[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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# p/ B8 z: d: d- u! a; c据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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3 N- k. o2 c' f' k6 E人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。& u# T# w) k! R3 o& T1 s; O

* e4 a& B8 S) W8 Y8 |, ?: Srs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。# i/ Z, G, P1 ]1 T/ `# Z, j. [
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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' K) n5 d5 @7 ~' |% dHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ) \+ _; v' @; [/ m
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. % A0 |  T. {8 U# e# |, e( Z0 g7 r

6 F$ @2 H7 \" n5 l7 q* qBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区' v) s6 _- {: u( _+ |3 z" w; F
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 0 ]. H1 n1 q9 C

- l3 k' A! F2 O# b/ Q# u/ T"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." " H4 t. S! g! T; d0 r9 E  E

: Q0 f$ J: b1 N6 f1 pUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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/ b  u* L5 C; ]/ crs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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( \' g) Y( @& @! o: S% Qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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% [' R2 n/ z; m' M, M% ors238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 T4 {0 X/ @& X  a# `4 Z- P

8 p- t: d! S: o( g1 [rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. & k& j$ Q# s; A, X' e8 h
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."