[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。1 ?3 C& {2 y* e/ @  i9 L

' H7 p6 U- B. J9 H% F; drs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。" F7 ^, c, f# J- ?, Z0 ^  L8 E
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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( K7 @9 K$ P, z' B" A/ C根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。6 N5 r+ @- X+ D5 e

2 y+ V: k0 d7 A% u2 Urs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区( i0 b9 u' v7 S  o( u8 w3 C% x
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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, P  ?' l! c$ B( B! ^' CThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区. }. q9 r6 J* [* S

" N# G$ B: ^; A* V"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." * |& L3 O2 G. v# l+ t

8 t2 c1 o$ |: T% ?Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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9 r9 }( X2 ?4 u$ S4 hSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 1 W, I, d0 B7 S. g$ w
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9 h9 O8 r1 D- U( V6 eAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 7 j- W" p6 u0 ^" ~9 S
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ; {. w  c, F5 l% ]) v* l9 r
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. & o% l' l( L+ o+ c% s3 h
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ' M" j. q( t* j; z2 n' G. \$ z3 c
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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' O& [4 k- M: ]- C2 irs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."