[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区, I) Q7 t1 B( N; Q; O" W, z

: C" T0 [9 V/ \人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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; a! \9 ^8 k* D& X3 `rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。/ |+ c6 s. C1 A1 l$ _/ L

: |& f3 H% W5 k6 o" o5 _根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。9 @, o) m& B; w4 u
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区5 v) @( u- [! }$ J

8 Z: E& z4 s/ Q. k# `Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
$ X# j) ^7 L, q+ gPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ) Z# H% K* k. x( W: d& n
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. % y& T6 b& N8 j& B& T/ M0 M

- p, B3 S$ g1 D. D3 h/ S8 [5 \The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 b2 _  g5 P. ^% q

9 T8 b2 M" J/ e3 i% C"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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4 a8 R* G3 D8 A  E9 d" z, b人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 4 X! w- a- J8 v; z
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. # }# O" h1 H. O1 Y

+ t! p7 I1 r% w" l* YSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区: u( n* d, t; r2 B7 \2 w
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区5 c6 P$ O$ c- w' b( Y7 x
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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7 O: V1 {* O# i  l8 EThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 6 n: _' X) r8 G/ T2 X

5 Y7 T) k3 ]. ]7 T5 qBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. $ z  a. a- H; E, ?/ ^4 ~

9 \$ k. s7 d" H9 S, ZIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 k3 ^3 A9 A, Y* H5 k/ l) b! R
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."