[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。% y+ W$ l, G" |
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。) j5 o3 A3 g4 w3 I; p

  h' Y+ A  a$ K) r$ T3 e0 j* i: c人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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. k- D5 q; ]4 V; u( j; L* F4 }根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 u2 {, N$ E: Q" ?7 t* I6 Y
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。. k8 p) Q/ Z# U5 G5 o5 A

/ v: @1 K( U$ k' _rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区5 ~% W0 {3 s/ ^. b( S
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 5 s" R. ~1 P8 M$ v" M* R* J4 y
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 G1 ]- J% H8 A0 Q
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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6 X5 M5 g" N( [) x* }rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ a; z* R( K' ^+ |

. ?: \2 {2 Z% tLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ( t, `+ U/ }, r. q0 \/ O# |
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区8 l- D+ b, c! n, j# {7 m% ~& U

- }. O7 J+ Z9 }; ^1 Zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.   d5 O* }. w) Q+ ^6 r9 S! m
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ; o4 _/ ~" p( d' O. V3 U( [
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0 o$ ]1 k) c: @& K( B( u1 Z% |Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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7 B" \9 ]* R; A0 e) ~人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ( u1 f7 |, ?) u1 b% N5 q1 @; c
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 x  M" g/ P0 J- j9 N! V% O
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."