[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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4 ]6 Z) U  Z$ B- k; _据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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- n- L; b! [8 H1 d人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。1 U* a. c) ~$ C: f7 W2 }
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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0 K! P+ N( E( Z, s4 e  l; ]% EHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
& Z8 r& q4 [3 [2 H. ]9 R1 JPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. : i& }7 P3 Z; G/ f

8 R0 P( c. c9 ~: n. S0 m! aBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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$ G* M& F$ j% E. q# C* cLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" ~" `8 p) l) ]; S# p
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区2 A$ I; w1 D9 u5 ?( Q) a

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  a6 x0 `! P+ V5 E6 |$ n7 a! ~rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ( r- u" D+ F0 I2 l8 Z* ~6 k+ g9 B/ D
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ( f6 M; i1 a5 m: a- B

0 Z8 o9 n- {1 yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. % Y$ A& j/ z! c, s3 S! X

. Z  r* `! Y' z  x& S4 T' ~/ x, N人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.   X3 `) J0 G* R& @* R7 c" ?

  J; R$ H0 J: [1 S1 E7 Q人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."