[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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7 N! i4 z" Q8 e" T7 e& T, j$ c人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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3 E7 o: u  V8 C* F研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( u6 @6 x7 G& Z* I- \" ~7 ]9 N
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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( o3 `& s5 Q+ a1 P, krs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
, |1 o* w- x5 Q8 g. qPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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8 z6 ~1 w6 [7 S4 t, |+ cThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 Q  m$ R* E% V8 P
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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6 q, E% o7 F9 A* G"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 2 y, C4 g: t- A+ F; N* Q) a

8 F; Z# R" h$ H! j& aUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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( d1 _! ~3 c. m8 ]7 }. _rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Profession
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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4 |3 V8 H% b7 b7 _) cThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. - p# J+ [" H/ I
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- X2 m% C5 ?) ]1 D% O8 |

% ]4 `* u8 }, c0 W"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ {" G- C$ }# H

; M, W- R2 o: [; R"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."