[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。( @) F/ d1 I0 f# @1 H* p$ }& u" O
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。$ l" W: Z* {1 @- M4 o* F0 ^
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。2 H, t1 g/ W- ~5 s1 }; u
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 i  v, K6 R; ?0 J, E7 w3 Q3 r

! T2 w- [* d$ {6 _; {9 X# n5 qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ Q9 l" c3 ?9 g$ h8 W- Z0 \6 ^: r
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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4 J/ A* ^4 _; e) f; E1 wLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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0 q' x& v4 Q/ l/ K% K; U"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 8 N# C+ b# r! \+ d+ X' M  {  E
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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" S: L8 o+ [9 \' TUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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. Y* p  ^* k* h* o; M8 O3 N人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区2 I( m& z0 `$ t0 X1 A7 f+ \% X

9 E9 z3 @9 D8 kThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. - b5 E5 d4 e# D7 G7 }
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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& q# @- h$ R( \  G! S"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 8 O: x; b6 A0 Y; H7 h% \
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."