[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。3 i' P; C6 K- g9 B
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。  z; d4 ]. o" B* m8 Z6 u: [

$ l3 Y: K9 T! r4 h* @根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区% N# @4 q5 D1 O0 c8 n5 K2 {

6 L8 M" L1 h, ^研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。" j7 v0 l+ U" g6 E6 J

& ]0 O/ w' G" f' Y' P人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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% J! b! h4 L; o- m' ZHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 4 Z% @0 W% h, E
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. / F8 ~0 s$ u" h

5 @8 T+ _- b* L; Qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 6 g9 k9 @* g0 ]2 T
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ) o: G" O' j7 D/ j, C' M- U
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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' l' P1 F; }, }& n2 |rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 0 }, k$ Q9 N) p! R$ |

/ v) p, o1 ]* \: R( |Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区  M* B* a8 e( N; f6 c7 \# d

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% q. H/ k+ k! Y" d% U: L: AAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区! q) Q* U; X0 o- r
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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: k1 f$ t9 v7 m7 S- }9 E& }8 IThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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8 I. t- \9 a3 o* MBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. : ^) N% m, z. Y! O6 K

. S: L( {- D- t& n8 R0 n# a人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区) }; ?4 A5 ]( w4 o9 r& c1 |7 K. `
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区0 t+ k$ R/ ]; u( V( w
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."