[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。: Y% d- u4 s7 I5 m

  W9 D& \2 p+ h' m. g( ~人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。7 L4 z- o6 k5 i  s' p  h

  u; R- n: C4 _rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区" P% Q' _5 ]# y

" Q5 E* @) Z$ {  Q. `rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. # G" v- P0 |2 v% a. u
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. " x- ^' [; o% C+ ?5 y; e; @
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 0 |/ t$ y" L! d% R3 ~
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; t  x& W2 y( _! ?+ [6 [
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ; `; R& B' r6 p
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区) S8 K+ l3 X8 }  I0 f5 I. m# k
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 H/ s6 |% e7 p, Y( e1 f% i

) y% G" d; _8 T  OThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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6 m% e, e9 e% iThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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, j8 `; ?$ u7 R" v$ oBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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, h' |9 {* ]1 s3 ~0 I3 b% ]( z, l: k" drs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."