[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。" A6 a. h) s. D0 t$ J
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* f( }% X# k4 C$ X. F% x

# b7 _; \$ ?- N# E% l研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。5 K) P1 M+ o0 @" w$ A" m' V
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。/ k$ p% h4 j/ ]
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 |# |! N* C# N6 _8 u
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ( d) u" {! t0 J4 G8 v) R1 t
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 S& c* g+ W) H
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" O4 O" F  F4 `& k- ]
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区5 q9 g+ y3 v# ^+ L
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区6 w' e& G! n: G: S# a- i& u
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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2 I  K0 ?: Q% n- ]/ ers238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区, ?0 h" {! I% _

" Z0 P8 K0 w( j+ q  T+ PUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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4 M7 g9 r- ^8 }/ A: Z+ o( Y( UAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ) a: m! d+ C* O  u$ B) V9 e

9 G- o1 ?3 q4 R! uThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ ?: E" a  W0 _, Y- J! K, m5 }2 G

# L$ h" G* Q1 [1 ?9 ^" Urs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 t% n3 K# \$ _7 f/ H2 f# h

3 A+ U7 m5 O7 `: ^  @, z"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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: M/ P) u/ x. P/ P, u0 Y"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."