[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。6 j3 b' z+ @4 S, o+ c
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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3 l& M- r' F( _. N: a- Q, \) d研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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, N! K/ f4 Z: b# }Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
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3 [0 c) o$ o$ B' cBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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, }# ]; x, [& I- c9 Z人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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& d: c8 i: C4 i. f) u6 {/ F# iSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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% t. T! B6 `" {Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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4 @# K. D. n+ S7 Brs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: L# |; j5 h5 j) B( L

8 B7 ]# p1 Q; a人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 9 @& V. D7 E" R5 v6 `, t; t9 u* a0 f  E

6 k* f- j5 T+ [# m' ZBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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" I' l, _; I8 LIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 0 A' a, `3 n. d6 U1 N7 j
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. $ _# y. I: x. t( z

3 u; o: z$ V9 e( ?- h9 H3 j9 `"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."