[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区% F( I. W1 C- G3 k/ e* Y' Z

5 I8 T( ]" ~$ C研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。+ v1 e% {; A8 N& s& W- }0 L: G$ w
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。# O0 D* p% W8 F2 v$ g8 ?
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ) H. v+ }! [, T) H% [. k$ n9 Y8 s. O

. s- C/ N/ O7 H7 o5 m- [' m' ~( UHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. " `& e5 `5 u1 A2 J' ]; F1 ^
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区) Z' X" v" U  b4 p$ k

4 `$ L8 C. {" ?. R# NBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区& E* z' R* u1 O& Q3 c1 `; b
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 8 K4 ~4 b1 G9 f2 v; k( X, O
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 Y# s, @% I  y7 [/ }
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区5 m0 h+ U; @" }2 f$ i

/ v$ o; H/ }5 \% p, j人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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1 @2 y. p* [" t; A! Lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区; f6 ?) C) v5 ?3 @0 z6 J& @$ W; A
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. : t' T6 J, V3 `: |6 k
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. . l9 F& R0 M- {) X

4 J' [0 x7 p4 d" aBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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: I- ~& D# S6 {1 A1 J$ lIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ' B' p, H% [0 Y! _; {0 \- P( w

4 T9 ~# x" n7 S6 J7 L"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."