[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 e* z' F4 n% M) g
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区7 F% R7 b$ V+ S+ v! [% E

- g& a+ _" u% F9 s! nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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  u: L# |7 g/ T- Y( W- r, \! t: z根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. Q0 f) }0 g" g! s1 T) D

2 f: b" t0 n; m4 M  zWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
* `( y+ O) m) y7 q2 C- V1 P) tPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区3 S- l& f- h& [6 L

' {) e6 M' D+ \. i; R, N- eBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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# s/ t1 X7 F$ c7 J. ?4 ZThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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/ p$ Q- Z% a( c/ b7 oLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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7 E8 c- i, R# c/ W0 ]5 G人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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, C; K4 u, l4 n"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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% J7 W& o0 U( gUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. $ j' p8 V! @& h( y1 ]9 q6 k
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ' K5 X4 v* l6 V1 O" O- A. I6 b& l
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/ s4 ^+ S# p+ h& N, C( dAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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9 @1 i* x( U& o* j7 xThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. $ K2 m- U9 ~3 k' R' W6 r& ?) e

5 }: t- {3 H' ?% u' m6 qBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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) v0 T5 ?) @3 j4 XIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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% F/ V3 w! \8 Y: R( Y" m"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. : J, J% L( o2 o6 b! I- l

; |& ]" ?) N; L. E3 P( l# r4 v: j"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."