[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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8 \$ z1 V/ ?- r! @据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。. \+ }- m* s3 ~3 k- C) @
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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0 d) Z/ Q) K; e3 o( A+ W* O% wWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ( }0 ~4 S  y+ M
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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. j, u! A( i( J9 c6 r, Frs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区* C" {: I6 m8 l: r

7 ^/ V' N2 @, Z) o! e人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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6 U* g) b& Z# n/ g0 ]"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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! z, u" X6 w- H) e) |. [& d6 H2 |Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区5 }' [" x0 S0 ?7 i. I* m

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7 ~2 l5 h) X  f( e) _6 e) j% q( G人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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& m- W9 b3 {, M, Y( ^5 d0 h人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 6 Y& \5 ]3 a+ Q) L" i
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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$ W2 B8 X4 W' J) z5 h; n0 g! ~"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."