[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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! Z* d/ p- k2 [: O4 l4 L据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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- {4 k* G' ~9 I9 Prs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区$ V% l. F3 K# L' U0 l# E) l1 ]

+ F7 t- ]% w# k1 v" U根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。6 ~& S/ z3 S6 I6 B8 }+ s

: |8 v% N9 O- ^7 i研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。8 l" P4 H' c  J' R4 ?6 a
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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2 }$ k8 C! `# d* m, e/ wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
( h- v* w* v- w' dPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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- J4 e* K. m2 {' {But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区8 T) F5 \7 c, Q
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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* N" z  `3 ]% a% F8 X  |Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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, }/ N. Z) \0 ]' L- G"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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& U; h+ y1 J0 S0 X+ ]- iUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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) ]/ A+ A  i; J0 W% W9 ?Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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& R! r8 E7 v5 z  c人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区1 f- Q6 P* H! S$ H8 t# {' }& u
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. % c/ R8 N( `5 `! j/ ^7 A) P- d4 a/ A
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. $ O: G, z- d6 s1 m! n
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."