[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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5 c/ R" A& L" F3 K* R) O& y据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。. a( H! |1 {1 W3 I1 D) Y! R$ P# ]

. [0 M" {+ W6 P# T研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。6 O  L0 n$ M: X# H5 O* ?5 S

% B4 ?  x& z' W: \! `" l+ M研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区# K! |" m5 k7 t9 ]# B

- u4 |/ c9 j& {8 ^( RWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
8 u6 ~5 ~& j2 p' t, ]- x3 n4 U" G+ WPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. % @# S& \- H" _! |) m8 I

7 w' g! Q8 s5 T2 A; m; D2 m人在德国 社区But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ' Y  L: v6 b3 T, g) P: O; W( Y

) q# W! h$ l% M3 v+ y! A0 p- ars238848.rs.hosteurope.de"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. 人在德国 社区, o. U2 m/ S. D% ^2 F, N' y  I/ i

6 H( `: I$ J0 n3 z4 s$ G"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 1 L$ Q9 Z9 k& X. \$ a
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. : w4 l5 }( e/ `: j
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 6 P+ z/ c; m! `) X6 c8 b
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 b, e" j! Q( c: ~' p5 d% X, a+ S
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& D& p  x, D7 e$ N, y( v
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区4 r! X0 z1 g% K

0 Y& r: k( h) x6 h7 V- Crs238848.rs.hosteurope.de"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."