[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。
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5 |: b2 t1 h' _( ~  Z  _/ A+ Frs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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3 s8 O0 V2 F! Q3 q# z' _, `8 y. q5 v研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。) H: f$ l+ S' Z' S

& q! d- G2 r1 g( A$ w' s根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。

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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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- S% x- Z& q! V, ?High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
- z& S/ \5 o7 ^! o7 v, L2 Krs238848.rs.hosteurope.dePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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; ]1 X$ Y2 I% y  oBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 4 a# Q* m* F: N) Z7 T# A0 K
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区! `) E( P, ^* f# M
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: t3 L& ~+ F/ m5 L
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 9 q7 A' @: E5 V9 U- o0 L

7 |% n4 V1 c2 E5 nUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区& m3 B8 W9 ^: A, e8 r
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 5 x! k% K, _& L0 F+ ?! ?

' W- R  t# [/ A+ GThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: t, u, M- x. K3 L! H9 A
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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- Q. e3 A9 d* cIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. : M' {% p% t: t  j

) t* @9 I* o8 c: j$ \rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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Women shunned high-flyers for men with average jobs

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