[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" _; H: m" f4 G( s. t

8 A$ ]$ s* S% x8 O人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。# ]1 K$ k# n+ `. V. G4 c
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。5 `7 [( ]+ @% l* g. [& [, v! A/ X2 |2 L

3 ?& G. t+ y' S6 S$ Z2 W$ Z; Y0 r2 Yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 W+ l& x+ U: [  |% B# ~6 x/ o
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' # b& x; ]4 P8 b3 I3 S! E+ {
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. / l# |5 J3 w2 I6 ^5 D
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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; w3 @# `7 _4 O+ m6 h8 p) E! L" W/ DBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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* e+ e. `/ @7 {; m& t* B人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区8 Q9 V/ t: D& u* v

7 e2 t) L/ X1 M$ q" drs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 0 g: H1 N. k( S& S
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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6 X' i( P" d" p- J7 b"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 4 |! K8 j: N: r
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" K8 Q9 `; Q" j% v! {
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. . M' o' F* a+ W+ f* Y: n

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8 Q' ?8 ~7 d: p人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. & e7 [; _$ k2 x7 P8 Q4 B9 L; n, K$ Y
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ' n2 ~: l- d, \+ l- J4 C$ g0 K  e

1 K& o0 a) U+ w2 F/ k( g0 s人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区* f; {9 k7 f5 D( ~' t
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区& |$ T' B* x6 g5 A. s4 o

4 F6 i) k4 e; {+ ]8 v"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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3 U: x; }: G" S人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."