[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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" x! V1 l- s8 B1 \# s% V& Wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。  [8 S% R9 L" g

& T- `  Q' r% J* Y% m  g研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。: o; O# I; o! A
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. / t- X5 n# N" a3 f4 i3 Y4 @9 i
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: w/ a' r4 j, O  W" z" J5 p# g: @' j

# f: k7 p5 q4 R" n: @) ^; ELead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区- U+ z  C% v  `  w
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% N/ Y: b5 {+ e; n) `6 R/ T: [

: E! u. L' E* Q/ d3 v% b) N2 P8 `"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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$ t) c! a* s7 c  n+ H& H, Srs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. # P8 _" _0 \# z

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. / L+ y9 H% C& }% p' Y! ^

- d- {; ?: n% O& l$ x- W" k, C3 PThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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. Z- c. E1 ?& x/ u人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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" _" p4 \4 ~9 z& M% b6 n* F: c8 IIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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$ ]+ _+ g8 U, G+ A; j"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."