[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% K/ t+ v; i1 D& ~  j

+ ]( d# R7 T# Z( H0 v) T1 v据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! [( `! I3 z1 Z/ o

: I; {. C9 U+ u% G根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 S4 p  I  D) e9 h

1 k' C5 W( V' {9 x- IHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
+ p# @; z1 y8 B5 C! xPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ( Z+ P/ L0 }6 c  ]8 o/ ^* D' ~
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区6 a( I2 [+ O9 h  s( `$ P$ T/ F
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 9 p! a9 a& m/ K' h

- J4 Q0 l/ [  i7 Y6 j* J"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区% ^  C+ T; z; s9 l9 O; e4 a
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." : ^5 V& e0 I& @# X

9 b0 d& C' {) d( V) ^4 ]Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! ~  `$ C" v2 c' T) {4 n
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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  B1 P0 ~; ~" j6 L6 i" ]rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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: j# Z6 k0 s1 c& T0 I+ v4 jIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 5 F8 d0 ]4 f6 \* `( }% S& f5 h; j
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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) L1 Z* w6 w# {& [" w4 I9 D人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."