[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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2 e( t- ]  h3 R5 L4 F9 ~. I1 J人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。* S3 s& @& }3 D0 }2 }

* x( O* X( `: O6 }# P人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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  r# `9 h( v( |/ G3 l根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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( ~* [8 _% [3 E3 E1 i3 ^rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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4 N& n" _* T. E6 j% A人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 7 P/ E4 Z* U' r* ?4 m# w5 {# F0 M2 \
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 7 T' M  L% ?0 |, q
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ; \  w% c. J5 o4 d' S8 D
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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$ ^) _0 ]9 L! }) }8 P0 fThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 3 q4 P  e1 L" j- f

8 m% Q7 s2 z3 Y; W"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区  [8 _; ]- ^% ?* e4 b

2 ?9 y7 k5 m% b( @7 P) l& R"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ! [3 ^% ]' k; R+ v

+ ?) `/ k, m. }0 Q$ Frs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( E& g1 Q; h) J5 t6 s( @

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, r& B: }8 {. y* z7 w; M7 Yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区) L/ Q2 g0 g+ y* Y5 r. Z

8 i4 W% b6 P  j( pThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. : B2 X4 N9 _. P, Z; N
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ( ~; D7 ~7 ]# H. o. m: P
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."