[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。0 U, _7 ?& c$ [4 p! y& \
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。- z4 g4 _* ?% n( t1 q

3 |- C- M- C3 L根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。& y4 q2 F! @5 p
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* \& ~9 h# E$ C& N
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: B: p6 h& `5 KHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
4 [( W8 s( \/ ~  j% x( [Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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% D  W* {) ~5 o, e% kBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. " v* N+ V6 W( z6 Z
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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* ]: u, n& z$ rLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ; l' o+ J9 R0 _$ b* X* W! n1 {
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. & \! X. r1 y6 s

/ B. x* c: S' u: @: {% `8 srs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de- P9 S3 F3 s( I, V
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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2 t* Z  Q3 _( }- G人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 V3 Z. k$ f) k9 n
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. * F- K. [# {0 p
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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( o, D' `; }+ M9 j  V4 Q2 p. a4 r* yThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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4 e! y" k/ x* P4 d* X8 R0 hBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 5 z0 e; h. l& m$ x3 ~$ j
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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' P# X% n4 }  Y人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."