[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。" H; N7 S& x4 ^

" m  x' z3 S$ p$ V: H; ?- h据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。, O* h1 c, I) ~) f

! J6 @3 @8 J% C: s2 h9 q研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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+ z  C5 E8 D7 L  Y, K0 e& `rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' ! Y* J( t( }/ n( P
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ J( d( E- ?0 W; k' y
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区& i2 a! Y1 `: l# g( r
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. # Q# ~+ ?& `0 z2 I6 ^% f
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区: ]+ R$ p- h  t- t. R& ~+ s

% R& ~0 q6 L, m, [0 }6 [1 Z5 t人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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$ Q7 A. S% Q" w0 W+ aUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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$ s7 W0 v3 t0 @. J# @! a人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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, `* B4 ~  e+ z0 W. VBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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% U! J  k, q* y0 g- Brs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 4 d1 E+ O* m, T; _! q0 n

' t" H: Z4 _" T# ?6 E3 {"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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$ ~0 p5 K5 y' q' H% Y  N$ T人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."