[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。8 N- w8 w+ C& P0 X* C6 P

5 [! L4 o7 M/ Krs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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% ]" G9 \8 J3 m- t; w研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区+ K9 S3 h7 G2 |/ x5 p! [. Y+ _  L

& ~( H3 K6 H2 ^4 h1 z( wWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区1 k! j) v- Z4 E3 |8 [; t+ a

/ K$ v& |- d% z" i" `- m8 Frs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
% ~5 k7 t( b) y1 L0 YPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. , _8 ~/ b* [7 D" _2 m% h9 k6 i

% y, m7 h' o. @. l& c4 e" QThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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0 }" ~" S* K9 l( J" _( q" b( H, j"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 1 @1 r* z; ?3 Y
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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0 i5 H$ ]" {- ?" v: ?Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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$ e7 z1 J; K5 S. ^! U% x1 R9 VSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 3 f9 R2 @: b7 {2 k$ v% M# o2 S( m$ b

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* v6 ^' c  |0 O$ _$ g+ Grs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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# g- c$ W; M3 R+ e9 c$ Z6 F# CThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ' k8 [/ ~5 ?: q

6 |6 L( ?3 f, g- x5 A; C' ]3 I人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 7 t8 ?; h' P7 q$ H3 d  g& p

) m5 m( l  G7 hBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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* ?  n2 k. A8 j* \# ^rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. * Y, j' v. `# K- p4 k

, ?5 l/ [4 f3 J5 _"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."