[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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' M4 V  o/ e3 Y0 i研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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: c3 V  u& Z2 @+ k; I根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。* `" h  q" T& G9 \3 a# m9 o( a
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ( M5 b9 p/ p3 n: W* H

* A! z; Z6 J; v+ A7 Wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. " g- o4 C' E! w; Y1 A! H% v
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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0 a" X3 v1 W* |人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 6 }7 z7 V: l6 ^/ u9 f& \! v' G

  U3 ?1 k3 w0 u6 E6 \7 ?6 WThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 3 W5 w$ j8 N( t4 n0 G( R3 E

. L; Q; R4 d( D6 X' g" n"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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3 U- r$ u) V' b2 R" \"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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# m. [1 o( b7 w/ OAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. $ C5 `; s  r& I8 m# w! K3 H( L2 w$ s# ?
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 6 L* d; _* r* G- v; Q

9 j( {7 `. r& I+ q% i2 ^6 _0 AThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 7 E6 A1 B( j) m- N4 `4 H# J

4 k' y- {* Q4 |! Q; s  V& a# k6 c* A"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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+ O& D+ P  b6 Y$ Qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."