[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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8 ~+ m9 M) g! u4 Z1 c据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。. G2 U) y6 z$ f5 ~. L2 y/ ?

* o4 M) A0 J7 t研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。8 U: q* {. }- j7 S8 ~( D+ |

" K4 H0 `( \+ z+ H; G研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。! T* ~0 C$ f% |0 ]- ^

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+ w/ w1 ^& J8 W! ^7 O0 P0 B4 L: yHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
3 |% W8 I' K' ^% P1 ^Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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' S% E& |% o4 G' I' K" D7 k% jThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 7 I: n6 W# H" I# p' s
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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" I1 N; ?5 @) ^"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ; Z) L# P- o7 E1 Z7 I& D7 O
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. + ^& S9 ^& V% k, J
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4 H( B! T- x7 c人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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4 \; R4 m! H- j0 i* XThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 4 N; D- b- L  o/ @  x# L# h

/ o7 {/ f# w* p# |: A- D. TBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 1 g3 V) q6 o/ ]1 s' S
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."