[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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6 `/ }3 Y* R9 a: W/ T$ k据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区9 S, [$ B/ m5 h8 o6 e

0 b9 P/ m( R: c; `# c3 o" H根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。. P" A: h9 A# m  L: f4 k! R8 W

5 {7 |9 |4 Z8 y; Z# h/ f- j6 v7 ars238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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  x( {7 E, W2 H  E. X- B$ hHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区- h1 `4 G- `. n% u. `6 a  A1 n+ W
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区$ f. |6 W) U, y% I6 q+ x

) M* n: C) p# }9 NBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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2 p3 @! ~3 b: V9 W  O4 W+ A人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 6 a3 g: V- s6 s5 u# E# T
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". " x$ Z4 ^* ?, y1 ]' i. \2 S

7 Q5 [1 o% a# {7 `  o"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 3 y. _: T2 z2 v, N1 B
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. " G" n* U) O! r* w
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, ?# _: d: S& M6 P+ f5 K/ ?
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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7 H8 |$ j7 a4 y) ]2 A6 RThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. / Q% N, f3 l$ {! ~8 B* O8 M4 l  F# n

- V" A# f% Z9 p2 ^3 AThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ! E  C9 I! T% \- |- {

. {  F: p4 g2 V, y( Y( gIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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/ Q) E- s# j  C. P: ^"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."