[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( o# X' n1 y5 u0 G, o
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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4 U, z# |+ c: S2 o+ x+ I- ~# e人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。! }, Z5 r* o: {# v9 X
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 D9 \8 `+ Q( f1 N
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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1 ~) G; }# w8 N. u, L1 {! NHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. , }( c/ X& C; _7 A
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. # d9 p+ [2 a: F, s  T! h9 o
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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2 c& v7 _+ N3 d8 {) |"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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, f4 y) s$ ^# _1 a' ?人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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  b. ]- Q1 r) T  @Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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7 l3 n+ v7 f! K$ R& F人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 ^& p' g4 z& F' [! C
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0 e& r: H1 p6 A7 VAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区& P/ u+ U) n  ^1 I* }, l

- p; p6 Y# z4 G9 D# F( D5 t( x5 A* mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. . ^. d3 ?1 h- b9 L
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 F' O' h4 s- t
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 4 }  N4 z2 \+ ]& w  P/ J
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."