[国际新闻] 太完美的男人女人不爱

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英俊多金的男人，一定是女人的最爱吗？根据英国一项最新调查，受访女性认为，外貌出众同时事业成功的男人，条件太过完美，容易出轨，她们宁可选择与事业平平外貌不俗的男人交往，共度人生。* t- x$ P$ A1 k% @) O# e

( v+ ?: Z0 W% r- Qrs238848.rs.hosteurope.de据中央社伦敦九日电，中兰开夏郡大学(University of Central Lancashire)对英国近二百位年龄平均二十三岁的女大学生进行调查，询问她们寻找人生伴侣时所需要的条件，并从六十名年龄在二十五到三十多岁征婚男性提供包括年龄、职业、性向、照片等个人广告中挑选。9 e! r- O' i1 n  ~8 [6 ^& d" J

7 r) F7 M* r( w研究人员将这些征婚男性分为「极具吸引力」、「具吸引力」及「不具吸引力」三个类别，他们的行业从公司主管、建筑师、老师、邮差、园丁到服务生不一。
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7 r+ ]; j4 E. f% [人在德国 社区根据刊登在「个性与个人差异」期刊的这篇最新研究报告，令人惊讶的是，俊俏多金的男人并未受到多数参与调查年轻女性的青睐，相貌出色但事业普通的男性才是女性的最爱。* v' U& j4 f6 q" M3 K  H

! U9 r0 n5 _/ @' W- ?rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de研究人员进一步调查发现，女性认为，太完美的男人很难在长期的两性关系「从一而终」，担心他们条件太好，很可能外遇，而且没有时间陪家人或帮忙抚养小孩。
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, b# L5 Z- R4 T. R% ~, J8 F, cWhy women fall for 'Mr Average' ( v6 {1 b8 W7 V5 d7 t! R% i& S
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High-flying men are not as attractive to women looking for love as those with an average job, scientists say.
# ^# Y. n* u3 P/ T' y4 gPerhaps unsurprisingly, the University of Central Lancashire research found the 186 female students asked preferred good-looking men. & Z" d5 ?: l& P% l

- ~! `' B( Y  K3 P2 d2 b1 @But within that group, those without top careers were deemed most suitable, the Personality and Individual Differences journal reported. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de8 y2 }1 B* _. b
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The team said women seemed to feel high-flyers would not be good fathers. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de6 _* |, N5 N+ B
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Lead researcher Simon Chu said the high-earning career men were deemed to be "too good to be true". , z9 l4 Q5 |" }0 C9 v
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"Under particular circumstances, high socio-economic status in males can be subtly counter-productive in terms of attractiveness as a long-term partner.
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+ j: D7 _$ T3 w- l" ?"We suggest that females see physically attractive, high status males as being more likely to pursue a mating strategy rather than a parenting strategy."
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  K/ t$ o8 N: }3 k' X: }rs238848.rs.hosteurope.deUsing photographs of 60 men in their 20s, researchers asked students to rate them on a physical attractiveness scale. rs238848.rs.hosteurope.de: S) O' D/ Q/ C' a; H+ M6 |
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Six from the good looking group, six considered average and six judged unattractive were then selected.
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7 r5 ]' U0 W/ Q( K) q7 U& Srs238848.rs.hosteurope.deAlongside each photograph they added information on the man's age, what he was looking for in a partner and their profession.
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4 f& v6 G- V; ZThe professions included high-status jobs such as architects and company directors, medium-status positions such as teachers or travel agents and so-called lower-status roles such as gardeners and postmen. 人在德国 社区+ f( W1 a8 Q. m% @) K

2 k. q# Q& i2 Zrs238848.rs.hosteurope.deThe researchers found that purely on looks, the best-looking men were assessed as the best partners.
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But within this group, when professions were taken into account, those good-looking men with medium status jobs came out top.
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0 ^" s9 h( g! n1 j- y$ H7 y人在德国 社区Ingrid Collins, a consultant psychologist at the London Medical Centre, agreed potential parenting and providing skills were important.
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"I think there will always be a pattern where women will take the lead in caring for the children.
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$ R+ i2 _: ~2 w# v人在德国 社区"Because of this they will tend to go for someone who can look after and provide for their family."