[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。2 b' w" H3 B( U. G/ i# S
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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0 V. e8 y8 v7 w研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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6 P; E5 b, I9 _3 \$ u研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; {- o  B+ Z; B7 x/ T

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: R8 v* d( N4 _High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区+ Z- h" d0 ]( }( O( ^) J
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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+ ?' Y3 I6 o) pBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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/ X+ X( \0 _  \& [; f" ]* d: ]6 Trs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. " d& v1 M5 O' k. M7 L

6 x% Z* X* N4 i0 k, @: K$ c6 VLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". , O  o+ [( L, f) `+ C

5 w: P) A: h( V- f- E! }2 X"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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. b% M" D" \0 a5 t8 Y"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ) L, s9 {) o( o; V9 B0 E

' Q$ J$ V# v* z  t人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区2 m" P2 I2 F2 P) x7 K; w1 F

% O1 w+ d6 f- X+ p" z( TSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ' {2 a- c7 C  S2 E: G6 Z

$ i& D2 y0 n1 d. R: T$ I" y0 j0 vThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. , p4 \! O* l3 r4 [! _3 V) Z4 P: E

3 y% j- {9 L- R7 l) k& V8 x  b/ L" ]+ TBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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% o: z$ n' k9 Z$ `6 O  lIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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* y* D! E: j5 m1 z"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."