[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。$ y& ~5 H( x0 b4 \1 G2 D
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de7 l4 [# J! s, V3 ?
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。# H7 n/ i( r. i; t

7 o( K: \7 l2 e人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 8 {) }5 i5 ^$ O1 S$ c* {

; ~4 A' T% b  [! ]3 b8 PHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
% U4 d& @7 ~1 e. Z8 s4 u) b& G. lPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. / O. u# G4 ^: V% d

% h/ \! d# E% U3 d. z6 W) XBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. , M7 |" ]0 ?. D  p$ X
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 9 I$ P; r# N5 _

" W$ O8 C/ s/ S人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". $ ^# h- d" v! t* V' n
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) B, ]  F# a: X3 U# @" R* o' b2 K" a1 |

1 ?8 s9 z) U2 m. Y& \"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区) u- B( S) X0 B3 y5 T$ V, G1 P4 w
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ; I2 i) ]) b: j0 X9 n

. ]4 j' O( B- {4 k/ fSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区: H2 {7 D) J  v) o4 K- y

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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" q5 j; T- s- j8 X人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区+ n( D, w0 @7 t" V1 @

0 u; w4 r* }% I4 RIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 2 P& t* E% F; q. d: @( K9 |; b
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de( C9 Q7 U+ l3 M/ p7 `& @: p

" w; J* s$ i2 d9 a"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."