[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区+ ~. v6 T, e! b. [

: B9 N0 d: o; X; ], W据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。+ v; s, p8 \; {( L
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。- s4 i4 i2 f) ~% ]% Y# t* b1 }# @

& ]" G. b+ d- U) K% B根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。7 W  Y6 Q3 A0 X( d
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区9 o8 U7 l( R7 l& i2 \9 z7 [

* P  c) C8 Q' B# m! j- X人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
% o( o0 y5 o2 a/ A) kPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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& B) \) y  @3 i1 a" O) z: vBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 1 \. C5 a( h6 X* E7 k

; |/ S2 Y3 f( }" {1 u6 l& p6 V* R2 y人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 1 Q2 x1 E4 S4 s

) A$ [3 w" r  nLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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* P9 ]+ r& e# h8 G* q人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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( r5 r6 i7 P1 W" N( o"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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; ]) g( h8 h  [. wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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4 k! w0 F  _: r0 v: v  a, jSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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7 J, a& ^2 L; I  ~/ `Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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- v, T. d, ^' ?The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ! u% R3 J( \2 S( D, ^
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. # [0 a, w& X- H# E

3 g' D) C8 t5 E4 w  W' j- Wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区8 s2 m( b0 W& A

  h5 @5 N$ c$ a; D) j% h- K+ _1 qIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."