[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。
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, S! g3 H9 z2 a, B  y) b+ Q  t据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区7 |! I: T. L' {/ d. o
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) x( f1 E/ w2 z3 O

, E" o; c4 P; p6 u6 v, R1 Ers238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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. ]& k# E3 J+ M: J* @6 U5 R  t研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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5 j: R9 m# f/ A) N3 j) SWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. . [4 }, B$ I' d; B  I. q- T$ i
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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- C& ^  R6 P: GBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区. r5 N8 O( o* m9 m8 h3 ~( F

3 W: D* k% ?) U% @1 v) e8 ~人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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' A  T; T7 v/ k# G- c/ ~0 nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! q- x; D  Q0 D1 K0 _) t$ B9 F
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* A/ ^0 x$ N, s) Q5 U8 O" m4 G- a

- B1 \$ r: k' t0 wUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区3 P& m2 F  }0 I  o9 G+ v

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; j1 f  _8 _7 Z% B4 }/ L" qAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 4 |* g/ ~/ O2 U0 k

5 {. e7 l+ |% Q4 E; c0 o' ?% }% ]The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 1 J0 \/ w+ R4 Y; C8 T

& B* o, B8 v! X; Y& W( ]But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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# G( w+ k5 N# f) n1 }/ b0 y1 QIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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; c! `8 d2 O& U: t7 f+ }" Q! Zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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