[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。9 z  Y+ h1 P) o, t

1 h8 ^8 D2 l9 z$ R" v( B9 c据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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) K3 U7 b* G4 ^# M0 \根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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# ~: y; t! s# u* l: c- [" N5 J研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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9 }) s  i3 Z+ v9 m& T, I7 \8 {人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average'   C+ b7 i6 m8 m8 E; M" K+ v

& ]& L, D! p/ c# m& B% |人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 9 E2 x# ~4 j5 j% _% B
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 1 {% _  O/ x/ t; |+ q3 a

+ d% S8 J, L- Y: V# Brs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. . D) t0 {! r; G
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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/ @/ C0 x' R4 ^. y+ E& `5 jLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区3 a$ c6 N6 N# S8 \0 k3 Q6 g
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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( {" r6 j/ L: G: h! D"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 b; Y# k& p8 `  K
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. + k& E1 J# M- \5 n  w/ S9 \

; s( T6 F: {# n+ U" }& hSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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, n: }8 Y2 _/ y" ?0 r, d6 \2 v4 p$ ]Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区1 S0 m) V( u8 y, R1 c

- G' u" z- e: q3 u7 i/ hThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区) r3 j4 H8 g$ |
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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; M) ^* h$ B$ K6 \Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. : j) t$ C# w3 N( v7 i2 ]3 K
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."