[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de5 A7 J% J! ]4 l# `
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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4 l! w# U$ e1 c4 x6 k1 i. V) L研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。: `: O# X" G' @7 ^

: L6 {  j( p: W4 C7 I! J& F根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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  z* y7 |1 k& k3 S/ v( z人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average'
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
, H% B8 u1 d7 U3 M+ D, b2 F人在德国 社区Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 7 a; y% b/ [- p8 b

+ ^: Z6 [  Q& u, Z! _' zThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. ( }: a& p- T% Q! k1 n

* X( V+ p4 S6 f' u" C1 X人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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" q# z+ z, U' F6 j"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. : G8 V" j5 A) i9 d6 ]% }
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区4 r0 x/ |% U! C- y

" ?; V9 p2 @, D& g) U, ^) j0 `Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ' m3 [3 q4 J1 c2 J* u, A1 w2 ?
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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2 P6 h$ l# C/ K+ S6 i, ]% D. W$ Z/ QThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. + ?/ _9 h3 m! L3 P! W

' o( q$ q; L. Q9 ?0 @4 |1 nThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. * M6 {  z- R% w

# @/ J, I7 ]7 I+ \5 H6 GIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 5 S3 i9 t8 W+ l1 [% K
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. + h' w+ z. t% Z3 u* u
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."