[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。0 Q6 t' R, I" z

  _; D0 f& i) n, s8 J# o研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。3 J' G$ I, j- e" ?  Y

9 @. S' W2 c5 u4 R: h根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ e% ~+ I# |' o
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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9 |. ^( k! E+ o1 RWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区$ h# y3 S0 Z, H- B: H0 Q
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ' B. Y. D. w7 T" E
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区6 m! `+ }& X+ |: `: c: A
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 6 D+ a6 \# X' t0 u! V
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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$ Y0 a( [; h) ~4 Z( d"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区3 q7 f9 M( L# a% I6 \. b" u; x
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. . |1 O, G, D' [8 a  Y3 q2 |" }

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6 O! {, x7 M$ V7 }' \; H. ^rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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  E, z" t6 k; C' R2 O# grs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. : W+ F+ m+ Z$ a2 ]) _
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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8 ^8 C4 ^' ~# A8 b% ?But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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& m) v0 M- o+ S9 v  H( Hrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. * u! v; |: |% j( i

. E0 A, ^% w: w& Q& u"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."