[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区6 `# r, l6 }4 o& p: v8 C

8 C- z: X: k- v* U) @rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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+ U" I5 Q1 z* l  h/ V. k研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。% w+ I' {6 s: A/ d
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。8 Q5 Y4 o7 `$ O1 Y- z5 N3 o1 g

2 K$ l4 x, _# q9 }- b! w4 s. u研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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8 u' W! m& [( Jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' - P! K7 F: l# l' e, t" F; k

( y# T' U& f% E; S- brs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
* p; ?6 |, M: l# ePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区5 \* h2 {, c4 T0 c% M4 d

* C3 K% ^5 a$ R$ L1 x9 c1 wBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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& _. b% {, K( p0 S  C2 S2 hThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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% x0 A' P+ |0 F, q0 U6 k- GLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区, Z) }2 q: i1 \: H+ @! ?6 c# F
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." . }/ n$ D, t0 d+ ]4 M% f9 r
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. # v, @$ [4 j0 [, |' @* ]
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 8 w8 b9 I  U1 ~* w4 ?& u+ q

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9 ?+ R. f2 l& W. D$ Z) s  g1 b9 s6 yAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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/ Z5 B, \/ b9 zThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. . \4 j7 I1 o! k7 J9 ]# w7 J, C
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. " M1 Y+ z5 ]! y  w; K  ]8 y

% c& p1 u! ?' e. P: E" ?But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 1 N& u( }9 v3 O& a& @7 y

$ {2 G4 Q* e! ?- v2 N: qIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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  R1 r. v3 m7 q- O( D4 {"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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* [. c) V. n# Y"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."