[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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, u0 r0 a% O$ {3 \& K4 B5 P3 t3 b据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ e# t; m$ H3 h: v

) ?/ ]& p( m# ^8 I人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。* K% s: K1 p; _
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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) A- R/ Q! S6 X( G# \% n研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。. J2 x5 T) R" J3 a

4 C1 T# y, \6 U. trs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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' y( C% @0 z. N! M5 H7 d人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, o, z- O: I! H/ I
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 3 `! I1 P. V, [) e" [( T9 v: A: q

5 h5 m; V: N+ |6 y/ F0 wThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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) f6 @1 u1 ?0 _Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' M& n% [4 @. O8 i7 g5 V& L
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de7 K% e4 n# x/ v
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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3 ?) [: G" b! l; i5 F% }1 Y- FUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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! B+ Q7 i7 a1 ~! zAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 1 {* ^/ z# w+ D

6 Q1 g6 W8 u2 p6 EThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. " j9 ^% X5 E# i% s9 U: q$ r
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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! }2 E2 |7 A1 q! c9 B2 ~But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 5 T3 t! O+ X. H" Z0 J6 g
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."