[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

日月光

英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。; k! u' N( n5 ^0 [6 K
/ S* y7 X: d; N# I7 ]
据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。5 _0 W# w  {8 y( k- {* Y3 }

' M& Q7 }: A( h( E研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
3 ]4 W  m: h$ p
0 B' Q8 T$ B" R: Q+ q* Z人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。3 F! r/ z# a. r9 n( M# ^
/ u; C# @" t; G: V4 v; ^! ~* |
研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
6 z1 D7 T! ~/ W
# _- z. T( a: b8 ~* `Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区" R8 P! j- \6 i/ b  r. f  a. F

! f/ V- _0 T+ `High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
; D, A3 N  z$ s( Q! Q/ F6 E. s# A9 }Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 4 D! _5 G* f5 l1 C9 k5 k9 `

# j$ M  E3 Z% p* H3 R3 B% j+ XBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. " E3 n" L& u+ W; G) I! T$ H8 o

6 F! U' T( p7 Z5 o0 h, n1 irs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
; o; G0 m. G3 r; a, P+ u5 l8 p" f人在德国 社区  s5 T7 L# F+ s: F! v. g; o' v8 k
Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
5 M% j8 q7 I' ~) T: o& c人在德国 社区
! O1 h8 |7 s8 x& b- P0 R$ T( ^"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. * e0 q: H# V" j, D( l/ G
5 A$ J+ ?5 F% g, v4 K7 b# O3 H$ a$ v# q/ J
"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." - l+ k: M" U( j7 z' y
( u5 Y: ]  W0 d
Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. + X, f7 T6 }7 P6 n! q* l5 q

% [3 I* M1 ~6 t- I/ V7 e人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区. L$ h/ k7 i! P, Y; B& T

) X3 }# i: O5 ]% U+ ~; ]  @rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deProfession
; W( n4 Z! x; [& C6 Prs238848.rs.hosteurope.ders238848.rs.hosteurope.de: e# B" b2 A' I
Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ; X& r3 R, c) _

2 O  X( \* f) T; `5 yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
: L" W2 H6 T  s; K  {
1 b6 i" y1 H3 ~The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
; v& w+ `  G7 hrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de
# O$ j4 w6 P7 ~, ]! |But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ! e+ v* P; v* E3 t- S
/ J2 j  z0 F5 F$ G) a
Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
$ N! Z5 c! V! Frs238848.rs.hosteurope.ders238848.rs.hosteurope.de% r5 V7 z3 l. K5 V
"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 9 O* [) H" j; j; W

3 }, K2 w) ~# x"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."