[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。4 [: K; d( ?" z5 z) S2 {) d

! r  f: ?$ X- o$ I  b据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区9 W4 z8 w2 A5 F' p6 Y

- m* P) C5 b7 c2 b! l3 K! q研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。: Z8 g1 @4 _: X' f6 N: H1 f$ g3 n
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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) s1 ~+ T' o# W0 P: T  y) y2 i研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。+ V4 N4 w# a( _' D) w

/ C; @; e( @7 G4 J: {# Crs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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+ n$ T$ W, S( b8 N; KHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区6 K3 n8 w( m( c, A( K5 j) K8 U
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. z- D- \  [- y' a1 D5 g

3 @4 {" \6 @, u5 t6 Prs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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7 g) b8 p$ ?) g/ fThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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& R) ~0 B2 X- H- B: T7 W6 R4 H+ @Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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: C% u6 w  @$ d4 y) R& A人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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0 \5 K, q# d& P4 O0 y) nUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.   A9 d6 ]" z4 u" ]

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. . F" u% z& @8 F: u! a

! `9 P) A8 n' \8 M; X, n+ eThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ) w5 x2 |# q7 D2 K5 S/ I
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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& u$ R9 b$ B. ~/ Z6 C; F% _3 B, v1 M' lBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. : D) j. \2 B9 n8 V) X3 ?2 k$ B- e8 e
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 0 I% @- M2 f4 o. ?
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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# J& A2 i* T* o8 E"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."