[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。% T' G3 B, ^' `1 [% m3 x6 l) l$ {

- y0 H7 M( A! V9 v7 k9 C7 n! drs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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8 ~; u1 W& D& N3 b( K- f根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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/ |: U2 J; Q/ A( ]人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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. U* o, e. Y: @# V+ ^3 q" kWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' $ I/ \+ z1 t/ J6 A' u. ]
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
; d( j* Z0 F. t1 Y+ {2 EPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区" q. r1 ^1 ?( w% X+ J, I, P

% ?7 ~4 D' _' `. g0 `人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  z6 f& P: C; N9 _. C# B6 \

/ L5 e' V1 L4 n+ r. N/ xThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 5 u9 z7 c. Q1 B8 P5 }( G
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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2 n: L' D' G+ \# ?% t( mUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 7 K7 R1 \9 o3 H; N( F: \; |
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区5 ?( j/ w6 o# X: n

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! Z# ?: ~9 i* e4 j; tAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 1 E; I3 K) @/ i& |# O8 f: c; b) ]

9 N& x! y$ \) @. uThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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7 o, R* o& b) F/ f) O9 S# D; [8 I7 _" hThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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- \( U2 D4 W6 P4 O$ {But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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& Q0 ~+ `; Y& u: bIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区, X8 S- a7 ^1 n) a  p
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 K8 b! V& \. R
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."