[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区- i( ?. L/ p- H+ c
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。! K, p% L1 F5 e6 a

8 I: t6 [3 P8 t* v  R; I' |$ g研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de% C. v. `0 v6 M& ~9 m! L3 j
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
5 ]2 k$ f3 v+ o6 ePerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 1 S& M/ n+ g# ?, ~

1 m4 {% @! V' i" Xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 5 X, L1 K1 T# e9 F3 K

( L7 T, A9 O! l8 K+ |The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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, c  R- k2 Z( I  V4 u; p( N人在德国 社区"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区9 v2 D; O, m0 C5 J3 N" D
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. : M# ~7 g4 _: Y/ t3 w& G% h; C

# x2 B5 E% P4 g$ N* ISix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de  s) G! R7 o; j6 d+ H9 p

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2 v" a/ \, j5 ?, Y6 O6 `4 F/ Ars238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 人在德国 社区& ], Q1 b* Y3 T4 l! g% B

: o. l* o) B, G- {1 YThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. $ K& S+ t5 E* F8 X

. G6 z6 n6 n8 L( Y# v" J! Xrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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' [; \1 a) h& T1 M4 G( o- {rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区! |5 v- d2 b9 `7 z6 I+ {4 {

: A; Z' G3 I" P3 d1 C人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."