[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区9 c3 k- Z1 G, L% g

3 c) V- E) ?+ A9 v# M: s, s据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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/ {$ O, f, j( r! G9 K研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。  e& @* C2 J; C: W: O1 r

! D) d, N; z. ~6 t  x# m1 r0 xWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 d' _  u. ]3 D8 k6 k" n4 ?/ \
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 Z% @0 V, F; t
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 6 C# f) x- L/ x" {  P

& S8 F. A3 t7 E  J$ R. c7 uBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. % W+ K5 G1 e) w$ c# t8 Z1 R# K

. s  l5 J. i7 I3 z人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 5 ~! d# A; V( j- W( s4 |! B  f& n/ F# Y6 k

* l3 Y; a# i: m+ I* ELead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 7 M, |1 I0 Y) Y! |* k) Y: x5 q/ r
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. " q2 y5 F3 v9 I9 p% M2 Z: S6 |

& C9 }' }% d2 Q"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." - u' \& G( L+ x" G* W
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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9 E  B( C, |( M. J; ESix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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) r- O8 E+ Z1 ?Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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" C6 \) D+ |5 BThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. % W2 ~$ V$ _: d/ B8 Z- r, o

/ r: C3 f) y. i; S! @: w+ g) m8 J2 |3 IThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 4 w7 e9 o7 S: A, J8 H! a( a1 T# O5 H

: b9 S0 u2 ~8 n8 u( ]rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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3 M1 {& p- w: S* a+ C: f6 F"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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* X' V/ i8 L, N人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."