[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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& n1 k' I6 W  r+ Q8 u人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区  Y/ U) D  ?6 S7 U, b& }' K+ |
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 4 E9 R; q) }) a
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 3 C' W# k2 |6 k9 A, {
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 6 S7 B0 z7 J; H

8 x' H& G: {9 D0 C7 ~But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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2 }* d8 x0 y5 F; }# B' }: C3 hrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 9 ?, J+ T3 G) r

' G0 ~# D+ ]" Y) Y5 c* n" ^人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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: o" d( ]! |1 j# ^" b人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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6 q- R2 D5 F) HProfession
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7 s$ p$ Q+ g0 }$ `rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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1 b8 ]) c* c% j8 ^' C% ?9 lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. * C* R  e3 D4 H9 @! Q9 w

0 U$ e6 ?$ y/ X  g1 OThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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% Y2 X9 x& @: d9 P& s0 n* G$ EBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ) K6 q! B% F# t+ n6 U7 n
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. $ D8 z# s& \9 ^

4 c+ K! a* i, N; v$ E( o: u# O$ trs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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% W' r/ ]# J& a3 a% D! o3 W"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."