[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。6 G/ r8 C: X/ Z& v4 a" B

( _$ M2 S0 p$ p% V- K9 Q据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。  z  Q$ G% o9 {9 G9 D, ^8 l

: `; c& z. @3 o# F. x1 `( N# H9 f人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区* D; d. F  E3 j3 X' Y0 M5 ?: W8 }% j

8 J  h& Z1 v3 h/ o1 {* J/ V根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。3 p% d0 I# d; i  P6 z
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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8 d5 v( P) L5 G: U人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' $ }* @3 n. @( m! V0 i) |" H

7 q, p4 Z, t9 s8 E9 bHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
2 j7 E- T9 K; J$ W! UPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区7 ]  v9 j# i/ B
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. / ^, G5 [. t$ ]5 u3 b

/ I0 ~9 c6 [$ x& A* z5 m人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 n& ^1 I1 |+ ]0 e0 U: C/ n
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. # n% \2 L; a$ z! _! A: x

6 @- W& c* a' _. `2 SSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. $ {" v# t( S- S8 n3 C( K  Y
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% b3 t1 ^+ I7 S8 N3 |4 c3 l

' W/ D. u# I/ u* R$ _8 Y! A0 M, U人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 9 i8 Z5 v9 ?. [+ t' g6 b- j' q

7 b7 H! a  w0 l+ `% G% f7 j& v人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. + p& ^2 ]& r, }
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."