[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。
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9 [  L6 [. p: b+ C) h6 g2 v据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- G4 L1 ]  U  }% p& k  ^, X

5 v% ~' @! L4 y: X) _! U, crs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。9 I( H$ {2 L) r5 L2 D8 f7 t

8 }2 `. p; ]2 s人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。

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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区, _4 T9 _1 `# h" A/ A7 p

3 s# ]/ n1 V0 I  j% U4 B. tHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
' h7 k8 k4 _$ L$ G' GPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. / d  F) \( p2 y1 Q
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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( D* g% B8 O6 Q. O% d/ gThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 d$ X1 t  Q3 y# L8 Q
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 0 [/ @  D8 `( V6 E- |0 P
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" t# s' W8 Y' [) w
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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- w* N& z9 D2 l* }The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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  M( `& g" e! U- E0 W% q8 B7 rThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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" l) e* |" w0 T! B, f/ m& c5 b: r5 N0 Zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.   h( W" S4 `; K0 r1 t$ _

% ^! `* A( r9 OIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. - f# t/ n3 U# i0 D# v6 k3 Q

; j, Q  l* L% J) l/ U人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  [6 \  ]  S' r2 p8 s& J7 t& I8 K

* Y! v, Y0 l2 N  v6 ?2 O"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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Women shunned high-flyers for men with average jobs

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