[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。( X1 U. w, k% i4 w
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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% Q$ c2 Y7 W3 k9 \# n- e) drs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: m6 g' u' i% x) b" B8 ?

4 ?& n) v# I8 A' V+ ]+ [' L根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。0 s- u. q& L- V
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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$ }1 t- ~- A- rWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 4 ]  [& S3 m4 E5 }( x6 \- t8 j0 T

2 _6 o! x  L- l, T; h; S  wHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. . e2 S, \" I# U  i! F' S" C0 l' l- S
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. : }; j2 ^4 r4 T% t

1 O% d0 c! ^* L- P) OThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( L5 |# p( ^/ L' [8 H/ V. n  `
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ; Z! O# Z& i" w

( l! a% \8 d+ m- s( ]Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 8 _7 ^2 I0 C! H6 X( a

+ O. K# B* @/ m7 XSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.   s9 F& n/ w4 t( ]# ?2 x% J
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, E$ G: y6 _$ j1 vrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 6 f( d2 H1 [+ S" \) M- ^; e6 z
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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( b# J" c# {3 K% eIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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2 F9 F/ }4 ~3 h  h" d* ^) ~. U"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."