[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。" e/ j: |: E8 c# D3 y4 f

/ ?: j) V" L) I7 i6 w& P: s# {据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。# z, a1 ?0 |9 q; C7 L
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。* D& O; F+ H. ~6 f, c( r; K: A' E$ \  _

' f/ ^  Y2 e6 a2 |1 W& j' A% jWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, ~- e( Q- ^) b+ K# p4 G% M4 j! s
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区$ i  H, F' D- f2 X2 O2 s5 b! S
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ B# C. i- j% y* P( d* T7 }

  T1 s( V) N+ p$ oBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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4 v7 h7 c) Z: P4 oThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 p: e6 \* t9 Z
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". , V+ k% a5 }2 r, V

; _8 t# Q1 J, u# f) [' g- j"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. / H1 ]2 j1 z/ e+ w: O

; g' [7 ^+ V5 K3 Wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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9 I3 F) z' m) MUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. . l4 c. G) P  X

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区% u" c/ {. ?4 G( T( z. M3 o
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. - o- v7 V. F  M7 N' t; C6 z2 e
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 6 S, k% X( d/ U0 U% B' \+ \

; x) L; I- {# LBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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4 H& z1 t6 J( G' JIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. / K! W3 N- v) [& `4 K- _
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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* y8 X( g2 y6 r- O" Y"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."