[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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8 j% K( Y" m( o3 t  F& grs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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8 q% y# p; F; S' C7 g4 n7 P研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区, A& t9 W& \# w' C. G1 m
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' + y: `$ u% @1 y! b5 G

5 K, o% ]. t7 r8 M+ o% hHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 1 s2 X7 q0 F7 c( p$ l
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ( [4 O! [& i9 w. b
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ! j$ y" y+ U9 }" u& A

$ g  y2 W3 [6 k6 p3 O+ h人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. $ G0 q+ ~8 D) q2 e. A

& H; c" S8 a: O# M- I. O6 CLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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, s, t' C1 d! O2 d"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区* t& Q% G2 u$ F& N' T3 D
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- V* ~* a3 g# I+ K. \% }
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 ]& w# J/ _# Z1 u0 D, z! u

. Q% N2 U% i# ~& J1 t9 R2 mSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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/ N, ^; h7 F0 h- o; IAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de7 S- o% a! r/ }  @

" k6 B* t. {2 n# M, C8 gThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区- q% d- `: a( f2 _% o8 s

! o. h  Q0 M, T8 [$ r! L- TThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de# p6 v! Q  q0 t4 r

6 K4 S3 q9 P% P$ E, _But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ( Q5 F; J" i' T5 d% a$ x
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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8 O- F) C7 r/ X3 x5 M# l' \人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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4 ]2 D. P* S# S8 S7 s- K"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."