w2 E; R+ l% k2 t* ?3 a; F人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 2 z% w3 J3 G6 P3 n$ I# o1 O2 S( S* T: q
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. . E4 i/ o  }9 V- ^( M9 w# ?' R  I3 D

% ?+ Z' J  U3 p' A  g" a"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."