[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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1 `* R9 x0 q( m9 o/ `" P* Vrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。4 j) E6 ]# o* r2 v' C; }) B

  t( N, k5 t( {4 yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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' `* K' g& O0 P1 G$ I6 ~Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
& c! V2 B0 U  q9 PPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 2 F1 R% s3 o& J" {/ i" l1 V8 g# A

4 V/ c1 a- h' I人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ! K5 Q  f1 n0 [; F

. X6 ^, \  w  V: qThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ) E/ M/ [/ Z% w

5 F3 F$ s/ _$ l( A3 hLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区. `, C6 w; Y: k8 y  \8 N% O6 a  g8 M5 [

7 z2 {5 v  X& ]0 h( H0 U"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区) h7 c. R* n) E8 P, B* l% H/ x2 E# B' ]

1 N- l3 t5 N0 Y人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ! k) c; B% I: X& i7 x. Y8 }

& \6 n) L; B6 s; nSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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* E* L1 C0 p# T, HAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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1 \! M- L% V% q1 H+ ?& K- _The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  [# T  F$ w, |- e. i* L

4 k3 L7 h' \' Q. _1 Q) k; FThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ' {' g# S1 C/ {/ u
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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0 J8 O) M: i( I# M. h- W"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."