[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! ^, S# }9 N  T5 {

0 i7 W) e3 D# o& O. `# o研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。9 ?, O5 v& W' r( N( g- J
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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3 Y- u; |- C6 _; a( W1 i研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 Y  Z# W  U, b4 F

$ s+ r4 t, U& A: U8 M' p/ B! y2 Krs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 5 i3 e  S5 W, Q/ A1 U* n% [) b. c
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ( m& ~# |1 ^  `. p

2 ^4 F$ g8 @, b( p( k+ y+ ]( yBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 5 x* ~% N" J% x; d+ g

0 `4 V6 p. o! P2 y# u6 d: |The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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! O! l4 ?6 M' v/ Q人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 8 l$ c( M7 _3 X) ]7 v8 L

4 D0 d  B+ p! L"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区* K) u9 N) Y! v; z, V. N) t* i
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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6 }) D, B" U, u: C人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ( I/ d# m' k: u' ~$ |3 A$ s+ [
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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0 a3 i9 J8 z) \+ c人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. $ M/ T" X+ o6 p. {
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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. k. r! S7 b& ?/ `Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 6 B4 }, c# X( o9 N" ~# V2 r9 y# m+ W

1 q9 h; d9 d5 h$ B"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 @# @. x* g, I; v. n( V
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."