[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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0 t& E* A& F! L. A+ Z据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( R! F+ H5 V4 U; S

* }5 j9 p, c2 c0 ]+ L) a) j研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) G1 Z9 S3 h! G

1 l* h: }4 d/ e3 r- }根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区9 k" L9 y: ^# j4 ~2 Z. G

0 y/ o% H7 C; i) ^, k1 u研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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$ O0 k% e8 K! S. W, H, ]3 b+ f  _人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区# L" V9 Q. R# N5 ~& a
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
2 s! I2 \" q2 ~7 B人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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7 }0 v4 d( }7 R2 p% s$ a! S7 hBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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# f( p  B( S) e* F+ k, lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. - A0 [" \% G/ V& `% P5 l$ U3 H8 u
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 d' n- k& m, y* D& l
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 0 W' i! }" W9 @& X+ Z, Z, H
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 4 U) c# e9 @8 B

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( ?  [/ C9 ?7 QSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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( t) M6 B: V, f& p8 G: o  H3 T( a# zAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区, i5 D. @5 v  N2 d  m  q% q7 G9 a4 `
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 [! O3 x/ U( ]3 A1 e6 x6 T$ h

9 ]1 u. s* a3 N+ {% TBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. " n' j3 X% A0 c( _) ?* c
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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! Z* x% Z1 A" S5 S& f5 Q"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 6 D- _) r, t' V# M7 }
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."