[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。7 P6 D. p2 x; y% \
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。: q0 ~+ j( d4 z, a2 c3 F  F. D4 t
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' - _1 J. d/ U+ h" b$ {

3 K& K0 s+ x6 g3 ]' c+ o* MHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
% K# V9 `- U$ y  ?Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. + R' b% [3 O1 c

) {) ?  r8 ^; z/ M9 {" U' BBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 3 Q6 R, g) z- z" [) h' N( B; a
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 6 p" k: E4 j8 o7 P
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 3 t8 t. d: Q6 z$ R. F( E

9 s" {9 n+ o4 G# \6 f"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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% {3 w( P1 _' `+ OUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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0 b- \) P& J( L4 ~% ~) W3 m) r" ~Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.   f+ A. N8 O) ~
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. : g0 E, r6 `' B4 A2 E( }
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区" G+ @7 c+ v3 L) y$ Y# V
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ }# ^0 t$ v3 ?) G( I' y  C3 n4 s3 m

' U* u' K2 ?; `; v/ GBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. : j  ^& o3 u1 q- G
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. ; j4 g# K, ]: F) y/ \' B7 c- E

" n: A, q$ ?: T6 N) L) H9 p8 ^, v"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."