[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. E  P6 i; z! L, n
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de# X: o( g7 F4 S- U+ @$ y$ I- B
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区2 I/ _! ]4 u. F9 {0 @& u
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; R4 e5 R0 E7 s+ X0 l* W
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
& f& }8 G0 V7 I) @Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. % v' @+ u2 v, }7 H; N
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区3 L3 t# e1 Z) c3 f) @+ G

+ Q. r8 m! p& ^" S0 j4 B, D- [0 dLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". : S9 v' P3 c* G6 a, A

5 p; x, O3 ]. h8 G8 _3 K4 v# R"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de7 J. J% k& t  Z8 M2 p# v4 _
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. c' m0 W$ [/ l6 l# F$ ?
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区3 W# r2 r( N, ^) w: m" ?

+ _) a6 Z2 K& P7 B) ]人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ! V, G1 e+ }( c0 P
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区* `0 D. J# w" Y5 V2 U6 f2 P, f
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. # s; K; S; M5 X. i$ M
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."