[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 A" A/ s  O6 @& x

# u& [) X: C2 e5 H据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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7 ^! d! ?5 b7 v/ Q: H4 K. o人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。9 Q! V$ X, P8 _& J  O

% _2 |: ?1 q9 ]- i人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。6 i" |1 d+ X7 ]( a
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。1 q! l  S, @: \7 X2 P; ?& M( J

. O" S2 g$ `; w* u- v+ u. uWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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& t4 [# Q& P. T+ @High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 1 m, ~! K! T2 d5 ]: a
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 O9 E7 _: A% @4 d1 A( ]9 }8 g0 s5 C
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. $ p% I$ y  @( g  m( ]
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区7 L* a2 V% n8 k  Z3 ~
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. ?: a- z3 b9 {  o% m9 K" X
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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0 W' U5 n/ k! p& mSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 9 h' s2 s7 @- n3 b7 r
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9 X, V+ l1 n/ U" [. ]9 D; [# N+ [rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. / {3 Q" r# r+ P# A2 P4 H1 n  W

$ \4 O" m: O! n! F) ~( SBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."