[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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, V+ B$ i5 f' P% Z1 j人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区  ~0 m2 [1 g. h8 Z9 z

. Z7 m0 M; b. U* K& H# @3 s$ t人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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9 `% K/ \: ]6 |rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。; B# W( c" A# H, ^& i  J
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
8 k0 i2 b, g6 srs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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3 t  C$ w3 `2 U  o9 @6 zBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区" G  U( O- V4 d5 C" X" r
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区8 I* L8 [3 Z4 Q6 l, G3 p" r
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ' d3 g) R6 J$ Z$ X2 k

0 h7 b3 B# w7 s. Z# T4 j% {"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 6 j! y' s" ?* N% [6 g- j0 c" p
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区4 z8 L: M' ~- ]0 g

# `. ^) J, c0 h' _2 SSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区5 C5 ^) z$ v1 M* G8 `

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( _, d8 L' R5 r: _Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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: w- [% G5 K$ E# c: irs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 1 ?5 H9 X4 L  V$ Z4 P( P( z

# _* _- M# a7 P: k; T4 u; n' NThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 4 `' @( A" x1 f: z5 j

; L! r1 i8 w1 F6 kIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区) x) J$ `7 O; f' v- K0 H3 z
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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' F! V, Y/ G( N7 ^人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."