[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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8 Y2 v, m) ?' M据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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) E* P: B, j# h# z: t6 P研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区  W4 ~& L4 Y8 J8 R' ?* E

  l7 t* i. L2 t2 j, V+ Z% D; t: A* P6 J根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. U& P' B: u, Q4 T
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。8 H  A+ U  {$ e8 M7 J

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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 6 S5 c; X( {! O- T3 v
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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  A9 ^! j- D3 rThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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5 z) ]8 K$ N8 O# RLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区& b0 ]+ q0 w( m1 w! G! s3 f) w

- b6 H* k0 \( d7 ?rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 7 {: L. j1 P9 B2 Q: T+ t
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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* k0 y0 g: l  _6 y: K5 GUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 7 K. ^) v0 z2 p* `9 d0 M0 H
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 2 a) s) {7 |4 c; u; d& x% e" F

) r2 E: V7 h: o- U. IThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ) Y0 O7 D9 |5 y  x
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. / P3 {7 j; d& e
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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9 J8 R0 y; Y' Y1 }* H5 ]"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. . t2 d  s: E! t2 b* _- F5 r0 A  l

. ?8 e! K2 G1 O. ?2 H+ o"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."