[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。! W7 D$ ]; d. s1 D
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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! ]( u( s6 F% k  l2 g人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。1 l6 k! H% U+ ]8 o4 S6 B- \
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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- ?3 V1 B) D" J% M5 I$ jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' . `0 H# @1 y5 m0 T/ o5 y
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. / ^2 t9 d% H0 I: f& W
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. & G+ Z' N& p) p8 E8 o
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 3 ?6 E1 F3 P* W* G1 m

# @4 |/ |2 {: j, jThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ( B- ~+ h2 b& t7 C1 {# F' Y1 F  G

6 w# b( E# b1 WUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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. s  I/ c+ e6 S. I& CSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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2 p6 k( ?& _4 z4 X' E, o$ j1 U: m# IAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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) t7 V$ s4 K- \4 AThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 0 Z+ z4 B; q1 ?8 D" r

1 p, n/ E& i: J2 L5 p" I! f) PIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. % q8 z: ]8 G! c# _
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区7 T+ r9 l; n- Z3 j7 ?
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."