[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。3 J& C3 z4 F! Z* A" h$ ~1 a
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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4 E4 E  @/ B9 ^2 `/ `rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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+ t! F. n5 Y. W: ^% dHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. 7 b# K. }) a4 j; H  q: j& a- q
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 l9 s6 w" G1 h6 }+ v
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: h1 ]+ R: e8 m

4 I6 c9 {. V' C/ a. Z8 \+ |The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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5 F2 s7 V9 \/ cLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". 9 ~* t( |5 z$ O; v, y: a" Q  l

1 M9 |4 I# s8 G7 h# \" E"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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! b' P1 N# Q, N% I9 \" J/ `Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ( ^; O7 f/ {7 V0 @* [

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; ]0 t2 |) a8 k8 P人在德国 社区Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.   D4 }2 K0 [3 H# S2 T: c

8 I* x# s) o7 @5 G- |3 R9 z4 w) w7 ?The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 _) V6 y) U+ Z5 ?1 C  N
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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4 i  Z4 c" j% n( h人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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+ K2 c# Y. l5 W6 @0 K4 p0 y人在德国 社区"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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( B) S, J; }- J" ^" f( d# K人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."