[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。人在德国 社区  Q9 h8 G  B: J" }) e/ B2 I2 f

3 _, _1 S3 P* i, [3 U3 g据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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6 Y! `8 N4 G# o4 V) r( d' L9 b9 ~2 l研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。人在德国 社区! v  k  Q/ S) I* {9 [  I
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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) m7 N, b7 D1 t$ B% V) U# {; c0 z人在德国 社区研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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Why women fall for 'Mr Average' - W5 v, m  c  W8 ?+ b0 I
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
7 t. U  @+ N2 x+ P2 ~% ?Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 7 Z$ p1 x+ D) ^

* }! c# s4 d6 k- Prs238848.rs.hosteurope.deBut within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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4 z4 n3 \: o! }, H8 Q+ n% sThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers.
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% o$ A# X8 a$ u# j0 o% i人在德国 社区Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". $ H: M: q6 f% t% |7 L

" v0 X* O6 u% `/ J& |"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. - Y6 ^1 ]+ s9 }, o

7 d3 m# q. ?$ X; R0 d8 |8 _" Z"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区& G1 h" f% j! t; y2 ?

; R* |% u* D3 Z; h5 G5 e3 a5 hUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale.
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2 t  L/ T' c; D$ JSix from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. # N; L3 _: B; h7 j6 U
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ' X* F+ U! R# d

2 B8 f6 X. ^9 r人在德国 社区But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 9 z4 S+ `4 b9 X$ I& O* {+ e
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. 4 i$ j& o. K1 q/ |
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."