[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

英俊多金的男人,一定是女人的最爱吗?根据英国一项最新调查,受访女性认为,外貌出众同时事业成功的男人,条件太过完美,容易出轨,她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往,共度人生。/ A/ A- n3 C9 T* P
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据中央社伦敦九日电,中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查,询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件,并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。; W$ v7 \' u  G$ P# s4 G: P8 x
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别,他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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: X  i& C% _" k人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告,令人惊讶的是,俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐,相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现,女性认为,太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」,担心他们条件太好,很可能外遇,而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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! U/ }' {' T* D; S' x" n$ WHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
/ u" g* o% o1 T: @7 j4 |+ ZPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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8 q/ S2 u6 ]( `* D" hBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. $ Y  W7 q% o" ?+ d& v; m: D

, C% Z) x2 r" f  v- |rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. + ^( i! N( ~8 j- `
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". " W* |* U& m8 J8 ^9 [: C0 {% b0 B
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& S7 N1 l# `+ K3 m4 x

0 X- b% B7 J" k2 D) |5 V"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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( Z7 T, l5 l+ LUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 8 Q9 V% p" g6 P5 v( R( Z9 _4 V
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. - r! @# z1 D% f5 G  v) d$ y5 ]

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1 [) y$ I, c- s, v7 q" V6 ^rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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" t$ J3 k7 u0 d0 J$ o  |The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 4 `9 f5 I$ ], ^* B, e

7 c$ J- q: C& b5 S" pThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 8 S) Y( s  u* w4 K, D: ~

7 G2 Q  ]' z# X+ C2 ~But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 j! n# |% a9 y
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 6 }' R  Y' ]$ ~7 J( ?3 @! j' l

* N, B- A& u" Q9 m( e& W! H人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. / m9 s% v& Y8 J5 N
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."

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