[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区& M! K3 B0 L% V
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。# V, c) w, k6 L" t  N8 H
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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5 ?( N, z2 M" A! S; ?研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* a  ~8 e9 W" w" s$ m7 Y6 i# |

+ a0 y( @& ]5 h0 ~$ {- R* jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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6 d% D; x# o$ [# W. P$ Nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区) H. w' k  O) t0 B7 r
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. - V8 Y" Z2 b3 o6 Z: _
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 7 A  A/ U6 p  v( w1 ?' o0 ?3 k
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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9 e$ Y! K0 z/ r% gLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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+ ^( L2 Y# l$ M% R人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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% ^0 f4 O/ t6 p"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 T% V7 E0 b: x7 S- J$ m, T8 a: p

& V/ i/ J  f1 q" qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. % V) u0 i# d6 w5 J6 ~

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5 ]5 o6 U, d: ?( i- ors238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. : E: @, p* U8 B- N9 Y9 m
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ; U% z; c; Z4 Z' {, [0 Q  U( t% X6 D

$ H0 P" Y" k( C9 U"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ' U) S2 z+ z2 u/ z' }
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."