[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。4 Z! D! r( V+ N# T

) k6 M% {& }" R9 o7 U  u( I9 l4 u据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。) Z+ F3 x/ P) g
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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9 @+ p) ~% p7 s) y5 C  Z) M6 X& A7 E/ f根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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2 t+ s& ~$ e2 e2 c. s3 P: l研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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: p" i. W( `" z8 t& Z2 Srs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
* E0 O( h7 f- Q0 }Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区. u3 F- m6 Q# d
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. % p9 ~5 F- j) \; m3 W
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ) M4 G1 p& w0 Q
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." & |/ _/ w6 o0 N
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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' L' [4 x& b" _Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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5 d1 }, `$ a+ A% v9 A  eAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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8 w: O+ Q3 c8 zThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. , Z* U3 r+ M8 d4 z( P
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 j" ~: f$ q# j( u$ K
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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/ B. a; d$ r0 H" b"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."