[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。0 s1 |% ^8 J" T* ^% M* r2 H- o
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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7 t& t9 G" ^% Q& W2 r根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。+ r9 H: ^' j! G% I* Q( e+ m

0 v/ Q" f. B2 i$ J; I0 ]3 I; o5 \研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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* A4 V& W' z, B2 b) N- lWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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% e6 _4 ^7 F2 T/ A) c- C8 JHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
# d% _; b/ _* i; ?, L, gPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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5 d4 Y' }) o- mrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 9 u' y) [7 C( c( }4 Q# }) X
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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5 ?, D& o8 h# ^3 L3 FLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 人在德国 社区" }0 Z1 _- \9 _' F1 {( |2 I2 O
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de/ c" G6 N( J8 N# B

" q1 d# P  J; i- o. X6 Y! O"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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; q3 M" L( t) Y7 O7 Wrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. 8 B. i/ g' i) @. |% `

" C9 E0 I1 {, ^* k9 ISix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. % G( b1 H0 G( C4 ~  J% h: w
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2 Y8 D/ @/ e: dAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. - r  c$ |, F( x8 c" u, ~$ ^* e
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 5 Z# u2 E$ N% Z  _
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 4 {/ Z0 B6 b2 T4 Z5 _

7 o4 R0 k% W; s6 v% ?$ I* ^& D) AIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 8 ^0 P7 r3 L5 D8 o1 C8 e) x* o$ T, Y

  j+ c& I9 O9 f: h4 O( g" I"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 1 z, C- X9 Q6 S7 K0 @% K, S

" D, x3 I) t  {"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."