[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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- T( @; Y4 u; o" z; x人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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) @: t2 t, K, m: j" ]5 F研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区' P0 ]6 P; R6 X$ R/ ^7 i% y
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. , i. s# f. ^/ q& [  R! k. j
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区* c6 v3 o1 T* I# [

; I  ^( w0 v/ s# \' M人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ! |, x, F5 ?) g# I; n8 }- Z; I! W
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 S$ d6 {7 F  f
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区2 F4 s8 U% X6 X
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& O" z+ @* f4 ]4 Z/ {Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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& a7 h! N0 T8 s& SThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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) a: ^; X/ K3 ]2 F* i: ], VThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区. B2 _9 Z/ A; v, `5 ^0 e7 B

: J/ \6 p3 i8 G2 ^( T9 r( MBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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4 C; f$ {' g/ F# h. z9 VIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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, D0 Z2 l3 ~, X6 X) J5 e$ l# r"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 0 V5 Q: s8 c0 @4 F" u( c" H0 ]
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."