[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区3 u% W0 C' u+ `* w# C$ c

  w- L9 \. ~% q  w( A! I8 t人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区2 m% }8 x( q, m9 N7 C3 [( p! T
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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; W1 O2 y) c& T, E" BHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区; M; O+ `! G/ M
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. & s0 {! k: W5 y+ t- {. w

) m1 x8 a- n: E4 eBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 2 l8 T! ]& k: j( z

* y- |6 x$ }6 G; n/ H, eThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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4 K0 K0 k5 k. g9 S" A/ N* Jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. ~& s6 l8 G: P& w. y+ [

, V; _5 {7 X9 T7 Frs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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$ p& N' d; I$ M( C/ n7 U人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- L9 t) h3 v) p9 R: W1 D) T- l
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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$ M, }' i( J& c# n( Q1 w3 e  d2 P& nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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+ v( I$ @1 G; T1 h2 S' m, sThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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  ?$ Y1 }8 \/ O$ n+ p5 Drs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- c: ]0 k/ m/ T! L. {
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.   k9 j* J2 a% p( _3 }- P6 m5 j
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 F/ Z9 u- g9 z2 P8 w

) @5 X6 h$ }+ O" T- Q9 s# n"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. Z- a( b" g7 ?1 J, i* k& u

! [! Y' f& a- h1 S人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."