[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。: G3 Z$ g0 Q( k2 O2 Y! O1 m
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。! k  w, v& o6 K! [
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。& q9 T" ^5 ], S1 h4 _5 @, e
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。4 X) N( w1 j! V# y# `! M5 p

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( |% U# U% f- }4 _: M4 LHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
; D/ {8 n3 L1 F4 Z' N9 g, Y; oPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. & t$ ?. e5 r/ g3 N* J  z$ R3 _
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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; u) x" Q: `. G6 P2 \( K! Z# z& `  D* NLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ ~1 x+ q' L9 J; P% b

2 n# F1 t. V" i4 Z* T. [- D9 \人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 9 M+ S4 K) n7 _4 O' K7 G  W$ W) i: p

3 v! B" R5 [+ j" N! Y"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 7 a0 O. G1 s2 H% @- r/ K
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 0 T& Z, r( Z6 I) \: a5 w8 y, F
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. & s& i4 @0 X' N7 V+ H

% {2 @2 l! ~' |8 Rrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. % Y: u  f( d! k4 t: y* T

& l8 c' V) e: K& e. B9 Irs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ) ~1 m6 ~+ l  S3 U- |
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. , B7 i+ N% ?9 p5 i: _, J
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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. s" v8 }) `$ V4 r& Yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."