[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。5 {9 q3 w. A1 w

; N+ a% i# Y+ F  q据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。, h7 {- f& o- d
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& j! d+ T7 W7 a7 d5 R0 e* ]4 F  t- a

7 [) v7 |+ Z" B) \" F人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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- y! z" C3 \- A5 f) c. S研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区6 N0 T& h' J" L8 E; c: I
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. . x6 R* ]; `7 ]6 \* n! M0 R" Q5 H
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! c, D- E5 Q# O2 E
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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; }* a$ X- v: G9 j1 I/ |5 L4 l" v; V7 zThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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, o# ^3 B( C- [; Y"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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* q1 w2 _1 }* t; U5 O3 \# G5 [Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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: t, T; d. |4 M, q3 e" nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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* A) C2 u& T2 W: r1 H8 crs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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7 l% T; l* ?; k$ b" R/ @7 x3 [, e人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. , Q+ [6 S2 s7 K( u8 f, Y

9 |' T) g! N( O0 s  PThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. & s* e- f( t8 y( @" ^8 K

& ?, O4 r9 K! t# [# s; C* ^9 o" yBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 6 T8 o0 N8 a  `2 M, }. e. y2 G
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& x8 {% p" m9 J6 c; V& i: G
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."