[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。7 I# J7 i1 U( o: [' H) y/ g& E8 |

% t3 W* u+ ~9 }/ b2 j$ w研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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" p  B& U! |0 y9 a根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。" I( v( x- f. w0 q8 |. F( m
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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! g1 P3 Z* U0 f  w0 Q, A9 R0 iHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
5 I2 i) o: P( a8 ~Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 D/ \3 E$ M+ r# u) s! Z( P7 d( X

# E9 J0 |# [* m. CBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. $ L8 \; K! Z& r# k: y2 D
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. k% c% p% s& j& E& ?& Y) s0 \

' U. k' n) }9 D& oLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ; P. p& j) m/ e, P( D. a& W8 E+ T( o
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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: j4 G8 U; ]9 l3 L, B$ b5 D& {"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." % @5 A" }1 I' F) T$ u5 L( B
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 人在德国 社区8 j7 Q6 b' Y  K- L4 D. z/ ~
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 Q5 ?( }% @2 Y9 P
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6 W9 p6 ~0 E1 ?5 S$ }6 u6 I3 h! C4 urs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. $ V: L% w2 q8 I- y' ]8 G1 B% N! N
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 8 g; O$ p2 e: F9 L% Z0 y

- @" g9 Z! Z& M3 i* g6 n" G人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! M( T* Z6 j0 v0 ~* |* D
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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" Y; `/ G. f6 W8 Crs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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3 w5 m# j, ]* z- Z* ?rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."