[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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3 i9 Y' \0 v% g; w; F0 L& m据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。4 t) W; }* k$ ?( a
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。, M; i! L& o' X( ?& X2 v

/ w( E7 N' i0 i) G' r: [/ \根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。+ P6 Y; b. j- k$ n' v( W* d/ Z3 }: i
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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) A) {# V, _' H% B' Y! AWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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- R& C: D2 P# d; R0 c! K  FHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ( g# \% A/ l# E
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. * {4 N# t/ L' P: |# k9 S- T

$ L+ o3 n7 b, x9 g& f$ Krs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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. N: e( L9 H# KLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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+ \" m; h& G: _Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 7 L% S$ v3 `6 t$ w9 O
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 5 V1 S( k, |9 h9 `" Q5 \* {
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区1 O; \# Q0 Y" M" h0 P) V+ t

- B9 i7 X: L, Y6 B& CThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 0 ~" j% [2 g( C0 H  x' k- e4 w
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. : |7 b  K9 p! s" [9 e( g5 @& N- t
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."