[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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- @( _& L- O  ?/ ~  Hrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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) O( B5 H& ~3 X: crs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。7 O3 m" |4 e& m

7 M2 a( @% r1 Z, Y% H5 k- H  N, ~人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。. u" a* [/ }! D! T4 ]6 D6 \

' G4 n5 e! d% @+ U4 D0 b2 k  W; b研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。1 Y- a8 O# W9 `- {3 Q

6 }- }# Q; u/ e# p" [8 v5 a7 }Why women fall for 'Mr Average' $ H; s1 E: z; ?' G  j& [
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
; O8 E$ ?( {4 w/ C$ }9 F+ Xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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- D* ^3 u' i2 F( n8 GThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区8 `7 {5 M! {5 F/ x& a: o# r: B

1 Y8 u! j; R# ]) M( a% u7 N人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. $ w0 m- w: m: I! m+ q6 L

( D/ A6 f& i% e- U/ Yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 4 R! }- K, w, ?- c5 L1 i
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 0 `7 Z: {, W" w( s

* O6 N" K- o: @7 o$ N9 J& |# E: Q/ U人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 9 e, @. B+ k' K& B$ v; E

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 3 X  w: e% A% o7 [3 @2 r2 F2 }
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. $ D0 `9 j- n3 w$ n/ w

7 Q) C$ c5 k/ |: @: ^# jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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8 k; G4 S% A- a2 t$ t. AIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. # O* k2 E5 s" X! _" T  w* z6 z: J  f

  w# U6 p7 w; V9 I0 _8 N& F"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."