[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。: |" c6 H% R% b6 M, k% ]; |
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区( n: z- O0 ]& G, F$ }

8 V) p4 [: i. T2 z- ^& ^研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% o' w4 V0 y  r& ?" m

! N2 Q; ?" j4 f- l- T) `rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。. u. H, m1 o2 _$ H

5 g/ O4 k* {) v8 U人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。- }0 D: |1 e7 e& u

* R: J2 U2 e: y( l3 |9 p) G4 [Why women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 k  w$ U7 }/ s
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ Z- R0 ?% z2 v( B1 b' N
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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4 _# L( x3 Q) x- j- oBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 7 p  ^8 Z% w. @8 G) S0 D0 s

5 e, ]; S" v7 AThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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; G/ t1 |6 o, p7 `' W' F4 vrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". . C/ i: S: O: F; N

0 N6 D4 g6 }% @! r: V3 E5 m"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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: t/ {7 v; S8 V"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区, p( n" h, _4 ~: j3 p
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. / f8 k. `! V" v% o! t  U3 L' t

% C8 Z' v" C( I; w1 N7 X/ ?Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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% t0 J  d8 G2 V% N% _6 N人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. * B6 u( g$ L  z* G5 ?

3 |5 P  @6 H7 s/ E; t- a6 GBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. / u: l: R# y* Y* S* u  C5 D
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区. W( t; o" G4 B3 H/ W0 B

9 W; m  \& n; X- i"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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0 f1 \9 U' Q: q2 Y"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."