[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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* `$ f, g9 H+ q; [- |据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区+ U# e2 y) U% U( o& Z& N
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。' o6 I! y+ N2 r' M% \

" N2 ^# x& Z3 ^0 y5 wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。! g- s; a7 N- c5 Q9 s1 q1 b9 I

) y0 v6 I$ o) E% ]5 j+ ]5 R. n- P0 v研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区7 z1 J( N$ R" R6 v; T6 F4 ~) E

; D% Z1 Z3 c# O9 b& j6 LWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
# `7 w* |$ B9 ~; _Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 2 k8 |, A! ?1 C# C' b' q* a

2 m& E' S3 t9 A- b" HBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. , ?- F3 ^# v: }8 I
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". " ~4 Q7 U' x- V3 ~# N1 P0 \
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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/ ?4 U1 \$ Y& n8 X- ~+ W7 w"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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  T6 f* p9 i! D* f- ^Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. , s0 h+ n0 h. u: C+ b

; e3 B( ^" X  }6 Rrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 5 E: U/ L5 ~6 y: `0 ~# B% Q4 |, P
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4 j" q% q0 p: XAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区& m. y3 J6 `- k0 w/ t# L- a
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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1 B& R7 D& H2 j+ `) gThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 6 X; e, l2 y! M* Q
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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4 {' c4 t' M. e. `人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."