[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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: z' b& \: |% u& }5 @; Wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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/ `, m- g  |0 S. ~研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" |" D" e! `: I3 x4 C/ \' ^8 {
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区; D9 b* f7 c8 t% |5 [0 q

) N- G8 G% }7 ]+ A# Q6 A研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。5 H; g, w  b4 `5 X. D) W" z) i( T
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 8 D5 M( q' S/ h

  M" A3 Q5 j! \0 \5 jHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
1 c* j9 I2 f) N: @0 j# o$ N5 S  OPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 5 Y% ^( {  j0 {1 Q1 c. J- A5 L
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. * i& i: E. C  V! W0 N# |" W

: e/ G$ U' {% sThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". . g! Z( \5 }6 @9 [
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区$ ?! `* M" r0 ~4 x4 D2 `

* o; b+ U# X$ i( k! }1 w- {7 z! E% f"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 6 c! w% }' V$ Q+ W+ o* [% d1 W

9 ^4 j0 L; g: U' X  Irs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 F9 P# b+ |  M" Y8 B: W
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 4 p9 g. ?- s4 y3 U7 m; S6 Y

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/ c/ z. c, S' a' w) p: C$ Z5 e5 SAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. , O7 x# V! |' j% z' Z

1 v3 e8 ~/ w9 i- J& L9 a人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.   @! W0 S8 r# t& s1 _

$ o, Q6 I* E" V. ~- @2 AThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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7 b& X4 Y+ Z7 B6 @0 }  r- M! I% wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. / @" \7 t$ f" e; z4 l8 M. z

6 E' \- @4 g% Q6 c1 `3 N"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. - V# ~) y) Y! x0 G( a
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."