[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ k. s( w+ n" w
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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" |, k& [% d/ g: y根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. . i3 D- {/ w8 g0 D8 S( F# i
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. $ \5 w- M2 M6 z% |' E" N" a
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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- L7 b3 G/ f' J4 E) H9 S3 s) o4 tLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 4 ~- ^" w8 W2 U0 r9 Y
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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$ L6 i% k7 V  ]4 T# W& `"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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3 f( q$ g) z! ~- J4 vUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 4 @2 u: D  R0 `: r* c
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ Y" j* H$ [; L0 Y5 s& `6 o2 l

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  f9 d! i# H! R% {- `2 A% P4 IAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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2 m8 L1 ]2 o. T& Nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. $ _6 c" Z9 C* |% k8 f* O

& N  i( e7 }) L# x: EThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ E' q$ I( K6 d6 Q9 U* W, O  J

5 R6 D6 o$ N; y4 r8 j! T4 oBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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' i$ }2 y2 B" |. ~2 v: l+ eIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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" _2 q  `/ [  q1 \/ I"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."