[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 g8 C( I; k7 T$ L; X6 E( z; `( S# N2 U

, I1 l& n0 N3 L: [6 W3 s& h研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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- a1 E% Z0 i$ S8 P8 s根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。" X) N6 \, U1 e: F" f
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。* b$ @* N4 r, L7 K

+ J) u/ m8 H! V# W$ aWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
5 B2 T& }1 e  A$ n8 t2 rPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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4 g% j. w! z8 iBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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1 {6 e" T' z6 B, r6 c2 P7 HLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. . I4 F* a5 g) [- X/ w: N

  H4 j3 F  l8 H7 r/ K"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区9 L; B$ u) W8 e  Z" B" A0 V
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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0 @0 g% z5 B  S0 o+ s9 wSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 4 }6 B: n7 W: _) R

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 4 h7 G8 e, j2 R# {/ k/ t
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 8 z  d. o. u8 H9 X6 y  i7 R
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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! M! l% h  ]# q$ X; C0 [/ nBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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" v8 u6 f% P" q$ q  d9 L7 w+ S& kIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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9 }8 {$ ~# F; T; \# ^5 |  l4 X# ^"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."