[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。6 D9 X2 }# m6 a
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。; D  f4 r$ e$ G% D, `

7 z% f8 M  J) p" m人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。$ _  h) q; I: a; Q0 D3 ^3 \

! R; Z' @4 y% s4 @+ W/ L$ j研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. a7 V* H/ z: D+ Y) x! Z# L
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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& D, h# }: Y" z: ~/ qHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
5 V( d7 ]  l1 c0 ~3 G* i/ e9 Q. IPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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+ e/ x! n8 t! g; H2 Q$ E' |+ N. ~% dBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ! F1 g2 e1 g! J$ X
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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  F8 O$ t, y6 n$ eLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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2 c3 U. ^' N; u. z8 E4 o# g人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区8 `$ ?# }4 K5 h- N. H

) r% Z0 h* d: i4 H! Z" j  oSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Profession
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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9 _7 L8 o6 d5 _) PThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 7 |5 M+ w1 S: n7 V  ^0 t5 i. J
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 5 X  P2 I. `. R6 n/ I

$ X& e* @9 [4 ^0 SIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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- r# q6 ^- X# J3 ^% I; a7 d"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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. O0 a4 v! a* P/ _2 `"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."