[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。: k4 H) N2 v; k9 h" D& Y  \
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。# y  U1 E6 x7 R; C0 [, U

0 n- U0 E% M6 Q+ ]( X8 A4 v& g研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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/ W3 J  [& z1 S* S& b1 q9 @9 v: o人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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! e! \0 F5 {' JHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
: O; x( S0 v; d  \9 S3 ^5 iPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. , q/ b# k: u" ^+ M5 Q# e& H

" M6 g4 p% o7 o' }But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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9 c- @" M! r/ q. E9 nThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". . K6 V" S1 h. }* |8 l: k

. ^! r$ [& X  Y, }+ o"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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2 A% s! }0 ]3 r" Mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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0 I% K$ P1 t' @3 H! b9 Y' u- S人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 7 t9 ~$ A# P0 Y, _4 T
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+ h* \% O4 ], ^7 h, HAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. - W* u! }! m, Y7 z
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ ?! X0 |: `# N+ O- ?: ~9 @& B' e

* _  j' |: O: `) \- ]+ Lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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6 \& K7 \4 w5 `; j8 [1 s"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."