[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

日月光

英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
5 e; D: g* O. e& Y% O. ~; y9 G+ e# I7 t6 E! W$ ]
据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区& u3 _# ?: Q8 V- \9 T/ a& c

: q! m& @* f% g4 Z人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ k- w! ]9 w9 U* V1 @6 V8 U
- R) O$ d+ C- y3 z/ C
根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
5 Z9 S8 e' T) l; N& R% W  G/ r& J1 Crs238848.rs.hosteurope.ders238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 W  v1 ]% K, i" r
研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
& `' N: \- F% I/ @rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: W- Y5 P% U) i/ O
Why women fall for 'Mr Average' * y$ P4 K. c) [( x, w7 I
4 h( q! S2 e1 Q' K7 d. D
High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
) O; y. P0 i' l4 x+ c1 K/ jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
8 l7 x* J- Y8 e人在德国 社区
, V- f9 [' d; u, I8 j, x. [' {% PBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 w8 N0 i# i  }* q: M* T
& W6 n  t1 b4 K2 ~" i
The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ' E) x, S( {/ \. }

3 N5 m  [! ^# U6 l人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". $ u5 K( h# D9 o, |& M. l- ^

6 r# A1 w$ i! Q$ E- N"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区1 Y9 s( {7 U/ S- W, H

1 F4 X, {, N+ v" i6 ?"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 [1 i% f9 f2 q+ ~5 v+ V* v5 U/ G: r5 H
人在德国 社区. h+ b% B+ h, z
Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 8 E6 Y9 m3 U2 ]0 f
; ?! J. r8 v8 Q5 N9 H6 c- a" s# y
Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
2 P9 _: i4 v( y1 f/ H: xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de
/ d1 U  e7 }4 n2 f; `Profession
, A# H$ c/ F' D$ N' j. X1 F$ [! N6 t) H/ }; M) g
Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ; t1 t# J# i) m7 B3 Z1 m. k
* i5 T: i, L7 O, ~5 X; Y4 U+ B
The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
+ O) G4 F1 l9 h9 S1 Z人在德国 社区人在德国 社区+ }- C2 b) d! |+ S* O. F. E' @; x' _. S
The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
1 B- p7 }( T- X0 t  xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ T8 F! o- f2 _+ {! `* t1 o
But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 8 X! n8 h6 B# Y
rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& a( _4 R8 J5 b* \  F8 T
Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
9 ^5 a: F$ i7 E2 }" \rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de人在德国 社区3 Q; ?! v  l& ?! h8 @1 }4 ?* F
"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
/ w9 Y; V- R) x1 `. P人在德国 社区
9 f) A/ r- p' k( n& q- rrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."