[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。! ^) O% U% Y9 _( J* K# w
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。0 c" d: m+ B1 Y8 }) O7 B. b; _: @" Q4 ^8 ^
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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5 O0 P8 v2 E( d8 k$ F9 H6 f/ LHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 R  a0 g, d6 c3 F  ]
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区# _* a: Q& J( g; c. \  Q" s

: r  Q6 i! |3 P6 f4 Q% IBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& \# W, Q8 C$ r" h+ d4 s; J* @
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 q# `/ T: m; f2 w8 _$ a8 [$ f
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区# W' ~1 ?+ w' }" Z1 b+ o! c

# W( C- Z0 V4 {5 X3 P"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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1 {6 c4 A5 b0 \! V$ m# y1 E$ }人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区7 B& ?0 a% ^/ n
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区- n2 A3 [- Z7 i) a7 T0 C. \

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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: o' ?) Y+ r# A. g  M; fThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 9 Y0 c/ V' ^6 s  c) @0 ^

8 e& J' H4 k# _* p2 VThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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8 S0 V0 Z& x& W, D( n2 ?: UIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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4 O1 W; A. N. W, L8 r- g"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."