[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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1 g* ^8 A2 z& }. n+ V: F( t3 trs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。5 @! U) ^. J/ a" k
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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( P8 W* _, ^# E0 B- D9 lWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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3 L: c9 q8 i- Q0 _9 WHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 8 }1 ^) B3 V1 u) \; b& v
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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8 ~! ^9 `+ M4 V  c+ hrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ Y3 y' f* ]7 X9 n$ f

" p; W7 B: u) D+ N( u3 Mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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9 F; x; R! L5 M& wUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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+ G0 [6 c: ]' [+ x- {1 FSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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: i; u! C3 o$ S% cAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区8 W- Q- s: J* E- I; n9 E# N

2 B0 ]7 r# c' AThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. / f& _: D4 O; B2 J: G$ Z

6 \6 I3 ^  l' s1 t5 Y/ j' X5 L3 l人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. * G8 _6 Z- C6 m& R8 L* ?; ?0 L
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ; k8 C4 b# U& |* S
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."