[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。5 o+ Z# b+ A( `2 j

, t# G6 @, L2 d1 z- p7 c% X据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。- p5 G# a# ?6 n

8 u2 E) b5 H( t  l* k  Trs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。4 O" W! ^7 t+ I% Y" M, a

6 ~8 @4 b& h% |" ~3 K* `8 l根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。- K( i1 n/ N! [0 X) q7 M
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. % \  j( @6 C' K  v7 i! M
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 X" M; s. Y. |
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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' \" O' f' P% t. l+ V% zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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& H: x: C6 h; j8 brs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." / o8 {' f; z, d. C9 K3 l8 h& v+ E- ]& M2 R

) ~7 X2 L; z: v& O3 T7 I0 c# vUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 8 E: U/ J7 j% L1 o

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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' C0 {+ h. n0 a5 [  ^The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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. c5 A) k4 ?  o9 P8 D5 U人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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% \# x0 `* J& P2 v人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ! o2 d9 T( U& }" \6 \
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. $ t, ^9 D) z2 Y9 n6 M6 z

- q0 i) y1 P% c8 ~  Z4 n- L* O"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."