[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。7 M6 z1 W! z/ L

- i# g$ Q4 ^3 n/ V$ ?6 `+ a人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。) E) x, w+ n8 P2 q* n8 ?

3 O% ?. b5 X$ q5 Vrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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5 Z6 c% Y$ s5 k1 ^" L* I/ h研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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+ O8 a2 H$ W! _3 B4 Q7 pWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' " H# C& }- M- O( M# {' s1 _* R/ g' t
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. # Q1 L' u' \; }# q6 T& T5 V' o
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区$ ^% ]" }* `4 \2 t7 v# M

: p* a. y# _7 r' C2 h/ tThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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2 [' u. J; l1 `( |! U- D+ v9 s人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区; S, B2 D. u- G7 t2 b" ~

. n+ v- O( U  A9 H人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区0 `' D4 b: {- v! N
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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& C+ n! j) [3 r9 z' ]rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 9 @3 J& m2 z# \
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ) q$ q0 c5 ?" [+ g8 W  E9 i

& ^- ^2 q1 e2 _- h+ f& C, N& lThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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& }# P. n7 D: C& W, O: T1 Z, KThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. " L: G+ {: L, t) d
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 7 k0 \1 n9 B' N) E' x) [# V

$ a5 M% b- J! e' t2 q4 Irs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ ^" l" K9 V2 I3 S3 q

  i: I9 p: H' }9 d2 \rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区8 i$ b: d5 k4 l( R. E; z1 Q
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."