[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- P# B- n3 v1 d9 j& h2 L

/ u% H0 \# O, y" \据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区3 C+ u( [; H+ S4 A( Y. K

3 {8 U3 b( ?) X' u/ T+ T0 S; V研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。. J9 J# r5 \7 j! g5 e/ z
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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0 j7 ]# t# }2 Z人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。: W. ^1 o7 U+ ~* V
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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2 f: \! r9 G$ f# PHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
  P" C! x9 {2 h, J5 g3 M" KPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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- r. m3 v+ U5 R2 U1 N- J) eBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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# y% Z+ {/ }% \( _; S8 v6 i  rLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". & l3 O( G+ h$ K  s* a4 V; h/ H

2 W- d1 H, a4 A6 M% R( C1 A' o: u"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 5 _0 e/ \3 i! B
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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5 c& d& U- x8 p  X9 _/ [Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 9 z1 K* T( u, Z! W" J2 x

3 Y5 d" P5 w6 G, z! YSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. : c5 Q7 \/ k1 X3 w7 q

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区7 l! j- B8 @2 f; P- ~
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区, n' V3 p+ H8 c2 _. Y* l
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区. |, G/ H8 T5 F, L$ H5 B
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区' e. n: |) a% O, L! N5 r2 K" [

& S" h7 O# z' m3 R4 [! i1 E人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."