[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。# L- W. a6 c% X& ]
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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2 [* G  B* Z  |- {2 m* q0 l研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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1 i4 p+ K& G0 f& U+ l人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区$ ~5 o( A: m, s1 o7 |+ o
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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* V6 _/ j, I9 R1 qWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' ! ~8 W$ m9 ]; q
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
/ Z  b, N8 X% c4 A  Y5 P  o9 iPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ! ^* ?6 D5 ]; O( c* k2 g3 Z
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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6 P1 f. ^+ R. z* p+ ^Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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6 o1 {, `! |2 E"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 0 {& G8 f3 A* S
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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7 Y- _$ `1 d/ A9 |3 w% g4 i, K+ M5 iSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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) [, s& y  N7 t) t% o4 z. [$ W人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区: a, B8 A/ C$ P6 c9 I

3 ~- n) w5 ^% d人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. . ^7 `; E9 R( O+ b, t

# y; p' N- |4 ZBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区2 g/ Z0 R; D8 q* n/ [

& _: v- J5 I. t& b( z3 ]Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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, `7 ^$ X3 C3 j; {"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."