[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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: s, m( u- D# [: N: X  S4 K) m# X4 E# Z人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区' g3 a$ s# ^: c$ ~

% X  V6 Q$ `: v: j- R; W2 m% m研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。% ?' p+ Y, M/ S8 B5 m& M) h
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。% u! T: Z- t+ l9 J/ p

- P4 w; C" K' X人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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& I: o$ g# N* C人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' * Y3 l1 J1 A' Y  D( `! J
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
2 T5 N2 g' E- q5 p/ RPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 5 f# A) W' t' h+ N) R. v
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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7 e; t$ ^/ \/ Z0 g2 l) ]) qLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区5 f! Y$ h; b6 a9 C( w
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区) k7 X& Z. t5 t, v

7 V  W1 Q/ _# Y* L# [人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 1 `: T9 `+ ?. I; S7 f6 E* p$ R$ I
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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) g# P* M  ~1 ]Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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/ }# X( g8 D) e人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 4 G3 S7 J) }% P+ S2 N, i; a8 K

) A# k2 z) V& ~- \8 H人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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! O, z& {4 r% B/ `& G9 ^rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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! a- l7 F  m/ E5 h6 Grs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. $ G/ M4 f& f2 d, Y: z4 d$ _2 P& T
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."