[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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) x3 Q" _/ H: V1 N/ R$ e研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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' _5 M4 W& C, z2 Z- ~+ i根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% T7 ~4 J! M4 D  L
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。( O  \" R; d9 c. |/ g$ w

; z  U4 ~3 S, C& t; c/ j' E# a- K6 k人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: n( i& t5 J- ]# o# \1 i
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ' v& T8 r( N& p  H% H: P
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ) _9 \, d) \2 H, m6 e

, y% y* S6 P' ?But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% |' t4 ?% h9 u1 _' {7 Z! U; H# |
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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( U1 p# M! z2 L9 D7 X( n+ Ars238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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  [& v: J6 D. C. ^- \! _Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. % P7 }( }- `: U! D  @& t# U. I
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区9 Z0 K5 j% W1 F( ]+ a( x0 w
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; G) `' i4 h0 u人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区4 m- {+ u3 ~6 {" D' T# a; Y
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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7 J9 K  M6 u; G8 T7 O% r8 ], `9 PBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 5 F4 V+ l: j# |" F; g$ ~
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ) o* B0 B- }; Y$ g5 g

! b: p  E! }0 l! J; P"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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& Z* G( p# @6 ?# w! G) r"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."