[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。; P6 b7 @" \3 a  U; j

: ^; j( G$ g# n据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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4 c  d- z( B1 s9 v+ u研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区) W1 m" }+ l7 J8 }3 d
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。; \  {% A! \) p- n

1 ^+ N: e4 D% I6 ^( ]* P9 U研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。+ |/ g! Z- s. l! N; v$ d0 |) ?  R* n. g
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' - u" R: F5 ?  m; `  A  d: ?

5 W  \' K8 y, b& ^/ A1 tHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 9 K9 o& z7 ?. h
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 5 K+ P& u/ T4 K0 X2 G
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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- R  ^1 L" g$ }! q0 x8 `0 W"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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  H' J# m% V$ f0 x' ESix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 2 W+ ?' c9 n+ `& a! ~
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ! D" \" x9 F- y- G, V3 v2 B; u
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. " [* O1 Y/ q6 Z+ ?( t9 a
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区# K+ q9 j3 G, {) u- w3 H

' S# G7 U8 s9 Z% h"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区. Y& ~* a- X3 Z; |, n. U

8 w6 L3 _6 X9 u7 X3 m; h9 c"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."