[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。( K' c' P. a- L$ S7 }7 w8 ]. P. T
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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5 g0 C& p- c5 n: K' _) O研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。. i: u3 w/ p6 h, K$ K1 S

: F8 U0 \  n' j$ g根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。7 y5 G  E& c+ h- ~1 f& V' r
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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! K! Z$ K$ v2 |; m8 e! FHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. $ P) b8 G0 j; Q! J4 m7 T+ ^" ]
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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' U3 B, _2 N" ^0 vBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 4 Y. M: i4 q, g7 M+ H4 q! _# ^
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. : C9 J! z! }- q: u9 {

7 ]$ n/ P0 ?$ _! JLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区# G7 g2 F1 F8 M" o
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区  f6 e; H$ w" X$ y. @/ ?

9 P' a$ \8 X4 |! w' o* A' o6 Trs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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, Y5 p$ H" J  }' x) b8 o  ZUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. & s. k5 {& h8 B6 |
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 3 c% {. q/ R: D$ C$ W/ l/ G

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+ s" c8 t0 _7 x( i8 @Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. , x9 n' q/ ?7 O5 P; \" d( S8 l

$ v. \3 |8 ?5 ?The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 4 s6 t: H) T9 p

1 Y6 l! S# q0 J, DBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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8 v9 g5 D0 y! h1 |# mIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! z! I2 k3 j  S, b6 [
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."