[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 G$ y/ H- w% R; D7 {8 F

2 s% L( J# ?9 O研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区& ~" K  `7 h1 r0 o" u- k

3 O8 A2 P8 M( V: F+ _: T根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区' a8 A& s1 B/ P8 q& v

! M4 c$ X5 c  Z- r- a% s! F& P. U人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。( Q: X5 c, C: v! k8 o

* H1 M. @: U+ |7 p' b! R" B/ l9 T  Xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 9 E/ H6 w$ d0 N  G  p0 p( s& K- T

( G" v! T/ ^" a* u/ t( r$ i. j# PHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
! h8 j6 L+ Z0 Q: ~* s' \人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. B9 D& P* H0 Q+ ^+ C- o0 U) g; D

. y: ~( Y/ {3 ]3 y- c  Lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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% X5 J0 i% R* b( ?, MThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区7 T% B$ D$ H/ K: h4 `5 X

$ W# y* o, h/ v; B& X* Y7 ?( bLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". / P7 s6 l& Y) f  d+ q  O

, G2 a) C$ z, T9 a" {  N8 b% b# o"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 6 u5 N3 m; Z2 v

2 Y& v6 U( y9 ~& BUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- Q% v" }! F+ j: k, g
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8 v- \* E) A: |( z8 s# fAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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5 {( Y2 Q/ T6 k9 D/ h1 z人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ( M& o7 j: U; h3 @3 ?6 \
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. & B$ ~; x" n$ i
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( p" Z0 _9 U9 S. {
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."