[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。( K- q" R* N# w  D2 }. V; \
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区9 |  B4 e- I4 X

9 x' f9 Q" V2 o. B' b1 C6 B" h' v根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: }6 T0 w0 ?( V8 [  ]/ m
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 2 A6 ?2 O/ v4 [/ \! v* w4 H7 ?5 d# b

6 T- B8 |2 k' P/ M7 g9 AHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
' V- `) R* r# e/ x" x. H; }Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. * F2 z9 O# N" |- u4 S1 l

& ?3 {/ g' V; B8 }But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* O4 p2 m" K7 C) L
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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  j/ X( o* U- e' \rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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& k$ z0 j' }. S7 h) e0 K1 |rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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5 M& w- {9 ^8 e! r/ Q* @Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 8 p- s. c7 r% n3 m% p- [5 A5 P

, g+ z* v: l& N1 S$ vSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. " h2 w* F9 I7 N7 V& H8 z* o7 a4 Z
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& i, a) j/ `- h; r& \5 gAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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! g* Q0 J" j+ n, j人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ Z3 W, v, K2 c8 q0 d, ^

1 P* a; [) E' I' k* f人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. # D7 e9 }2 V$ w& O9 V7 e% z3 U
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de7 O3 o( L' K, i* O
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."