[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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5 U  F: n9 a5 I: D  p5 |- _研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区% y* s( `/ I2 s) R

% O7 y2 n- i1 u: `' @' P  QWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
6 P# B( y! C, q4 X( Q# gPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 2 q0 P# r, i' \" [0 ^

& N2 |9 A3 v) r人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. E: a* _2 @- Q# s. I$ j

) U: j# ]  s# q# y$ m4 e) tThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ) B7 d( M; r" A) Z  Y
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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; |) L2 i6 q, |  L人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区% B8 c; E7 \$ a; l1 M

7 ^+ u" `0 ~4 H3 @, b$ zUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区; N  x' a! I5 ^2 `8 `
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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" O9 U7 f1 R7 C  J$ AThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. / Y: i: u& z) j' s" K' b% U
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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9 G7 g, _# X+ |' HIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ; k* x9 k6 o1 l' |8 k4 R8 h

' N  S: M6 e; u& t. ?( a0 e+ z  c, g"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."