[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。) ~& K' b/ l! D" ?

" g- e' H+ F0 v* l$ _据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 V/ f; N2 q5 a+ |; J& l  l& Z  I/ Z
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。5 W+ L2 _6 t$ L& z* C
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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7 j; C- \4 e# Y; Y8 q0 _' D研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。( ?* _1 R1 v( [2 H& k
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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5 _! T6 w+ X9 M. O. ^. eHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
( E& f7 P' m* v+ E8 @) x) ?9 Wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. # K$ Q) t# ]9 o3 B6 O
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- z  q' h/ f/ m4 f

, ?$ x% t: T) m% h) wThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". + C9 A8 N+ U8 T5 x) k. w/ l( h
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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+ M+ J9 m! C/ p" a* z人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." $ }5 E% Q9 j, e/ [8 I
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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  ^  W9 o' u( f/ srs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" v$ E6 x* h3 q" V9 B# ]

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区" E# T. s) }3 r( \" E( [) i7 b  G

4 t# b* q( W% V. x7 \But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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) O5 r8 ], b3 O- FIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ( X8 T/ p( q* h$ U9 B

2 E$ J' M- r" Q9 p"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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1 D; I+ V7 C# n8 N7 D% }8 }/ u"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."