[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de# t: A  Q+ Z# U5 p/ j. E3 i
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区. K1 e' s. d0 T

: s  q3 s1 u: C# g# |( L根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 3 b- v6 g$ n. g( Z+ z1 Y
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& Z( F7 F2 m- k
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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5 _1 J( V3 |7 ?0 \1 {# k! JBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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, y1 ]7 v, G$ j/ r0 p! XThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 1 F/ I% P# M4 `1 Y$ s/ \7 K7 V7 @6 q
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 4 w! U/ ^, J) S3 k  G
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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. [. R& ]* n( r& r"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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- F1 T/ h- i' u1 g0 F- oSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  }8 |5 x4 u: i/ u: x
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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$ g- S! R7 ~$ ZThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% \1 v, |" h' _  X4 y
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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4 i  z5 Q7 L# s. OIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. / ^4 _) u& x& C* r( u  V' q  `

0 @0 V4 ~! c0 s( E7 P"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."