[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区/ @4 @, w2 p( ?5 l

& y9 ?% ?/ g0 N0 d据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。3 v3 i/ H9 U; m  y4 S

; t, l7 {4 [. m  [! e! ]研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。, X; i+ R1 D9 r/ x# ]
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。1 t9 D" h& s4 p' t) e9 w' P

3 ]3 D1 G: U$ }' X% y. c, \rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。( g- r: {( K9 A4 Q* ]; h8 z

4 f/ ?/ T7 ~2 r9 v" W. n$ Prs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 3 a" l3 H6 L) N& ^

7 S9 S) g0 G5 w8 |8 hHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 2 r: a* O/ \6 T" W( O6 x/ j' v5 e
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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. E5 z, q( K% a% y9 b; e( PThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区. p  I+ s/ L7 ^4 q
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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' m, x" i& V+ F0 g4 W人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ( h5 G; j! T) f3 n' y3 A' a

5 j; |2 h- Z6 v8 a# l! \"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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# L2 v' W( B7 T. F" ~: I/ F& Trs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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" f; B! _0 D& o. m# @Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; v. n8 z4 N% D2 N4 ]) F" a  v

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! @4 ?0 c+ F. }+ o* e! s" e& RAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区: }3 c/ r: O5 A* q
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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) `3 S+ Z6 I  L* O( q9 k. Ers238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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' V  Z& V; n: j4 \: oIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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- t  Z! a8 ^: u2 r"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 0 S# F7 H& O8 v
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."