[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。) D9 v2 s5 x$ {) v" n

. P# L$ H# Y0 d0 m. }, ^rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。- z' Z  G7 |1 c- f- W9 j% J
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。& x& l6 ]* z, A: ~

" s4 D1 ]7 }. B0 f6 T根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。# e0 H! Y. ?/ x- A  w8 a) |3 F8 n
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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% u) X7 v8 d2 J6 s/ b1 y; n  r' m人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区$ Q6 M) t/ v" @  R" g
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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4 {' V' a' b" z( v1 e7 HBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 3 N" O- }. m  M
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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. W# l% {' g9 F& r- X* J" }人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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, Q0 h5 K4 W- p/ B) BUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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) h* s9 d/ N# b4 S$ m, Z% q' XSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. + ?$ |1 Z% m6 f7 g* S' n
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区8 c& ?5 P! T% x: H
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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/ I) q* a7 F7 q8 q  @, `, z8 |5 z"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 6 L, G# E5 h$ i, p
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."