[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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6 O- X1 p* l/ |/ k% {  D研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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5 U5 N( I: {7 wWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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& `; d0 X/ G* J) wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ' O0 E5 ~8 r3 |' W7 z9 B
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ! H  n4 u0 s/ v( E

$ I3 v' z+ r& S8 h: t: q$ `# U1 _But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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% ~' ^- u3 n( f+ f# B: D& d4 O+ L/ w$ PThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区# U3 ?/ h2 Q/ Q  ~. D
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区4 Z- I! L8 I, y0 r
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 1 c% T7 }* S% G* {7 x

7 F" A- m1 M0 m2 U' t! G( W8 [+ n"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) k# o0 K, x2 s* A

8 H/ [- H- E0 y3 g1 E8 O- n- p0 a& _4 \Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. * I% r, G& ]/ [: `  K  [- Z

( d* H" T0 y/ P4 n; m# T/ ^人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 7 X/ d5 x5 t2 ~
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 5 R* j6 r5 G) z1 ~7 t- c: T) ~
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."