[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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4 u2 s" n1 i! ?) y人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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2 u: T- w4 [- Z5 |rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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" D; O# ^3 R/ _研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ N9 Y5 }: z) Q0 s% N" k

, q, i+ c  k8 H5 u  z9 C( B/ F% CHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ! ?5 L- ]7 S4 x! E+ M
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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8 P6 U; W8 w7 q8 ]1 Q$ B- L! Q7 s人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de7 `. q9 s1 p9 ^1 X3 A
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 n. X. ]1 A$ T* l; F# j, V

* B0 v0 l6 c1 T- wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区8 V* R  M( y. F' I. X- H
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. - S; X7 i/ q& H7 @* E! m8 o

( P: @7 w3 z* v1 u: x1 h% e"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." # M" `: a+ o; z2 ^% z1 l
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ; N( u/ N6 L+ A6 G# P& b! e
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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( \& Y9 T" o" S" ~Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( _8 b3 k; U6 U

- x8 U9 Y/ x0 l7 b4 {) k9 mThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. / m& R; ~7 \2 J- h

" J' w) Z' ~' i/ |& O, U4 l. a: i. NIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. - i6 {+ O( m, v  V! Z8 m1 m
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."