[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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  n" E) L  O& X2 z% }据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 t+ a7 j# O7 U3 F. U
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。" I" E1 l7 ?- Y! z- v

6 d- Z! A# z) ?& E0 \人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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* z- |1 O( e' }8 qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。3 a7 [3 x+ q9 z$ E) ^% S+ I, @

4 `/ n8 Y* Q7 iWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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' i$ Z% \" A2 E4 q& G; ]High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 0 w+ s! c+ b5 d
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. + j3 J9 Z+ J, D* `" ^5 ]& K

. x' g0 n& [" @% a  g: OBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 2 i/ x1 v3 @2 r/ h- ?( B( o
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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5 @! K1 N( ]) }. aLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". " @# E: b, U; _4 C: f7 p* n% n8 n; T

, S( J9 h* j9 d* z9 D"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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$ t3 L. I& r, q) G3 p/ uAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 5 e! C3 S; Y' O4 H# i; k9 V6 c

6 s" f# p* |) r/ r/ {9 sThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区+ U1 c8 A8 e% J* w

& C. w- r/ Q  ]6 f8 K4 h/ zThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. - ?* m7 r, g0 q+ x) S" g% f
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ! }: A4 u  f! ~0 F( j9 j* C

. a; L2 j, K/ d; o  @"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."