[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 i/ v$ N+ ~$ R/ x5 D

. X2 Y" X& k" P1 Rrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。+ q/ B# o8 w7 Y4 e9 d3 [

+ q1 |% x- Y, M7 Q研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。0 |/ }9 q. i9 Z/ i& x( L/ x9 r
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。- K! J, h, C  V5 ~6 c

, l6 G0 a, @* C2 z研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。+ S5 N& G: F; Q2 g
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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, X) d% ~: Y! I3 P8 ^1 I1 D人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
! p" S. R; l7 g- B. \$ frs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区; A) l6 N. O8 S4 q& X  C6 t6 G

4 X% c8 A4 N2 lBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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! {- C, i6 S' J, k人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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+ n  D* a; j( L8 }0 `8 I: v4 h人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区# m& e, {; T6 J1 g8 g! s
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." . ~" R. u& @( F% Q

# R4 w( \( |" }1 N; T1 zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区: l. K4 C. n4 o0 v9 o" u  n  b

$ R7 h" c( d9 I人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 9 K) h6 S6 H9 i4 m6 |. E* p. t
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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: `/ ]8 @6 U  O, MThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区, T% ^- C  m; Y9 M$ s

* S! q& i$ k" j* _7 {3 U" S( MThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 8 @8 _. u  r% z. y6 q
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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4 j  s1 z- I; G5 o' d0 s" y+ \Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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# o0 j! I* J( B  K* T( `"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."