[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。1 g8 M) m$ q2 a( P! D+ K

0 @" l% f/ }, X3 @5 y据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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, X" h! O  B9 @" rrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。9 D' Q. Q- w+ U5 J1 S3 m+ H: j
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' " \( i6 Y: V, O& l. i( ?
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区% [, d, F$ `( M
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. , Z! [4 A% U- _/ P! M" s' K2 k( R
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 5 c) W- S( t4 @3 a5 r  g

4 G0 o% J. Z6 b' p2 v4 V0 E! ]3 prs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ) `- S: [4 {- z) K8 p2 u
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 0 T  X  N: I) m
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ; P& d/ q' d: Q
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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# p/ k% P  ]' }# _4 e4 L9 H( [Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区- k: ?3 g( |+ C, Y# q; d/ G

9 j: L) w: \) c- I. V7 x& fThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.   Z/ z6 Z) F# h0 A* n$ p
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 u+ u3 M# I2 w

; J- J3 p3 C7 T/ ~: i# Y/ j- `人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. + ^& h6 T! n4 A0 ?+ I

/ x' g4 z) |' m. x# H人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."