[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。, ?2 s* ^6 {4 g, {/ ?9 U) c
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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8 a8 @3 T( _: l' K. ~7 e根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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0 c7 A8 w  |* p7 [* v研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。5 W7 f9 {( l) K8 Y1 h( l# D
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' & F/ d, T! v, S8 C+ }" q" {

6 m% V  Q' Z! U; U1 z, @4 l% v8 D! AHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. & K& t! H4 t: T0 f4 S7 ^, |( V
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 3 C1 V9 M) ]) Q
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. " V4 w' d) P- W+ f3 z1 c) S

+ ~: ^- E3 }  j0 Y9 a) k4 t" ZLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 1 V( e7 \' l% L! G
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 7 {" E4 t8 h3 g- g
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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% ~  `2 n2 I6 n; @! M# \. x2 U0 Z人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 5 Y% G# i& R0 V3 c" ^3 T

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4 ~3 J, M& v+ p+ e1 e2 U; c/ HAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. . J$ l* U# X/ b& I, A% Y/ U
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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* l, e, @' a" J& }" P$ R! w+ D$ FBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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8 S- ^8 n8 d2 v# `! R* X' M3 SIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 7 E9 ~9 u5 A9 F0 `1 \/ ~. Q! F6 p

% v  l) U' l, V& k0 k4 v7 ["I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. - ~% d2 I# b5 I+ _6 h$ @' a

! R+ H8 h0 {- D. F  x"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."