[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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% e+ n$ G0 ^9 h2 l: s- g' E" ~rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) `, g/ w& S2 |% x

3 T: `5 j2 P/ P* q1 E. n0 [  ]; rrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  h# X% R1 w: m% w6 U4 z  N" s
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 9 I9 P; ]1 m, I
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 8 x( ~3 g9 i% O  p: e  Z- x! D

; v$ }1 ]* I9 ~$ ~% grs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区$ F3 S1 _. u: f$ x( x

/ C" M6 H4 O0 ~+ r"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 K& z% _: F4 Y4 e+ B5 u
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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6 n; g: S4 [/ r! o: p5 SUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. % H# S" i  u2 x4 O0 e& ~4 h
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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& A+ r' q) g- U( ~The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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- G+ h( e3 P" Q- J0 ?: H人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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, y2 I' z5 {" N, P. M7 ?- G7 e, e- ]"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."