[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 t5 V* o4 O7 N& x/ q6 B- t. z# u

4 Y  D- |* {$ k/ T据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区0 W0 J: `; ^& w; Y2 |

  r! F) f8 m! G& c+ b) p人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区9 Q. S2 V( O- e4 ~' x/ Q
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 N9 j2 V6 k* Z# d

+ k2 A4 _* x7 _& y& ]/ h2 u研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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3 @0 C2 D& h; Z5 f$ [) K  }2 L- Wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区3 o+ n, ^: r  V
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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' H! h/ w; e0 C7 Q. JThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". # h3 D( O: F5 p
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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( {& Z1 M9 f8 X& o3 EUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% e0 a4 b4 i8 U. n% Y
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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# h( Z; C/ w# R2 bThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* q4 K7 U2 m$ G6 Q6 H
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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& A3 \. M9 L  p, MBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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) y& N: v9 `" b2 [Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区; i4 y- J6 x5 u( E6 Z3 q. Y% S

2 M# X8 F0 Q" U: |& V5 ]"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.   E" t. @# z+ ~3 j
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."