[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区8 b9 D' C# A$ |) X
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。* P: s- O1 A* i6 L, L& |- p

: |, }) k6 b, c# a7 P5 F' {3 `研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。" R# u6 x8 Z8 ^9 {( _

1 e) Y  {6 i$ j- h7 p8 sWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
' h) T8 P7 {5 ]+ NPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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+ G# Y/ T  U) R. yThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. - z0 G" G$ p+ @2 p/ D
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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% ?& x9 ?" {# h& @# x1 s: G! ^% ?"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- p; ~7 A# J' I( e5 z1 [- A2 O

# l) e- f* j8 e  u4 ~人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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* I& g8 h, |) m" T' Z1 _% TUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. / \. R( ~& }- U% H3 k

5 P* J7 \' Q0 D) I人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 7 J4 r3 z4 e% d5 i% a0 A, h0 x
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 M2 _! |1 B5 N+ h& ?9 b
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. % a4 l( g( Y  S) y. {9 ]' Y

# s. I1 Z; q6 I5 [& OBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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# I% H2 Q% U9 w) |6 S1 }- M! ?% E6 q# ]: |rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  T7 E8 O7 J) O

# w% _( G; i8 J2 H) R$ w1 r"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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0 f; e! O, E- _* M9 e: O' i0 }0 M. z"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."