[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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& r* V7 P; k+ B8 R( J人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。. g+ I+ T& d8 x- L. [2 c9 R

7 I- _  ^! o( K; y人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区  ^* p4 D6 h* l" l2 z' Z# M$ N
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ e& ?5 o/ h+ e( m2 t2 I
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 n$ o( e# P, r3 E9 X  y
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 0 _9 c% ~# C: [9 h

) G' ]4 z/ \, B" zBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 0 t  N# R, X- [/ W
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ' g: S8 f- A& L
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区$ p2 Y, Y8 ~% {" V- x- ^7 Y
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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/ ?: }5 {( \& k$ q; Z, h5 Ors238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区, A. C1 r3 v$ g. t3 q6 |1 G

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5 ?# H- g4 |' D# l1 uAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区% W0 g9 ^. Q; n* h6 z* M- A

7 V, u8 L4 `( |$ a% N; j, O+ `人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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. g" F1 [, |9 Q" ]# ^人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% K1 |: J. E2 S5 L; n

4 O+ o, ^" `) YBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* w0 o# C6 q8 N; q# v( z! _
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.   O# J* W* x6 M+ E- y* e

1 q( Y" {# b0 d" g: m/ w6 i"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. / u' M# _/ m8 ~* I3 n9 u
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."