[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。, _" P, Z; m" j
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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. `5 e" a, D6 v0 i( M: J# c8 W研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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0 A# ^1 v( `# E9 Q: r9 frs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* V, R+ j6 D/ p/ Q) u6 [0 d

! R0 ]: s; p# C: \! Zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
7 O5 L* v7 A! N; W# K/ t$ gPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ' V( S1 J2 E7 f* J5 S+ Z, V4 |, y( `

; f4 |9 U/ _3 p0 Q1 t2 @0 o$ C! S5 xBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区+ ^1 A5 D" D' K" B
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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4 O! G. |6 M  e" B"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 8 e3 S; s9 h3 O% e0 ?
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ n: S: A- O8 R! w4 Y  _

& o. s; a  Y9 v% L7 ]4 Nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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+ ]7 {. Y% U$ e! o" srs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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8 G" W# N' p) d- O人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 6 u% D, x: |! r6 j& V2 p% ]

( X' V9 q) G6 J6 f7 \rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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* e6 B. i" J4 I"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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6 U$ A1 h& O" z: s; t# r/ i8 X"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."