[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区6 U0 b% T2 `8 R

& {9 E2 j  y) f- t* R& T人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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+ h8 Q& H) K% o& w1 p( E# `研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; o# |  W2 F  W

( L/ H- m4 \6 a; m! s) }2 f. h根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区# Z& w; L) v! H$ Y5 H8 w, s3 D

& ]9 H% U# c& p; \) DWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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) `, L7 m7 w6 q- `8 J) M& v! A8 KHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区. v$ h! o- R* q% ^$ h  u) j
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区& K" l1 _1 ^8 T  F

6 I  x* p7 z* [; @3 d! t2 ZBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.   V1 X5 t4 i) T% O1 `
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区3 [* t$ }" {( e

: a" u  H7 K& }, V0 b! _( mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". # c) a4 `* K- d, J! F* \# N8 f. w0 V- U
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.   {& n. ^, R1 ~
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 7 v  N( J! b2 M3 `+ X1 M4 _" ~7 |

; d2 S& h4 A% H( _! I: GUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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$ A. ~3 Y' T  p+ C4 R; KThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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- y) n6 c( v. D- i5 q, S人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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8 H: j: U- [# u& o( d- M& \But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 0 g. T5 R& J5 L+ P

1 _/ s1 f. h& S) ?. {8 P" brs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区9 M" l* j: R7 d8 L
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."