[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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. Y1 F6 n- j% t" c0 E据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。! B* W0 o- K5 N6 ^3 l
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。3 I5 l  _9 a$ L- f0 m2 D

6 i% Y) y( |" h& a, m根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。- L; q+ v5 {! p
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' " h9 }5 O: j6 a0 V
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ v6 `* ?# i4 D" K- t
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ; T/ j' e9 R7 f& A" A2 P

6 E7 Y$ T1 u7 S( n8 V/ frs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". , R0 S6 o4 ~" j2 ~& f9 d
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 }* G( V0 k" S
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 4 o% r9 M1 A6 W( R

$ L* J1 F; {3 |' u; U- n5 m人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. # ]6 o8 `& W0 _/ \! R& b
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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, A: p! b7 i( f# w4 N/ ?7 t, w; J: Rrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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9 R  ^5 i( q3 q& ?8 o( E. y. `The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 3 k1 \4 |* f6 |. Y, |
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区- F, [. o2 [, t6 {( m: `

: ~. }' v+ u$ L: Vrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."