[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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7 T! z) ~% J) z: L研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。! V. \7 h7 l4 R' u4 ~

4 S! Z; e1 e. Z( H4 K$ \人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区5 x/ h4 \- q" v7 c  u( k0 b
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。5 D# `( L# K. C( A" N! H
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
. {8 V) [* y$ f4 }5 h. i人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ! s5 {5 }6 \: D7 o+ l
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 2 K3 r; E" m. X7 H6 ]5 w

, x/ u4 o  A# w* l$ [+ @The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区7 B2 k! `  f! F# f. Q1 H$ \" `

( B+ D8 o. _. z: N) g; h' m5 TLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ! d- P; e* I1 J, ]6 i% E
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  D" B- `7 @& {7 x6 g" {

' }( u$ N# Z8 Y7 d"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." % l; |5 ?7 L8 H# L. t5 f0 u1 T

6 W( J/ i3 n! S2 PUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. / _  E# H5 q! ?* J1 c8 k3 S

. [& a: [  a6 N# iThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 2 ~8 U, S1 }2 u' g2 r
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 9 w4 ~% T5 m2 Q# G- ~' j
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. / I4 f4 {3 }; s$ Y* V5 i% U
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 2 k0 W: V+ V4 ]
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."