[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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/ d+ @, Q2 k, g7 R# g人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。% d9 ~9 N2 Y4 ~8 h# G; ^+ b

7 `0 x1 S9 s" O6 Q/ A根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区% N1 }- s1 C- `+ ^6 C$ L* ^: B

6 U, Z. D# S: a/ ?研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' - J& {4 d2 f1 o7 p  i: Q2 H  f
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ D& X9 P$ z( I6 y7 [$ p
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. / ?$ f( C8 Y# Z: ]5 b$ V/ Z& R
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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3 Q: O* C' Y4 _9 j/ ~The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ; Z' l+ j0 `. e0 L1 }8 u

, X' [% h% j) _Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区/ X% j& L1 i  K5 B2 f4 X
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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  i& P$ l. {. L" G4 n" Q; e' b"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." , a! `- i& p, a1 p: s
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 C, {9 {( x( e  B3 t
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ! `$ I" _1 v7 u
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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5 d/ H$ [% q& M9 X& PThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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4 @2 ~8 i3 T1 H" J! V) @! |+ h; kBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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: E! e. B/ i+ s2 r# mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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) K% g5 A6 g6 x2 G7 [: G. e* P"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区: R& N0 D1 p6 U
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."