[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。9 R  c5 u1 E$ Z4 D! r( T
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。* w- Q! V2 R, A, |+ x9 e* y
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。1 }$ V8 X! F% @# D2 B& B/ z* B6 ~
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。/ }( ^, W9 P. ?. i8 i1 v/ F1 Y
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区% p8 ]& O, d. W; F0 e! p" n- b
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 2 Q& D2 _/ O+ p' F
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. . ~# \; r; `" v: b
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 2 F6 \  r( M, C" x! A
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 6 W; C% j& X/ [- D( T$ x9 a/ M7 ]

. m4 X" B; O) o! mLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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/ o# [! `, E* o" |/ c"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ p1 X: L4 |+ n) ~8 M" \

  c3 f3 x2 _( c9 {) ^9 A" q"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 6 a! F& x0 ?2 R- f- ~1 g( Y

4 a/ P8 m$ ]1 v6 w& l# w# V/ O- [Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. r9 a( s% A. N  A) d5 ^. W
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 [% q- g( J  S+ N4 I" I5 ~
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. : o$ x* `: `5 H& z

6 |, y: T8 d, {- [0 F% X人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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6 r& R6 r: N, Q  _But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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( X& T5 J2 i; ~8 Y/ n6 UIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."