[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. [& U" Y) L/ \* d, V# i2 e4 n1 d! W
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。' u7 V% M: Q1 S) h
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区7 p" R1 k: C) I  N/ e
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。# L4 ]7 T6 d0 ]! [5 W- X

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% F8 y- _% J& v, L/ O8 e人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ; e) j7 P8 X# \
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.   N3 H  ?5 o+ ]+ b3 p1 F
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 W% g) X' K" F6 O* h' w

9 g, m5 z' b. ~/ ~, c, J6 [Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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" g8 j& i- E( G/ }  ?rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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6 h  A& `+ q- k9 X- V' a7 ?( M3 `Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" q$ u: _' B+ K9 D- D

: F- I2 u  d$ {0 y2 |: H9 TSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 0 ^; y2 Q4 L" l3 x) S3 t

5 k% u5 E& j7 c6 n5 s) S6 v( QThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 2 j% ?# Y. i  }& x6 V
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. $ ~, j  M0 ?; n7 y, _8 s5 [8 z
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区+ M: e- D! {# O. t

% j# \3 b' C% p"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区2 H8 E- f/ d( x0 K8 x! T# R

; T; @) [& q, C2 Z: m3 ~1 Z) o, v5 f; S& Hrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."