[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。, R' A. S( v& a4 o) q

. k. ?, I0 W, M8 w. J5 t8 t5 [3 [人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。% U, v6 P0 U6 S( p7 {) Q( r
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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9 o. X# e, s# f6 Q! }4 C) FHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ! |5 I% A5 R) G3 W
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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! ^6 x" B  h" b. }4 ~" W5 Y# H/ T+ s! VBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.   V4 {1 I2 P0 [  n. t

, ?3 T! Y- K' X2 w* J2 `4 f: LThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 1 j! M3 r3 e- L8 S5 p( g3 h3 G2 }

  l& c2 J4 o, ^6 v+ F4 o4 I# TLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". $ v8 L7 Z) l" D  V

, ~4 P, J5 h- c( V7 d# m9 `rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. / g% s1 t/ Q% k& {3 ^! l
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." * a6 W0 Z% M0 F/ k

; m: a9 `4 z9 |, dUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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7 g/ k+ C, }- S$ P3 f2 drs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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4 y0 T- R* }- O! g, K人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. # u3 o' j7 T* y" N0 t

& {) u* c, T: w9 \rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区1 _! c/ Z4 A4 p5 s  y
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; `  ~( S9 z. l+ c1 y3 s# c
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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  f' V! G, S9 U" v' LIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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  B8 w1 M; A, K) ^6 ?' ~( e1 s"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."