[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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4 F* {: w# M6 G' j& C人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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9 y* M" b# j' L人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 W) X, r3 e: D8 e6 m

8 ]' g# ^% q: D( o/ E3 @研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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: A& r; t0 P5 m6 s人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区" F' A- [8 h% I
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ! Z- V: E+ C) G; r

9 s8 c! I4 w# T* [3 L人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. : C6 W# f. s: h, \' s4 Z9 M
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 W( M# F( N& @( n- J

5 e) r, C: k/ U" [Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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- i- B  s) Z" Q/ ?  U1 t" e"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* d' R3 e# b. s' n; ^, K6 j( D
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 X2 a+ X! h7 h0 w8 P5 v! n
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区9 T( F3 N* b( h3 p, b
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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* p% Y) t8 p% UAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. * j6 a& p8 m1 B
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 3 j) Z  N6 K; J  p. U- w
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ; \/ X1 j2 R" ~  z, `$ F' e- q

. n+ [7 p$ y+ S& J) S9 mIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. - H! m. K, w2 `& X9 L* W# M
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ ]0 U1 S% X1 `) ]8 F) c5 u% x% M: R6 }1 K
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."