[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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" x/ M8 Q4 f9 r( b1 w+ k1 ^& v: d2 k据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。8 s, f; }5 m9 U$ u/ _9 y" Y" J$ B( _

2 W; i# j+ E, D研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。2 r( z' J1 o- w7 ~" d8 E  a

! g+ B4 M4 ^; @) C3 B6 Z# Q8 Lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
( s' _5 [9 p* e$ ?  I* W$ |+ X5 i人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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7 Q' j" `" `  W0 Y$ Yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 5 U1 l: C+ H' p! p( T5 U
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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5 `2 w9 d# Q1 N"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 7 q/ Y5 s8 {% Q4 x0 t

' |9 G1 ~4 b4 P8 j. @"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 9 U" ?4 [, q& v0 N
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ! ~# \$ }" I. M3 q
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. : l8 Q7 A6 \2 g% d. ^9 X
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 q9 D; n( l. g$ T) o

' v5 j0 q9 ]& e! h& a( X6 \" m5 o3 aThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. - J, L; ]* H  \' b# M! S. {. q

& X8 o0 ~+ i" {4 Y. mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. - y1 Y1 E6 b. M0 x

$ |) h" Z5 X' Z' K# @" Z1 @' E人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. # u7 g7 O. V% h+ Y4 y+ c* ]

7 N  @& ^" j4 h' G6 Z  V"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."