[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。8 X1 I7 y3 q; P! `' p% P/ ?

4 D1 i2 ^- w* U- k9 R# o据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。1 C6 |. k0 H- b2 a+ M+ n7 q, `
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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+ b  `+ @7 F6 Y0 g1 q% r' [+ |rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。人在德国 社区' p4 _) O" T2 a$ N- F

+ c9 V  x" r4 X; k5 C9 IWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ) R6 \# K0 G, k7 v! {
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 0 G3 ^2 S0 `8 n' n

, J# a! Y: J/ d  brs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. + i1 Y$ {9 e0 x, K+ @

) ^4 {1 b5 G( lThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, w8 a  x$ s; [+ d2 Q

* y& F* H2 h, s& }: KLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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+ j' O( E; O) S2 E: ?% e0 y8 F4 u" x6 w"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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7 J* u( E+ N, N( X6 Qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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  g: z8 M) d& v" d* q8 bSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区5 @3 f# _+ y6 F$ j$ f/ @: @
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0 \. \3 W# O2 q9 U  P4 K! jAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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2 O7 a9 x% b: a8 vThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de& |  w4 \' \% r+ F6 W% k  h' w
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."