[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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9 ^" |2 x- K  k* Y: Q据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, J4 Q* P7 k6 X9 _

! _) v" }: m* u! _, N研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" X5 d0 u2 y& t* L9 N3 d9 Y

- K" o" k- G( u人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。' F4 ]$ Y+ L  m% R

0 Y% J8 h7 j/ l" X  A4 U研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ E8 L, r) g' \+ x% P

" U( z: h7 L/ |rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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$ p1 b4 R& Z! o: \人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 1 }8 q4 n* r' J7 J6 z. Y
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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' S- n+ r4 P0 C- RBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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2 s! \0 t  A6 p% G/ ]: {* b* \+ Q! z# KThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 8 }9 o* B4 Z6 e2 n
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区+ I! @; v7 m$ n! @

! p/ t% ~) A; `% D  Z: ^) ^& L"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. . |( ]  _7 @0 G; g9 b
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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! x4 f: C! O% q2 P4 d2 H& |Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. - [0 l" v7 f/ n$ J$ w& c
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 9 l) r( d3 j- y( H3 ~0 R* l7 j% }$ B
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/ {# \( _9 i# O人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区4 i) z6 @; j9 g3 h
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. # \, {0 P" ?: m8 W" ~

# Y3 \7 o% [$ |" P$ D# p6 q, ?Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区& b, i7 N* c* [2 D8 q
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 7 O8 g1 d; e/ X8 f  y

) O0 M" v' X% i7 E4 V9 B2 k"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."