[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。  b& A* x: T$ X5 A* o6 V2 {  V

$ h5 X: ^/ `! z& h& [- [$ E4 h据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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8 U* v; F7 u; L8 o6 c人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* A+ T% S& W9 o) P

* a! N) K: |5 X根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。' ^/ w$ }8 `' k) R6 w; K% @

1 O2 ^3 s  j# `研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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7 }/ A: D! v: U7 UWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'   v% j$ b4 w4 R, w2 f; N' g8 G
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. , f  z4 U9 U+ |! \% Q7 [; B( d
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区4 w* k- S, @( s+ r

& l4 L8 @; }$ f8 A! \But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ) ]% q% N- e( p+ H  F

) y2 n# V$ b" q7 `* L' `6 j8 \4 J0 W人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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6 |/ n' f7 |& j, H: D人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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0 a9 w7 T8 ?; k4 m, u$ }人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 5 I3 o0 ]3 n" N* U0 p8 }; @
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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+ T0 r& Q" J- ?. lBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 ?4 [" \3 Z* V. `7 F
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 4 C# d' P& o* d

! Y! ^# u- l1 P9 |* e5 d"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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/ z! _, h& l: T3 @# C# w3 W人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."