[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。! o+ C  h4 L/ L6 j: U0 ]
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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. D8 r& `* @, b) q根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。5 H$ {' c# s4 `
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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# b! K+ x: k) u( I4 v1 R# IWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' - o5 h0 _, |* U6 ~, _/ S. l

' F# @! g$ y5 k  G9 }9 V! OHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 9 |1 O  ~1 L) _5 ]4 ]9 s
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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. }  p' _+ T! w% Frs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. $ N) J3 @/ I7 a& [! d! V5 d

4 a# u! J- W  X2 b' V  Z! f" Frs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ) ^" M( N1 e, B

7 p* m) D/ `; R0 q' \* lLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区. p: N6 ^6 [; m5 z

( A3 x4 q0 R: v, I0 V% g6 C% w"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 9 U$ v( n1 a6 O  k0 n
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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4 L3 y: g  s# U# V% r) xSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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& Q. h$ p2 J. DAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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2 d+ R+ H: T) ^1 l# K/ \! }& N( e) OThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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- {( X$ D9 q! l" \* }rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. $ ~( k8 _' y. s
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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" q/ i2 W8 u1 K6 U6 t8 {rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 3 y% y4 h0 l) ?/ {. Q" W) i
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 G* T2 s  w6 j3 e* k. j

; Q+ U1 ?/ F5 ~rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."