[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。7 N, s6 T: r$ a- u+ ?& h  S

8 G$ k7 m2 d) `+ l7 Q2 b人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。! `7 G3 ^" J+ X9 V& l* G8 A9 D
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。% H+ ]# h0 `6 L7 m9 D  I( w

1 e5 c) Y8 \4 p3 |rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。, L- L  d" u) m: \6 B

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! Z$ m& W1 [$ b3 \4 |( ers238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
- R+ Q7 x' G) VPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区+ d; W3 _' b2 N

+ E1 C& x2 E% ]7 V# pBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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3 Q) `6 g# A- g- z' WThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区, B# w2 s& }/ u2 _
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 1 j. ]4 L. S1 U! i' M  u8 b
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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. _# I; ^) i# l5 _+ R$ V人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 3 x7 [6 c0 _$ P8 l8 B4 M; n
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. : R* k" z$ ^+ a4 k: H3 ]

) H/ `3 j/ R5 E  z$ S% qThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. $ r; f* I" i. G4 g
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. / ~- ?% e3 q& n, R) p% Y

# f  b! K7 }4 I$ X( ^But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. " b" B& T9 V+ R) e( h- c2 E

- E9 O/ g2 t; Z* M% x6 ]; |* F+ Frs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. & a1 s3 f0 y0 @- Y# o9 Y& n
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."