[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。6 d; t) y: p/ b9 r( N# w
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据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。2 D, N  ?% S% Y, H! a
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研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。6 y$ F  O& i2 C9 I5 R* u

% t+ T8 I( M3 q4 h. q; z" }# R6 }根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。
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/ Q9 v# W8 _) ^' \" a0 E研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。5 q& X: C* ?- a; ~6 _( x

/ c/ p* I+ c" R9 h7 h! c人在德国 社区Why women fall for 'Mr Average' . R/ w6 e! ]4 {6 U8 l

  P. S+ U' f+ s8 I. r/ Z6 _& UHigh-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
; e: o# N  {4 G  `# @& U& i- oPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men.
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But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported.
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$ [; q  ^5 k. j% OThe team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. 4 b0 g3 A; p8 [

  h6 H- S7 K& ZLead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de) N$ r- t+ {' e) k

/ {6 y% O* b& Y3 X: `"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy." 人在德国 社区6 F3 y# i: ~  Y: X0 X5 L. F0 H$ o
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Using photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. ' z& T( I  i, j/ e  h$ j
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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Alongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de# s* I; _2 ^* P; p7 `" C
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The professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区0 ?- X2 V2 ^9 A) b+ ^- p8 B  ~8 n1 B3 L

6 D. ~! d) X, \+ R' KThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners. ' P! z6 o6 l8 \
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top. 人在德国 社区5 ?6 |; C/ ~& Q8 U3 f9 c4 v
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Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."