[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区  O( r& f! P# y# P$ a

* E' V' H, m! h6 A! i6 l' A研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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# ?- N7 D' @" u研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。) |5 O5 l5 f4 U; N' g

5 V( \$ G- @( t$ g% T人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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8 s, ]- t, R2 y& L- DHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区' d0 Z# Q7 x! ^0 w: {+ O+ e
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 0 ]) S7 X$ t8 ?. {# P
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. & ^( W6 n8 V& T7 Q. P3 b- b

* ]6 A. t* D( T& i; Q8 e, n人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. / j# H  h% @, ]  e

# i8 C  S6 s! M3 Z# }rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区2 y* K9 m1 H' Z  R# o
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ' F0 B3 o! c; V5 s: O

7 M7 ^* i: C$ ]9 N% x  G) d3 {"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." $ l# v1 o# t& t. Q

+ K9 K! t2 F4 R6 i7 n9 HUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 0 g, F/ i; ^  \, j9 J% C* F. R# A) t

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0 P9 X2 @$ O$ s* U, |Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ! P* j4 a) u3 g( Y: v+ |7 u

8 H  ^& B7 l1 J8 a" k5 B2 O6 TThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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+ s: [, ?: `9 Y7 r! sThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 7 d+ \, p1 u3 B- g# \: W2 }

: j. x" ~" k5 R: \/ p6 krs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 6 B0 b- ~5 a  A( z( ^
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."