[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 |, Z0 A( @* p# O  Z% u' N' o

& ]. k4 y- ?/ v1 @. T! C& xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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7 _" n, _! X0 t) z研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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7 B" n) D. a, {5 c研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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; S' ]7 w* n% n& h* J, g6 c1 mWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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+ s/ I. t3 G7 J4 V9 V5 FHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
# ]. H( A2 Z+ O5 g5 l人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 9 ]9 J# T0 Z$ g+ J% _  ?# a- q

" {+ r/ `6 \) iThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, L, a" _* h0 Q* ^7 n" v3 b4 V$ ~
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". # ]' ~/ T2 z2 H. E1 T7 q# P
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. + e: O4 a) z2 \

, t2 _2 m% }2 [! f"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 5 ^5 t3 j* _  N# A; d

& m2 Q( d  C$ x) R人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区8 c) x4 ^: i$ E! P

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区6 o# T1 R! Y7 M1 h: c

" {/ c8 D7 o& T; K* d5 P1 qThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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, v3 n) K3 r6 t0 g; EBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 H# ?3 s; [$ I0 ?. g: w$ x6 V  `

7 n- n8 D3 D5 T- q" e* o人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."