[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区3 J  ?  b) ^3 g0 ^% e
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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5 P( J4 K  M4 l4 l7 uWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 2 {$ S- B3 C8 D3 O/ A5 g
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区) z2 a5 _/ m5 Y# C! m
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区9 ]% O3 C$ b! ]$ a  L; [: U  @

  ]" L0 m7 _1 [: b% Q6 q' r8 j/ t; dBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". # b2 E; b; e. D* h; C/ \# m8 w

9 o' C. L) l) Q' V2 nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ! x, m2 s8 N% s- M' a
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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) u* v# X! L" wUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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& J0 [# K8 i7 S9 ]4 crs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 9 A( ~3 v; ?9 B; T+ C, R
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# p8 ~( V: X, n/ V4 S- UAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. : A0 |" v# M9 }! N- e$ P
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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7 u3 j" @# I6 H. Q; N+ MThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 2 `$ ~- x0 |$ M/ N7 Y. ^
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. . Z$ t, l. a/ c

9 U: V' T3 n  W+ k$ e9 P1 e人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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9 K+ K% t. @2 X8 L6 W" n"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."