[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。3 G/ W. L0 u2 Z( i! ^

/ S  E8 J1 @" Q* H  Vrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。1 ]2 z* e* z* h! F

  f7 E! g. t: j4 b% U% lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。, R0 i  x$ M" {, p
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区  S6 D) D# k+ ?4 y4 F! s
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 9 `& m2 b% F- e
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区! a  ^& Y) S8 s( h" F' R
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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' N) U* [4 ~) ?Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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& P( q& S4 A$ {! B+ ~rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区, j6 U  P. O; U4 s# Q$ p3 I

& g1 L8 z( m! z- U5 y"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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1 {& |( G4 T- H% z) W6 ?人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 7 }1 w. b  J' J) k' p( p$ Q) Z8 r6 x; T
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区; m! E* {- e$ F$ P
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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" h# V5 e7 r- Z2 v/ f& W4 m8 _8 _* n人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- `: }" w' H5 \% F1 e
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 R( L8 T6 F( ^; }
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区2 }6 n/ l" ^" m% g% N
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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9 S* \, G7 ^: C2 X"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 4 M' l6 Q# y( c: Q! ~/ q2 L

& f* g0 \" D. N, `4 P4 ~, d"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."