[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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4 t" ~# e; P* E& Q' b7 I9 s. S研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区9 F8 f& b: R: v+ O: o# v& r
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区% a6 |; A8 C$ f0 j4 W8 S! a
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 5 ]( E2 @3 R/ I0 M0 g+ F
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 5 ~8 B8 h( \$ Z- T* ~
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. # A4 Y6 Q& N% Y
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 7 g. i2 w8 U( \5 R1 w
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. , Q5 Z/ e8 d0 r5 |  H

/ q2 _" C9 z# r$ GSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区. |3 a- c5 F4 q. z; ~

% f- l4 c' c8 C/ ^1 i( OThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ( F5 q1 @9 I3 [; t  M

/ S. E  u9 z* L! g% y/ P" ?The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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9 L9 y' A: j6 u4 bBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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' c& h) U( J- k- I0 t人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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) @+ ]  k0 i0 J$ M9 M人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 I/ o  R* j6 X5 O
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."