[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。# w2 ?+ |) Y3 M& K9 w
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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" f5 a9 f4 p4 y根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。4 W6 w% L& G( C9 ~6 }) x% C
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区( Z" G! O/ u6 H9 v2 S1 j8 |6 X
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 3 p$ L/ a7 j) `4 c6 x
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. # E( w3 a; {( @  W- u

% D. R  d9 r8 a8 {: H人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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2 e6 m  J- A3 Q9 P% O/ P/ n- @# EThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区: h" v  n7 y/ f- U
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区+ X' @5 m% g$ {# N& X! ^- Y  D% G9 [
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ t1 q; P9 }! S" {) E

  G" \" A, Z" J! O5 C"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." + ?" b7 M) z3 n/ Z5 m+ q& G
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ; g8 Z3 J0 i! s! N. A" a6 g2 G
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 1 ]5 T6 l! T+ V" N0 y
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 u5 X8 j2 \1 @/ P

+ K+ s, B) H' a: X* Q" y) Grs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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7 H9 F0 t9 T/ C5 H% W& yThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 2 R  S8 n: Y  _- L
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ `4 ~2 Y% F3 H

+ W9 Q  _/ A" O5 Q) bIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- W% M* ]+ C. |

: y6 ~* g/ J+ p人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- G  t$ a& W8 p% M' e
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."