[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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. A! A, Q6 w6 V- v1 ~人在德国 社区据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。" B+ p+ p" F. R" I+ ]0 P

9 ~# V4 R9 A- A) f根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。0 G/ u& X5 n2 u

# [. A9 |; c" b7 }# }研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区4 B! J9 j0 V9 Z! J

+ G3 \: y+ s6 P# mHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区  `! E, c9 F  F, i: b# d. @
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. & C9 r) B% q8 h8 l7 ]
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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7 b! e1 ^9 `& p' M0 \1 B9 N5 U3 l% XLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 6 p* [6 E0 |0 v  Q4 q+ O

  e# a+ h7 q$ [. m+ @5 F"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. # p: \3 o7 ?! d/ D2 S4 V

6 Y' t" o# E% S人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 0 B5 I% z' B1 \3 j# \0 x3 m
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区9 S0 j, h4 T# n$ b( [  p% s! `

7 g8 L, X& F9 j& k6 M% x4 `Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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$ T4 U; ~+ T) b2 prs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 4 L  L: k, j# d6 o$ m, U! F2 n" }! F2 S
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. * d+ x' l# x, T1 c2 m3 Q
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区2 d( m2 Q- ]- I& T' z8 g

0 }: h0 ?5 g5 T/ f, uBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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; p9 A& o7 @( P0 w! ]) ]Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 8 {6 H! l. i  T9 F# h7 @! }
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区0 {; N9 [/ J7 ]0 {

6 ^. e. _  g: U9 q  \& ~1 o人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."