[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 H1 U; F  ]8 J3 _+ Z
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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! K2 ^1 m; U' q* ?; M7 e$ D研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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, V# y. y, S, `- Q3 [根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。) h$ O; b5 l) ^$ |7 C3 p

, U5 M' f; c: n+ Z5 a1 tWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 2 S. M/ @$ x  _& e( l# @9 l* n) Y
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
* u$ f& ]* [! M; \5 f& rPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. & t" ]. `- u1 H  U$ @
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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8 N7 _0 b3 e& B3 z# I$ XLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ; m+ ^( A( S/ b; V
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区" Y9 `5 f# B3 t: x, x, ]; P

  S5 \: ~: I- ^& k"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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6 ^4 ?" M$ K+ K9 P" K$ WUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区0 J5 C# G  X4 L

. A- q, V) Q8 T- j人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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1 Q- n- q% I' y8 Urs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. + H+ i6 P' {  [0 ^* f) B

# P  i+ Y1 N& f* K人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ) O6 Y7 e' C+ p2 q/ h: |

1 L7 m" s8 \  jIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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0 B7 `0 S0 {( |6 Y' R人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区: r: N8 z' v1 _# \  m

& W- @6 s& R- E. J6 B  e"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."