[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。; z3 p& [9 _5 d' b8 }5 X6 Z
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de4 y5 D) t# i$ i
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研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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3 ?! V3 M4 K( F( ^人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' : P" G9 j. ^& _# j9 {) h: k
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say. ) S+ a, K3 h# t3 ]
Perhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. 人在德国 社区* ]0 H' D/ _* c; _- K
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. 2 M4 c7 o. B. t, v* s% Q+ J3 G/ I

; G! ?' d0 Q, h+ c; `The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 人在德国 社区: ^9 b* y2 q( {3 _6 p0 M

+ c8 y. F: z$ {Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de9 H! @5 B! c1 d* j$ \/ z. w
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner. ) J+ f# o0 ]0 }
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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9 U$ n5 v$ q5 j6 pUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ' v1 {7 t. d0 K# J; F  Z+ I
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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/ d. [+ C# N0 L0 K: V7 A' x% j& BAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. % ~# C- \1 `; \

0 R$ s- a, L. [9 o" hThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen.
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The researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. 人在德国 社区2 p" j6 W- `2 C& b% z% l- X
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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" y9 J9 b6 m# lIngrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de3 V+ K; D7 C6 h4 W4 V& B+ R8 l3 o

3 d! P9 k' H# H8 F"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."