[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。0 r& q6 d: K5 ^. E% X2 z: |
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区! t% c' D" _2 d3 X# C
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 9 j; Q. Q7 M; b0 c6 O! _2 s0 |1 `
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. $ a6 P/ M1 b7 z; q2 M
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 4 I% u5 f( a7 Q' p; F5 g9 U
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. / ]/ \6 B% D. j2 Z

4 ]/ c' S3 b' R1 p' ?Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ) g6 j  Q. z. v4 I
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 1 d) r) |. R- [* B1 L. }
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) z1 j( ]% n8 w% F: `$ F- r. J& {# I

) z2 b, z2 y$ `" X人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 2 A. ]8 z9 g% I# g
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区- a4 r) J. V5 D2 a

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" O. |, E8 w' `) t6 Z- HAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. - W" C  ]# W) u" t* g1 j

, D& u  R& X( M4 _6 \% B4 cThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ; }/ @* [/ L( F+ C# M7 G/ q( Y
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 4 ^5 y- L% j9 c, X7 }$ z) Q
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. & D, J$ P( x) U" Z

2 F. [. C. j! |3 w1 T"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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: R6 h/ M% a) r+ B  P7 j"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."