[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区4 i+ J* w% o7 g# z! u
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区+ X$ b) Q, S' h6 D& \) a+ v
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。& n/ L& t8 ~! K
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. : f* I; y0 l$ D3 R6 R$ ~5 l
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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  }# m+ }2 G3 M- Y- Vrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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! q0 F* ~/ d/ F- L1 ^3 Y) d/ n" g! rThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ) e/ _5 r5 M# j: C$ q0 i7 f

. f3 r8 O& ^) J- X* ~人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. , s+ `+ p( T7 F6 H, r  C

" [* Q. z0 Y2 M1 s2 hSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区1 V- x3 Q0 y7 K" {
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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+ z, }# m6 J: x$ G/ RThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 5 ^. d2 k: w7 I7 n0 U& o

: |( V7 ?+ I& u) K, d1 h- Krs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ' ]' m' S0 S0 b- H/ J% A
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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+ w+ n" r( V" s. }Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."