[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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1 ?, y' g* J% x1 K0 @据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区/ ]7 p1 T( O! H; q

2 f5 l+ r( ~& z" q0 @研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区- m+ ^1 D. n1 S' i1 y$ {

1 n# g' N( ]0 }! [# @4 r1 J4 \根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。5 K  {, ]( E0 ~7 Q

) J% n4 ~; i& G7 L3 @! ~人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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6 H  {, X* D6 g) v, [rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
7 T' V& @- p4 tPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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2 C! \# e2 [1 z) n9 \' g' [人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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8 n0 F) O2 q' _& y* z2 v"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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* Z6 w/ ]0 s' |/ v( {6 D, M, P7 c"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 5 B' e1 P/ w* Z9 M& h* e
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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2 b' N/ R$ P& d( A1 g, q0 x: P; A* N1 f人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 [% s8 ?9 ~$ {: G* K

" L2 n* L2 P/ ^# KThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区; S$ e% u4 ^8 f& X

( @  m; I8 k  K6 I# crs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ; {; P$ T4 w$ a" A% y: `! _

" g3 w2 i( `! L' f# N! k& \rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 3 E( h, g) `4 j
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."