[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。人在德国 社区+ i' B; F8 |, b$ a; H2 |
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de, m, H( p  u' Y0 t

+ ~8 u' U& d7 u根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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, c+ F6 T: @9 K. w) \研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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2 [2 n0 S& H* G9 v1 }2 a5 s/ pWhy women fall for 'Mr Average'
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) T1 B; ~5 I* ~rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
$ C. v# _' j6 KPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. ( X- ?: p2 E. h2 s; Z" F+ ^# E' y
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de. T* f; e1 l: V
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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. \& c5 r% E+ A  z2 g% W0 S6 c"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. + C  u* [; C# S( k- B% E$ h3 j
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de7 q* i' K  N! t4 T8 r% @0 m  K
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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" g& x& |, T5 r; ?5 J; J9 M& rrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ) K- f: o6 i& F5 D

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. % ?/ ]  f# {# H& f& t: [4 v  B
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de+ v+ Q7 M+ v* h' f) f+ T& e- e

: k# u0 \8 l2 Q$ Ars238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. & b+ R% V' q0 r7 ]% ]

& Z. n" |# S6 K8 q1 K! Z人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. - `" c8 V  s. H; c* b( c6 j0 P3 @
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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9 B8 ]. l6 A5 n; Y, d# L* l" t" y人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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/ m6 z& l. [( _0 a"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."