[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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3 w* [) a/ ~6 F# @4 H! Mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。- _4 p+ Z  z6 O( L, w/ Z
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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6 A" P" E+ P7 ~根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。) g& n( w) e+ N8 r3 r8 p# `

0 [% `/ O; r, o/ J4 i研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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: ?) x* C/ E) o$ u0 c人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. . u3 l) q/ A  G! |8 v; x7 u
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ' a& J; P; a- ~$ B
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* ?4 ?. F4 X  a8 _9 w% J% ]
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 0 i8 E+ S/ M: P, g
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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  [, ~* y4 z5 }Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 2 v" N6 n8 ^' x5 T9 {
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区( D$ R+ m- e- ?4 ~; F
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" l* R) f. f7 G- Y/ E& r3 E人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ' u, U) \) W; r
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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8 |1 R7 j' S9 Q- Y# I4 ]The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区5 [8 X8 U; b4 Z% r

* w% _, _/ ~$ O( S% W; C: |Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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' V0 r1 g1 p! w' y人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."