[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。8 D6 _9 _8 k$ l% o. E" }9 m3 ]$ i
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ I3 a* W2 o2 G

9 X1 L: {/ _3 I2 x" o; u( B0 S根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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& m" ~& {2 R* _研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。9 F6 D. _, H/ G! @
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区3 ]$ v6 q- y3 _1 K0 m4 ^

7 x. T+ w3 ~0 r% T  ^6 z) X人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. # }: j/ `7 j0 T7 r( T- x3 W; h& w
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. : r7 N  c6 W: L2 J
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区* t6 x  f0 H+ R+ f9 }
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ' ], U$ ?# p3 F3 w# Y- a  w6 g
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区5 n# J/ L+ x1 m7 E4 q3 j
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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! B% X# q( j* F- D6 F0 w# `: krs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ! m) \2 Q" {* ]3 o$ f! I7 Y
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! m3 Q/ w# `& w' ^, ^

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区# Z/ D9 r; q9 z  P/ e7 v; w% [
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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0 z0 m: U0 j0 t" A6 A' B) Y. wBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区5 v, v( a0 d6 H: K+ J/ A* Q

- m1 A7 R: V, M  o人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ; y# y# L( }( c$ G  R# P
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."