[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de# I! v1 z* ~5 N+ V
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。0 k& o! I% [1 E* e" a0 |! a
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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1 U$ f3 a% u4 c4 I  Q研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。+ r, U  e7 S6 ?/ E

: v' `( }6 u7 q7 g- ^' AWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' ! Q( _0 n0 ^. L: _7 m6 M
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. / i9 g! R% f: @: o# e
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 9 r2 P+ z: O1 F
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ! q1 Z+ J' ?( e( Q" z

8 b5 h9 t1 Z0 t& C  n2 {) x% F"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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/ G3 v( Q! Z# H0 d4 K5 w; s1 b"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."   e+ U& T" W" z% h9 l1 l2 R
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 5 V, N* M& n' q% O8 c6 L
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. " l, m- S& w3 o7 R0 [0 N2 ^
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% B8 [. S: r& S- SAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ' T: G% p  I: s$ Q
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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9 _5 G% X8 I  Y8 u$ ?" U: TThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. % N5 p" Z2 r# S7 M& o7 [
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. * |7 e4 ~5 a7 t5 c5 {
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."