[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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% D0 p' m0 v4 ^9 U据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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" V% |$ a- G) G0 S2 Q4 c5 d根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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0 j" Y7 Q9 W; f人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。2 K. @0 C$ n2 m

: m  @. D, l3 P! F1 U- d. Vrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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7 a" [* C: `/ l& N& irs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
& X+ p& _3 T2 Y; o: T8 zPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 6 i. {, l% s% r; \* E% p
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区; T! I4 L" n7 G/ r  h! x  c

$ w6 t& v" w. Q3 `2 Y* VThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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( G+ F' c+ |4 o: |& z"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.   X  x1 f+ N' D# D3 u

' F' H8 n% f1 F" g7 y* z0 brs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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: j, I: B' _% r9 W' grs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. d7 Q2 b/ w- e( O" @1 v

, \$ Q0 g& o- s# V7 _Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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$ v7 ]9 S- ]8 c, W) P* DThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. * N, Z5 _" ^9 I. L
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de# ^" A$ \" B% Q. ~- v# n

5 y- _5 O% i4 h+ x* \. y3 d! hIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 7 i$ m4 n! q+ k" S( a6 }+ G

- A; @, i7 s$ ~' Z5 z, L"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."