[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。; \4 l$ ?3 W% B3 _, i3 m$ N

+ Q! K: b! j1 I; S, H# J: {; trs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区5 C5 a" A6 X" r! K: G  m# \) `2 B% Z

; {* L  p# {' M0 n1 |4 m根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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( j% B- l& L/ Z研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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; y4 u3 m/ e+ e$ g# l/ KWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' ' K+ E- X1 p8 z7 O  _
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
# ?! `/ L+ {9 g/ w! x4 L! h人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区( f# l$ z$ g% a2 t

' A0 I& m6 q3 {0 JBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ) V7 f- d+ Z$ |# o4 C' x7 P1 ?

* |$ Q& H) Z' W' q2 R6 gThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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* j% C4 c2 y. G' z3 kLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". - h1 W1 f9 U) a) E$ ^* {4 V

4 x) R' y3 M' e"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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  o3 G6 }0 n" M% A' m2 _"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" d+ O9 _5 M7 m! _

( M; _, u+ Y9 r/ \" qUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. . k% B: F; }' @

1 X! p/ B$ ]2 ^7 e$ O人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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% b9 \, N1 r7 h2 A- [3 @+ ]! YThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. . {( {9 A% u& p# z4 J" ~

. C! P, G6 h& i% K$ s* \4 s人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. % o3 z8 T: |$ a* D3 B: n( P6 p
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 9 ]1 i) R$ k( S0 U
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."