[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。/ @( b1 l0 n4 B+ L

' l' [7 v9 W: b; a) h人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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" h3 d' D3 d$ ^5 }% [, q人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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0 o" V1 T  ~( j* z9 C根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。; g' p' H, D5 U) ^& M
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
4 |/ a/ @; v' }: g% E( D3 U8 rPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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* Q) j# p6 F5 R  {人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 A) z. x) w: i& ?

4 |! J) m1 ]7 |# E$ D3 aThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. . n! I: F. J7 G7 i' y

. Q# W. \6 ^" Z1 J9 e) cLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 9 p% V* `8 N/ \  Z) p0 @

1 L0 R' |/ {5 i2 ["We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." - j4 M% J# G& ^; p1 Y
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. . C1 r& E) v+ @5 ~: n
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Profession
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9 Q3 N( x" P& }5 R1 d8 ZAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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2 P, H5 \' h: [. Z, t' lThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. . q+ @! {/ J; ~2 B7 K) R$ p
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) T% Y  E+ s0 E

' a- k# j4 z; E$ I2 U) {0 PBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. & j* |- f0 w# i; Q
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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8 B' ?( l3 m" S' {"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."