[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。& s- ^! I- c( ^) V9 l) E% Q  z7 B
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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$ W4 K6 B9 m0 i  Y3 g' J人在德国 社区研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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; t) s1 ?+ f" U$ P* S; w根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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7 y! G8 h* H5 z  F0 V研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de! U' W0 g: l& O+ f- _( a+ k: f. y
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. , g. Q; P: b+ D! N' V/ J( h4 z
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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% E4 w- `: e, t* I* j; ]3 L+ zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. / b' E5 q7 @! M
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 9 T; l2 n2 w0 u$ D* N1 ]* m
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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3 Y6 l/ e- u& }, e' V% Q' X% f"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de* O5 V3 @1 ^! I/ [0 E
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 6 r+ o+ W3 }9 d7 o$ c

2 L, V3 k% ^7 E! x4 I) s6 hrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Profession
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. * T- l( f+ J/ V! Z. a+ a1 Z& J' c

3 g! i- W( R0 R# ~" W1 U3 e! }7 N  [The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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( ?$ H: D" q# C4 G/ kThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区4 [4 d$ Q  D! }9 b3 M: {8 z6 W* F4 E
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区1 ^: P! M+ x7 n
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 9 e* w4 ?& y$ `; G4 K) ]

- e0 ~* \/ D: E% O- Y"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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& z! \: Y+ m5 ?) g2 E$ v"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."