[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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8 y6 _  W1 @2 ~$ w4 y$ n6 Zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区2 ^3 _4 }! N. T" D* i, l2 F  L
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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4 ?5 Z9 c5 b% K& s# j* D) h研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% q. T) y- h" c5 L) u4 K
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) J7 X- Z$ ?- `% J) T( d: V
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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" ~; c1 d* i4 _* n2 X- R5 z5 |, R8 |Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ; t, I9 g; n' x: b  C
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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6 K' K' b, S% ~" C"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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, k  Z& T7 f  I2 `; _9 q" ^. lSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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6 p8 \' U; M  N5 ^' ^/ D' v- rAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 6 n; ?9 \  g; f7 `/ w% t$ I

" e! V/ A+ M/ v! S4 G8 E人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. : @4 _0 N- t3 ^8 v! l' l; D
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ' d: ~& F# k, Y

3 ~! `  i& `% ^6 W/ N. r2 RBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ r" t7 U- r8 y* `# E/ [

6 \! U6 [$ B: c" X6 ?Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 6 Z( V1 G( h! h4 u+ P+ B, g+ V" W

$ i4 E$ @. a3 Q4 z% X8 q"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ) G1 u7 r8 w, C0 I+ j/ L

' p) I, [+ U6 c7 f/ L  ^, D"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."