[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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2 V: `, ^" ~/ e3 S研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。( |* e2 G$ s0 z; h  Q! p7 t3 o

, j/ S% g/ k) I人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。

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: |2 t' W* A; d% t% {* ^" qWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
# ^. K3 r+ B  }- \: \! ~; UPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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2 R& y6 h8 \  S" gBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 X( b: s8 h1 q3 j
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 4 h* z% w: Q  V" G1 L

& D- G/ e3 D) `% F0 NLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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- e  Q+ s7 [" o2 grs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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8 s; x4 s0 Z4 M- V/ w2 T* ^3 hUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区+ A5 N# H9 T5 C) C1 @# @
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! n% c8 \8 R/ z8 P4 A

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 4 ?- J5 L. F- h; l5 f
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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9 k0 Z8 C9 h2 ]2 K人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 5 L' `, m) ^5 n

4 [) [* z  J0 o9 S' trs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. / ^& s4 A8 ~4 O' Y5 M! v
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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