[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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  T2 v% O' B* j! T; |9 J1 L. {据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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" b4 B# E. b& x( g6 N' y根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。/ q* o9 j$ Z3 j( S4 Y
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ) @* j- D7 K# T! D3 b8 [
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.   E, f8 Q: w7 L2 L4 Q5 ~5 X
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ' f* j% |2 b1 q9 |! X  }! \

! a& V- M- l6 {/ ^* g* U" A# j0 ~The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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7 u/ m* v% i, v" ?4 o) wLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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' E5 q; I4 W& S) r"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ( q6 Y/ z& w, L
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区# ?  n. s2 r7 l
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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# ^0 F; c4 a) W$ ~1 j( SSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区/ Y) ^* L  F4 V  `- a
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3 i3 n2 h/ K* }. X& MAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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" y" e+ x* P2 t, s( Z- ZThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. - F, F3 X1 n! n  H' w7 ^
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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/ Q# X: K4 f# g# V4 r( CIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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& @8 ~6 k# N, g7 ]7 B& o9 V) m人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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; W; @" @+ k2 K" @- Q; p"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."