[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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# \% G& q, P  f据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: ?4 \; [; Z% P0 H
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区1 o) \. P# B) d; ~( n
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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9 A1 u- ?4 ^7 i+ \2 I& f- u- h: X$ C5 [High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
3 W6 B4 O4 ^6 Q4 oPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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, |9 l" D; w3 |' ?But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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2 q7 u9 @+ j, B( n9 w7 r) ZThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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- ?2 S- K% i. K0 N0 W+ v人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 7 d3 x0 V% T8 p
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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- A; r- U+ a* ]rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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9 J# A' Q6 X; V  zAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 7 B- N1 P2 t  s8 \: U) }
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 7 {! v3 Z% K! l* Q% j' q

8 r' u! ]' o3 Y" c1 hThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. & r8 z% q6 q% \. o
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 7 n  O/ |- K$ \, C, F1 Q9 d# X. `

# S1 T7 V# I. a# w- w: WIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 ?! U4 \5 {" q( j4 {" W2 e9 R
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."