[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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6 c9 l& h; y& A/ |  J8 l0 C# ars238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。% c8 n5 i3 n7 W
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 y+ W' D- {/ L6 O0 n) s5 _. H
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区/ P1 d7 J7 @+ v5 _8 s' ?
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。! S  r3 y3 _' `* c

0 f8 \5 }" g6 v3 l7 KWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区4 r$ @+ y. v, B0 E; T7 t' w
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. , o' \+ B) |( v& m1 q5 A  W

* P4 g" c. P3 B; B- ~  Q: trs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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, v9 Z6 ], K5 k% o# @/ x& [rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". & l  e% z+ m# |) K8 K" b& J) i) h5 @
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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. j( |1 }' c8 ~: Y& w3 R3 n"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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9 W' Y; T$ s% V& ^* @9 o. kUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. / T, Z6 `; f/ F  J0 u5 R
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. / b6 A/ S3 y9 D5 N4 ]

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, A5 ^6 D* B9 HAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. & V5 k. w1 }! ?5 [% [3 j( C
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. % f) o) ^9 Z+ r. e# c' |, e

4 X0 @: {& L& X( s" nThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区. h4 B4 r6 S. n

% G) J1 u* `) m7 n4 a人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 9 j' X; T0 o4 b
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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9 @1 ~& c4 |" I8 v7 c7 z  x5 `"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."