[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ p1 X+ ^2 S2 V  d  u) @
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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2 T! k1 @; H9 w8 m6 MWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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$ i9 K7 j' A4 }High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区7 y1 m6 m7 k/ i# q1 k1 F9 Y
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 2 c3 U& U2 S: E* T/ y
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. - \% _4 O1 h2 o5 Z# D- M* b

% ~$ ?- r. g5 V- z7 i3 r人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 3 q% N2 n# s- D4 ^
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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) ?+ |# W' I$ I3 \人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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3 m8 R* [0 j3 f- ~( E+ \( \/ {"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区! H! f5 t8 ]3 E0 o
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. $ X8 l5 @' L; j, |4 p5 @

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' |$ F+ ^8 }' q$ }人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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- [% P0 J" e. p3 b( v) Q+ ?The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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3 y" C  g5 A' b3 I; @/ RThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. : d* y2 I, ^' R) N0 C: J# f' A
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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2 B' g% {( g) y$ Y, {" L/ o7 T"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."