[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。3 f" C" i; @! G& ?6 K1 W8 n7 }

' l) H# h7 d6 ?. grs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。1 n" b3 g1 \$ a* M+ ?& u

( U* c- d7 x9 T* srs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。* v( ^4 b  P% w/ ?# r

- P) o+ d" s: D  t% C+ j3 K研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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8 O9 o+ F8 {" @6 }; R7 d: e9 _High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. % c- K% O3 r  i' i- b3 j$ N
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ; l4 }: F: m: @1 p
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 5 I- x( k; q: U$ B* d
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 3 r0 U0 N( {4 S# d- K# b% W/ F( K

, Q0 i8 j7 _% m2 \3 OLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ) i* v, z; v5 C6 ^- a' `# _  y
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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! W( h" @2 b! t- p/ F- a"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." - X: t6 m9 j# j( o

6 K3 X; o+ D/ h/ ^Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 8 z+ f6 b  F" g2 P# L9 v  D7 U
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 2 N3 J: `8 k# H1 @, C9 M: `/ f

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% H2 R! Z! x) K人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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: e/ {7 ?& F. R4 GThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区7 u2 R+ w" I) l" F* ^+ g

* s8 P7 d! ]9 f' }5 P0 M2 _The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ! l& Q/ n$ i2 |# E* O
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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% s$ o7 s: H/ D! t6 \, ~Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( X- i+ B7 {* s' I
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. $ v& v4 ~) _: d. i1 _2 F% q
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."