[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。1 X! I+ q& [6 r) L' D

" X% `- y: u9 S据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。2 \6 F0 V% A3 H

5 p2 ^7 @3 d& s8 c) u" |rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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4 k) Y6 P( b- l: z1 a, l* O根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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( ^# Z* b+ d! ~研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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! M( V6 _& U7 W$ O. W5 o) a6 ?人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
/ P: ^$ b; A' sPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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5 ?% ?  C" F5 M, C  E8 KThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. * V4 [+ ], q: }) S
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 8 r" x+ K, t# F" p, n
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. B3 ]  j  e- P4 o" z; N

: F2 y: _1 W( X"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 8 _- U- |0 R/ V' r# o5 A
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.   @! B' G) g- q  ~# U

, q  |3 d; V. g  ~; w人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Profession
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5 f& |: H" k4 W0 {rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. # E' }" i. q6 z; k' }. }1 ?! Y( f; T
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区* _+ B, u. |1 e8 v
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 Y0 T/ e0 y4 L1 e# V% S/ t* v% D

6 O, y+ _$ g+ R$ G" m6 o2 IBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. : K0 P# m1 C  C3 T( o- {, ^$ H

2 b/ R1 T, q; j6 |/ J0 x4 C人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. " f: i: x; N. m

, Z2 y4 n, K# h2 b- h$ `' j+ N"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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! s3 m! `: M+ t0 K2 ~# a"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."