[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。% J# R- p+ T% ?9 F8 {
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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( f& \8 G1 h- y8 P# c  y2 F根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。* f3 Y  ?% Z8 l9 q3 p
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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* x. S- }$ ]' ?" p- V( eWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de$ v3 h9 f& b: z" d* g9 j
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
/ K9 ]5 a! [3 \4 o7 m. o! r# E( `Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 1 ]- l' v. a6 j  `

! i! ?" d' a0 n7 I/ {! s) s人在德国 社区The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 4 M& P" n: H1 u1 L) [3 S
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true".
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ; L% @# v% K/ V" G

- B1 |1 q$ c0 g- P9 h9 a/ i"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 1 E3 v) \& F2 R6 z1 g! N

5 J/ p  E: }6 \1 @) @+ K% q% f" d# IUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ; E- F8 ]% O0 h6 F, ]0 ~7 \" b
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected. ) \/ k- h. ~- w# D3 _2 Y7 {

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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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8 P4 M5 b8 Z7 J% Y8 p' v8 g- HThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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1 r- \5 b1 z4 B! g2 X2 @1 e7 \The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 7 M$ W, l5 m% {, {% N+ K+ ~
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区, K) a- I- H$ i; n3 s

; [$ x( ^2 s( d/ i; m0 y& E人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de0 ~/ Y& s1 |; [: N4 b& M

( U( A4 m2 s; t! L: i, w- t6 t' e"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children. 0 T- S1 ^% c% Y$ R

3 v8 u2 i$ {. i. `! {"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."