[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区) D- |% E9 i+ B
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。5 k' d2 G0 A9 Y; N: d: P
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区& f! R8 z$ D) p& @
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。+ O! D6 @. d! p2 F& W5 d5 i
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' " j' I5 P5 a( J
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. # G, [, ], v& ~. F. B: j( G/ P
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区. I4 \9 F% g- N* Z- r( V2 E

+ O* c, ?7 S& _4 U, H# QBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 z2 i, y2 E6 i
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区5 I! @' j" X% v

. U0 p* a, W9 v# W6 o. QLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区) c8 j! S; N0 f
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 8 w" x. v3 T( P* _5 N

" V* e5 J3 I1 F( c0 f3 {, E* r"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ) _% |% v& p0 a6 K* O

7 N2 Z( i- t: j) I, T+ DUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. / `' K3 ], m$ i( n
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4 F1 Y$ C! s6 p& ~1 s! ~1 IAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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* K. C/ G2 d4 ~# X* BThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 q3 }, n: e5 ~' k' d/ B9 y
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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, Z& |/ C' [) O  c- d9 eIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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3 {. F0 w. W3 P6 B0 m2 m"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."