[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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* g% t. m( \* K! j9 B7 a+ I# u据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区! {1 {: d* U* D: q; B* W
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区# `; f8 a0 B9 `8 b# E# N
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。3 D6 p: `! j* n9 n& a
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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$ i  r& t2 @6 S0 \1 UWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. , b$ ^& K3 [: T, o
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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/ @- l. h2 {, ~- @- Brs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 9 \; L4 v1 K+ w+ U  B. V

0 L( W' u0 u6 _, yrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". % v. n, J# @+ @0 Q

3 h& N& K; i; d( F7 E( V"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. - Z: Z0 |; H! w& }& o7 F( L
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. # D9 L9 ~  Z" ~. h; `
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ' G: e; x  D6 m( [% a

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 3 v( q5 |7 w2 z) `1 \

% v4 H/ b- I$ fThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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# e; }" N3 _% l+ PThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 7 _9 j* J: A' P
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ' R) c7 M; K( x4 K2 S( j) J
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 6 b1 I- T$ R& u/ W, b4 P
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."