[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 d4 v2 u$ M* a. {$ c# m! E

2 Z) [0 e. P& b: a据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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3 |9 s2 |# s" w研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。7 q9 ?/ M  S; U0 z/ I# N( C. h/ J) I1 y
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。. s. g; ^0 G5 |" V: ?) w

5 o. ~! b: D7 G研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。7 o! [. L* h: W% T

) D1 S5 P# |( `; v/ t& w) b人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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7 f) ^2 D9 g/ K2 V. p人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ' l1 ?7 g' a/ M( D( G5 ^4 I
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区' A( z2 H' C" n! Z/ `9 O

) `$ }3 r2 w* ~9 B& N& J$ ~1 v人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. . t& Q6 e1 v% @# n" y
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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2 W3 e" p; ]% H1 ]0 r! z; R"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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$ M0 A( C; O" O) S! Nrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." & i+ P! m" E% q9 A# h% T. C
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ; D  H8 \  T" @" f+ f- `, _! G

$ b9 [# o7 ?2 n, JSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 3 ~; M% H" J- J7 E: C

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) d) H, V1 g! i# s, _: MAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& F) J5 K* Y8 L3 U
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区9 |! y) p3 X7 }- T9 m

4 q& t# Q8 X, d0 V. z* t4 h: m人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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: f2 C+ u% z6 w" f! S1 rBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 7 k! A5 Y- n. k; U" Z

* s: T2 @( k) s. g1 n8 ZIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区4 O9 ?0 v( q  B1 X& [2 D, _3 w/ X

" Z9 ~/ y5 E  `"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."