[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。2 o* O  B- l/ Q! u9 |
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。# K5 n6 h: U' G' l9 I8 t
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区) Z3 Q! P& {2 k& k
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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3 H" D: q6 F+ f6 e研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。/ n4 b6 W( u6 F4 K5 ?
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 5 Y2 B% O9 I- v% S/ r/ }
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ; T+ U6 c0 v+ d( W' j6 L) |6 O
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 V9 E9 n  l6 e' A. I

& D7 Y, Q2 V8 c3 f: T! ULead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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( h% \8 y1 ^4 t5 S  N2 u/ p"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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# U8 V, M' m% W; S3 @Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. . M. H: [: ~4 ~- h5 _+ k9 v' G2 ]# N

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 o0 t7 v; V" y1 Q" c0 Q/ _
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. $ ~7 X; C! _+ g" |- u) H" v

8 X+ H6 b+ ]# y2 j* E1 trs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ' `7 j( H2 t* J; n6 p7 b' m6 q

+ l) j& V! e0 XBut within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. + L8 [. w% k$ e' E* w
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 0 @$ p0 c5 t; J2 b. @- r$ P5 M
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."