[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

日月光

英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
( I3 R3 W  W- I) k( m, ars238848.rs.hosteurope.de' E' X9 ^2 M( M! {# z
据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
, o$ |8 c. H, L2 m9 G+ D6 Grs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  i9 J) t7 |/ g6 j# f6 r
研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
+ q8 [) V4 K! |7 R# @3 f  U* f% r! ~( r1 J
根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
2 Q" e- }1 j4 p5 I' Nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) w! O# ]& W" K# ~  w8 {+ S
研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  p) [8 [# o4 U: p$ O1 C$ W# G1 Z
; q2 N0 x) V% {! \; ~
Why women fall for 'Mr Average' : `; ~! k; M- ~- }5 A1 a2 \6 e
rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' `3 ^: Y" x/ D0 V% Y+ b; c6 u8 ?6 n
High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
# Q/ M7 s7 `! ~. ?/ Vrs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 1 @9 s1 W7 D8 c, h

: l' s5 c% E0 l  X9 d: j" aBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. : d; t( K8 Q& g3 Y

4 e0 f, `+ ~8 n7 l1 BThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区8 }. Y* U0 t. n: t5 N
& g, O( y& `" R) b
Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ v# T$ W+ z' F1 t, Z& N  Z* Q9 F

* l9 n; N9 m; ?1 i+ I"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. / z1 I  j% Y& L$ S+ V; A2 X3 @# Z
rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: r* \+ {2 K  @4 d3 ]1 _- ?4 D2 N
"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区# t5 Z. x) i0 s
6 R# G# q+ I/ T) x* i1 p
Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
1 ]$ L& n5 Z7 U. `% J2 p3 ~7 t+ J) e& H7 N* n
Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
/ J5 ~9 ]! A. `3 u2 {& r人在德国 社区) j+ m! W7 ~6 P, z- J
Profession
  G2 g9 X, [/ K- R3 H6 n  N
" \- ~' E: D8 z3 Y0 f( h4 Y* nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 9 {8 D1 q2 M) K! h: O, M* y

7 J. \! s% W+ g8 P$ d4 L; s: gThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
( l& J5 b! A/ x8 B
6 ~8 ]9 w: w9 Z4 N% _2 ~! dThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区, ~6 e7 \; d5 x9 r& H6 a: S

" d9 ?/ l# d5 A5 CBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
! H& E' _+ G) X& q6 ]
" W0 d. e9 e' S* u. ?9 YIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
* t! T. t# b; i  t/ x$ R5 x" L$ M( O: ]* I6 q
"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. , Q2 u) |( M' j% J) w

8 D2 Y3 Q) J& p* W: i  X人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."