[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。$ ^. }5 U% s+ Y4 `/ \
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 s& ^+ a5 I( S$ L
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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: z$ ~5 i$ R4 u; q人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。/ d7 J' _* @  M% t& H6 A
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ( N3 b3 l( P6 H: ^0 @
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. $ f* I3 ?- s4 V' p" q2 j
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. . S( r% S- f1 {8 u! D* }

# q) K9 W& ~4 c1 g8 C人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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$ Y- }& X+ [- R# q# u人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 3 Z) x8 \0 p  m1 ~3 M9 {

0 g: }4 Z5 e& ~, G6 x" I"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. # b3 M/ r4 s' g) }  V7 }) [
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. * I# V; y9 V6 V" W: I0 ?  n  m
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2 u( ?+ ]8 ?- r1 N- T. X. i& PAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. , x2 ]" \) |- V& _

$ l2 x+ ?( T+ ^8 R/ a- G% J5 gThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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8 _0 v/ G8 ?7 x; W: qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 9 M' D. r7 c) D" H% x  n
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 2 o2 s( K+ U' G5 {' O6 g! M7 K

8 l5 u$ y* r% ]; Y- y"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. + h3 u# h$ j1 O0 |! M$ {$ ^

  b1 O+ S9 {! srs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."