[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区* E7 v( v; C. J6 I* f3 }; Z

2 i# t8 V* t; Y$ q# A/ J据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 R7 _( ?1 w0 F5 G, \' V
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区# @. y7 b& f% W' S! Y4 G0 U% z4 H
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。- q+ H2 ]- L) U- o+ a: ]
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ d& ]- J; ^( Z8 A9 g% I. L
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
2 v" |; a: L0 n# v/ c4 `Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 9 E, _4 \; z# m; A+ v5 @4 r! Z& m; n
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区! W* p: G* \  n5 ?) i. j
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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( S/ X% I8 A0 `! ?, crs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区2 G# @. V3 M; w: T, Z

  `' s& y4 x* T6 s' Q"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" M9 ~% ^9 G* N; z8 o& V

& Z+ B2 |- _7 n  A人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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( f( o5 K7 n& ?rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 0 T+ T: `7 @, q
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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- w( c- U  y0 f6 AThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. * }5 p" p+ N3 G' S7 i
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ; A+ n) `, C6 |: z# r" C/ Q. l/ X

2 c0 p& W7 B* G; P& s) ]Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 T% E7 t: ^1 a* v3 r

' D- \+ v8 @/ B2 v8 f5 B"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."