[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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, O/ }5 B+ D8 Z& }4 j; P: N" G5 c) f据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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# m& Q- b2 L# i( z& F人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 Z$ i/ j2 l+ ?

7 ?% R* Z  `- K: Qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' $ G. h3 b+ q: v6 P- _
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
: Q* b6 {) ]3 I, V9 J7 ~$ xPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 1 A$ C/ [6 w* B; N

$ x& h' W4 g. v; \1 E人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 5 _/ g2 j* v# q4 c$ P* e/ T" B
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 V" Z; ?* k5 x

% X- W: `5 g# E"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区9 S+ Q) x- j+ Q" y) `
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." * b8 D& N. b) ?8 z, j+ i( A
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ; G) K5 r! [' S; Y; U

. V; P1 F6 M( x% i( \' Z# `6 Ars238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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! b2 F$ ~- C) F5 w- _rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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* n6 a  s1 F" c* Z9 PThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. % i" _4 b0 O# F/ u% h
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ! D8 t( p* F" _% t8 S

3 Z3 m5 A0 W, V* ^5 H! l: c7 Grs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ; Y$ L% j4 C% f! J6 L4 v1 {4 w
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."