[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( p; c2 R  Y. b7 k0 D* F. q

) Y# s. n) J* {! A% v研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。' o" w8 o! Q4 F- g: T

, a. O& R- j. U! P$ n  M4 s根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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/ {0 e- g! m6 z( HWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 2 h" U4 {: u! ]+ O
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
% {/ J( \" N0 X) W2 wPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 1 {4 A( A6 l" K3 L4 F9 C
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 0 q# O% W6 O/ ~! U
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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  F; e5 I+ L6 ["Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." * P5 _- f3 S3 [% O* v# g

9 m: }! z# [1 r$ n- U$ [rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区3 b8 D$ @  K; i

, n3 J+ Q' Z3 T# w0 I# i" {5 o3 \1 @The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区. P6 a# m- |; r0 c3 q1 _
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 3 Q- |% N$ Q' P6 H( W+ L4 Z' u

2 X) W) x  T# T% x5 q5 R9 Z. ~* TBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ; m9 M$ r2 ?, e2 j
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ( Y) `$ ?7 f4 |8 W5 S1 _8 C
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."