[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。3 r! c4 f. H9 M7 U, a
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。8 c+ X6 I& S3 Y9 t* S! K6 r# }

! M; w" m8 A, H研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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+ U( E. G6 w/ F* M. c根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。& \" Z, y& a# [: c: f  v2 r  B
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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3 d: o5 J1 i8 G; f! _人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
- v' ^8 ]( X2 NPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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0 m, `; [# N. K* R, C; SThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. + O. D1 t1 l) P& T3 y0 T
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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4 w8 O! ^0 n* H. i"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ( A( c) Q6 m* n0 r/ p

* w) p% I5 y8 C+ ?! n0 j/ `"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 1 Z: z/ B: V9 u: c

- o2 b, a: |) ?% @! WSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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/ O7 Q, X6 E9 N! KAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. * F$ E; f9 g8 b) [

0 U2 j& c1 W7 p6 V) z/ W% i% ^$ jThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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+ s  C' Q4 N9 B4 N+ s3 JThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 7 S/ L5 R+ p' F0 ?4 i
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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3 o! r+ j  j% ^"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. " O! p& p9 d* i' @, U9 t+ `, h

1 W& w+ c" i( A"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."