[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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* U& {+ T$ P0 \% C+ s$ p# g4 z据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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# d  s5 y. x8 \rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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8 m/ T# N2 ]: H: z根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。人在德国 社区3 ^# j4 d- u$ i/ S
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。. Q* Z" O9 m9 d

* Z! r4 L( G' _5 sWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 9 g# \8 Q6 o) ^- j& S0 D
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. - E; `9 f$ [- M$ T0 b: P; _: j
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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7 z. @6 d: g, i5 z4 n% h; x$ p人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 9 O! Z* _& [% }0 J! s
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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+ y, V* R& S5 D( K/ oSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, @6 s. m: K9 x4 b
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& k& W% l; A  W  tAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 1 a. D+ |) D* ]
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. / o6 w! w! u& R. E  |6 {

! C8 ?, ~. g# f' R8 z- H$ {But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. ! w6 a& [4 e/ Y  x5 n

2 Z! E" E# n9 L( E" o, M) M. V3 ]Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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; b1 }8 X5 E8 a! G$ S7 h人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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+ }5 \9 r5 g# u' d9 X, P# \"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."