[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。3 S- v4 }: v7 K: p* o! p8 a3 x
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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: T1 W* U: q; d) H2 ?/ ~rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。) |! Z6 ?# Q9 p$ e; q# J
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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9 w2 `& ?% H. o# f) h# Srs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区% b. T  |/ |3 Q8 V2 x, r0 l; V
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 3 N- e+ g/ l) K2 D' P1 X8 M

4 u$ m5 g3 a# T; P, }/ `! \Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". - B& {. k7 M7 |5 c4 ]3 Z' ^+ Z' a
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ' n  y1 q) w, o) ]. @! W
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."   m+ [" o2 d8 ~
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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1 T5 @" ]' S2 h3 {4 u% Nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 2 {% n/ {! k" U" t) [

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. & z7 `  C" U0 `, F6 h

# G( Z8 p. I2 q, ^* ^4 Y5 MThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. - g" R5 S$ \5 V: H

( b0 b! z4 r" G, A' h& f5 JBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. / E- v, ?0 _( i2 u3 O/ s
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. / T/ X0 Q  }' j, J

! I" A( g, i; t5 H- {# p人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."