[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。& ], \; U7 {) E4 G8 e- f
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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: _$ H. R5 _, n. q% w人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。1 L9 t! H( C% E; P' o, h# ~

  P# b/ H" T, Y$ rrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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! B  X% I! ^: z$ \, aWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
3 m% {# D8 d) F" H& [Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  N/ b; H4 f1 |* |# O) v7 f! s, ^
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区' n5 ?+ U5 W0 }) R7 c" f
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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1 Y8 l6 r. }6 {  brs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."   V2 y  G/ s- K$ c8 Q

) y8 S2 ?0 [- ]6 b8 DUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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$ B+ d+ a$ ]) }8 G7 \- bSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. + u9 w, T; S5 W& F; E$ [

5 Z, L3 f7 `' w) a$ aThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区4 X( h9 Z- z* N, f7 S( l( B
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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' N. n: [' w% ^. d: u. c- ~But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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3 g/ k* B' V9 C: d# mIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 3 r/ O4 O# n; `6 l. [( k$ e  k! v

* ?7 W1 H$ `( Y$ g  g+ \$ n; b; B5 u- r5 j"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."