[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。% E! v" f! [5 I) d
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。$ C- Q2 W# {# X: p1 K4 P. M
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。' _+ ?. [6 y9 d, r
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。6 I; E* }1 d2 m# A+ M3 \2 M

! _1 |( ?$ F" g, d3 @' j2 o7 nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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+ B( B$ f: S6 U0 V" f, N. mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 8 o; v' z1 h6 w. v) H! M2 K
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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* b3 L# k! P0 CBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ! [6 L+ x% u/ q5 w
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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- e( ?+ g! j2 @6 B/ a0 ]5 b" k人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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7 y( \  J9 e7 j/ Yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 2 q4 U4 ]6 w5 f; h, ?9 H

/ W2 [' A4 k% S! \0 C3 l  I/ A" bUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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% I' Y  N$ e9 [! W0 q+ M8 hSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 5 D: u3 I( S: y
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) z/ t. S3 G( t  z" I9 rAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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. @. H2 q$ C% l) C0 L* TThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. % Y$ a. U2 M4 ]/ q- s) z6 ?8 k

. ]. L: I8 H; V6 R0 q* HThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ' r$ s! _" k% O5 v
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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! P, T4 R+ J* p: j1 TIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ! M' ~2 [( L1 G# A" F  n
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; j) w2 m$ ~: V* r! G  P( ]"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."