[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。# G* W# U3 Y: a9 v  u

+ J0 U7 |/ K) S' H% @- Q据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。1 ~4 B# F5 H7 D* y1 v7 m' o! e; x' X
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区7 K4 A: U& }1 d5 i

& @) ?8 d5 b" C9 z7 b" ]研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' : d2 V1 \. F$ k

. E1 Y% W, o6 _' tHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 f2 Q0 D- J" C) L3 T& I: {# D2 y3 z* w
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 人在德国 社区  I' G, J3 ~; s1 n

: k- B+ T$ W) z! g, [6 F8 fThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 8 \8 u$ R7 N7 d; E* h8 F8 _
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". # M2 u" K9 H1 N( ?# \/ |
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& t" R7 {& t# |0 [

/ p& e! z& Q0 y0 h4 s2 K"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." / f- S' b6 n. m1 }" O9 {9 t; Y
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: i+ B, R# H0 V5 v: O
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. , I& X+ N; @+ n& S; G4 c  g2 ~

$ B; {) M% A1 T. s% N( y1 l人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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7 z3 ?2 L1 L0 L! V0 m1 k( Xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 1 v; Y8 X8 R( x# D* e9 E5 I
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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, @& \* C' ~  B3 C+ @5 |: S; w"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."