[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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2 }) m4 _- x& v$ A0 f根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& C8 R( l+ K# {6 j0 \6 z
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ; A2 j3 C8 Y1 a( `
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 2 a2 V$ e# `+ r: F, E. c) [  ?" D
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区) h  _# F/ Z( M: @- |
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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/ \  `& V. m7 U" B# j& `* f1 {: |Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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5 r* U  ?6 n1 c& @  g0 `人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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; D/ t, y$ U0 c5 A7 _; M"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 4 P" F- X& y1 t# D

! |. S; L* Y' `人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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" G2 D" G$ P3 C3 `) g: j$ N  XSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 5 |8 N7 h0 i2 c9 t( N' p; @: H/ n! I$ v
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/ q# W- s7 o" ?3 J1 iAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区9 W! o& p5 Q9 E/ \; u4 G0 ^7 V- S
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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1 t# H' R  w# \6 k' ]$ b6 }" t: P人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 6 p5 D7 I. a0 U7 j) N

* a; d- G7 R* ]6 o- IIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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8 }# g2 W1 t9 ^. s( J"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."