[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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" ?+ i9 j7 t. D, ?2 y$ @' p据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区$ j9 [6 p8 ~% d2 L$ |% ]0 U3 y

3 V% q+ Z) J' F/ Q$ `0 @根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。& L% r$ _5 `$ J# H2 N
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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9 D. T7 l1 q& e. G5 x, B6 t人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. , ~1 @# W' q$ `4 a8 T- s$ H- S
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 0 k3 U, o! H* C
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! A1 ~6 l) n/ p9 H9 D9 p( n
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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7 C0 d0 I) p+ e+ p& s/ T"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ) p+ {1 Q) j  l  e5 e" S
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." ! E+ N, {& R4 X; f

) M- f$ e! z: F/ V- {1 MUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 6 i# Z3 v; T6 x8 x1 h: h4 \
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. % X0 |( {% w* ]/ e8 B6 A/ g

- }4 }  ]! r, k- brs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区0 }% _8 ~' A. b3 t
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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& Z+ x, s) @0 }- w0 c  _! lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."