[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。" S4 k9 h" U8 \% L5 F# W
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。( @+ I. C. q, q- i

9 D, B4 S: ]3 A+ i+ D6 f' i# u研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 \) i6 Z# g, K: J

# @# s3 `& d- M. O人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区3 O2 G' G) i, X5 `2 c& N
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. # Q2 g8 [- v+ k5 {7 ~& S. ]
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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  ]) \, b6 e6 Z) A6 q3 ?1 hBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 6 a' ^7 n1 R9 L* k/ \

$ L. i) S" N' r% e) }3 y- c7 _人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 Z; H- I( Q# Z/ F% S

+ A7 n$ [1 h9 r# G, r, l/ T"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 7 w+ B- Q! C5 V7 v

, v3 d6 j- H- A! X6 u"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." # `1 Q) U3 Z3 ?! l6 z
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 9 ~3 T3 Z  Q1 Z/ d2 P) |6 \% ^0 v
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区- a! p2 U( N! e' ^2 C/ S3 l( c( `* B
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ; v) s4 W; V  ~  W1 k
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. + y5 w% w+ O% _9 t5 i3 Z, z, B
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* Z* C; R+ a: m: j% Y: p) j( i
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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9 n' ~9 Z1 u5 p. m"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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& n' f; x, r( V0 [0 w"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."