[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。+ X8 s. {$ C- H& K4 ~' E& L% f- y1 c

% n1 h( G" c! R! ]3 P5 c% x% t, ?! G据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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8 P* T/ D; }% l' c研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。8 q/ A3 |3 j& ~2 v8 F

3 d+ s" U4 w9 ^2 c! m: S. B& f! c根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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* o7 D/ F$ M- D1 p+ f2 ?Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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: U6 Z) h. O9 UHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. / e! O: d/ F% B1 d# j+ V8 ~
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 [' h/ [0 c* Y2 O
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. , @4 m9 S& M3 l, g4 ^7 M! F  u
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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1 d3 D1 @$ i+ o$ F) _rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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7 w; B& s' o; ]0 \9 k0 I7 t"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 1 {6 [8 X7 s9 m3 D6 E
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) z+ r/ a/ T. n

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( t% T6 D% z0 I5 U+ U1 i人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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) X- y9 w' j: w8 WThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ( `. j( }* i0 D6 G9 v- v& w

5 m8 T4 k! G6 s+ D" R! oThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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5 E  P; f* M4 M1 ~: w* s, E8 Jrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ( U' a, l% W. a

+ z: _7 d+ \/ K; H* Z3 [2 o人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区- s6 e! i, }7 i- [
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 6 y5 d# }  h. N8 \! \- ?9 h
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."