[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' m% K6 F- H* C3 ^& a( d4 L
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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. R7 S3 q$ ]4 {4 \1 f, {- x+ prs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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5 t$ F4 _; z+ c' m  Z! J3 w. w根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。* K2 o/ J; y( E# m9 T$ C5 S
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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  ]; r  L8 o5 G# r5 WWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' ) s+ ?6 v7 A( C- Z4 M( Y) R
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. # \& R$ D  ^; s1 v1 {/ K
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.   N* i. O% O6 Q1 g$ j

4 d6 {' N9 K, c人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. . k! T' J* Z9 L2 r# x2 o3 B' f
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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6 |$ t2 t3 y& s: v; N! M) r人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 7 Q) i* Y% X  U1 q4 {
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ' M% z$ H& |; x; M
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.   _0 I) h6 Y, }" h$ p: t

1 f3 E+ u- N' W' o/ L人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. . g1 E% G" U$ P3 H; j: R3 H
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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, S8 n. ?3 W+ K+ B5 e. k5 C7 U2 b+ k人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. / G6 S; d9 V( C; D* @' h- t

) V0 d- k- p5 j8 ^3 I# B" XIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: F: s7 ]+ I4 c, q* y; y& V* M# [: x7 @
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."