[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。$ d6 K! x2 Y1 q) B8 N8 y

, x3 V- E3 F0 K9 ]. W* V8 c% q8 J研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。8 ~# A$ M) N! s( @( i

5 Y9 h9 c- V& a1 `% |6 U6 h/ R. l1 ]根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 L: r0 u+ [9 }7 E
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区7 Z) q7 x3 Q2 _

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$ j% P8 T0 M  F3 J' a5 X& H; }High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
. C2 K8 [0 \/ I0 S7 H. u4 P8 `3 W9 nPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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. t1 H# T* i4 B  OThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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7 p2 P0 W+ ~0 M0 S& P% q"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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( A4 B  \6 m4 l5 h' a人在德国 社区"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区% k9 G4 _* @, c7 f; ]* q

  V3 X" k/ B# K3 ?9 b6 kUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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! t; t: [! y1 G& C& q2 Z人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. % W1 P4 `+ m9 R5 t6 h7 Q7 k

' }- j, @7 q- R  n: ?1 BThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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. E  l: C7 o: L' z' n" n8 [But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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# j( X3 _7 h2 F: n1 ?人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区& B0 S) z9 g& D- z
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 2 Y3 l" H2 M2 z! D  `- z
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."