[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。2 L' C1 i6 R& L9 y& A- C
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。; g) u  y# T2 K8 Q  ]5 q3 I! q
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区, N4 l/ K0 G2 Q* B; U' Q5 L3 d

; y7 C$ a+ `6 R; S研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。0 G1 k: Q; n* ]0 S  ^
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' * c9 m% q+ Y5 a9 c* m& _

8 z9 g/ P* M- C人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
% T4 _3 w8 U5 v( i; P# D& Q, T% SPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. V0 i, a7 f$ s) \. M& {
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ' n2 C* n3 ~  A
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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2 `0 d8 ]7 ^/ e  p# c/ s, E人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ p) g1 K# O% ~5 J- _5 P

# ^9 j& K+ V* F3 g$ f* fUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 0 a: r7 _. w  O0 @! Q

* ]* l$ H8 l& l  M1 vSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. " k# O8 W$ Y; v% Q
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/ \7 W: T0 B' o2 g0 mAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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" N& o( |) s" ^+ y9 b2 ~The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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% U" {$ H9 F% o! E9 k& o) S人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. & Z* |) y  g5 t& l, R% k
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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& X6 W$ x/ E0 Z2 D9 G人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 2 b6 u% [5 r# b

* ~/ k3 G( R% R"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."