[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。& M: Q* J! r' {: d5 \" s  A0 ?

) o) R9 Q+ U! k4 N% h6 p人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ ^$ V( p; P+ Z' R

- H. M) Z/ L* D4 X! q! V研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。. x( ?: l) f9 _- N
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 0 K% V: v. I$ q
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 5 }; n" ~/ ]; ~; }2 C
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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" `4 u& r. m4 q1 ^- Z- `( ~: pThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 1 h; ?; f: \  B6 ~2 S
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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: l$ _& o# [4 H) d0 ^! `Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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% v0 \4 Y. ]* i) a& y2 O3 ]3 hAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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6 R2 N  N. @% a/ mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区" d+ a$ v) U: J# _6 b* t

/ s7 P2 ]$ u3 DIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ( y. L! n# s1 H5 Z: s' R. r  N

" p) c" i* E9 K1 t) U人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区: V' X6 b. v& `& J) @

, h3 y6 h7 _) A. O4 @"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."