[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。( P' ^0 O/ [; n7 j( q

* h, D# P3 M# k+ L* f9 ors238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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+ D: b3 _: K3 K. }6 w  E  w' F研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。' x: x) F) T9 \$ U. w  m: W
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。- _! j% a9 J, K: E

9 q! C; ^5 T2 \5 a# K! mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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, X, D+ G$ w: W1 d3 y+ Y人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
! X% q5 q& [) L# x; k* nPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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( Z1 u! W! j+ JBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. + ?* k+ e4 B" z6 ^  t7 {; s  U1 P
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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2 R' x" \0 Y; Y5 A9 b$ t"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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& `/ h9 n/ z- P$ ]) H# ~人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 3 l1 U0 X8 F( ^* h0 j; Z4 @4 x
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" r1 T1 q7 ?2 q. e) |" [' ]
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. / z& O7 I4 b9 W" Q4 N
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 c4 b3 m. \4 G# _8 p; h0 P

3 ]5 D" w% u: b人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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- V) b7 \1 W' Y人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区4 j; Q# x  P6 q3 t
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区8 |( n6 Y4 |0 _- z& u( u  f  t
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."