[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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3 X6 t( C& ~. `! X据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。! Q6 u% n( f, t6 L& P4 z$ u

! S: [- G4 ~/ c4 S- a% A7 f  X$ E研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。# D/ B2 y$ _  u$ H

3 C% p$ z- e$ h& G" x$ |$ Brs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区5 X& E; r  {. `  X9 G  z2 i( K( [

2 u$ H: y! o* ]! g2 Jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 人在德国 社区( A# i, H+ @( I( _9 f0 a

* o; t0 G% `3 VHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
& Y- m3 R% @  ~. l9 WPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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; N: N% p. t: q  Z7 kBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. * e* R* |8 W) {1 r
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 8 D; d% C; P# b* _& A: \& v2 W) q

$ B$ C; Q2 B+ M"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. # i5 N% R) C6 F5 l
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: z& ~1 h4 a& }) O  H& I- C- urs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. & I- g' z% f9 n, L

+ I) d! }+ @/ @8 N! [The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ) H% u! ]0 d' v% g" g$ U

. v2 O& I& x( t2 m  V% d3 q4 Lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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( K. f4 W) u; g" NIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 8 W5 G$ Z. N0 L! c  E& m3 e( y' M
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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" Y; A" G) f6 L& Z+ R"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."