[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。4 j5 {# X# z$ R  B

( i% c! X) s' j3 @' ?rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。; K7 n- w: j% P5 W" @
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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; T! k4 r1 e; X, {5 ?; V根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ W1 ^& k- Z8 m

, n; y8 ~) v$ G* c# ~* s8 c4 Lrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' 5 ]4 a% H7 r9 O2 ~. o: t- A. h, }. m

/ \' l2 [! K3 t- q" ^1 w* O/ z$ \9 OHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 人在德国 社区& g# c# D$ o& X2 T. f. q$ s0 s# i
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区1 u1 [# ?! @+ L* H

% H8 R' D) R9 g+ e1 u3 }# B- mBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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6 [! @( S0 \- KLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ; H- V( J$ S  p9 p( i% ~
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 7 @* N! V8 s' o5 |

9 l+ C1 V) ]5 h7 D/ z' i9 SUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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+ U/ q# I4 `2 r% q2 a9 }5 sSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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# W2 `/ }2 I. q3 qThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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  \" y6 C9 C/ p) t0 R9 ]The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ! r  s3 U. K1 i$ S0 ]2 `0 H

) a" U$ r6 M  Y) i1 [* [But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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' H, E' u% ~6 X3 mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 n9 e' l, m6 _: f* u; @( a
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. / Y' E( Q! u' }, x8 O% {+ b0 @

7 w8 s: f8 x9 f9 Z4 H"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."