[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。* a( l( M5 W* K4 N

4 W4 J& Y) m7 [1 h* E据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。9 w0 s/ m1 v7 L0 y; w

6 V3 g4 D& M  N; w人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。$ K, L" Q% I9 l+ Q' h0 z
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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4 ?+ v8 Z2 w0 \% l人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 4 p2 i2 _: J* ]/ d2 s

) K# O5 j2 b3 B+ pHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 w# {9 M  x! @2 C
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ! ?/ ~; C. U: e! i

! l& H* q. \  r& S  u! M: c# JBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. / I" ]9 D0 S; F7 U
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区& ]* t# [2 q8 D3 a

6 i2 L* M$ z& C+ v; m人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 1 g/ O- Z. a$ {8 @# j. s  T
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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1 F" ^, l+ p% x8 @" `) ^4 ?Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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! u: b( l4 F, s8 ^Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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7 c3 L$ c; N  W( i+ ~8 M人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. + d) O9 l1 n8 v3 R

4 m  g( Z$ c, c9 S"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区' b2 T6 W' E2 A5 ?# h/ N6 K7 P

" D- b+ n% v7 f' d$ X6 o) f"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."