[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。! b6 E( A; f+ X, C  U: }0 E4 a

% e* O8 R) E! |, d研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。* C% q  H; ?# p' |
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。% s! A( e& o1 {( Q
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。8 V/ j' Y5 y/ o; N* Y( p
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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5 B% p$ |: v8 r9 y$ \# UHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区8 u, M/ `+ z, G; i; |5 h
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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4 W* Q4 K# a7 }3 m1 ]人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 8 h2 t; d; H$ c  r! |

2 p$ A5 F) m8 F! g) B* CLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 0 l+ R! ?1 Q' c2 l2 _
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区# B; l' q# F: Z- f
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区5 M; H# P" D- k) i* w9 y

3 ?9 V5 z3 P3 ?6 ]1 e! DUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. " W9 m0 o' @- R8 d  g# K

* m5 E" u$ y  D2 `# Z4 Y, qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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6 J: o9 A- i$ \% Xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 2 m' G# S2 @! o( D5 E
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 v+ ~1 l  T+ c6 G# m) h8 B1 O

: s4 ]0 Z$ P! C; U! _5 c: g2 g! qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. : ?9 d5 i- }, w, d! K

) l$ [* M  }2 u$ m5 m5 p' e8 X人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de7 M; M0 B- U  m. g

! f5 ~, V- x$ U! |rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."