[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。0 Q& H$ O# N6 s2 `: ~+ M

: L; [2 E* v* l- X据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区# B- ~. O9 i; }9 e) D) g
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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( `- _) ?3 L, ~" y( X6 t* a. r% \Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区+ Q& l% a8 [: J2 h7 I! Y! S& d: {6 o2 Q

( q! y7 H( V. S8 {/ D" AHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. % a- Y0 b2 a$ e. }& ]1 l+ g0 K
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de' `( H, V$ K5 U: e. v% F

5 |' X0 H  V- E2 Z  ]2 V0 pBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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- y" o  M9 L3 d7 \- Z/ Wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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. h8 W. V% S7 t1 W, ]1 j人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de" C, j! j2 G# L2 k; x+ `! S9 I

4 y' w2 V, e' m. m$ ?1 A' `$ a"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; {+ q2 |+ @) a2 V4 ~  ?
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." * a' X! S/ e  }, I! m, O# S' y1 k
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 1 @# u9 _: m, U: R5 I6 L
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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8 g( F: x2 U$ ?" `$ x: L, u$ D* `Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. ) U3 X5 Z  z+ t; g% f* c4 {9 h: X6 k
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. / w0 {6 P( j9 |  b- _

- \( v. G; n& ~5 B) J( \But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 2 p# G5 E. N3 R, K8 f. s" {
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.   W; Q( F) c) k( w
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."