[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。6 A% d$ k* `2 X& T- h
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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3 @( R/ y, g3 j! |! M& D9 ors238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 8 m; Q' n5 {3 A, Y! z
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 2 x9 \& F3 j$ n2 E4 Y% ^( @

6 m( p5 R: O! e7 _人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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" `! U/ |; Z& F2 O+ A) t8 q& u8 b; H, a人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区9 E0 I( ^; B, I1 x  w; ^0 m
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 I( T7 _- L' F8 U$ q) [$ S
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 @* M2 j. z; S+ k
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. + K# N3 b- h# v1 C; K5 Y

/ d3 f6 ]* b( u( `: uSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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, q) ]* V; f1 s( o1 G0 E# D  A人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ! v/ {$ m; K9 Q, A# P( B
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区' H" G; u8 e* I. F5 b

$ _. {. V3 }! L! W9 iIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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6 {  f8 o. `, I% e"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."