[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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1 E6 R9 T2 o& ^0 o据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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' J# Q% _1 I: ^  T0 u$ d人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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+ C- V9 ^# a0 I( ~# v# R研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。; l/ ]7 V% n- {
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. - W) }( V# z8 h% ?6 G, A$ v
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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+ _* i; u- O- A$ [: \人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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. E, N9 d' N  a  y+ W0 c, J- L! O$ zThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区: i/ U, X4 \6 r2 W

5 G# N9 e& l! x! E! ]6 ULead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 B7 Y* J3 p- r
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区. s) |) G/ |/ ?0 T0 O
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. - _! q# H/ ?8 b/ A

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# d* N$ X5 Q5 @5 b3 s0 A/ g0 @4 cAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ t; Q+ a; q) G( [: x* L6 X; W

, j- _# H/ z( r: pThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. & J* q5 s5 ^: C+ Q3 j4 X4 G5 |( \) }

0 g2 H1 B& W$ K" f8 m2 R* J. rrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. - O5 Z- `- q' j3 ]' g3 @  h' V& g
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."