[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。+ f2 I! w8 G: Y! H
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。3 ]: d" i3 u0 J+ {2 b/ D0 n+ P/ x
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。; U$ O/ o0 I  H4 B0 W7 n# ~

$ a0 ?  `" v+ a* W- ~根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。. W& q  F( S# J* ]4 H
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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8 U( w1 ~$ t  E, J- h1 Vrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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, p1 g* a! z% A" OHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
' `7 y' P! k! d4 h& |2 A人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区; k. o% _3 v& X+ @% h- N
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区( ]" W* @7 V( m0 o1 _+ T% O6 N

# A/ V' I6 u$ ["Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." : a( o& H1 _6 `. ^# y2 r, Y

- T+ w5 R. ^' O/ w9 G' S# |' S; IUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区; l* p8 J, o: D8 M5 S' g: J0 D* `( f

; O  r7 o$ f3 q2 H5 y+ ASix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. : A6 l. u9 e. y: K
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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# H9 `- l* e8 q; n. QThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区, A( T/ r! z/ }; u7 H
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."