[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。, }9 r3 k% Q+ Q; l/ |/ V3 ^
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。5 X: O* e! c/ @+ o
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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/ X  B' P- D' N+ }6 s根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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4 \3 ?( k1 R: I1 O5 _: U人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 1 V* a0 |; ]+ J& V# {4 {  j
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 7 i, x2 O' W1 w6 Z; n; `4 ~& C
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区: F3 g" W7 y" P& T; `

0 i! t: }$ l/ a' Q9 ^But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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0 X* _4 Y% X  A人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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6 g- b  S! l- Q0 GLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. # b/ j" g; ?4 v8 J2 H9 }
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ( i1 M1 D. ~  i

- ?4 M9 P" Y6 E: J, Q: a) VUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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) [0 o6 b" Z! R4 {9 DSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 9 @  W! m2 l3 X9 W

+ Z; i; b. Q/ C& f0 Prs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.   W. t7 t3 [5 }

4 L7 X! H9 q, t  L3 U! {The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区" ]9 V  O+ v( f

0 @5 V0 X* B/ z$ }: d9 O* L人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. % I, G, `9 c4 m2 u( i- G, D

7 D9 R6 i8 s* }1 S* WIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 }' M8 T$ ]' S  Z( l
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."