[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de1 O: u) g8 G! P
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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$ }$ C3 }; G2 @根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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! w- g7 ~: A- H0 q5 c/ ~' J人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。" o$ _+ `/ f0 J5 U6 B' }! b$ v. N& D

% j* }7 x# ]. {5 Y4 \人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' ) P7 F6 a" @2 }" B7 x; c+ `. r' ]

* x! c7 I* Y) GHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
- k% F+ a2 I  r' F3 S* vPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 4 y, m: Q, ~& c) r" @, @7 u
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. # W- y9 [' J' g5 i+ C2 w/ ^5 G9 j7 _
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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6 [3 c& `: C9 _5 y"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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7 v) W/ m5 q/ e9 J, x  N* U"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区: w" _% Y7 s, Z9 ^! X

, T1 y% l' y- B8 o  sUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. " `1 z, E& ~8 N1 `- E3 z
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. 人在德国 社区" v3 c( l$ m4 F& j. V! G
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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% R$ L4 n* P; N/ d+ ?6 UThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. : R6 b# r/ q2 o  |

7 U- e$ ]$ M/ S( p人在德国 社区The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. # D9 ~! V2 }9 d% n" @# g
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. : X# Z. L; ?- X( d" w! Q  B

7 w/ `. m; ~0 hIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 人在德国 社区; B- R2 r0 j( ?1 @; ~: X$ P
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 人在德国 社区0 {# Z& x5 E8 {8 i: _) \9 E1 @! P
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."