[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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4 ~( ^# e7 F% E1 l- L( i: `! v- [研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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4 T4 R$ v5 ^0 T4 n3 B根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& Z$ x+ S3 r2 d2 E
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。3 v8 y+ {4 |9 R- S% b8 v
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区7 q8 F' _4 p  n0 ~

- [1 G, l* }7 s! @4 yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
7 e4 h5 T9 h# ^( KPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; I% ?: K/ N2 W! E- C! y

/ h% s4 O8 s5 Z  B& b5 CBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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0 h( B% ?  f* n0 @* h& MThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ! Z6 V" @( k; @* c( [
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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  h: a8 y6 e/ P3 S# y"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 0 t  }2 C1 D# f" s0 r1 X0 _) G
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 4 i4 _6 c! h. t9 t- q

4 k0 ]" t3 U1 n6 k2 @6 Z9 NUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. . I6 n5 A2 F) S1 N6 T
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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! j: [* ]4 D' B4 h4 R7 k* _The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区1 ~% x, N4 S5 i1 ]% Q0 O2 \, ^

; A5 @2 v! u; J4 v$ A人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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9 ^3 ~1 w6 Z: s. U- x" K% qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ D$ f' L8 o$ L5 a
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."