[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。% v+ _: o. ?9 b' L2 A4 j3 f- {

6 [" _( U* b3 y, t据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。0 E/ x1 F  t- r( L  Q: o
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, y6 A+ F# D5 R2 d1 R- _
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区* |7 p' D3 w3 P8 z: ^" }

8 t. S# Z) ?, \* n* y- \Why women fall for 'Mr Average' , R( m8 v2 T; C% u# d: ?) ?

3 r  J( k8 O* \4 p; I人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
* t: o) }$ r5 l/ b3 h0 sPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 5 ^. Z% [7 ~% f7 b

& C7 C9 r5 _; R! ^# tLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区0 j  h" G6 C6 C" m

2 P3 R' b% i1 i5 B4 V"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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' g$ R% g* X* _7 x. _1 R0 E) N人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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% {, v2 i  [1 J5 t4 y  pSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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4 b% K7 L0 k! Z( j6 mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. # |0 ~& |1 q1 n  c" J- P" `
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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3 B) G1 `9 R9 x1 ^0 O  dIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."