[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。! I* R; m5 L! U/ `6 Z

0 W/ |- @/ D, M* W# K$ c. ~' L2 y% L人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。# c: a0 G' p9 t& t

* ]0 C/ J0 U& P4 }8 ]* \: o& d人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。% Y8 A% L' S1 ~9 }4 N9 q* f
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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2 n2 v+ T* i. E. d: }研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。5 n+ Z4 ~# ?$ k" x
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 5 V) ^6 T+ F, V3 [" a
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
+ y, s. M% h1 R( L# ~rs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区* A/ c/ `; {' R8 [! ]

$ M* F( D. V5 p4 a4 Q' q% ]$ }: NBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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7 _1 B/ m! A% m3 Q' ~& OThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ! X; Z0 D5 y2 C7 j; |

: A# Y- Y5 b, `5 z; y- \Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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* H* X, \- r" k- n- m2 E0 Z人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. * T7 X/ D% s4 f0 U, \

  J) `) T" ]& O"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. . v/ ?8 K  G3 m$ f8 M' _
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 6 M3 v( Z2 ]- a. Y
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ! s3 m# i+ J! y1 @

& u4 _0 Y: ]; B1 |' @2 N$ Jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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9 f- Z9 L  {/ D0 K3 d  j人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: B* Y/ g0 H# U2 y  G

7 v" _. x) n. r6 I5 zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区/ O1 U5 ~7 E" Q. l0 G8 D+ A4 o

3 N4 u, T" k8 e# {8 f, h# P% J! `# {人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 7 q# ^- Y" n& n5 M! d7 C
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."