[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。/ z2 f3 s3 C8 p+ T. @

0 T& e; q  I+ ]: D! z据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。% U  E4 t& L8 s/ g& t* q) B
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区# V3 g, S3 V0 V( d/ {
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区1 B$ k6 O9 I: r9 u( h" W* A

2 l% O9 s/ I8 T" ^Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区3 l" }$ }3 |& B
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
% q" E% `/ T. Z7 {+ p8 PPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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4 h% i- t% j4 J& tThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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7 E( P$ R+ Z$ _4 s4 S  `人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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% ?+ G* `. [/ h  b" j' _"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." : H. O( e! w, ]5 M' H0 Z
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ x6 x8 b$ ^! n. \" }/ \

7 Q" O+ `4 X0 z/ ~Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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$ ?$ r- n: w. P% M" W( v& A7 Rrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 0 Q8 E$ a9 _( |
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& _9 L; A, h4 N. l  j* C0 F7 s
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" E7 G' z2 E3 u/ Y/ l: H

! m1 J1 W/ P# m+ R"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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# B4 D) z" V0 v) v人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."