[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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- f9 D; J$ q& a- P6 L2 |9 e据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。1 D' j! R- u8 c0 @4 V7 R; p

( {; r7 ]1 E4 W1 e人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( u4 R" I5 e! [0 U" F

; v4 j* l* \: I0 f9 k* e( w8 e根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。7 K# ]4 T: E+ J
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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3 Z1 }* f# k9 E8 d! q! n' O: [# I' @High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. / V3 W. ^! x3 [' a% Z
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区8 k6 M7 y1 {" Q7 E- O; E9 ]

, R* b3 I) @% W& M% nBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 9 C, L9 @9 F: ]" l9 m. v

& B4 O% H/ b7 W$ r  V8 m' n1 v8 CLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. $ l3 \: k" S# D

( q# w1 \2 `2 q) \1 _rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 9 N3 h/ S" h, @- Q- [6 I1 i
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 9 ^$ s" y% v* z, |( @2 _+ `) K. `5 ?, S

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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  F5 t- I& E' u% l$ ?The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区) I7 [# Z$ C1 \( V- x2 }* W) I

4 L% O3 g7 S, sThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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9 B9 L8 e1 J8 X) A( W' K. Q2 o"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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) Z& ~0 T" g, W2 e; p. U& h( Wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."