[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。7 @+ b: H1 I' X+ t4 i5 _
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。3 d, [  V' M6 d' d  Z5 l
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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" a* Z1 u( u% U# [+ `High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
/ a; L, ^5 Q2 }. O, z3 IPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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5 i: `1 ?+ G3 [0 j* P1 F1 {The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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, g" w. z* T( yLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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5 H/ M% {) r, q, ]7 h& s) p人在德国 社区Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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( R3 J: S2 \0 vSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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8 g0 P1 Z; O. L1 ?3 ^/ e* jAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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# U3 s/ d# y0 {* `The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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% [8 I  P3 _! dThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. % N7 }& ?- B  L6 a

3 K* H: |0 o9 K' m2 `8 W  Ers238848.rs.hosteurope.deIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de# [. T& m! z! Z' Z" l+ i

$ a& i. X  R) X+ ]6 b7 i"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 2 t7 r( X1 U0 c& v% ~; S$ R- U
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."