[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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1 ^& Y* c) D" w3 D" [: {' ?人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 U- S8 Z8 C2 l. F

( U. }6 z- ^8 h0 M研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, s3 I) P5 u& D: }0 O

$ t# m) l- ~# Y+ @研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区' \/ B7 d; p& w+ _6 [* `* e
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
) B! [7 X: e0 D0 |+ L$ hPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 T: S- T% Z4 J; R* z' g
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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2 e" G; `& C( S! P2 _+ B8 qLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 v' I9 }. [& |: j; v1 s
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." * F. w$ A: G& O  O8 E6 r

& @5 c' J# t* g: O' A6 P; C: trs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ' {% V) ^% s, z
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' q2 {0 K( v; c8 E" q, @0 ~

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$ ]5 m  |7 G  [* R/ @* f6 zAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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3 W. z3 G" J1 V* o* XThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 4 ^/ P- `+ T, E0 Z& o
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 3 v6 S; p7 |. q5 ]2 G8 K$ b

+ |8 v: p$ W- O5 m! bIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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* |: E  p5 u3 i0 N3 l* \. k0 {"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区8 m" X9 l( L/ z/ k! P" }
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."