[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 ~% A8 _5 E* h

6 Z0 H. G! q! b据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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& z1 D( s- l0 Y' D' b人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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% H9 v1 ^- `% i# r根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。( n* u4 t" A3 {1 n0 u+ `- m* k* N
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' 9 s( J, d; Y& H- C# k5 q2 P
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 5 ]& D. n3 [: T: `. B5 N
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& o- e0 f. y  z% t( i2 I
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 8 u( K$ v' ]# t' k+ w

7 R9 L; i0 l3 F& drs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 4 o; z) Z! {4 k2 Z% C1 Y
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ( ?+ s; ]: }$ Z; |$ b1 ?4 k

  i: {+ z" w$ B7 ~+ r  D"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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, @9 ^! N6 M+ g. B"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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# K# Z4 B1 M/ |' l1 yThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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5 y0 g; z6 t, G# n人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ! s& G- j& Q2 I5 _! @4 x* ~
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 8 \) k) E6 b4 P$ Y( I
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."