[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。3 p% v  O; a: ]6 I

5 g6 x: v: K0 V7 Zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。3 z! u8 Y! w/ f" E+ P: |, c- x/ _
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区: ?. ^- S' h2 S# k  }" [
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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0 T% |3 d' \% nHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
6 x- x' ]. m" F* Y0 c& Q1 C% rPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. % ?9 o8 y! J+ J1 r
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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' [4 l, W) W9 [/ E人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区) l) Q  B$ e7 Z3 I+ `- O9 h! K

" Z( u# S4 j* y( i人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." - b- d, l* Z# ?
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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4 D* H+ |: x( u; i5 B7 l% o4 u& NSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区; y2 p! ^! `' T1 [6 B; {3 ?

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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- ?8 i' {6 V* S  G1 J& BThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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. P; l- a6 r5 {) S" K7 F+ ars238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de7 u, L% F8 b3 T, C* L1 T# s

( B, c2 l# |+ x# R% X: x9 v9 H$ v人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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3 i8 I, }; C1 c7 N! A9 O+ S"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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5 P( I$ k  v0 c8 ?6 u$ D人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."