[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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! ~. ]3 v9 [6 y* S9 U4 E; q+ Z据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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4 V, ^* ]* i4 [3 V7 L* P人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。& a* L( d' }" @5 }

# _* j! [1 {5 g9 J' ^& E研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。, d4 Z& {8 C; u9 O- X

. O6 I1 T1 [1 M1 CWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' , l0 d' q" E; J/ }. P, X( f& B, {# ^

3 ~( U3 t% ?# F. G5 u/ J人在德国 社区High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de; x, f! M8 W$ d/ j( p
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. # h# e+ i6 V. \' I4 y

/ c+ \6 ]! f% A4 |% \( h2 y6 P0 N人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". ! x) K5 U$ e" i2 [0 D+ A, X

: e  V  g: `( y0 `$ d"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: M; E, V5 h6 c6 W. Y; y3 y
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de2 d& K$ M( N( y7 H0 y

" P/ E4 W5 B3 G6 U人在德国 社区Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. , c$ r" `0 X3 W5 A8 _) W6 B

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. 5 I5 P3 Z  o0 O) A" D8 P& F$ G" \# `2 A

: C" v& z/ Z: s! h" ^The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. ' a$ ^. T/ H) [
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 2 P, h% @$ Z2 \- V

  ]4 s( ?$ y; {/ O& zBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区: W2 G  J4 i, |6 O& T* W1 Q

' C. k$ N3 ]" L- D# d. W5 RIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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: R1 _+ d2 a) F, i2 n人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."