[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。. n1 p/ A% v$ y5 n

/ x4 O  N! k  g: R, R; Y据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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  X2 o  J' ]" W9 f1 s; g( S人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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) A& C' E: i3 _+ ^& T人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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5 i, t0 q' Q) y9 wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区8 _6 R( y( |# H0 H0 p* g
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. - o( J9 V8 K- D
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区1 c% e+ w2 O5 A" i! }2 ?& a

8 F3 c3 G3 z1 W4 q' FLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 2 v) t7 O7 G! Z, v. l6 M- M: T' a: a
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& L2 I  q# s, O& e% D  v

+ S- R& {+ |; ^# Y% V; P  J  r! d"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." - d/ w. ?# t( k
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 9 r3 t' u( V2 j9 V: Z" Y2 a
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. , N2 V* X! ?0 j% b% @- ~
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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: w) _, W1 h; ^8 s/ @& Y. o- ?0 }rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 3 p; ^" u* E* u' Z; i, `
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! y: G" J3 W6 }0 s* h& ]9 d
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 \7 p6 v- r4 v4 D8 l- N/ q
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."