[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。0 P1 B3 y4 y% @) u7 A& X  L
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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8 l+ \. w% Y; T& e8 `研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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0 a$ B# k* A/ v7 I4 d1 D. F研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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- d2 _2 @" C  U1 N3 ?% EWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
3 K! H! Y7 X% f5 x; [  MPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: R6 v3 f' c8 i7 A  `3 J- X( V

6 y' K' G, m( N) ?3 d9 W& J5 ~But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区6 ]7 H) `* z7 `' G' o4 ^7 l6 A5 e, _
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( h5 F; [+ k  K

! o2 U: Z  D' p/ O/ t% E"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. & F; `. Y- g/ U& q
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ) V1 G/ a% b, F9 t$ `: ~' W5 o
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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8 d: j7 X! Y5 O: sAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. : D. F" v" E5 H) ?, W: Y* `6 I; x

; `8 H7 f5 s& |# _5 k) i& E' {& l" cThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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0 w4 U! c; L' _4 Y6 VThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. : b, c' K0 X2 @, t/ X
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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, D' [7 X% _: d+ \Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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& D( _1 P; i" j# Z( e( x"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ! h( w1 T+ V& Y& G
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."