[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 h5 ~' g! @5 ]  _2 q7 T0 w

9 X, |4 b; W* d' L" L' ^据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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$ Z3 K8 ]& `1 V/ m$ D' J/ M. B2 `根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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- \3 o% q8 T) b* _研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。  f. b) m2 g0 y  ]
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
5 C/ a7 ^) f5 ~9 I% HPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. * E& U1 ~; \4 [8 H) f

) t2 C9 W7 N; I) C& s: [The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 D- \3 Y! {( I* |% V1 C

" J. ^8 l+ K2 B: Z4 R! p% C4 ^+ YLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 2 M3 ?2 v* I+ S" j: {% V! e2 C7 s
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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( r. X( ~- o1 Y9 z4 x* oSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 9 T7 X' ?7 D$ f7 D

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" y' ]8 A" L6 `, r
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. + w7 y9 |4 F0 S, i
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" `- G8 \. m$ d2 U" z6 d4 Q- e
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区9 C; T) y) |) B' ~& I
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."