[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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7 s( m9 `. o; u, Wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。1 y5 e+ R5 k8 p1 ?& \

* q& w% s3 k* ~9 P+ {" ^研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。

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3 u6 e+ r+ \$ w, o* C9 }6 ^* cHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
% ~( d$ A' P% @# ers238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 2 D! d4 j; e, }9 H0 F
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; g/ [7 q% L5 ]6 ~0 g

4 i2 l7 z: _5 k7 Y7 m6 \$ a人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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8 |4 [' [8 Z  p5 \+ ?8 ALead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ' g# e8 S2 S" M) R. U) J3 y
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 9 e1 {9 j! c3 C/ l* w6 m

+ q) x) ]9 Q* L6 J7 y  v. Z, y"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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+ a/ b1 [0 k$ L6 @- G) M) |Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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5 n. \$ ?6 |0 n1 B5 bSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. # t/ |5 C1 Z( u' X

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6 `- o: {, o1 u# C" Z+ prs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 2 k1 b3 y  d& G# v& M
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 0 b9 ?$ g: u+ [
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. : n2 [0 A1 S1 O% I$ ?
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区. c3 k1 b4 {" m1 z3 f
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 4 z% O+ @) t6 l7 `7 Y3 C2 i2 Z
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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