[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' m' F. `4 W4 B/ y8 h) k+ G

& P' B" n3 }* u据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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6 N7 z* J0 F( i; e, E6 s4 {. D根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。: {" d+ d( o! P

' R$ ]- O. T$ Y4 v; e人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。+ f8 P8 T9 l6 y7 O( K2 X
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区8 T3 b- ^! i  O
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ' s7 v1 i: n, A# B, j4 \- e
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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: C5 ~3 @: |* L% X9 s( W. ?rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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# Z$ ~3 I) T# u6 v7 \6 ]Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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0 ^* F, z# U9 v0 S1 h/ X9 x# M; H"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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0 o' w( f( X, K: c4 r4 g" _" ^* q"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 u3 `. ~9 P$ }( V

6 k# a& {& h$ nUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. % g2 d/ _) Q9 q! O! D' |4 E

  [) i8 h. e' M. n+ u- C- zSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 5 g2 p* K% G4 C0 A/ Z, m

8 m3 r9 e7 J) x! p% o7 e" vrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. & i; Z' x5 m+ S6 z" t4 E
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 4 I( N. C3 w8 K  n. u- X# S. T, y$ f
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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4 }% F$ a! A' y: Y0 |5 nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."