[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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1 W/ k9 ~$ y  _8 N/ Nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。$ q5 v3 p* H/ ~- q0 D- B
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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1 n* P9 N& U; N# p7 T- H根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。9 n1 _% [9 L6 |3 z5 n% v
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ) V; n. _, t* l/ A, D; D! `; O
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
, O( \: X0 z( Y人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 4 e; Q" |+ F: o- W& L) q# V

9 I) K* G8 W+ u) ^人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. + t. X; V8 `# i5 x' T- M
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". * H; T. i( W/ Z( Y0 M
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* h& u5 d) _3 F0 x# J  `# `% m

$ M$ e  M+ x2 S; l9 v"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 H6 K+ v9 y8 I3 L0 h2 R6 ]

$ o& N/ X$ q& _人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. * I3 `7 H4 T5 C! s
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.   z8 A1 v2 t4 K- E1 N' i
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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) @: n& I* I/ i; _2 qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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" J. D7 x) i" X) f8 P( NIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. & z; U  Y8 U7 u3 i* q' X- p
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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2 R7 q2 I; k' f2 Z) ^  \' C  ?1 lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."