[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, Q) m& y& O) w% f
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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" T3 N8 A4 R0 `) N研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: G9 B4 R5 b, L. B+ Z: R
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区) k, u. U3 @- P) a* P& P% e& B
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。& A4 z( a4 S5 r; z% B( [' a

9 v' o" L" k" ~Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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/ x9 y) t  C6 u6 U5 ]High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 9 L- y* n4 c( ~9 Q6 B; b
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' }# [* M& ^! X3 i$ f

- y+ g  I( n5 ]. Q& ^/ n9 ?But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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2 S( B; T# k" C- wThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ) F+ |; f( S& ]2 V& K

- N+ c2 h1 y; C- `5 q% e) {! sLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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2 \. w! J6 N; f2 y"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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  p% I- a) m6 Q( U! }/ u人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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# Y* ~( X$ ^6 rSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ' A2 k! h3 s! Q7 ]1 T+ f
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. " E9 s3 Q" h( G4 n! Q$ I& ~
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 5 L" k* P! P" U. G" V" G

, ~4 @% p& B5 j$ X/ I4 wThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. - e2 Q6 o5 T6 l- u
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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8 M. E6 f" O4 x2 N, l0 k人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 n7 @$ j5 g/ `) E- o& A+ w  E3 _/ g
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."