[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。, P0 x5 h0 {: s) T$ h
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 m3 T/ @" i5 z6 b+ ]
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。4 K$ {% r4 B& X  {( B' H
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。& H# y( I- I2 D) D( z* {
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ a9 E; F2 U- a6 a0 ^  c
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区* ~1 E2 A" Y1 O$ U- [" j# H

8 z% i% F1 t0 y" d# @5 frs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ' |8 G0 e# l$ o+ `* a) V! _
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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9 E2 z2 y0 {2 d! X5 @7 f0 F, }But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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. i! V/ s$ E9 _/ yThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区8 Y( h, }' ~: Y2 Z" w4 \

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: M& j9 b. o% u8 q; C; Z"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." " q5 g& I. r. `7 d( ]. |8 ]) K4 r
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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4 u( n2 W+ l( a4 U- _1 Irs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区) I; k6 `" v; x3 ~9 g. q

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ( P& x) S: H2 F+ S4 o7 f4 O- o' K
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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' A. v! b) t% E0 \The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. Z) H3 M4 \5 V. `% m
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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' u) r- I# B4 U% G: r! `Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.   @* B; v: G7 W5 R7 b
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."