[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。2 P5 f! h# u5 n5 L; v7 Q. w( X% D

( j- [+ o4 v. [* |人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。  K1 h6 |* q$ Z& r# ^
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区8 q: J2 H( v5 R& R6 P, ]5 T
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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3 d8 i  V. m( y  R. R4 A) x" H研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' # t: n( i7 L5 m& r# I5 t
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. # C: |. f9 n* m; u& X
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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; T6 p& \3 m1 Q% |8 N  n+ j7 `7 R0 W人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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. c9 Q3 F4 O$ R8 @8 ]# w2 c人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 9 P; Q6 }% k) d: V
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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, e* o# J1 U4 `The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. . U4 u9 X* _7 }5 E+ Z2 [1 M5 g
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. : x3 t6 V( m4 Z6 c& {# P* V; I

1 ?# w( i5 @0 t0 o, Q7 IBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 3 r+ ]$ {! H+ z+ a, m2 \3 W4 {: Y
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 9 ]0 O4 Y# L4 S2 ^- B7 M$ `

* |9 S; x4 U; A' t"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! t9 A* O" n1 ?" z% z, {

) s8 d9 ?' w* z' ?2 y* e"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."