[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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7 B% [: t) c. |0 e据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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! F. m/ D% s0 c" }% prs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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  W% O  `0 a( V6 G  d4 k研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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& u& q% m+ b" l2 q9 V3 h5 q3 zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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8 u, j) K/ Y4 j# x* z9 @  l8 q人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
! g/ J+ a4 A9 ?6 u  FPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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! v; n1 b# i  k2 v8 w' Z$ tThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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9 ^+ U' N; t% c- Drs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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: I7 M) ~% n, q$ S, C' E/ {! T7 s5 Krs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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$ `3 U/ W' l1 n! {人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 n& k2 e4 v+ }/ f5 a) `

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4 B2 @2 Q8 e8 u0 m; ?+ frs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 6 m7 Y9 D- z6 m( O0 _* u
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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% \4 U: _& v$ f" G# R3 _7 _The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 5 J# j& N2 x3 O$ t- o# R/ I

$ Y# l2 w- o2 R5 ~But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ s  o, w2 o  i3 l& ?6 O+ d0 f
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. * y5 L1 ~7 j& g( X0 p' r
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."