[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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4 P0 K9 ?9 X& e6 @7 ~" Y: k( d( Z研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。7 }# k1 L; {, F' I* L& }
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区* w0 d4 F( L  C4 b
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。/ R/ J: P( ^1 T' h3 i& F6 k; {* `

5 }/ {2 y, C/ X% m8 ?Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 6 i7 J" A6 r5 L& @7 _

( F0 `; U3 s3 c8 N/ S人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 9 i8 L3 a: I, l6 c7 ]
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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8 M1 e, J. i$ xBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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* G6 _. h! Z5 dThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. H% a' F8 w/ `9 Y5 W, A* ~

" ^* P: w9 c: s+ i' S7 c  N"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 5 h% Y% x+ P( c% n. \3 {% \' K: X

$ A5 q) h/ Z" k% g"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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. E! X8 h5 z$ d* E3 Q6 d8 w7 ^rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 3 d/ e& R4 p$ Y7 e# q( e% s8 F5 H

; n; {9 w- M; N# Q1 v7 |rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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! \1 n. _% F; g' r% frs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 3 c9 R% s8 d" y

. d% N$ D( r, w. I9 h7 eThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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" x% f0 r- ~* KIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区, s+ j8 [6 n& ]% F" w  f1 \- F
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."