[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, u! H- ~& Q( b# d8 J' |" C( V  A

3 T$ _: i5 D+ f9 B据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。0 d) ~- o9 [! `1 J. L0 H/ C
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! A% {2 h* B6 m- u. J+ x

5 u8 }0 B! l( @研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区0 y0 `6 M" W' b1 e& e) Y' `& l

/ _( p/ G6 e- ]4 TWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'   _; i- U! \0 K- [
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
) p; \) ~2 M' V& S; F  NPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. : w4 ~( a6 U/ q

1 O% Q, i; D/ r" U% qBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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3 a* l1 z: J' j. j" @! p  \- C5 VThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. * c4 H) ]( v- U4 c

8 q, n- `/ Q4 ^- I1 p3 dLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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: l2 Q1 h( l5 mUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. $ s# d$ p4 x3 y
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 v& \" k# u! m1 H6 T0 }
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9 Q: w* c6 F0 b4 V+ d7 I  Y/ }Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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. X4 C1 U. w* N) F5 tThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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3 Q0 _, s  P- G6 C6 Z9 Xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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1 v. {2 |8 q& j/ ^; N"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区1 q' A7 S5 O$ R
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."