[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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' n( R- r: ^+ I8 e. {据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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4 O. A& d9 M) f& w5 N. C  S人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区: {8 v9 O8 A# f) O( z- ^

( O  y4 `* J$ c, X8 l研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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  ^3 P" v& y( D/ ~Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 4 G  K0 \; ]& [
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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/ v6 h: Q; d& b6 }But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. # I! h  p4 ]2 |+ ?8 L1 b$ E, m

: n( v" B) S1 \$ sThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 6 [+ ^( d% S/ U$ \7 M6 f

5 t# ~) T, ~6 J. _% R- M4 j" ~# ?8 z, j- f人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 2 y! X. A! i9 I! B; R+ t) c
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. . `6 j7 m. a* Y) l3 l. g
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." * T9 n  y  I: ^; h) K

: h1 F5 i- p$ l4 O6 J; Y" srs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de# b. [6 T: Y0 y! r" D

* T7 }  F0 U: B/ R1 u/ Z4 pSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区: U6 {5 G0 `. Y1 K/ m$ K

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; O, w1 I/ q7 ]rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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/ ^4 h" T' ?8 x/ L6 yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 0 k+ m+ @7 @: R. y
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, `/ u  a2 k" k9 c( \
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 1 P) n4 I6 A2 z5 G: f; d, I7 B0 X( o

: V* @9 g% S8 B% j/ `, f" c3 B"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."