[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。* [. e- o1 _6 T% \6 j' M

# s1 q6 u/ @# }4 I& lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。6 B1 A9 b+ C3 h6 E
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区1 t6 Y" N# J( y8 S+ v
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。

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( v0 K3 h3 C4 u, Ars238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; Q- R5 ~+ \9 L1 J* [
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区! V2 J: Q  b/ m$ n
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区; z, O1 X/ @, n
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. ( I; i7 {. @0 i# L1 u/ I' {
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 Q5 C  _: K  N# U' K
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  b5 T# W5 \, L
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 4 m9 {% N" M, j% _, V2 ~, Q
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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9 ?2 I9 i) [3 |3 M+ n# Krs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区. \' E6 o* v: K

  U8 J! d: Y/ }5 x2 uThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区5 E5 i  w0 x0 q

* y6 x$ d, O$ }$ oThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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& X$ y* \4 ?  m+ i. @- q6 XBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区: J+ y/ U- s( W5 L
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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Women shunned high-flyers for men with average jobs

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