[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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7 [9 n9 C0 [/ X! i( @! H% X" n" grs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) R4 E1 ~7 f& I

3 p- y4 q0 H5 E% O研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。- |! o* l6 l. g5 @' U" ~
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) Q9 g9 C7 p: f- a' q

0 b/ x% {1 ]# O  F5 v人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。  e. W( l! P7 g4 |
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. + r5 L; W6 B! x2 _# M" n
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区2 X; Z8 S5 Y( i4 |9 @
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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% l" `5 v& _- U/ \+ y" fThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区' w* N2 h4 K( J9 A% N2 c
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". $ x8 `6 C' u( p( f% ^/ o* j

0 N( q0 n$ y* t8 A( E7 o8 N% s人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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  \" U* I0 `7 X: K" g1 k"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ' i  M9 ~! ~! D/ L  l

; o: U# A* S# aUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区* G+ u4 X9 _3 D  h

1 _1 i* q( U3 uSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. * B* X& L3 E6 m/ J

6 D1 X+ m* o" n! X8 u: D% M- {  oThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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9 L1 t& u' ~% ?6 y% T  H. p! D- Mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区9 T: c5 [3 a2 D( a% p& M

) N, I& `( e! u8 S* d) A5 |; O0 O"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 4 e/ ^( M5 j7 K: f6 V

$ L/ R/ Q: v# f4 [: u人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."