[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。9 l8 a" |; Y& d' ?
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据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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( y" {4 C3 i( s& d1 b根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 ]# P  Z; t8 J) |1 n1 r1 P  M
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研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。

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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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, o# `1 P; S8 l7 V# ?' K% m, m人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
; I3 @4 C% O. i( frs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 4 o4 C' l+ G; A) x+ b- z
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 5 }0 @: g% P7 ~+ w! o# Q; u/ y0 Y% u

# V0 d2 X3 `8 O% lLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 1 V1 }* K! F4 B" ?6 U

2 l: v$ z5 W5 M1 P2 L5 K! X4 Grs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ) G6 v* U( Z* m3 Z; c

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* q( g3 v% b- o) ~+ @+ e9 |Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. - ]; b% I# I+ q5 i) e7 X% R% X

1 {7 Y0 S  B. _7 V/ L) P人在德国 社区The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 b4 v/ E+ F3 R) q

( x0 n+ U& O4 D1 t: A) X& L* ~) JThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. - Y& f. [8 K- i3 K+ a4 u5 f/ Q

% c* D% F. F" jBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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3 f9 P" Y% W3 k/ I0 ~9 UIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ l, k( T/ U0 P

$ H, m8 X+ H& `  b8 p"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. ( |! A/ X$ E3 H& ]: g. @

$ R5 x5 L4 E9 \8 y"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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Women shunned high-flyers for men with average jobs

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