[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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$ f7 y- P4 l5 b; ?0 n9 k- @8 n人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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) U8 F: U6 e9 a( Vrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 d' S. g4 B6 O6 G
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。! k+ J3 d& _3 s9 V8 L

4 L4 B, ^. b9 u1 G( B0 \* K) n3 D人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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5 B' C, A& P- d$ _# ?+ |1 brs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' & q1 w4 k) k! q$ Y; e

/ w4 Z0 I1 M. n2 l: jHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
! s3 q2 s$ V& C: A4 {; @* t4 I# [' zPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 5 F+ f4 t3 P, B
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de7 ]0 A7 y& Y: I% T4 F/ G7 R

" |0 L8 I( |+ Y' l人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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: w, J# `, z9 E7 ["We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: W  c! P; f+ y& `
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ! J$ r0 N$ U* o
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ! ]4 t! Z& ?1 G; u4 Z) Y, T, i
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8 j6 z% E& d9 a: m# s! urs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. , o$ f* }! [, K! O

5 z1 c9 B5 T+ \# x$ O# QThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. . E% e0 s) u; L) a  c& t

& `6 F" s- j) W: n; j7 h* ]rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* W: ^9 i/ L! a/ n7 t" D
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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  p1 X" K' z; m9 eIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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. V) o" y3 n+ d7 J1 [% U人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ) g- Y6 I8 D- T: J0 \6 u

1 O! {% K$ h! J* d6 O9 l/ y9 c1 z"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."