[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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1 u% `  r0 g1 D- R据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。) S7 w5 k6 N5 W% H' \3 u& L
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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4 _6 K" \( v5 B7 _; ^: n1 g根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。: U3 p/ ~; f# ^0 B1 A( m3 q; ^) O
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区% o& x# l2 E9 q( F

3 q* R# B# E2 F& g5 X. T2 W4 dWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. * ?0 E/ q6 C5 X7 M: {5 y
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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# ]% ^7 c8 \! n8 U, MBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 0 Y" o7 R+ Z9 A+ j
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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# @- x( @- d& c) G  BLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区  v8 s- `: [* @- E/ x
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ) J% v4 J# z5 J0 Q' A

6 e* T  b/ s8 _( {人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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3 k2 L4 K& P7 u+ b/ @' Jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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( H6 U/ F1 Y. ^7 o: uAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. , n$ G7 C' F/ i5 o5 J  B, z- J
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 9 a. ~& s- f' H+ L# D
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 }. ~) ?) a1 U: n! D
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区  K; |6 e4 j4 n" T! Q7 R0 A

+ V! c' ~% q, |1 B" a5 l+ i"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."