[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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: b  V- u. t* V, w7 M5 ers238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。  t5 }. z. {+ D% W/ d
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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6 h5 ?$ M! P9 Q: B研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。( ]! N) }' R" Y; B

  m+ ^. c! q4 p/ r! WWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, c: A, u+ ^: y8 J2 ?  }

7 ?( x& u  g; w6 r6 s) oHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
% N2 R: [/ j" xPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ! l: v& N$ [) R

1 d* g7 f5 L: h9 N: Yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de# S2 X7 X# j% N# V* j- R1 ?

) O. S2 s" E9 j6 t人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: m7 e1 x& i9 B- X4 H* t8 [
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." # u* U! h0 `9 N2 ~7 }
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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3 J$ V2 s0 J" M+ }5 W6 xSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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' z6 |) i& J' G3 H) V$ U- j, i. bAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- a2 |4 p- {+ X" H# l
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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+ X- _, o. @( j% zThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. , I4 ?9 Q9 N+ z% K
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区/ {8 d4 S0 U2 v4 I/ E- b
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ) k9 E5 V5 m+ J1 z; l+ Q

) W- a3 V' N% P7 i& \7 vrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 A( g7 z: T& R+ l# n1 J8 ]
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."