[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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4 o6 N/ N+ z% p  h据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。; I/ G6 f. G: L8 k0 f# u

+ j; v: R, u% L# {+ u9 N& U研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。2 H- C& u5 f/ }: k8 M; L( y
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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: \* E7 C& N! B$ lWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 `6 V  y& \  `% x# d& u+ S
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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0 q- {* [3 _5 ]$ [* u人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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9 {& U4 l; ^8 l' z/ Q; o, s& u+ H"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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) G# S7 J' R$ ^" {3 G& Q1 z! l: Zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( v& ?& U" z/ J0 |3 i3 q( ~5 g
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. " Y6 [# G3 A6 H0 i9 h! x

- c) C& o  Y! ?3 lThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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! r- A) a* a7 F5 @( P6 ZBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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* Q8 O3 G; l" Y9 R7 C# y7 }$ bIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. - D4 C" R3 ^0 l; X& ?
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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' b; d* K) v6 U7 K! u% }; Ers238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."