[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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  f4 |. C) X/ |" R% J5 z据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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( @5 ^: k4 i* G; p, |5 K* @2 F研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。  A8 e# i6 r3 P- ^- z$ A% h  d* l
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。/ y6 t, X0 p. H" j: s/ n1 m

7 C8 V& `  V' y$ Z  `$ o9 F研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 3 H/ s" D3 i' [$ L

- d/ N& N5 {: k$ s8 QHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. - k! k' x6 W9 h) ?
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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1 _6 u& z& x' U8 b  RBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区( A# O: K$ [2 Z+ G3 x  q0 a1 @/ m

( B6 J* `2 \" i0 T. u; b7 CThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. , a0 e7 a) t, o% F7 q
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 4 N$ F6 _* W" y* U6 O2 D
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区( u1 m1 J4 j, m/ E: g4 m2 f

1 x% K, J- v# X- P* A# |Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区9 P9 H$ _! {$ ^% l3 V

) L- C7 n6 u2 f3 [# s1 z1 Crs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区9 p' D  Y8 r; L
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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, f' ~- J# b& X6 _5 M5 r  }3 GThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. * Y1 g) T$ Y% [- p

7 o7 L, J) f# P! ?人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ; E! ]& G+ v5 L' q' o( y% L

" L" k: M. T/ S1 ~% Zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 6 n5 h& R& f( g* v2 \. H

# h7 }: A2 J* n; y6 Y2 z"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."