[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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0 q2 \3 x. O3 M$ o* v据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% J! h$ t9 M2 p8 E4 x: J0 b

6 y7 k, \8 k) h: |% O+ F8 J, x/ S根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。$ L& h- f. R* c
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区: m" Q4 \( a, Z! J; [/ e
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 7 `0 J) [. a6 ]& I! o9 `7 J
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. " T1 E! K9 h" d$ J' ^3 K% G
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. % r/ q- Y7 {1 X6 ^; ]. v+ v
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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; d7 F: K. W) A$ |5 T# z9 u% _rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 1 p1 M5 d3 }; f4 O
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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/ B' Z* C8 V# B  n! U"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 1 }: t3 \) _) U+ p$ X
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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+ N3 l+ s6 K- x9 B8 R7 mThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 7 O+ }+ e! g  a2 l1 a4 t9 l! B

$ l. ?' ~' V2 X6 IBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ; Q% x% I- h9 ?+ V: V

% M3 d/ L% N8 R' a+ D8 yIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ( q( m7 x2 y* O7 ?7 E% `
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.   w: ~4 Z4 U0 J" h( S: }+ f: N

/ ]! q  @: A6 q0 ]) q"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."