[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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5 p4 O( Q$ S2 V0 `2 X研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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' ]1 R. f" q/ e1 ^5 E$ T研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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: H; J7 K* g9 w: FWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 3 |& W2 y! P0 v3 p
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
! F; e" ?0 q; M- q- u7 f) JPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 0 x3 C* b1 ~, l4 R. b
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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, |$ e, {' V3 N! P4 U( ~9 FThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 3 }5 G7 Y4 f- n8 @% U

# u# f, A/ _: {* cLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区9 y+ a; {$ F8 g3 K

" u+ _  W' u% c& U' H+ Hrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. % H( }9 R9 b. ^
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区* T8 l+ S0 s4 Y! [3 Z

' L: F* W5 @& v1 B4 l0 G* P" ~6 o- Irs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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2 Y* z; Y# W9 c" V  |Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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6 F& B7 S& c5 k! VAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 9 f2 y# z9 J* T3 G$ _
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. : E0 [% W! K# e/ ^4 P+ V, Y
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. , Z6 x/ c, E$ ]& Y

& e% N! s6 j' U: W"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."