[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。0 s+ E& l1 A7 D$ H

. L7 i; i) h- D7 H+ a( ?' R4 `rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区, w# X. t' I5 n2 q, B, x: g/ n9 N

8 u8 G$ i( F! u; \. Grs238848.rs.hosteurope.de根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! O2 {! ]# U" U2 W6 G: C

. Q) F; t& L: i! N+ M- U研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
6 ~, P2 q& p3 m  p% Y; E/ ?rs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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' D  j% e2 @2 q/ ~  m9 jBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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5 A; |; o5 ?- c* `2 n, B1 W9 _0 \" ^The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, o; \* K- \) q; u- j- ]  G. {% k/ w/ n
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 2 p$ L. Z& g0 X# V. z3 p3 _3 N2 r

, `% _5 C& ?, a: V6 i+ f6 D- {"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." % Z, k$ E1 x! a4 n$ c0 _

- l( L6 \* f' W5 P! MUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区( U' h8 X) \1 d1 r

  y. }* Q. O5 A# e7 {/ J7 f$ tThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 1 y' V9 H3 \+ K# a

- }# h$ ~! V2 Y  [  D  x人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ) _. H! m( i4 C& o0 a3 [+ f

# p& {; [! o% L$ L+ N$ O# kIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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' ^, @% g# }# u+ a  u4 h5 A人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 Z, u. I5 ?: ?# M6 I
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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Women shunned high-flyers for men with average jobs

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