[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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# T" `% \0 N9 \$ b$ `* h7 I据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。" W9 h+ _' }! t2 ]' |' s- k( ]

/ A( s: H) ?# {8 v* v& o人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。- t' z3 D7 p* i' q1 d
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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% N! Q4 b* S9 |- e& R. M* Drs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' + }" p7 Q+ Y' K. L* Y" ]7 a% C

, u2 T4 F3 F# {" P; x5 DHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ) S5 `# o/ t$ ^  C1 s4 \
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ( n1 t- m3 X# g* R  x$ d% m

5 B% w3 H4 t2 B+ SThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 8 p  w7 e# A+ g+ g4 k

+ J0 z& t" g: N人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. + x, |6 e0 W+ a8 S

( ?3 O9 J# t/ [' U" w! M人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区8 `8 u- y, P0 ^5 S3 u4 r+ F; y

$ _" w" s: a2 `1 O7 ~" D0 N* {- YUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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% x* l' K2 V# ?: o- rThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区1 B7 z5 O$ f/ R4 X. Q
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. # _) D+ F, ^9 L3 v# x+ v$ I
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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' M; G1 r+ t: @人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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6 p: v5 E' U# D. O! h! R"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."