[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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# j0 i8 T  ~( E5 C$ z据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。7 F! Q, l" X1 m% C7 p' U0 D
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。  H# K& a  K& }- i

, v4 b- E" B2 s  a6 o0 [. Y9 _9 \根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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9 b/ z, m" N( z" ]4 f  \4 f研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。$ |6 ?; W$ _. T
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' - D( e9 O5 t; f* f* `& Y

2 V7 ~6 G5 w4 y. b# e. cHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
) P: k) F1 }+ ?6 RPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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3 c; ~2 n& L  r3 Z  CLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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$ N- k1 g$ o3 }& P( \& s7 `  _0 ?1 M"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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8 ^! k. m/ `7 r: Z5 w! R1 Y7 M' S"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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0 i* t% ]3 \7 o7 _8 fUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 7 T! I3 s. |) O; `6 e

) u' Q# i8 S& y- W! n/ w3 b2 y4 CSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 N$ \+ [# u( Y2 M/ U; U

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3 H. Y- m# A% {3 NAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. + \# w4 s7 v' t6 v; @4 q
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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0 P+ K' _" I3 g6 ], vThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 q6 Y) x" f5 v6 Y$ o5 E

6 J) j, z$ N/ a' nBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. $ t  V& Y, \+ n7 g  Z

' t! U5 F& [. r# ?- XIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."