[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。' j% V1 s9 J7 w
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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' D. w- M" F  i- D研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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6 M& z& J" G, o, p+ h: I& L根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区6 _! Z- h/ [9 a9 H' C% U( v
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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: ?2 Q6 C% G0 ]- A" `( vWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
( ]4 l3 m1 ]1 l3 O  V' LPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区/ ?9 x  e5 ]+ a/ M

, |! l1 k" n( {+ n/ d4 [But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) }1 p0 f' N3 g: n9 p" e
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 2 O( F  g6 i# `" ~

0 T/ K1 f0 o9 B+ Q! jLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." . X' z( j/ S9 k8 A) Q1 S
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 4 q# a0 Y4 d1 _+ f

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. |% i4 i+ U/ F$ H* [( L# `  j人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de# Y) n  q" Z+ u0 O
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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- X& W. G% q# j( t/ S/ L5 `The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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" B9 t* S: H9 hBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区. M8 q7 p$ I' H8 z! N

, m/ J3 b5 B8 {( a, p" B人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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* I# r7 ?$ q0 E3 C  L& j+ Y"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."