[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区8 C* y# z1 M+ ^5 {: e
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! N5 S8 T; R8 W9 S

, L1 I$ ~- H4 _1 N" m5 D1 xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。: S" X; L% I2 t+ ]. q7 M
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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: p7 j6 w9 `3 f8 w! d# }$ u; |rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区) h. M5 A% G$ [$ b! k$ K& Z# F2 I9 t
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. & v5 j& ?8 d! s0 R4 r5 S

$ A8 Q, L% _9 z1 e& d, @But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. " `7 x& S# h% A. T/ y3 ~1 ]
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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+ n, @3 H7 l# J  _. F' D5 a人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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  ?) w: ?- v5 O9 N"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区' B% a3 h/ {) y$ a9 `9 G5 Q! ?
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. , P% c+ C1 ?. w
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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) K7 z. j+ n( RThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ' \0 t2 z0 d1 |+ E, j8 F' O6 k* O
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. , U. u1 H+ P! }, R8 ]0 o
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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: Z5 N1 R9 ?/ S/ Y. p+ m* I"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  @+ [( Y$ k6 w  Q6 \- i5 }! _

# F4 e& c. P$ |) H) [+ P"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."