[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 i3 v  P3 j" w+ c# ]. Y1 O
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据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。

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& }/ G0 K( b* o" V  vrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 8 V& [# N( [9 O6 D2 n; t( U; |

; M& q) i( {7 Y7 c5 UHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
! f, g0 _% b/ ?- oPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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/ |% D. Q. X. W! {* d. r' v9 ]rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 4 @$ C3 A" S; q' B% i8 r) y/ T
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. - l) \2 l4 }# R$ R! M2 n
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". , n- ^$ b9 d" k+ }/ R7 T' |

4 @7 x8 h+ j" M+ h) A  ]"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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* }" t2 ~' W! o  ^" h3 ]! q人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 2 q) a, ^3 C& y; `

# K. Y4 W8 E) S6 }! HUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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$ G6 K$ S5 a( I9 S+ |: b人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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% T: ]  P; c0 zThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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( ~. \4 Q6 S" P5 ?6 BBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. , I3 b' f' Q; _  M
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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