[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。  }7 n2 Q# _4 j5 `$ H" L

, @2 B! x; ^7 N  A& @# S9 L: C# m据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 {9 O0 c- n  F' S$ @" g" N. Y
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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& W: M+ c$ c% n5 n) J根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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0 _; {# T! ]' A- L) @人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。( M. f3 S% ^# w7 Z

7 A3 `7 C; A# G& I: TWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区" f8 |; b% F+ |  T2 x# w
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. # Y( d! T/ @9 Z
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ( n4 i& H$ t: Y' O+ i4 }* E

* n- m3 K2 \( T* F- N( t# Q0 w& gBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 M% ?: ^* I4 J0 `8 i

; L3 {, k5 P, j2 Z3 BThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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8 W1 L' q; F6 c# r% ~8 @+ T; J' uLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 g, o6 A( v. s) ?

! Y" X' M2 y! B; B# k8 d- v" }"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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& E, P# f, n  \& I$ rUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. & F. Y1 f% V0 v

, W4 f( h# B5 A) S  Z/ o4 ars238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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& ^7 c$ p2 L; w; Z; u0 T# FAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区7 ]- |6 D/ S$ E( A- k

/ q( {1 s/ a( l4 T4 KThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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1 A8 |- H. n5 j+ U+ ^rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ' f$ @/ n7 e: z8 Q8 o
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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6 Y4 D: V9 T! I人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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' [$ o& \, G9 e  k3 X- u+ l- E, U"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."