[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% X5 q6 Z2 o! ?4 t( `2 {5 N: Z: o! `
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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6 g2 J. t  `/ C2 R9 n/ G4 q研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。- I6 z0 a0 v- D0 F3 R% V

7 @( \  c2 |) o6 i* G& v* w$ ?$ n根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。# L! }, k9 H* r) a+ h
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
' @! H3 V/ y; w# ~/ _Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de# G$ B' ^7 x$ D6 ^- w, ~% L  U

# R, u6 F0 t% SLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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0 V+ C3 J. Y4 |! V7 R4 c/ Q"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ [% K2 g" s! d9 J/ v8 i1 r. Q
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Profession
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: Y4 J1 R- a* L; K! [! {Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 0 c" u3 F5 c! F: Q0 _) G
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  x/ J4 W# v( l, C* P7 m8 j% \- U
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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5 N$ m6 m6 Z9 f' `Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区% x  F$ Q' x. M) C0 \* N
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."