[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。4 `0 i( b/ A5 _% B8 A

* J* X1 q* g: U6 I0 trs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。. n( ?' L" {& p, ~% A" O# j

3 Q" f& t- {8 @* ]/ |, srs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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  u8 H* T; |( D+ D+ Q根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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: \* C, J% M& A# e! `5 F& m研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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' y8 J4 f; K  m4 |3 R6 FHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区$ ~! h3 Y( u, v' G" J
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 b3 i# D2 }+ S) o# c
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. " [' ~" U! L  V. d8 Z. M! c2 i
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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4 }2 H+ n3 u. B! mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ! `0 F# o# y. P. i
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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' l, E! m$ a/ hAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区' ]. k6 ?1 G3 I2 V7 w+ }" Z
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. " A. \# N7 |: `9 x" ~  |
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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: u+ Q; v: e  y. f3 e3 k人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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- a0 |0 K9 R6 E- J' J3 gIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. . B5 ^! Y) s. Z7 O# ]5 P

/ M+ Y" v9 d8 r  U"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."