[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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- t) A: j- i5 `* Z% p8 F! Q4 yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) H! w1 A5 @7 Y0 C* X' Z

1 y7 y  B1 O7 W8 \9 N: t) o研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。4 O$ B( i: @' m% u* k

8 L2 K" Y" j0 d! z. I1 U4 U9 w根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。0 v2 q* Q2 W: U2 S. U+ N% X
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. ^4 A: {& [4 Z6 e# J; o
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
( Z- ^  w, g$ e# b1 ]) g; S  gPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 1 Q0 m& E6 C- Y& S9 r7 I! F
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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) X* _( c. {0 t8 nThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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/ B! d: X1 P/ e2 J人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 2 }8 M; q( x  a* D! i

/ X& M8 N9 P9 Y, D5 n"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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* Q: F3 M. J0 U# z" ~* F0 j; K6 X# jSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. % B7 b! B, ^* s

, p: i% z* [. IThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 4 [, T  T5 ]* L

9 {9 q1 t# y" }6 W$ OBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ( d% G+ r" P* A8 S& u
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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! n$ U! g8 i. m! y"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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0 v$ q# q. O" j/ c- `0 ?rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."