[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 q1 [& V+ A. q1 b6 T

5 q! a  L6 T7 w6 S' A8 v研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。+ G: U8 ^$ a$ k
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# X) W0 V2 ~5 \# v9 h2 H3 s0 tHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. / W: B) x- a$ ?; m( {  Y6 |
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ! i0 ?" Q8 B7 ^. k2 N# o5 O
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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6 O9 N- s5 r1 N; j  E2 P0 M"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区6 U/ Z; ^: B( i( m+ @0 B5 n! S, d
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区, l  ]9 I" c3 x! p

0 z5 F! W& {* ^9 N* m% drs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. & E2 j/ Y% e- o& X# {5 J/ n( R& q) ^
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. * O0 ~# B5 f( d2 s% V

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 0 j0 `7 \' D/ I1 J# z5 S; O

, r( _+ \! K; p* RThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 i# ?$ ^& h2 N9 {8 q
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 5 ~0 V( |. B# h$ |0 o5 ?" S
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 2 U. L1 R6 X) l( v# z

( m- C( d% ~4 o3 G" F! q9 }Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. : w& w. F0 N, q/ V
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 0 w6 A$ f/ w8 J! Y6 g
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."