[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。6 n! T! V5 v; p$ U, ?

' E7 w/ ]# o7 C' G+ A研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。/ F. X! |* ^3 k

8 `- j2 J1 o; W; L* _0 }" H9 mWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
& U5 X4 r  u4 N$ x) WPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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2 D4 ]% V& S/ crs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; @9 d% N4 l8 y. M& x3 Y& p
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 6 [7 e& A2 `' w9 h/ r% h2 t

8 F5 n; i' x' {' F+ h8 u+ K& d"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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4 \; v$ W$ h7 g"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区1 P+ ~% y  O" y. u
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 0 U, |0 x, @8 [8 y7 x  D' t
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ' d- ~$ ]" E" p& q+ d
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% m7 y$ b4 l9 ~. D" TAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 3 i3 A& K9 M. |8 [4 n6 O! S
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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8 H  w# n% C& q* G) W9 S. ^But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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6 Z  Z0 I' b1 s- w2 v1 \) C% [( |' A"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."