[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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: i( k+ M" e# a" X/ W, ?人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区( Y% b" q' v& S8 j# l

! }4 J, }2 O, k) D9 X% R5 Krs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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- ~0 I3 X- j# O' I, D$ [根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。" @% z! K+ j, K! W  b. M

( E, ^3 p. [5 j1 G/ GWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 3 h% p7 J; M  b& p4 a
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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/ J9 b, H, i! u+ r' W" PThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 5 [6 I7 j& E, X4 `+ L$ Y

! t8 Q4 m1 k" nLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 Z4 F; E  Y: Y" R/ S# P3 F% s

8 t, {8 ]! L5 O"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. , l% F" ]' f+ G

0 u/ Y1 S/ q# h) N  H8 ~"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.   }$ j7 `, k) q3 p& Q
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 3 V/ K+ C( t- M
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. " }: N7 P$ U, Z" r4 u

+ J( Y) M# R" p. y# vThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, x* d6 N$ [2 M0 {  N. Z' P* Y9 W
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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/ s$ f& ]4 i: i8 ~7 }人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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% |$ ^3 V) H  s& b! e7 x0 s"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."