[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。+ g: g! K& t% n$ d, M
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区) V9 D* b: ?8 v$ h# M
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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- x: C$ I% ~6 E7 q6 f) Srs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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8 Z5 s4 i( G  B% x: T5 w+ E. g0 x/ BWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'   l# I" z* s% V* G4 h+ Q

* u1 e3 n: @( r, d: K; J4 l6 eHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. . r) E4 M, {$ M; w1 w
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  Q" I3 q' N7 D& m
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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; K5 d4 C4 z. q8 K' b. `, Ars238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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8 B$ u* t3 z5 S9 k人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ) G/ }+ v: u( ~. g

& F3 X' F" F" {" |, `# \. ?"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." . ~: c3 `- L$ X
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区$ f5 W+ W$ n' y( P6 T8 R1 ^3 ]% x
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ' l# K0 k/ u8 m* l) A( c
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ! o1 G$ ^% d( _# Y. N

3 ?. V- Q2 K& A% ?; I7 @! b8 HBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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) V  Y( Q; X, J1 t7 ?6 ~$ B  f/ aIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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. z( z+ O6 x& ]8 C"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."